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Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Shemale Posted: 11/23/2009 10:19:20 PM
lol@prettyconvincing! Some of them have a figure to die for and look better kept than some woman.. All I want to know is how do they kept their waist line lol. I'll leave the rest for you guys to figure out the difference.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 69 (view)

told myself I would never do it Posted: 11/23/2009 9:52:53 PM
You're not a friend. You came between a man and his wife. If you want my advice I'd say walk out of both of their lives and leave well enough alone! or.. you could do HIM a favour and tell him his wife cheated on him with you and the both of you are guilty as hell.Then...walk out of their lives. He deserves to know. She deserves nothing! And you deserve a damn good beating! lol That's what I think!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 121 (view)

Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:40:03 PM
I think your SO is soooooo tempted by the idea she's giving you a subtle hint/warning that she's thinking of cheating on you. With or without the offer of money! That's what I think! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

two different body temps and sleeping Posted: 11/23/2009 9:34:25 PM
I think this is a problem for a lot of people. My ex and I had the same problem. Took me hours to warm up in bed and ever time he came to bed, the min that sheet was lifted... I could feel the heat leave me, a chill down my back. Took me hours to warm up again. He liked the window open in the middle of winter. I would cuddle up to him just to steal some body heat to which after a few mins he said I was cooking him to death lol. To this day, he still sleeps with the window open and his house is always freezing. You have to wear a coat just to visit! Well I do the rest of his guest I swear are just to polite to say anything. I think if I had the choice between being to hot or to cold? Id rather be to hot in bed than freeze my azz off every night. Men have it made in the shade with their build in furnace! Sometimes I think it's easier to just buy a dog! A big furry one! lol Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

High Heels Posted: 11/23/2009 10:54:45 AM
Ok..going to be honest here. I for one can not see myself getting all excited about a man in high heel. A man with a shoe fetish? maybe... I can buy that if he can buy me a new pair of shoes every week, sure why not... but him wearing them? HELL NO and hell no again. Sorry.. to me that's not a man. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 62 (view)

Women who don't shave Posted: 11/23/2009 10:37:27 AM
What a cute question lol. I think it's ok to ask her or tell her what you prefer. Who knows she may just grow her bush back just for you. As for the woman..our number one question for guys is not if he is shaved or not ...it's are you circumcised or not. To each their own.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 78 (view)

Silent Sex Posted: 11/23/2009 10:28:30 AM
What if... the woman you were making love to says nothing no sounds, no moans or little groans, no sexy words or sweetness just silence and the movements is all you see. Maybe you need to make love to that type of woman to see how you look in bed. You said it drives all of your gfs nuts... that should tell you something about woman.. They like men that can express themselves with a little noise or a lot of noise! I think you have become comfortable with the silence, everything is pretty routine, and you are not really looking to change. You said "I'm still enjoying myself but vocally I'm not there and the silence is just plain strange." your words not mine. I don't think your weird I think your shy about hearing yourself moan and groan and you see it as weird to express yourself in that way. Not all ppl do this during love making but I think you need to at least talk to her during sex. That is something that is not to hard to do and would help her out much better. It is all about affirmation! Am I doing a good job, are they responding at what I'm doing with him or with her. She needs' to know just as you like to know when she wiggles around, groans and moans and cries out your name! Makes you feel great doesn't it? Well why not give her some of that greatness back~! something to think about..and never hurts to try.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 168 (view)

Accepting a man that's unemployed Posted: 11/23/2009 9:44:35 AM
Stability is not a bad thing to expect when looking for a mate my dear. Most people are attracted to someone that is financially stable. Men ask for the same thing in a woman. Must be independent, career in place, working! Must have her own car and the list goes on. Should I quit my job today and focus on dating a guy how far do you think I'm going to get with that? No where..not one man would jump at that! Remember.. she was not in your life when you ended up like this.. nor will you turn any heads during the duration of time that you are out of a job.Take the time you need to get your stuff together, bounce back and than and ONLY than do you need to worry about finding a mate. Unless you have saved enough money that you can comfortable ride through the storm without any worries... than a job search is in order. You will only become more frustrated by looking for a woman when the timing is you should be looking for a job. You can always look for a woman with no job at the moment and see if that works for you.. but that's not the point you're trying to make now is it. Prioritize.. it works wonders!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 9 (view)

