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 Author Thread: ^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:42:29 PM
have you cake, and eat it, too situation i don't get that situation at all XD but yeah i do feel hurt and feel like i'm ruining something that i never wanted to ruin to :(
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 5:43:03 PM
uhm i tryed to back off at the beginning but she didn't want me to and she kept all calling me non stop every day i've been trying to lay off cause i hate my spot where i am and she knows that and she hates me being in this spot to so yeah :( i don't know really want to do
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:55:27 AM
Ask youself a few questions.

What does it say about you and your character to want to date someone who is with someone else ? - well i think its fine with me love comes in good times and bad times and shes only thing at this time i got so its a bad time doesn't make me a bad guy i find

What does it say about her that she is with someone and wants to jump into a relationship with you? - she is confused or is using me to find a better relationship then the ones shes in right now

What does it say about her self esteem to allow herself to be unhappy? - she probably has none or cares to much about others then herself like animal lovers they'd rather hurt themselves then a animal and make it happy
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:51:17 AM
actually my advice really is this do whatever you want its your choice but the way your sounding it basically your unhappy and don't want to be with him so if you feel like that leave him and i don't want to be apart of a problem here ruining a relationship as much as i want you to be with me i'd rather you make your choice and be happy i'm not gonna ruin your relationship for my sake i'm gonna let you choose
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 1:23:01 AM
i've already been in a relationship like and kinda didn't mind it but did but yeah its all i really got going for me now :( no one seems to really want to try anything with me cause apparently i'm like a brother figure to all the people i know that liked me but yeah shes like the only thing i got going right now so i'm kinda hopeing things can work out but i doubt :( and yeah i know i keep telling her that but she doesn't want to tell him cause she doesn't want to hurt him so yeah :(
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 1:15:23 AM
thats what i thought at the begining of this whole thing but she wouldn't let me leave like she calls me everyday, says she loves me and shit like it feels like shes clingling on to me and likes me alot but i don't know what the **** is her real problem on not breaking up with someone like she can't do it apparently she hates hurting people and doesn't want to hurt him so i can see where shes coming from but **** i don't know if i should or not thats the thing and i hate being where i am as we speak
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 1:12:44 AM
thanks i'm glad i made someone laugh -_-
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 12:23:56 AM
yes indeed i am in a tough one :( i'm her good friend to like one of her best friends i guess now cause she can only tell me stuff and only me and yet when i give her advice she doesn't take it seriously i don't think :( i want to wait for her but my heart can't :( i really like her and want a chance with her but yet i can't :( and shes always complaining about the relationship and yet she doesn't do anything about it ~sighs~
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
^~Love + Relationship Problem~^
Posted: 3/7/2009 12:12:02 AM
ok heres the problem

1) theres this chick who likes me and wants to date me

2) shes dating someone already (long distance relationship)

3)shes unhappy and doesn't want this kind of relationship anymore but wants a relationship i can give her

4)just recently her bf figures shes gonna leave him for me and tells her

5)she doesn't want to hurt him and doesn't care if shes unhappy she'd rather be hurt then hurt him

6)now she just wants to be friends so that she can not hurt him tho she hates being with him

7) i keep giving her advice on what she should do but she won't take it and understand that shes gonna end up being unhappy forever if she keeps this up

8) i need your guys help on this like what should i do?
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 212 (view)
 
The worst breakup line ever
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:50:53 AM
i'm sorry but that made me laugh XD thats so random and stupid
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
If you could take it all back, would you?
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:49:36 AM
i'd take the dangerous road cause you never know what will happen and stuff you just gots to go with it and see how far you get in life
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Going through the motions
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:48:04 AM
i'm sorry to hear i know its hard to go through holidays when you lost something big to you on a holiday all i can suggest is try to enjoy it as much as you can and try to improve it every year maybe go do stuff with kids or something like build a snowman with them go out with friends and just try to have fun and not remember it like not let it get on your mind that your husband died on a holiday its hard to cope that i know but i'm just trying to give some ideas on to enjoy it and not make it seem so hard i wish you luck tho
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I cant get her out of my dreams..
Posted: 12/15/2008 5:43:29 AM
sounds like you got used man sorry to say but if you like her try to continue talking to her and stuff
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why true romance is withering away.
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:19:59 AM
its all about what they want and nothing else its a shame its going down hill but most people i dated and shit only cared about what they wanted and shit and nothing else i hear yeah man i'm a romantic kinda guy to :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 572 (view)
 
Tattoos on the breasts
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:12:53 AM
i like tattoos on women especially on the lower back its a turn on for me
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 296 (view)
 
Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy?
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:11:19 AM
women in glasses i find a turn on yes especially in a school girls outfit or librarian outfit or business outfit :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 952 (view)
 
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:09:30 AM
i like to get bitten or bite someone on the neck or plant my face with your boobs and make me play and kiss them all over i have a few fetishes that work for me mostly these two i get used the most on :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
What is the most times you have orgasmed in one session????
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:07:32 AM
i can't remember i remember doing a all day of sex with someone but i didn't keep track of how many times i had a orgasm or cummed
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
need more sex
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:04:57 AM
just tell him or be more sexually to him to give him the urges or something i honestly wouldn't mind and i think its normal to me that is
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Big Sister
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:02:37 AM
if i get money out of it sure i'd do it i'd even give the girl half the pay i got to
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 220 (view)
 
Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 12/14/2008 10:00:54 AM
i like doing that but i barely do it when they don't like it but i like alot of things so yeah :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 118 (view)
 
How do you obtain a Fuck buddy
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:56:47 AM
if i had one i'd tell yeah how to get one but i don't sorry i wouldn't mind knowing how to get one either but i can't complain if i get one i get one
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
LAST SEX EVER..B4 U DIE
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:54:07 AM
all my chick friends that way i could say i gave them all i could in this life and did whatever it took to make them happy :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Is this dating site to find love or sex?????????
Posted: 12/14/2008 9:51:11 AM
i'm just looking for whatever i can get right now if i get friends i get friends if i get people who do one night stands or something whatever then i just go with the flow really
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Ever cheated and not felt guilty?
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:28:16 AM
i never cheated before and probably never will but time will tell if i ever do or not
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Are people still roleplaying as much these days?
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:27:33 AM
i still love to role play :) just need a role playing partner :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 105 (view)
 
Why would a guy keep asking if you're ok during sex?
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:25:08 AM
hes probably wanting to know your enjoying or something like i know some people don't moan when they have sex and some do i like it when they moan because then you know they are enjoying and alot but i've dated some people who don't moan during sex but ****ing love it so hes probably just making sure your enjoying or something not sure
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Ever came and stayed inside ....
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:21:41 AM
i've had that happened before :P but that was a long time ago :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Handjob Lover
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:19:12 AM
i like them but i prefer blowjobs better sometimes :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 222 (view)
 
womens labia (vagina lips)
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:17:44 AM
doesn't matter to me i still like it any size :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 417 (view)
 
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 12/7/2008 12:14:54 AM
it depends on the person your with at the time i personally love it :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Is there such thing as that special someone
Posted: 11/29/2008 12:09:44 AM
i believe there is someone out there for everyone sometimes you never meet them sometimes you do its only your choice to take the risk to find out if thats the right one for you :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
BBW
Posted: 11/29/2008 12:07:29 AM
i have no clue what a bbw women is so i can't help you i wish you the best of luck tho
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
It's a disease.
Posted: 11/29/2008 12:04:35 AM
your 20 you still got plenty of time out there to meet and find mr. right just keep trying and be yourself you'll find someone soon enough :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Friday the 13th remake
Posted: 11/28/2008 11:59:35 PM
i wanna see it i love horror movies and the friday the 13th series i liked also if they remake any old classic horror series like nightmare on elm street, chucky, etc i would see because they are trying to bring the classics back to life and i give them credit for it sometimes i like the remakes better then the originals but the classics are still good i can't wait to see this remake and hope its gonna be awesome :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 190 (view)
 
Why are guys afraid to ask women out?
Posted: 11/28/2008 11:41:49 PM
just say wanna hang out sometime thats it i know its hard to ask because of the fear of rejection
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 186 (view)
 
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 11/28/2008 11:00:42 PM
uhm sometimes blowjobs are better because of the saliva in your mouth and your tongue but sex is good but sometimes can get repetitive sometimes so when you get a blowjob it feels different everytime so sometimes guys find it better some find sex better some find blowjobs better it all depends on what the guy likes just because he likes getting a blowjob doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy sex
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Is everyone having sex without committment?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:57:58 PM
i only have sex with someone i really care about or love or feels the same way with me :)
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 769 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:56:44 PM
well aslong as i get sex then it would be fine but i do like to get a blowjob every now and then so yeah i could deal
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 315 (view)
 
Most Wild Place You Had sex!
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:54:49 PM
uhm i've had sex at peoples houses, outside, in the forest, in a car/van/truck, in a pool with people in there to and outside, i did it on the deck, shower, kitchen, pool table, couch, while my friends driving us home, changing rooms in walmart & sears etc theres lots of places :P
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 226 (view)
 
Ever have a crush on a cartoon?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:50:06 PM
yep i've had a crush on a few cartoon/anime characters back then so yeah
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 183 (view)
 
Is it wrong to want a Friend with Benefits?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:49:08 PM
my ex did that behind my back and is doing it to him still to and its her friends bf to and i think its wrong to do it behind your bf/gf's back but if your really good friends then sure i don't see the harm because i feel like having sex with my best friends because they would never ever want to hurt me but sometimes they do when you date them :( so yeah i would only have sex with a friend if it was one of my best friends who i really cared about
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:46:22 PM
uhm i always still message people even after they refuse to have sex with me because thats their choice not mine but if you stop messaging me then i stop messaging you
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Women licking a guy below his balls...
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:43:33 PM
i really haven't had that much experience of feeling that so i can't tell yeah but i did have a ex of mine do that to me atleast 2-3 times and i didn't mind it so intill i get more to try it then i could give you a full answer
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 192 (view)
 
How long can you go without sex or masturbation?
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:41:19 PM
sex - i'd like to have it every now & then or whenever i can get the chance to

masterbation - well i kinda have a sex addiction where i have to atleast cum once a day due to stress from my friends telling me their problems & also me being stuck in the house alot i get bored very easily & have nothing else better to do then that but i only do it once a day i never go over once unless its sex i go over for that
 RobbyTheReaper
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
She is still on my mind after a year
Posted: 11/28/2008 10:33:00 PM
well now you know what to do next time btw try to see if she wants to try it again and tell her the truth about leaving her and you thinking you made a big mistake its all you can really do is either try again with her or move on i wish you the best of luck :)
 
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