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 Author Thread: How do you feel about your own birthday?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How do you feel about your own birthday?
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:18:54 PM

As the topic suggests I want to know about how people feel about their own birthday.


People sing to me, bring me cake, and give me presents. It's not that bad of a day really. If I can somehow work in guaranteed sex, roller coaster rides, and fudge, it would be the most perfect day of the year. I wish every day could be my birthday. Obviously excluding that tacky aging part.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
its been a while since we talked is it ok to track them down?
Posted: 2/11/2008 8:53:36 PM

ok so here is a little background.
i graduated in 2001 and i was in tutoring with this girl that was a freshman. every day we would talk and we got relatively close. well the other day i was looking through my senior year book and i realized that she gave me her number. i had never noticed it before. this was the kind of girl that it was really easy to talk to and we got along great.
so basically what im wanting to know is that is it ok to track her down? or would it seem kinda creepy? i did have feelings for her but never really acted on them and i was interested in reaquainting myself with her, and if she is single maby ask her out but i dont know how it will be percived after 7 years of not talking to her. what do you think should i try and get ahold of her or just chalk it up to a to little to late situation?


Is it ok to track someone down? yes. Let's not confuse that with stalk.

Should you track this person down? Probably not. What are you going to say? "hey I noticed you left me your number seven years ago, let's hook up!" Yea, no.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 150 (view)
 
Why are the young people on here?
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:42:51 AM

I have noticed quite a large fish population here amoung the 18-25 age group.

My question to all of you, men and women alike is......

I can understand older people being here... moms, dads, business, those of us having to care for their own parents etc.... but what I don't understand is the need to be on an internet dating site for all you young, obigation free, im hoping child free, people who are out there just starting your lives. Those again that I assume are out and about having a good time with your peers.....

Why are you here???

Thanks


Why can you understand older people being on here but not younger people? What's the difference besides age?

I'm far more savvy with a computer than any of my parents/aunts/uncles etc. I can easily log onto POF for half an hour and check messages or the forum without it impacting the rest of my day or if I'm going to go out or not.

Being on POF doesn't not preclude someone from going "out and about".
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
should guys close the bathroom door when taking a leak?
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:29:24 AM
Soon you'll be peeing on the living room floor and wondering why you have no friends.

I'm sure it's a terrible inconvenience for you to be trapped in a room with yourself, but do us all a favor and close the door. Washing your hands would be nice too. At least run the water a second so we think they're washed.
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why do some women write Looking Mr. Right in profile headlines?
Posted: 9/13/2007 7:44:50 AM

JasmineKai: It's not accurate to say that I have "no profile to speak of" just because my profile doesn't ramble on self-indulgently for several pages.[/qoute]

Let's not play the internet debate game in which we quote the part of a comment we think suits our argument best.

"virtually no profile". Meaning you have a few words and nothing more.

This is an internet dating site, are we trying to seek a date and possible long term relationship? If so then people should take it seriously and put some effort into it.

I'm glad you've gotten yourself hung up on the problems of other people's profiles, rather than focusing on how to improve yours and find dates.
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why do some women write Looking Mr. Right in profile headlines?
Posted: 9/13/2007 7:35:52 AM
I find it amusing that someone with virtually no profile to speak of is busy judging profiles. Maybe a little effort on your own would yield you some results.


Getting back to my original topic, some women have been thoroughly brainwashed and indoctrinated by society and the media (those awful Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan romantic comedies) to believe in the Mr. Right/soulmate concept. Some women expect fireworks (aka "love at first sight"), which is probably why some women have given me the "first date dump."


I see this a lot on the forums. Rationalizations for why a woman didn't reply to them, dumped them too soon or at all. Clearly the guy is a great catch, wonderful guy and amazing in bed. It's the woman who falsely judged them and is clearly losing out. We've been brainwashed and due to that brainwashing, we mistakenly misjudged you. So sorry. *


*not sorry.
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Are girls afraid to make the first contact?
Posted: 9/13/2007 7:12:58 AM
go to profile reviews. But i'll give you some quick advice before this gets deleted.

More pictures the better. Unless they're just utter crap. Add recent photos that show your face a bit better. Add photos that show you HAPPY and in social situations, if appropriate. (not with women hanging on your arm)

Space out your paragraph. It's a bit cramped and would look prettier if you broke it up.