What changed your mind? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:03:57 AM
Crumblepie...Showering before sex does wonders for you and for her. I don't understand how any man can go down on any woman that smells bad, and come up to tell us the story! don't tell me you didn't know till you "got down there" that she smells bad? Come on now. lol Basic hygiene will cover all the basis. I've never been down on a man that smells bad! Ever! You know why? Because if he doesnt shower there is no sex. I read this all the time in here how men have had a bad experience going down.. I'm really surprised. I think those types of men (and I don't mean to offend you in any way) but they are careless and carefree and not "picky enough" on who they have sex with. Depends where you found her and how long you got to know her as to how safe and I mean SAFE she is to go down on. There is body wash that can leave her smelling like strawberries, kiwi, peaches, blackberry, vanilla, apple spice whatever flavour your into..for the entire day! Pusssy powder's that will give you any taste you want! And yes her natural smell should smell fantastic too bec of what she eats! It's called the flavour of love! As for the comment on the man whose wife never cared to shower before sex? (message 7) That's just gross... don't tell me that was a habit that just started, she had a problem before she married you. There are dirty men and dirty woman everywhere...just depends on where and what your diving into! You're either concerned about being clean or your not! Raise the standards and you might not have a problem anymore. ok...I better stop now lol

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 8:35:43 AM
MsMicki lol ... I own a mustang convertible and let me tell you the back seat is way to small even with the top down. I have a bar that runs across the back of mine for the sporty look but it's always gets in the way... but if you think that's a tight fit.. try doing it in a Beamer ! I like your first idea... I'm way to old for this just bend me over the hood! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

when someone of age hasnt had a relationship Posted: 11/23/2009 8:06:49 AM
I read your profile...I think you need to look for a woman closer to your age!! An 18 year old is hardly fit for a 45 year old that has never had a relationship with a woman before in his life! Find a woman 35 or older might work best for you. By than she has had a few men in her life and knows exactly how to handle one that has never been "in touch" with a woman before. And one last thing... never blame others for why you have your problems. You stayed single because you wanted to be single! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

How Much Should I Disclose? Posted: 11/23/2009 7:52:08 AM
Tell Dirk, Sandy is asking you a lot of questions about you... You might want to talk to her. Tell Sandy, go grow up and talk to the man yourself..before both men lose complete interest in you. No one wants a pest like Sandy digging for information. For me? That would be enough right there to tell her to get real and get lost! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 634 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 11/23/2009 7:45:15 AM
What I find interesting is the amount of men that place in their profile...Looking for an independent woman, must have her own career and so on. The best of both worlds doesn't always work out. Any woman that says I don't need a man has been hurt by one or just plan hates them lol. We all need love and belonging and that involves a man and a woman, but now a days that can involve a married man looking, a friend with benefits or a replacement "just because" amoung many other options. Finding a healthy minded individual on this site is pretty far fetch. The standards of dating sites dropped a long time ago when they added. looking for intimate encounter,other relationship, email and married but looking and so on. I hardly call an independent woman a threat to the dating world. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 64 (view)

Is it Wrong to call a woman handsome? Posted: 11/22/2009 1:55:44 PM
Nothing wrong with it as long as you don't mind being called "Pretty".

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 8:12:09 AM
I think every man and woman should be on a need to know basis. That is .. if it is NOT pertaining to the two of you than why bother to discuss it. He was not in your life at that time of your life. As for the acting distant now that he knows? Well.. he's uncomfortable with that part of your past so instead of telling you.. he's showing you. He may just need time to think and adjust to it all. Or he may have further questions for you. I think the past is the past, and it should stay in the past ! I personally love hearing about a persons past experiences and I have no problem sharing mine but a lot of ppl are set up to instantly judge someone by "their past". Five weeks into a relationship? I sure as hell wouldnt be telling him my life story. Five weeks isnt even enough time to know the motives or intentions of the person your talking to. Would you go into your bank and tell them your past? Or your hairdresser? Why would you tell a man that has only known you for five weeks anything of your past relationships? To me that is not his place to ask and had I been you.. I would of focused on him and I not him.. me and one other man I use to date. Best of luck.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 109 (view)

