What they state they want on their profile.. is usually Dating or LTR.

But.. once met with them.. what they say they want then is.. FWB.

Phernomes, the wow factor, instant attraction, plain attraction and all the rest. Interesting how many say they had "it" with someone and now they are back looking for their next fix, kinda like a junkie.

You want to date someone you're attracted too, great go ahead, I agree!! The problem I see with it is this, when you feel this way, all too often you will overlook those little things that bother the sh1t out of you.

Attraction is great!! If that is chemistry to you fine. But then you have to pull your head out of your azz and see if there is something you have in common. Nobody who believes in chemistry does that.

Nobody who believes in chemistry does that.

I love sex as much as the next person, I just want to know the person I'm having sex with and not just chemistry....Look I believe in attraction, I thnik it is important and without it, it won't work.

Mutual attraction is very important. But I find that people who are looking for this "chemistry" BS are looking for a fantasy that doesn't exist.

Some has said Im dealing with a Narcissist - and to run from him -
Any insight here?

Forward facing eyes and sharp teeth.

Should I just stay the hell out of his private life?

OR perhaps all three of us have a talk?

I am the one left picking up the pieces.

he would like me to move closer to him to make it easier for us to see each other.

Indian": More information needed:
- Navaho?
- Inuit?
- Chippewa?
- Apache?
- Crow?
- Blackfoot
- Other?

Sounds like you have some issues to work through. Not enough info about the "Indian" to comment on.

I have already informed him that in order for us to continue seeing eachother, this relationship has to be serious or I would not be interested in seeing him.

I had told him from the beginning that it might not be a good idea to meet as we are from other cultures and that his parents might not accept me.

), I know that in time, he could probably forget about me, as it would be easier and in the end his family would matter more.

when I am with him, he makes me happy. As I have just recently got out of a painful relationship, this is like bliss.

does getting older scare u?

i had a chick email me a few months ago asking if i could find her coke. she said she lived a few towns over (and here that means like 5min away). so i said yes,

If you hide it, you give the signal that what you are doing is wrong.

lol throwing a rock at an already buzzing hornets nest and watching the aftermath is always fun.

i was being quite facetious with that folks

and of course as soon as the dumb misinformed negro slips up and plays the race card every white person within an earshot will make it there life mission to call him and the entire black race out on it.

My fiance could go in my purse anytime he wanted to, there's nothing in there I wouldn't want him to see. Why is this such a difficult concept for you?

If "making a point" is worth more to you than her feeling secure with you, then you keep on doing what you are doing. After all, it's all about "winning," isn't it?

The bottom line here is that OP is an immature & insecure control freak... It's just that simple.

Children learn how to have adult realtionships from watching the ones (or lack thereof) that their parents have.

So my question is why would you have your phone switched off when you know someone is going to call you .

I just find it a little strange or am I way over reacting

I know that he is a full time dad so could possibly be busy with his child . Or prehaps he is just another time waster what do you think ?

Me and my fiance

You can take back whatever you want. I never asked for your opinion.

…Any thoughts?

. If you can't be yourself, relax and just allow yourself to enjoy the moment and what could possibly become something lasting, then it's just too bad…

Are we becoming too picky now that we have so many choices?

And you tall women none of you even like really tall guys most of the time so just shut up.

What I'm wondering is that how it can be more important and interesting to see a one's nephew and his girlfriend rather than dating me in this case?

There is nothing wrong with peopole with bipolar, depression, OCD etc...everyone is different.

I don't look at it like a "deal breaker". He is 13, I remember when I was 13, it could be worse LOL!! Everyone has things to deal with, having a son who is "difficult" should not a mark aginst you. I would run from someone who racks up credit cards, someone who drinks too much, someone who has anything to do with drugs, but I would not run from someone who has a 13yo. Just look at as a way to weed out anything but the best.

if you are a woman, you have to be a size 6 or smaller or you aren`t going to be invited out for dinner as a rule.

most women, in order to maintain a small figure must pass on evening food and normally don`t eat anything after 5:00.

So. most women who are considered viable to date are not eating much in the first place, much less a big dinner in the evening.

If your child was deathly allergic to peanuts I think you would be saying a different story.

In a public school it wouldn't be fair to just say deny your child a proper education, so my kid can eat nuts on school property.

Proof, please?

What would you do

apparently the people who are bleating away in this thread about its 'inconvenience' don't even have children! Talk about pathetic.

...leave parents to deal with their own concerns.