I certainly hope you are with a virgin and that you were a virgin when you joined forces.

As long as I'm the LAST in the line, I am obviously much more special to him than the previous one(s) or he'd still be with her/one of them

Condoms are free if you go to the public health department in your area. or just run to your local walmart/gas station/hospital/drug store. oh bloody hell i think liqour stores even sell these things.

O and if you don't I give you two hummm 3 mths of wasted time, more heartache and all that other toxic crap...

Why do people go back to ex's?? And ex is an ex for a reason..

My suggestion = go to Chapters and get a self help book on 'letting go'~ That will deff. improve your life not just the situation!!

The more the merrier.

It doesn't matter to me how many he's HAD in the PAST, what matters is how many he has since me.

You're dating a person not their past. I've known people with a small number who did very poorly in a longterm relationship situation, and people with a large number who did very well being caring partners in a longterm relationship situation, and vice versa.

Luckily for us younger women there are plenty of guys in our age category who will respect us even after having sex with us, who understand that we're human beings (not virgins or whores).

A lot of men admit to being pigs, it doesn't mean they want to have a relationship with one.
What makes you think a woman does?
Your statements and views are so ignorant and narrow minded.

So I'm wondering, for you guys, would having a Disease like Diabetes where it is not life threatning and is totally in control be a factor if you're deciding to date someone?

If you hadn't been intoxicated then you would have made a different decision

so it's the first date and your BOTH getting laid and you question how many other guys SHES done this with....ever think maybe she's wondering how many other girls have you done this with? Double edged sword my dear, takes two to tango...

I couldn't disagree more....
I think sex is very natural. How someone touches, feels and explores another person, IMO, isn't something taught, but rather something very natural and unique for everyone.

When you sleep with a guy on the first date, your taking that chance of it being a one-night-stand. And One-night-stands are only one night because the guy didn't think you were good enough in the sack, so whether or not you think your good or bad isn't up to you to decide, but rather, if you get that phone call for the next meet....

What I would ideally like to know (but of course this is something that would likely never be revealed) is not how many people have you had sex with, but how many people have you cheated on...now *that would tell me something about his character.

Oh how I laughed, I even slapped my thigh and chortled as though I was one of the merry men.

trust me, if you mixed LSD with anything you would feel anything except the LSD and you would remember it

Every time we would be having sex, I would just revert back and think of all the times someone she didn't even care about had sex with her.

Aren't they difficult to achieve? I can imagine some women being able to accommodate a couple, especially if they're small. But what if both men are hung like John Holmes?

I get it..but having sex when you are in love..with a person other than your loved one..that

But, any guy who maintains a double standard is insecure and needs to get some balls.

Even zero won't make him happy because he'll alawys worry that she'll go find out what she's been missing.

In your case, that's definitely true, since you apparently can't get over that with your SO, yet you claim you care about her. If her past is ruining your relationship in the present and you would otherwise be happy to have her, then what else could it be but insecurity? I guess it could be an excuse to drive her away because you are afraid to dump her and risk being alone, but that's just a different kind of insecurity.

If one other guy has been there 5,672 times or 20 guys have been there twice, why is the 20 guys thing worse than the one guy?

. the type most honest johns would want nothing to do with.

When they were escorting they weren't clean? and if they caught something and stopped escorting then they are clean? What kind of warped logic is that?

I simply believe prostitutes are real people who can think for themselves.

wow u gotta keeper, a woman that experianced is great dude grow some ballz **** face

She just had fun fantasizing that she was being naughty and wanton. If that disturbs you, fine

If that disturbs you, fine - feel free to abstain. But don't you dare try to impinge your hangups on others. The only thing worse, is the guy who has kinky sex with a girl, then calls HER a whore!

Then you are restricting yourself to "slags" as you put it. And if YOU are doing this, doesn't that make YOU just as big a slag? Just because this is how YOU feel, don't assume that everyone is the same. I have know men who love and respect their wives or GF's to do this.

I have know men who love and respect their wives or GF's to do this.

IMHO, how the individual acts and carries him/herself is what matters.

I also new a lady who was *quite* experienced, shall we say, and was every bit a lady in my book.

I once knew a girl who was a virgin, but a total slut as far as I was concerned.

i have only read page 1 but am surprised that NO one has commented on the wording used in the subject line and repeated in the original post. i am no prude or bible thumper, but i HATE that word. anyone else agree or is it just me????

What gives here with the delete option? I think someone is here trolling indeed and just trying to delete a lot of valid topics to watch the outcome. It is to bad this function does not insist the culprit stand and reveal himself and make a good point as to why they want a topic deleted. Someone just delete happy?

Right I hav been married and had serious relationship both kknew I was bi but I didnt venture on that side as we had agreed.

Well unfortunately, judging by a few responses, seems there are folk that believe it is a big deal. That's a shame.

Not every prostitute is the same

Don't want to take the risk? fine, don't. but don't assume every prostitute is the same. Majority of escorts are actually quite clean.

Regardless of how many partners a man has had, if you REALLY want to know how many partners a man has had, ask him how many partners is too many for a woman he'd date. A woman with the same number of partners or greater will be a turn off.

God, men you can be such hypocrites when it comes to your women

I dont think that there is a problem with having casual sex with one person, but than when there is that person, whose sleeping casually with plenty of people, than its not so casual anymore.

Some people may not have time or energy or a serious relationship.

In some cases, a serious relationship may not work out due to a large age difference, one person will be relocating soon etc.

Double penetration really means two c*ck* in two (or one) orifice...
Anything else is just faking it.

People who have been slipped a date rape drug do not make the choice to just simply "go with it."

Many POF profiles are adamantly against "friends with benefits" relationships. Why? Isn't such a relationship a good way to test the waters for a possible long term relationship?

And if my SO happens to have illicit tapes of her doing X with her ex, I'll be the last person to see it, or have the desire to see it.

who told u that its fine with every one when a woman is BI? its a deal breaker for me

but I'm sure the STD rates are the same between swingers and singles.

So stop painting EVERY swinger to be like the sleazy ones you knew

It wasn't a mistake for me honey! I had it with three men--two black and one white-and let me tell you: I was wetter than a spring rain after all that

Chancelore, if you get paid for engaging in some work related activity, by definition, you are NOT enslaved. By definition, slaves DO NOT get paid (they are provided basic items such as clothes, a shelter and food) but NOT wages.

Moralizing and telling people what to do with their lives is so bourgeois.

That said, doing it with like minded honest people is probably safer than you

she could have been drunk when she got it done, the weekend she met him... at a biker rally... on drugs.... tattoed on by a drunken biker...

Would you date someone who had an orgy with 3+ men."
my answers:
1) I have no idea. If it is going to bother you, if there is a little movie that is going to play in your head every time you have sex with this woman,