Do Cheaters Regret or Reform Posted: 11/19/2009 5:29:13 PM
I think most of us in here would agree that cheating is wrong.. except the cheater himself (women included) ! Ofcourse they have every reason under the sun as to "why" they "had" to cheat. Fact is ...if your willing to lie to someone you claim you love, sleep with them after your night on the town..keep it all a little dark secret bec exposing it...they know damn well what consequences would be. It wouldnt be oh honey that's alright I so understand.. It would be out the door and see you in court. Cheaters will ask other's to lie for them because they really don't care about your feelings, thoughts and emotions. Did you really think they would? So they convince themselves they deserve this little butter on the side and that you don't need to know bec you really have no say in his or her life..They are 100% believers in 'faithfulness" but not for them .. for you to stand by them no matter what they do. Forgive them oh yes don't forget the real live tears they throw down. Inside they are laughing...at you. Do they regret cheating? Hell no! They love it! The regret the ending when they get caught and it has to come to a sad end (no more lover) at least till things settle down... They don't care about you or the family or the kids involved, but they actually miss the person they cheat with or the "act of cheating" and the freedom to do so. I think cheaters need to marry cheaters. That way you can both fawk around and no one really give's a shit! I've never been cheated on thank god! I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy but I have walked many a friends, through many a nights, of a lot of tears anguish and pain. Repeated questions of what did I do wrong and how could they do this to me. So do they regret? I'd love to see a cheater come forth and tell us his or her side of the story of what and why and how they regret it! Enough said... Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

She is confusing me Posted: 11/19/2009 4:59:31 PM
Accidentally In Love said it all in a nut shell... and very well said indeed. Some women just like guys to chat with on the phone and thats all it ever amounts to. You need to ask her what she really wants. Don't let her get away with saying "I don't know what I want" thats called keeping you hanging. She knows....so far she told you I like being single but you're not willing to listen to that just now bec you want more. It's you that is unsure and can't quite figure it out or figure her out. Give it a time limit as to how long you want to do this for. Women that like a guy LIKE to meet him.. again and again.!!! Set up your boundries of how much time you're going to wait around for her. If she's still pussy footing around with you than the wise choice would be to find another woman . Reguardless of how long or how well you two get along, a real relationship is more than just phone, cyber, online and text. By the way... love is not confusing , it doesnt send mixed signals and it has actions that fall behind some pretty strong words. Leaving you feeling on top of the world... not confused. You mentioned she has a lot of things going on and you just need to have some patience? What if she asks you for a year of being patience, that turns into years of waiting for her while she gets things "sorted out".. Still willing to play the game? And most of all remember this. Time wasted with the wrong person, is just time wasted! Something to think about .. Best of Luck

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 99 (view)

honest answer... Posted: 11/19/2009 12:04:29 PM
Looking at your profile... you put up little sexy nibbles for the POF guys to look at..cute horse pic by the way, you look fantastic... yet said you're only here for the forums...maybe so. Every one in here is drawing some type of attention to themselves. Be it just looking or just being looked at! You have this wonderful life with a wonderful man that is only a FWB... you love him but never told him , all is well so it seems.. sounds like the perfect match to me.!?!And the day you find out any difference is the day he tells you I found someone else. Then and only then will you know what your heart really feels or really wishes you had done things differently. so.. yes you "can" expect more but question is what more do you want? He's happy with what he's got....for now, so are you.... And who's to say it can't last forever! If you feel you have nothing to worry about.. than live your life the way you created it.. and yes you did create it exactly the way you wanted this relationship to be. All I can say is best of luck to the both of you. Would be very interesting to see where you both stand in about five years from now. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

Why can't I just move on? Posted: 11/18/2009 9:09:49 PM
"Wish I had picked someone like me" you mean... Wish I had picked someone that liked me! When the relationship falls one sided , that was your sign, your red flag, you cue to move on before it stated to develope. You chose not to listen to him then and now you're forced to listen. I want to say just replace him.. focus on another man that is into you... but that's easier said than done. I think the best thing for you to do is take the time you need to let him go... when a branch brakes from the tree does it die right away? No... it takes time.. so do feelings take time... to disappear. This too shall pass... just keep telling yourself this. Best of luck

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

school first or relationship first? Posted: 11/17/2009 8:09:46 PM
SCHOOL FIRST... relationships can wait. You wont be disappointed with your decision in about five years from now when you want to start that family...

