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hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER Posted: 5/12/2006 12:40:47 PM
did you call or write her? i let the men make the moves, shows interest. assuming that you were everything you said in profile, chat and by phone, and then you followed up after the date... she may have found something in your demeanor, looks, actions offensive. did you wear clothes? show up promptly? smelling good? clean? flowers? chocolates? good music? a jay for the sunset? were your kisses juicy and succulent or just plain out mushy and gross? you know... food in da beard? no one wants to eat again off a hairy face.... assuming you did not grope her and or expose something before decency allowed... and da food, smoke, company, music were good... ya got me?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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What is his problem? Posted: 5/3/2006 2:09:59 PM
after moving 3000 miles to escape my problem... he died. end of problem.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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3 months Married and now getting a divorce Posted: 4/22/2006 6:39:52 PM
did u see earl or failure to launch? where the guy dumps the chick if she gets too attached or clingy? earl even faked his death. apparently the closeness scares men away. sad but true.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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people who disappear... Posted: 4/17/2006 11:02:24 PM
go see failure to launch, gives insight on how they try to get rid of us after the look... it just keeps happening and i am looking for reasons too.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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I wish men would understand this... Posted: 4/14/2006 11:23:03 PM
makes perfect sense to me to be careful and onguard! having been attacked twice and lucky to be alive in this violent world, i believe one may never be too cautious. take self defense karate and let men know you have, be a bit scary!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Now that it's spring... and single... are you sad? Posted: 4/2/2006 12:22:39 PM
good luck patrick, you are young, handsome and genuine! i hope your parents happiness is duplicated in your happy future. it is spring! get out and procreate!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Jill Carroll Posted: 4/1/2006 8:54:06 PM
welcome to da rest of da world... not da land of da free! american soil is pretty dammmmmmmmm nice!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

Msg: 137 (view)

Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date..... Posted: 4/1/2006 9:53:13 AM
some lame excuse about being in witness protection and hiding from da ex-wife

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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you met mr right and then ....................... Posted: 3/30/2006 6:01:50 AM
ummmmmm... i do bath or shower 2x a day and he can change my sheets all he wants!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Suspected serial killer in Daytona meets woman on dating site. Posted: 3/25/2006 7:53:46 AM
and besides telling someone, write it down on your calendar, write it down in your purse, have all info on your computer, on your cell phone... ie leave a huge paper trail of who, what, when, why, where, how for every thing that you do! lock doors, windows, car doors. always have keys in hand to open doors, hooks to bra straps for your door key, car key is handy. have large dogs, take karate, learn self defense. in a life or death situation, it could save your life!!! never go somewhere with two or more guys you don't know!!!!!!! learn to scream, and don't feel stupid about self protection, it's called your inner voice... liston

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date..... Posted: 3/23/2006 11:18:24 AM
6 kids, even if they aren't all yours!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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date shows up wearing sweats... Posted: 3/18/2006 12:03:06 PM
"How did he react when you told him, Hulahoney?" he said at least he wore clothes! he likes to hang a nude beach with hat reads" naked tour guide" (my son advised me, "mom, don't go there with him!") oh! his reaction,...the date man replied ,he was riding his motor cycle and did not want to be cold!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Ladies i could use your advice! Posted: 3/18/2006 10:55:20 AM
why bring a poor helpless dog into this? it's like having a baby to save a marriage, what a joke!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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date shows up wearing sweats... Posted: 3/16/2006 9:23:46 AM
ok maui is casual, but nothing really beats a sharp dressed man! my date, a rather nice looking mature man, showed up in frumpy sweats and rubber sandals, previously known as thongs. we had a fun time and then at the end of evening i requested "sharp dressed man" by zztop be played and told him my feelings. if a man shows up in sweats on a 2nd date, it indicates a lack of interest in me. now i am just wondering if i did the right thing? ... ps other men were dressed in tommy bahama shirts, nice slacks and shiny black shoes, i was slightly embarrassed.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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wot shall i do Posted: 3/14/2006 11:06:13 AM
you have a choice of being a top or a bottom... the sex may be great but he is continuing the game into your personal lives and it will go on until you realize you are in control of your own life. it may take a few divorces for you to understand this, but you are certainly feeling it right now. so what are you going to do about it? besides posting here?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Advice about a liar Posted: 3/14/2006 10:51:52 AM
don't believe a word!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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high vs. low Maintence Posted: 3/13/2006 9:21:12 PM
define high and low maintenance please? a man wrote me with a profile that mentioned wanting a low maintenance woman, not once but twice. so i wrote back and asked for a definition. his was that low maintenance meant that she was easy to get along with. to which i again asked well that depends on how i am treated, how do you treat women? hmn just shows how slight wording might lead the way for various interpretations and should always be clearly defined before conclusions are jumped. to...

