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Joined: 10/25/2005

Msg: 147 (view)

Type of woman men avoid Posted: 2/28/2006 6:46:56 PM
The know-it-all This woman thinks she knows everything about everybody and isn't afraid to tell anyone who has the patience to sit through her witless tirades. On a date she doesn't shut up and constantly confuses her misguided opinions as facts. Why she is unappealing: She doesn't seem to notice that she is making an ass out of herself by making assumptions about people that she doesn't even know. If she's so picky about other people why can't she do something about her own faults, like whining too much? What to do if you're that woman: You really need to go back to school and learn about people, behaviour, socialization, and cultural influences.

Joined: 10/25/2005

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Is Love enough? Posted: 2/7/2006 7:40:17 PM
If you love someone you dont become "physical" with them. Its easy to say you love someone, but if you dont show it your words are meaningless. Maybe love is enough for some people, some not so much. I think the real question here should be does he love you? Judging by what you've said i'd say: NO.

Joined: 10/25/2005

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 1/17/2006 7:01:51 PM
'oh no i get so many emails' give me a break.... ok first, yes i read the whole profiles, cant speak for other guys. 2nd, if you're so picky why dont YOU do the work, put YOURSELF out on limb, and look and find someone YOU want to talk/email with. why does it have to be a guy writing to you? 3rd, let me give you a little lesson in social practices in western culture: it has been delegated to men to initiate contact with potential mates. yes, i am aware of examples of the opposite but the vast majority of relationships were started by a guy approaching a girl, not the other way around. As a male i have learned that you must actively pursue or you never meet new women. its kind of a violent analogy but its called the shotgun approach, and social influence has made it necessary. If people said what they mean and mean what they say then it probably wouldnt be, but that is not the case. Let me give you an example: Most women would say they want a guy who's smart, sweet, caring, and trustworthy. I know lots of guys like this who have been single for a long, long time. why? i'll tell you why: females go for the 'bad boys' the liars, the cheats, guys with fancy cars, nice clothes, shiny shoes etc... A woman will sit there and complain that there are no more good guys out there and that they keep getting screwed, and at the same time they won't give perfectly honest and caring guys the time of day because of some stupid socially created status indicator, like: oh no he drives a Volvo, or something like that. So no "Vixen" no one is trying to 'change your mind on what i'm looking for' maybe they're just trying to open your mind to some thing different.

Joined: 10/25/2005

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Breast Implants Posted: 11/8/2005 7:06:00 PM
they're over-rated.... but if it makes you feel better about yourself, well, go for it. i personally wouldnt let implants dictate to me if i liked a person or not, one way or the other. if i were dating someone and they said 'hey im going to get some breast implant tomorrow' i wouldnt dump them or anything for it. but i would REALLY make sure that they knew what they were getting into. did you know that every time you go under anaesthesia you may not wake up? boobs heehee i love that word... boobs boobs boobs

Joined: 10/25/2005

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Should women ask a guy out on a date? And if so HOW!!!!!?? Posted: 11/8/2005 6:44:18 PM
YES!!!!! yes yes yes ask a guy out for god's sake do it! i am so sic of hearing women say 'oh i wanted him to ask me out so badly, but he didnt! boohoo!' stand up, take responsibility, go for it! women seem to enjoy being able to just sit back and let the guys come to them, but here's something for you to think about: the guys who will come up to you and talk might not be the kind of guys that you want, but they're the only ones you're gonna get if you dont take some responsibility. How? depends on situation, but a few good points to think about: 1. be brief, nothing sux more than knowing what's coming and having to wait for it, 2. be confident, this is simple, convince yourself that whether he says yes or no doesnt really matter, 3. privacy is good, try not to advertise, especially in front of his friends, 4. converse first, then drop leading questions (do you like......whateveryouwanttodoonadate....?), then suggest you do it together, 5. dont be pissed off or let it sour your expectations about ever asking a guy out again it he says no. werd

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