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 236 (view)

Are tall men more likely to cheat? Posted: 11/17/2009 7:59:29 PM
I think this question is a total joke... tall , fat, skinny, bald, big , thick, or just a little prick... whatever the apparence is has NOTHING to do with the ability to cheat! your moral standards on the other hand play a big role! go figure

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

Emails with EX Posted: 11/17/2009 7:44:01 PM
too funny...as I sit here away from my home town for about month...I am staying at the home belonging to my ex...he's asleep upstairs. I happen to be visiting Ottawa and my kids live scattered all over the city. Seeing that we divorced as friends... it means just that... friends. I've been asked if the spark is still there, to which I answer no its not.lol The neighbours asked if I moved in! To which I said hell no!. now.. he doesnt e-mail me three times a day lol... however your gf may just be "friends" ONLY with her ex. I don't understand why ppl assume "something" is there. I am not overlooking the fact that yes ... something could grow but than again maybe not! I spent 20 years with my ex husband and to this day I can tell you.. yes he's a great guy but no..I'm still not interested in him...that way. If I on the other hand had a bf.. it would be entirely different and inappropriate to even spend a night . He is ONLY emailing her..no sleep overs, no surprises...just an e-mail. To me it's like her asking you..."Why are you on a dating site?" I'd leave well enough alone..but than again that's just me. Best of luck

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 72 (view)

What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/17/2009 12:45:34 PM
I don't even know what to think of this..hard to beleive that anyone would do such a thing on a first date, second date or any date for that matter! Any man sick enough to do this make's you wonder what else he is capable of doing....on a first date. Unbelievable!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Smelly feet a turn on? Posted: 11/7/2009 5:42:38 PM
Smelly anything is an absolute TURN OFF! need I say more? lol

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

smell me Posted: 11/7/2009 5:36:26 PM
I don't know if you have ever seen or heard of this show but it has exactly that question and answer you are looking for. The show is called Bull Shitt.. by Penn & Teller. In this one episode of real experiments.. lol, they take two twin guys and one sprayed with pheromones the other twin without any .. Than they let the ladies decide which one they were most attracted to... You should go watch the show it has many things on it that will make you Laugh Your Pants Off.. good luck with the smell me.. we love guys that smell good! I'm sure there is something to it but cute, sexy, charming, and sex appeal has always done it for me. with or with out your new found formula lol. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

That dreaded L word... Posted: 10/26/2009 5:26:09 PM
I will be the first to agree the word is thrown around way to much. Here today, gone tomorrow. Now love has so many different strokes it leads to more confusion. But really ...it doesnt take much to know if you really love someone or if you are loved by someone. Attraction being the first early stages of love (at least to me it is. If I don't love his look..I'm not looking at him.) Most of us define it by our physical attraction and if you say you don't you're lying. lol yes ofcourse there are other things we are attracted to but the physical is the first to draw our attention. Romantic talking..." I'd do anything for you" he whispers in her ear .. come on guys how many of you admit saying that line to " charm your way to her" lol Sweet talk and gifts fuel romantic passion. Nobody ever talks sweet during or after a divorce but we sure know how to use it to our advantage when we want something or someone! Then comes bonding...Embraced by every culure ...bonding is driven by the mating instinct, which is wired,by the way to the most primitive part of our brain. So when you OP found your EX WIFE at one time so attractive you loved her enough to bang her, have kids with her ..it was at that time the most important thing in your life ! The opportunity to pass along your DNA! Which you did! so..now that the jobs done..you wonder if you ever even loved her in the first place. You know full well how to love yourself right? So dont give us that BS of did I ever love her. Im not buying it!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