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why would a woman act bitchy initally ? A man would never act like... Posted: 3/13/2006 2:30:41 PM
what a dichotomy... vaccums both suk and have hoses!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Things people should NEVER BRING on the first date..... Posted: 3/13/2006 10:24:12 AM
http://www.plentyoffish.com/inbox.aspx ie a strap on dildo?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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How many times do I have to remind myself? Posted: 3/13/2006 10:18:53 AM
kept thinking no one could replace him,,, until one day epiphany! took 9 months to realize, ifn he was the one we would be together, and where is he? gone!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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How do you NOT get mad? Posted: 3/12/2006 9:34:25 AM
sounds like you are buying into this pity party, is it worth getting wrinkles over? someone is playing you sister.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Taking the ex back! Posted: 3/11/2006 9:31:38 AM
when pigs fly...!!!!!!!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Dating an ex; yours or someone else's ? Posted: 3/11/2006 9:23:10 AM
"all my exes live in texas" or someplace else and should stay there!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why would a woman act bitchy initally ? A man would never act like... Posted: 3/10/2006 8:08:49 PM
why are you asking this question? you liked her or you would not be bothering, and so her beechiness must have affected you as intended. i swear there is a book about why men like beeches!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Exposing phonies Posted: 3/9/2006 9:56:58 PM
as a perpetually late person... i always worry this will happen! did you wait a while?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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No pic, No response! It's the attitude of the profile Posted: 3/9/2006 9:24:16 AM
no pic, usually indicates hiding from someone... aka singlewannabe in wolves' clothing... aka cheatin no good lookie lou time waster for truly single peps who want a real live relationship, get a clue... hire a model!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Nearly a bar fight... Posted: 3/8/2006 6:20:43 PM
having lived with an intimidator who is dead now i wonder if she knew he would be there. i could not date while he was alive as he followed me and my dates around and intimidated us both so much they never came back. he was only 6'5and 275 lbs so no one in their right mind would mess with him. he knew he was scary, played on it and ran with a posse of similarly big macho types. yes, i think she played you and placed you in danger by instigating, but this could be why.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 3/8/2006 8:51:21 AM
sleep history: once exhub and i fell asleep head to head, woke up feeling odd, asked what he dreamed, we shared same exact dream. think maybe brain waves should not sleep in that close of proximity. 2nd incident... punched in face during sleep, exbf said he had a bad dream. 3rd... attacked during sleep, pinned... result= very difficult sleeping with someone.

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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i caught my ex boyfriend dressed like a woman Posted: 3/7/2006 12:09:20 AM
will add "looking for bad bad bunny with long ears for pulling, to ride around living room" to profile... lol... thanks so much... have been living such a sheltered life!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why am I still single if I got everything everyone wants? Posted: 3/6/2006 11:49:48 PM
if mr boston is truly a wanna be counselor.. he best learn that "you" statements are not currently held as practical method of operation in the helping-healing process. they serve to belittle the subject and close communication. since all of his statements above start with you, i have to wonder...

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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A Dating Anecdote Posted: 3/6/2006 11:32:58 PM
yuppers! this joke has been circulating for some time now... but cute for a swastigahead...

