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Joined: 10/4/2008

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 7/2/2009 4:18:10 PM
No, your problem is your just looking for the fairy tale. You know prince charming, with a castle and a white horse. I swear some of you people really crack me up…

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Please clear this up for me. Posted: 7/2/2009 4:13:53 PM
I know this is going to sound mean, but did you read your own post? Have you ever examined your own feelings in this? I mean, come on; if the tables were turned you would be snooping too. I know I do it, I don’t hide it and I do have female friends that I hang out with all the time. But I don’t hide them; I always say to my kids if you have to hide something then it’s wrong.

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Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/2/2009 4:06:51 PM
It’s why I will never get married again; as to the justification, who am I to judge.

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Is it racism when.... Posted: 7/2/2009 4:01:26 PM
Hey, you can’t help who you like; never ever worry about what someone else thinks of you. It’s what makes us individual. And if they don’t like it then give them a lesson in sign language ha ha.

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Need help Don't want to screw this up!!! Posted: 6/4/2009 11:00:21 PM
I know you can’t get the whole picture of what’s really going on by such a limited post. But still, the advice is what I needed. Some of you have gone way off the mark, but that’s just because you don’t have the whole story and I’m not going to write a book just so you’ll know. Especially TonyRock Brain up there lol. I think she is afraid I am going to leave her if something does happen; I’m single and out having fun, she knows this, she sees it. It’s just not so easy to put the single life away but I think she would be worth it. Ok, I guess a nice wet kiss it is then.

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Need help Don't want to screw this up!!! Posted: 6/4/2009 4:17:51 PM
I have a small dilemma, I have been very selective on whom I date; I don’t like ambiguity very much as I am quite direct myself. I have this female friend who I have known for about 8 months, she had to go back to New York for a couple of months on business and now she is back. She invites me over all the time and we get along very well, but her conversations eventually turn to sex, I get the feeling she is feeling me out and I must say that I get turned on very much by her presence. When we first met we had an agreement that we would just be friends and go out and play pool and what not. Now here is the juicy bit; she claims to have a boyfriend here in our town, not New York, but in all the times I have been to her house I have never seen him. I have even asked to meet him but she will say he is away on business. Ok, I can see how he might be gone some of the time but this is really weird. I love her as a friend and I am highly attracted to her but I am so confused by her it’s unreal. Believe me if you knew me you would see how levelheaded I am, and I can see through the subterfuge of most people very easily. Maybe her sex talk has got too much blood draining down to my pecker from my brain; I could use a little advice.

Joined: 10/4/2008

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A little gray area known as 'More than a little benefit' Posted: 6/3/2009 4:11:39 PM
I have been in plenty of relationships of all kinds; whatever suits your fancy is just great, but don’t fool yourself. There is no FWB relationship that will last, and if your friend thinks that a FWB is going to keep him from getting hurt then I have some news for him. From the first sexual act he is going to develop some feeling for her and she for him. It is a plain simple fact we all want someone to love us and sooner or later he is going to have to get over the trust problem.

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Seeking Advice?? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:44:58 AM
It takes time to get over feelings of betrayal, don’t rush it. Maybe you’re not ready to be involved in another relationship. I think I am finally over my divorce; that is until I see my ex every time I pick up my daughter. After a lot of soul searching I came to realize that our life experiences make us who we are. We are all creatures of our environment and that very fact is what makes us all stand out as individuals in a vast herd. You should not change who you are, better, come to terms with your feelings. Now, if you are shutting her out because you think she is going to hurt you, that is another matter entirely and you have to understand that humans are capable of great cruelty AND generosity. Don’t worry so much about being hurt again, at least you can learn from previous experience not to make the same mistake twice.

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