The girl I was seeing, wont talk to me after the party at her house, any advice? Posted: 10/7/2009 9:55:21 AM
The thing that kills me right now is why wont she talk to me or text me, I thought in relationships people where supposed to talk it out? You actually need to ask yourself why she is not calling you?? Sorry but you're not going to like this... This could be the reason.. your words not mine.... OP".when they left i didn't they found me in the bath room throwing up. After they put me on her bed, and I passed out." What a treat that would be...NOT or it could be this...OP"While passed out the guys at the party thought it would be funny to put cake, ketchup and water all over me. So it got all over her bed." ya I'd be more than pissed. or maybe it was this that just killed the mood. OP. I didnt get a chance to clean the sheets as I was a little drunk still when I woke and I didnt know how to use her washing machine." When you go to someones house for a party the last thing anyone needs or wants is some jackasss throwing up all over her bed, her bathroom, in a rage because of some idiot friends that wanted to use you as laughing stalk. Personally, had you been my guest at my party your ass would have been escorted out the door, driven home or taxi called and loose my number while your at it. Total lack of respect for her and her guests and her party. Doesn't sound like shes to bright either. A lot of growing up to do the both of you. And remember....actions,( vomiting ,rage) speaks louder than words.(.I'm sorry, I didn't mean to, what was I thinking.) Personally speaking... I don't think you two have anything to "work out". Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Money, money, mooonney...MOOOONNNNEY Posted: 10/6/2009 5:31:49 PM
I'm going to disagree with many of the posters here... so here we go lol For selfish reasons only .... and I'm being totally honest here lol.... I would have to say HE stays home and I continue to work.... I already gave up my career once to raise my kids with my first mairrage ... I'm sure as hell not going to do it again. My vote is ... I'm more than willing to work while he plays Mr. Mom! lol

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

adding on msn Posted: 10/5/2009 9:14:53 AM
I can't stand msn chat! The same thing happens to the guys I add to my msn. (not without warning I'm never on there much.) One or two chats and I loose interest. I don't want to sit by my computer to chat with you or type for an hour or so..who does? I agree with the second post... From POF to MSN is not much of a difference and far from reality. To me? msn, text messaging, phone lines are what people use as " fill ins" and sometimes replacements for the real thing. Half the time you waste your time waiting for a reply. None of which can replace eye contact. Wasting time with the wrong person, is just TIME wasted. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 168 (view)

I'm on the couch ! Posted: 10/4/2009 1:28:36 PM
put it this way! you're on the couch for a reason. she's not sleeping with you for a reason. you could be having a lot more fun without her and getting some action while your at it. And you need to ask if you should stay or go? What are you waiting for? For her to change her mind? GOOOOOOOOOOOO and find yourself your own place and start enjoying woman that would love to bang you on that couch of yours! lol When a mans sex life come's down to point zero and he's not getting any?????...there really is no point in staying in the marriage. No sex with you means ... I don't like you. Don't touch me. I don't care what you do. I don't want sex with you not now not ever! It's just not going to happen. Tired my asss! She is just making excuses! Leave her and find a woman that is interested in you. God I sound like a bitchh lol Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Problem with approaching women Posted: 10/1/2009 4:39:28 PM
Do you know how many women would love a pretty good-looking, 6'0, 180 pds guy in good shape , that can dress well, smells nice and has a good sense of humor to approach them? LOTS! There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you hot stuff! You have nothing to worry about! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 6 (view)

I need a girls truth Posted: 10/1/2009 4:32:05 PM
The most important thing in any relationship is the ability to communicate effectively. You now that you are shy and just "don't talk"...but when it comes to your own personal needs ...I'm sure you can manage to tell others what you want. You can't just settle down with the I'm just shy approach, you must find a way to express yourself and keep up a conversation. If need be take some self help classes on how to communicate effectively with people. It will not only help your relationship with woman but also in your daily life. Why give up and say am I just ******** ? Why can't you make an effort to change all that. It is more so for your own happiness to want to do so. Best of luck.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Am I a cougar? Posted: 9/28/2009 6:45:10 PM
I dated a guy 14 years younger then me and let me tell you it was the best 4 years of my life! I had some issues about our age at first but he cleared them up in a hurry. At first it was a bit of getting use to, I was more conscientious than he was and will pass with time as well. The whole point is that life is to short to worry about age. Until you have something to worry about...go and enjoy him as a man, a lover, a friend, whatever it is that you are comfortable with. There is a good book out called " Loving a Younger Man" by Victoria Houston. If you do end up getting serious with him, I suggest you read this book. There are alot of brave new couples out there that also said to the world...age is just a number! Stay sexy and stay fun! Best of luck Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

belly button kissing and licking Posted: 9/27/2009 7:18:30 AM
Absolutly not! You hardly have enough time to know the person let alone start kissing and licking her belly button. It's not a question of would she like it! Alarm bells go off when it's the second date and he's already asking if she wants it. He's still a stranger for god sakes. To me? That's just moving wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy to soon.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 53 (view)