You seem like an intelligent and nice guy, so don't give up. A lot of us are either still here or have found relationships that later didn't work out, and returned here. (poor me!)

Good luck.
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
After Marriage She is in Horror -- 1968
Posted: 9/13/2007 7:02:40 AM

Now I fear I will never have a woman I love. I am still limp


I honestly don't know if this is a story or a real life tale. But I'll pretend for now it's real. You wouldn't have sex with her pre-marriage because you knew you couldn't perform. So then how can you be upset or shocked to find out she sought satisfaction elsewhere. She SHOULD have divorced you but she didn't. She cheated and that may be wrong, but not exactly surprising in this tale of woe.

Honestly, you were both deceitful and should have ended the marriage years ago.

Also, you need to seek some help with your ED? How long are you going to deal with it?
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
He's always around!!!
Posted: 9/12/2007 12:52:19 PM
Buy a sword. You don't have to use the sword, and in fact I would recommend you don't. Prison isn't for everyone.

Just follow these simple steps to get rid of unwanted attention from an ex.

1. Buy said sword.
2. Purchase black leather outfit, for style points.
3. Strap sword to your back.
4. Make numerous loud references to the sharp and deadly nature of the sword when you see the ex in the vicinity.
5. Brandish sword if ex approaches.
6. Enjoy freedom from ex now that he will no doubt relocate to Brazil.
7. Kill vampires in your spare time.
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Do women like men with long or short hair?
Posted: 9/12/2007 8:54:06 AM

does that mean that it is only that the people here like men with short hair or are the people here more diverse than just those who believe men should have short hair?



These topics always amuse me.

Do women like long or short hair?

Do women like peaches or apples?

The answer will always be the same. It varies from person to person because, contrary to some people's beliefs, women are actually individuals who have individual preferences. *gasp*
 jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 197 (view)
 
Just moved to NOVA
Posted: 9/12/2007 8:25:40 AM
Hi all, I'm back to POF after an extended leave...that didn't work out. Hooray?


want to get outdoors while the weather is nice and I'm interested in volunteering, so message me if you know about fun things in the NOVA/DC area.


Entropyh, there are a LOT of volunteer opportunities here, I'm sure you can find somewhere to spend your time. There are a lot of good programs, shelters, activity centers that need volunteers.

As for outdoors, I think a POF Virginia biking and picnic get together might not be a bad idea. Why don't you organize that and buzz me when it's ready. Chop chop!
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What would your reason be for not kissing your bf?
Posted: 9/9/2007 2:57:25 AM

Just curious here, why would your gf ever tell you that she doesnt like to kiss all that much and try not to kiss you at times when you are a good kisser(fact)and their is nothing wrong with your breath or teeth?

Could it be that maybe she isnt attracted to you and maybe she is just with you for your personality? Cause she never told me I was handsome or any other compliments during the relationship.

This was an ex gf by the way!!


Weird, strange, red flag. Possibly means she's cheating on you or has issues with affection. But she's an ex, so..

I do love though the posters that declare themselves either good kissers or great in bed. Definite facts huh.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
video recorder in the bedroom
Posted: 9/9/2007 2:11:31 AM

I just want a general consensus here so simple yes or no answers are fine. Of course if you want to get into details, go nutts.

Would you allow a video recorder in the bedroom? I think my own personal little porn stash would be pretty awesome.


As much as I want to end up on an amateur porn site, I think I'll pass.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
pics of guys with thier shirts off & muscles
Posted: 9/8/2007 5:21:05 PM
It tells me the man is active and healthy (likely). It's also sexy (usually, some of you need to take another look in the mirror, weird muscle shapes, flab, etc. If it's not looking good, maybe keep the shirt on).

But I do not think it should be the man's main profile image. Nor should it be 4 of your 5 images.

But as you can see from the varying responses, it won't please everyone.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
need some help for first contact message
Posted: 9/8/2007 4:24:51 PM

hello ladies, i was hoping i could get some advice on what to say in a first contact message so ill get a reply. As i get maby 1 in 15 or 1 in 20 to even respond to me. My usual message is something generic like, "hello, how are you" " Hi, your cute" something along those lines.


