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Does a single parent with 4 kids put off potential parthers? Posted: 2/2/2012 4:24:05 PM
I wouldnt wont to live with you sorry if that sound mean, you said you cant have anymore kids so guys with out kids dont want put up with 4 kids.

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I want to take it slow written in profiles. What are hidden meanings? Posted: 2/2/2012 3:37:51 PM
OP people are shallow some people are just more honest about it.

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Not giving sex away without the relationship Posted: 2/2/2012 3:06:15 PM
She's weeding out the playas. it make her sound like she get play easy and will be easy to fool when in reationship.

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Not giving sex away without the relationship Posted: 2/2/2012 3:00:07 PM
OP all she done now is made it so you look at her personaly instead of sexualy disare. I dont think using something on your partner a smart idea. could you imange if i had a large amount of money and cut them off because they did something i didnt like.

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do men ever get emotional when watching a sad love story? Posted: 1/31/2012 6:44:57 PM
OP sometimes when reflected on a sad part of my young life.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 9:43:47 PM
Vardoger-Please, be mindful of your readers and provide them the courtesy of passing your musings through a translator prior to being posted. I know typing is one of my weak points so I will thank you for your advise. Though I think it would best if I say out load what I mean to say towards the post of interest first. Then if that fails I will move towards a speech to writing software.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 12:52:35 PM
mogrl42-Women usually get stuck w the kids and no support and they manage to keep their shit together. That a down right lie women how pick self center guys end up that way. they usaly use the line I want to have my fun when picking the guy.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 12:48:16 PM
OP passionate and hard-working artist I though by 40 arent spouse to be kids still.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 10:59:03 AM
Looking4anIntimate while you have a point to a degree. I think people had such large ego now they view themself as special. I have always know I would never get really far in life. I guess I still have standers.

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Broken, and emotionally unavailable women Posted: 1/29/2012 10:38:38 AM
OP it find to help a little but to much and people become useless. I would like to feel like my mate would need me a little but I dont want to be their every thing. I like strong people like my self.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 10:05:14 AM
igorfrankensteen I dont think settling bad per say if it is i will prable end up alone for the rest of my life. not to sound bad but i am not perfect by a long shot. i just accepted people arent perfect as well.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 9:56:48 AM
Toy solider man, your lucky I cant drive cause my epilepsy isent under control yet. it also effected jobs i can do.

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Should I settle? Posted: 1/29/2012 9:48:53 AM
windchymes that was a good point of view. OP say I was a man that got divorced I dont think I would like to date a lawyer. I dont know something screms run to me. you also got divorced you might have taken your man to the cleaners for both child support and alimony.

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Gotta get out of the friends zone... Posted: 8/24/2010 12:06:07 PM
your parable stuck in the friends zone. I would not want to listen about other guys a women dating cause it boring.

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Is it possible to take the fathers name off the birth record in Ontario Posted: 8/18/2010 7:17:36 PM
so punish a man for wanting to be a father. I think you should not have custody of the kids.

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Canada child support law for non-bio parents: different points of view Posted: 4/4/2010 2:21:04 PM
those are some crazy laws. dude i would never move in with any of the women their.

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My kids don't need a dad . . . Posted: 2/22/2010 4:26:01 PM
I seen a lot women call nice guys boring and have less value then other man. now i seeing women complain about Steven saying the same thing about single mother as wrong.

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My kids don't need a dad . . . Posted: 2/21/2010 7:11:34 PM
Hello peeps, I am just wondering why some single moms out there keep posting something like "my kids already have a father", or "I am not looking for a dad to my kids". I totally understand that the the children have a father but what I DON'T understand is why a woman would say something like this. Does this mean that any man she starts dating should ignore her kids??? How can any man commit to a relationship with her without committing to her kids as well? Certainly not to replace the biological dad but any man worth committing to would treat her children as his own, would he not? Why would she want anything less than that??? Looking forward to some light to be shone on this matter. Thanks. i think it there way of increasing there odds although i don't see my self taken the reasonable. and yes lady this is because a lot women called me a nice guy, boring and other degrading things. and taught me never to take what you don't want out of your partner.

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where does a single mum find a genuine nice guy Posted: 10/10/2009 1:26:42 PM
OP why would i want to help the women how told me it was cool that i was alone when they reject me over and over till my youth was gone.. so i spent my youth alone and they had all the fun times but now they have kids i expect to share that. and my never be able to have kids of my own at this rate screw it i would rather end up alone then with someone how thought i deserved this as a life.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/29/2009 5:41:53 PM
It's not up to the woman to allow it, it is up to the judge. First of all, why wasn't he allowed to have custody, or at least partial custody? There must be something wrong with him if he wasn't allowed anytime at all to have time with his children, like at least weekends for example. As for child support, what difference does it make who has custody? The children still need food, clothing, shelter, etc. If this man had been awarded custody his ex-wife would have had to pay child support for her children to him. However, since she has custody he has to pay child support for his children to her. ya poor man get cheated on by his wife. she get custody of the kids and child support. the one she dating and cheated even got caught stealing with her in the car when they got poll over.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/29/2009 6:12:40 AM
I know man how wanted custody of there kids and the women wouldn't allow it. why should a man like that how want half custody have to pay child support.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/28/2009 1:00:40 PM
there a limit on how much money the government can take from your check. the only reason i could think this might be true is so people can start over with a new family.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/28/2009 12:57:03 PM
futureshock it dose not have to excuse there behavior. if i am dumb enough to do something then i don't deserve a free pass.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/28/2009 12:54:55 PM
starrgazerr this may be true but also your job to pick the best mate to have kids with.

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Men Who Father Many Children Out of Wedlock Posted: 6/28/2009 12:50:47 PM
OP if you are dating a guy and don't cheek his background when you thinking about having a kid. that your own fault and another thing it your job to protect your self not everyone else job.

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reunited and disapointed Posted: 6/21/2009 10:29:04 PM
parable something to do with how life has turn out for him. so he parable getting tired of women telling him negative comment. no offenise i hope.

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