How do I get (politely) out of a threesome Posted: 9/27/2009 6:38:24 AM
DIVISION77. Msg 53: She didnt say it's wrong and he can't do it. She said "I don't want to do it". She's not judging him she is taking every aspect into consideration which is a lot more than what most do. She might not be attracted to woman, she may find that to be out of her comfort zone. So he wants this fantasy and she "has " to do it or else? Deals off? FWB or even with a partner is not always "a deal". He is puting alot of romance into this relationship amoung other things, according to her. So it's now more than just a FF. You sound totally selfish when you say "I will never settle on MY provisions" ...In life we don't always get WHAT WE WANT or ELSE. To walk into any relationship with that on your mind..my way or the highway won't take you very far for long. Even with a FWB there is such a thing called RESPECT. She has every right to say no to what she herself doesn't want to do wihtout a threat of it's a deal braker lady or else. Amazing what the little word no can do to a man. to send him running and pouting in the other direction. To OP...In any relationship a dealbraker is a serious threat! You do it or else kind of attitude. When talking to him always remember you don't have to do anything if you don't want to. Sometimes the word no to a man in his mind means..ok let me ask her another way, and another until she says yes! Don't give into him just because you're afraid of loosing him. Only proceed with this if YOU WANT to, never to just please him. You never do what you don't want to do and there is no such thing as a compromise. It's your body and you are in charge of what it will do and won't do with or for someone. Don't threaten him with anything if he persists, but stand your ground and continue to be a lady about it. A lady has no need to explain anything. No means no and that's it! Be prepared for anything and everything including the end of this relationship to happen! Best of luck Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

False pretences Posted: 9/26/2009 5:08:46 PM
My thoughts are this... if it didn't work the first time, why would it work a second time around? Once an EX never "expect " it to happen again. It just doesn't work! My ex and I are on really good terms, everyone "thinks" we will get back together, my family, my friends, my church. It's NOT going to happen!!! Just because we can both behave, doesn't mean we can live together again. For me? Once I close a door, I never look back and your friend should do the same. Just my thoughts. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 600 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/26/2009 5:01:49 PM
^^^^^ I would have drawn the line long before an hour went by. That is a long time to sit and watch two people engrossed in one another while being ignored. There is a big difference in a man looking at another woman with a glance and making advances on one while in the company of his girlfriend. Not to mention it doesnt say much about her now does it.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 121 (view)

Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/26/2009 4:33:26 PM
Oh no.. I would definitely go to his house again, only this time wear a sexy shirt full of sparkles! Leave your Tinkerbell Dust in every single room! Don't forget the bedroom! and then ? Tell him to loose your number! He will never find a woman, hell he won't even be happy with the maid! And you better post your pic incase you go missing , so we at least know where to find ya. lol

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

How do I get (politely) out of a threesome Posted: 9/26/2009 3:26:56 PM
Why are you worried about disapointing him? He has already told you what he wants, twice infact. So my guess is he wont wait to "convince you" he will begin to look for someone else to fulfill his fantasy. Now take note of this... You mentioned you don't want to share your man, but your man wants to share you! Are you willing to settle for that? Because thats what he wants! He wants "more than just you"! So his thoughts of you and sex with only you... has already been replaced with another woman. He is not the least bit concerned of loosing you because you give to much to him already and he knows that. If he was worried about offending you or making you uncomfortable, he would have accepted your first "no thankyou". You know why he asked you again? Because he knows he can barter with you. He knows you will be around for him no matter what. My suggestion is this... A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him...In the long run, he will end up with the woman that "doesnt" play by all the rules as you do. It is with your behavior, not your words, that let him know where you stand. Id say walk away with your dignity and leave him to find his. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 223 (view)