So boring and bland. Do you know how many of those messages I get? And then nine times out of ten when I click the profile, there is nothing there either. So what is there to go by?

You need to stand out from the crowd a little. Have you noticed how many people are on POF? Theres a big crowd, and that only covers this site.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is Oral Sex Wrong?
Posted: 9/8/2007 4:13:23 PM

Is it wrong for a guy to ask his mate for oral sex? Is there something about it that makes a woman feel dirty or like a tramp? Do woman not like to give this kind of sex and if she does should the man give her oral sex as well?


No it's not wrong. Unless by "wrong" you mean "yummy".

And you shouldn't feel obliged to give oral just because you received oral. You should WANT to give oral.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Why show cleavage then say just friends?
Posted: 9/6/2007 5:29:51 AM
Sometimes I picture POF people as nervous wrecks who can do nothing but dwell on the oddities and goings on of other people's profiles.

If you don't like the cleavage, move to the next profile. If you don't like the fact that a woman would want to be friends even if she has breasts, move on to the next profile.

If you can't believe, while half the men here go shirtless in their profiles, that a woman would even dare to show a little skin, move on to the next important topic. Why do people use so many emoticons?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Why the difference?
Posted: 9/6/2007 5:26:31 AM

I have read in more than one forum that women tend to recieve about 10-20 emails a day if not more, where most guys are lucky to recieve 2-3 emails a day and thats after they have spent the time to send emails out to the women on this site. I am wondering why it is not more women don't email guys, if I didn't know better it almost sounds like old fashioned thinking in a modern.. whereas you women don't usually approach guys instead waiting for them to get ahold of you.
Any insight for my very inquisitive mind, about why there is such a large margin in difference that the average woman on this site recieves and the average guy on this site recieves on a daily basis would be most interesting and appreciated


It is one of the 5 mysteries of life.

1. how do they get the filling into a twinkie
2. why does Jay Leno have a job?
3. who the hell are all those people who voted for bush, TWICE
4. how come when I through a boomerang it never returns, and instead hits my neighbor in the head
5. why do women get more emails than men?

Will knowing the reason help you to get a date?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Oh wow... I TALK too much!
Posted: 9/6/2007 5:06:03 AM
I talk more than you, so I'm not real worried about it.

If someone doesn't like the chatter, their loss. It will never change, you are who you are. And you're a chatterbox. We'll call you ChattyMcChatterson. Out there somewhere are those that like to chat, and chat and chat. Patience young chatty, you'll find her.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 83 (view)
 
just how the hell do you do it
Posted: 9/6/2007 4:53:43 AM

i see so many people on here with the 'move on', 'get a life', 'you'll get over it', 'theres more out there' .... whatever. attitude just how do they manage it?

drugs, alcohol, hypnosis, ECT, just how do they wipe memories from their mind


You don't. And it's never easy to "move on". That sentiment is more of a "try to dwell on it less and move forward with your life as best you can".
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Muscle or no muscle that is the question.
Posted: 9/6/2007 4:52:15 AM

Hello everyone out there in cyberspace I have a question I put a lot of time into getting big muscles cause it's fun and helps me in every other thing I do in life and I was wondering how big does a guy have to be {muscle} to be sexy or is no muscle ok. I am wondering on a physical level because I know that personality is the best but I am asking about physical sexyness. So if you could help me out that would be great bye


Judging from your picture, you're not THAT muscled.

Toned and defined is very hot. Bulky muscles are not. But that is far down the gym line.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Profiles & Christian religious beliefs?
Posted: 9/6/2007 4:47:04 AM

If a guy has Christian religious beliefs that are important to him from a spiritual point of view, should this be reflected in his profile info? I considered whether or not to add this info, but originally decided not to because I know that religion can sometimes be a private/personal matter for a lot of people. Now reconsidering whether to add after all. Any thoughts/feedback from the ladies?


Why would you conceal something that would potentially be an important part of a long term relationship? I assume that if you have strong religious beliefs, that you'd want to live that lifestyle. I wouldn't like this sprung on me down the relationship road.