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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I love you... but I'm not in love with you Posted: 3/6/2006 11:26:22 PM
its like he rips your heart out through your toes and leaves an empty skeleton, and it takes so long to heal. after nine months, just starting to feel human again!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Laid off... Posted: 3/6/2006 2:36:09 PM
yup its called karma... for everything bad, something really good happens in return! roll with the punches, ride the waves, get to the top... its a good ride!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why he doesn't care about me? I need help... Posted: 3/6/2006 10:40:15 AM
...yuppers... probably stringin several ladies with the same schmuck..."he's just not that into you!" is a book that gets read in such situations. one lady here did some p/i and found out for herself, but now knows the truth... so sorry

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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i caught my ex boyfriend dressed like a woman Posted: 3/6/2006 10:34:19 AM
my exhub, total jock, man's man... liked to wear my panties before sex. it really aroused him. so i kept a large, really silky pair in my drawer for him. it seemed kinky buy hey, what did it hurt? the sex was always fantabulous!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Profiles. . . Posted: 3/5/2006 9:03:26 PM
um, did ya kick my tires and check under da hood?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Ok I have a problem, this is good too... All posts welcome Posted: 3/5/2006 8:59:53 PM
frangal that is the cutest puppy! it is black and white like we wish all relationships were, easy to read, clear cute, perfect, cuddly, lovable... but unfortunately many are just wolves in sheeps clothing... and its difficult to read the small print, but its there if we open our eyes!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Is there really a difference between lonely and lonely for way too long? Posted: 3/5/2006 8:52:59 PM
aw come on ... there has to be hope! don't seniors date? yes

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why is it that older men treat you better? Posted: 3/5/2006 8:49:58 PM
good for you herb and it looks like you found your fishie!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Why is it that older men treat you better? Posted: 3/5/2006 8:47:26 PM
not sure age matters... a jerk is a jerk at any age... let's get ve dub's opinion on this...

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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~~I have a question?~~* Posted: 3/5/2006 8:44:31 PM
simple they want to get laid and figure if you fall for it you deserve it!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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What Women should never wear on a date Posted: 3/5/2006 8:40:39 PM
wow! once i'm told what i should do... i want to do the opposite... it's my human nature. veedub... i'm wearing my purple one piece thong lace teddy on our 1st date!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Being a5535 doesn't work all the time guys...example: Posted: 3/5/2006 8:34:48 PM
whoa! now i know how computer nerds think!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

So what does it mean when a man says............? Posted: 3/5/2006 8:23:23 PM
last bf made me feel this way and he was living under my roof! i asked he he considered me furniture like in soylent green? bottom line, he's gone and i'm on here looking....

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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I need some Advice on this one Posted: 3/5/2006 8:16:45 PM
dearest woodster, do you realize how many use this ploy in order to have their cake and eat it too? it is very common for married men to say oh that woman that lives in my house and has my children means nothing to me... we don't even sleep together! haven't you seen that michael douglas- glenn close psycho **** movie or play misty for me. a jilted lover is capable of many things and though you think its fine, your ex may not, therefore endangerering your new love. women must draw the line somewhere, and sex with your ex in the house is just too uncomfortable... daddy who's that naked lady in our bathroom?

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

Msg: 134 (view)

Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 3/4/2006 12:41:21 PM
... and if she's really good... sucks some more!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

Msg: 133 (view)

Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 3/4/2006 12:39:09 PM
yes, if a guy finds a good woman, dating does suck!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Rebound period Posted: 3/4/2006 12:25:38 PM
as long as a period lasts... 7 days!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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Hints on how to get a second date. Posted: 3/3/2006 3:10:38 PM
ok... just don't do anything i would do!!!

hulahoney

Joined: 10/24/2005

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The Dilemma...stress of no sex or sex Posted: 3/3/2006 3:07:28 PM
veedub it was just an educated guess that you watched too much animal house growing up, and thus never arrived! stress? take a chill pill... take a load off...yes, we have no bananas!

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