Why do women use me for sex??? Posted: 9/26/2009 2:55:38 PM
well... all I can say is you have never met a woman that is still the boss of herself! Sex with you will not be her priority let me tell you. She follows her own guide and has you wondering if she's even interested in you in the first place. This tad bit of confusion to you is what makes you want to know her more. You begin to search for signs. She in turn will actully turn down a date with you because her priority is not on you but her nieces 4yr old birthday party or whatever it is she committed to that evening. In turn you scratch that little head of yours and think.. she'd rather go to a birthday party for a 4 year old than be with me? Yup! She does. So OP the poems and romance is a fantastic idea. Contrary to what most beleive it doesnt matter how hip, cool or c0cky you appear to be. Power is the control you have over yourself! First you have to stop needing approval -only then will your needs be met! Best of luck Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

he wrote me off Posted: 9/26/2009 2:22:19 PM
^^^^^^ Go buy the book . "Why Men Love B!tches" and read it! Than read it again till you understand what a back burner girlfriend is. When to walk out of his life and when to keep him in your life.You wont be jumping through hoops any longer to keep him around. I bought the book for all my neices and solved alot of their boyfriend problems. He will never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet. and.... stand up to him! One thing you may want to remember... If the choice is between my dignity and having a relationship? I will always prioritize my dignity above ALL else! My advice to you is W A L K and keep on walking! and yes... lesson learned if you say so .

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 596 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/26/2009 2:06:56 PM
I dont know why women get all pissed off when a guy looks at another woman. Who cares! Let him look! A glance is not that big of a deal... really its not! and the reason why they tell you lies when caught? Is because you give him royal sh!t the last time he did it. Why dont you look at her too and admire her beauty with him. Do you really think we were meant to just look at one person face the rest of our lives and never notice another? Frig I hope not! I'm not saying notice and wonder off with her , or to comment on her nice booty in front of you, that's just plain rude. But to take notice of someone else that happens to look good too! Do you not think he doesnt notice when another guy is checking us out? Sure he does, and he doesnt turn to you and say why were you looking at him? Did you encourage him to do that? And you dont tell him off either and say don't look at me. No... you smile at him and enjoy the feeling it gave you and move on. We will never be able to stop men from looking at other woman. There is always gonig to be someone that might steal the lime light for all of 30 seconds! Big deal!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 9/25/2009 3:26:54 PM
Your Guy Next Door want's to meet the girl next door. (according to your profile) so.... here is a book for the both of you. Might be just up your alley! The Millionaire Next Door! by Tomas J. Stanley Ph.D All your answers are in there lol Happy reading! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 80 (view)

I REALLY need some advice about needing space Posted: 9/24/2009 9:02:47 AM
revilors. msg:69 and to so called 1kindMan4U Does it mean that every woman that asks for some space is cheating ? And when our man comes to us and says honey I need some space we might as well just throw in the towel? Come on use your common sense here. Not all requests have hidden motives behind them! Some ppl yes do sneak around and deceive, lie their way out of a realationship. But don't go putting every woman that asks for some space in the bracket of "she's out running around on you" . If a man were to ask me for some space, he would find himself with just that. SPACE. no questions asked. You're free to come and you're free to go. Does that mean he's a male whore if he wants some space? Just encourage him to move on without your two cents of what she is and isnt. You know I never see guys calling men pigs, or male whores, but the bitter ones love to ramble on about the woman. And you don't even know the woman all you know is what he said about her! Most judges I know like to hear both sides of the story before they open their mouth and give him such "good" advise. What would you all do if the guy ever decided to get back with her? People do that all the time. Would he look to you for advice a second time around after calling his once so called sweetie a whore? Probably not. Grow up! and now to OP. You will be just fine with her or without her. I think you did the right thing by packing her bags at the door and moving on in your life. Keep the good memories seperate from the bad ones. And like you said .. find a woman that is in love with you and you with her, you can't go wrong there. Best of luck Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 101 (view)

Can a person with Asperger's find love and true understanding? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:34:02 PM
I think you might like this site. Dr Daniel Amen... " Change your Brain, Change Your Life! He has a book and can be seen on youtube if you don't have time to read. Check him out his videos are wonderful I just love him. How you think is how you will be. You have soooo much to offer the right guy. You were not created to live alone, feel alone, stand alone, be alone! You have many things going for you and you do not need to live in the shadows of watching the world from the outside in! Put away all ppl that are negative including your own thoughts that led that way, you don't need them. And start renewing your mind with wonderful things that you will have and will be. You are valued, you are needed, you are loved. So...Stay beautiful from the inside out!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

To give or not to give your phone number to women on this site... Posted: 9/21/2009 7:54:30 PM
I think it's really important to get to know the person VERY well before giving your number out or even taking hers. If a woman is anxious to give you her number to soon? It's a good sign she has a lot of guys on the line. I know men like to meet as soon as they can, that way they know if there is a connection or not or if she is worth pursueing or not. But really, if you think about it, what are your options here? Take your time to find out IF she is stable or not. Pay close attention to how she talks to you and what time she sends back her replys. I always take note of the time the message was sent to me. If its a 1 am message? That too should tell you something about her. I pay attention to how many roses he has left. If the guy has one or two roses already sent out? He is not really approchable now is he. Do I really want to invest my time into a man that is on the prowl ? Not really. Women are just as good at playing the game too. They string guys along all the time. For any woman to judge you by your voice? Is pretty far fetched from reality. Just be careful and take your time! You guys are always in such a rush lol. If you are really looking for long term or dating, then you really want to screen them well. My two cents. Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 134 (view)

Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/21/2009 7:07:38 PM
Guys.. for those of you that just insulted him.... just because he doesn't want to share the rest of the story doesn't mean you have to get mean about it. Maybe the truth hurts, myabe he found out something he really wasnt expecting and wasnt prepared for. Do you think instead of insulting him you could wish him all the best and encourage him to move on?Maybe she is reading the thread and he wan'ts it deleted bec she found out. We don't know what happened! OP doesnt owe us anything! He doesnt have to share what happened after she came home and it doesnt mean he "likes the drama" as ice said. Grow up! All of you. She's the one that needs her ass kicked to the curb, not him.

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 118 (view)

Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/21/2009 2:00:24 PM
^^^^^^ Confront her with this.. Well I met this old friend of mine I havent seen in years! God she looks good. She invited me to her cottage this weekend. I can't wait to see her again, it's been so long! She's so nice too, anyway sweetie really hope you dont mind . Kinda like a mini vacation for me you know how much I need one. I'll see you on Sundy night oh and another thing before I forget! My cell? Wont work up there. She said it will be "out of range" so don't text me. Ill just see you when I get home. I'll miss ya!

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 115 (view)

Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/21/2009 1:31:28 PM
Letting her go on holidays with another man , that buys her lots of stuff? Are you crazy? And you really think shes not f u c k i n g him ???? Ya right! Why didn't they invite you along? Because they wanted to be "alone" that's why. If she can't decline that offer bec she has a boyfriend now, than she sees nothing wrong with her actions at all! Unfriggen believeable! I would give her this option. Me or Him...take your pick and to be honest with you I wouldnt even give her that much. I'd make the descision for her and tell her "were done". Women that are into their man? Do not go out with other men, let alone a weekend holiday with him... while leaving her "so called boyfriend" at home? It just doesnt happen! How would she like it if you went away with a long time female friend? Would she still see that as "alright"? I highly doubt it. I think this woman is taking complete advantage of you. I am amazed at what some guys let women get away with. Wake up before you have given her your best years. Let her have him and his gifts and the trips . Go find a real woman that will value you, love you, and want to be with you and you only. Really you're missing out. GET RID OF HER!! Wild

Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

She needs spce, but we were never exclsive, but dated and were lovers! So confusing! Posted: 9/21/2009 7:45:08 AM
"She's texting me right now with family problems, I want to be there for her but, I think I'm in the friend zone." Just say Geee, that's to bad eh? Some families I tell you... what are you going to do about that? Oh I'm sure you will handle it just fine. Hope all works out for you. Bye Then? Let HER come up with the solution of how to fix HER problems. Another good book on the brain and he has videos if you don't have time to read it all just yet. is Dr Daniel Amen. Change your brain. can be seen on youtube. Well worth looking at. Wild

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