Honesty really is the best policy because it all comes out in the end.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What's up with 1 or 2 word contacts?
Posted: 9/4/2007 3:58:33 AM

Ladies, can you tell me what's up with this type of contact? Is it too much to expect more than 1 or 2 words?


I get 1-3 word contacts multiple times a day. I dismiss them immediately. Complete waste of time as a contact, if you actually want a response from me. No effort in means no effort out.

I don't need or want a book. But something with a little substance would be nice.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Hey im new tell me what you think
Posted: 9/4/2007 3:46:41 AM
It is bad. Your profile is tiny and tells us nothing about you. All you have listed is a few likes and dislikes. You need to tell us a little bit about yourself so that we can make a bit of an educated decision about contacting you. You should also add some more photos to show different looks and sides of you.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Views on Casual Sex
Posted: 9/2/2007 12:32:46 AM
These threads have been done to death. No offense intended.

But let me predict some of the posts to come:

Some women will come in and deem casual sex to be wrong, wicked, and bad. You should have a connection to someone to have sex. Must be low moral women. etc

Other women will post that casual sex is just fine as long as one defines the rules of the "relationship" at hand. And uses protection.


I fit into group 2. I'm not going to worry about the judgment of others as long as I am enjoying my life and not hurting others.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How do I come across?
Posted: 9/2/2007 12:00:39 AM
Personally I love your pictures. I like profiles with lots of pictures in a variety of settings or poses. It just means you're more likely to actually look like your pictures since it isn't just one perfectly lighted shot.

The only part about your profile I would change is the last bit where you mention qualities you don't like. I prefer profiles that don't mention the negative. If someone like that approaches you, you can just turn them down. And mentioning those negatives generally won't stop those types from mailing you. Take it out and add more about yourself.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Yes... your bum does look fat in those jeans...
Posted: 9/1/2007 11:34:19 PM
Every guys is an honest guy. A nice guy. A caring guy. We are all fools for not marrying you on the spot. It couldn't possibly be any type of character flaw in the man or incompatibility. It is clear that women just don't know what they want and we're leading you all on. Shame on us. Poor poor men, oh how I weep for thee.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
date a girl who doesn't believe Dinosaurs existed?
Posted: 9/1/2007 11:31:10 PM
She's crazy or stupid and should be avoided.

I met this really cute guy. I mean, really cute. We met for coffee and had a nice discussion. Warm personality. Then somehow we got on the topic of the moon landing, I forget how. He honestly believes it was faked. For what purpose, i don't know. I was in shock. I didn't know what to say in response to this.

That was our only date.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Is weight really such a big turn-off for women?
Posted: 9/1/2007 11:15:17 PM
Body type is very important to me because of my lifestyle. I want an active partner who will play tennis with me and go jogging with me. And keep up in general.

So yes weight is a big turn-off to me. It's called a preference. I make a choice to date a certain body type. I also make the choice to date someone who reads newspapers and keeps up with current events. It's all preference in the end.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Should I have given it a chance?
Posted: 9/1/2007 8:07:57 PM
Red flag? This is the mother of all red flags. This is someone standing on a building waving a giant red flag while screaming "run away! run away!"


She replied, as if talking about the weather,
"Two, but it wasn't mysteriously, they just passed away"


Date 2 would never happen for me in that situation. She seems to take divorce or homicide too lightly.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
pretending to be gay @ a party
Posted: 9/1/2007 7:54:37 PM

Now tomorrow I'm going to my bro's house warming party. I don't really know what to say, sometimes I'm a wall flower but I think I can work the ladies with this "you know what, I'm gay" approach. Besides, I'm not interested in my sister in law's friends, most of them have a boyfriend anyway.
They might be shocked, but then again they might let their guard down and think, ah thank god not another creepy guy trying to hit on me...

I guess after the party some of the patrons will think I am indeed gay...then the joke's on me. Not trying to be homopobic here, nor bash them..just wanna have some fun.


It's stupid and silly. I don't know what your question is. Is it cool to act gay?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
A Simple Request? Unreasonable? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/1/2007 7:52:10 PM
Non-response is response enough. If you don't hear back, what more do you need to know?

I'm not beholden to whatever random person emails me. I'll normally respond to a well thought out email. But most emails are short nothingness.

They took the time to write me? Okay, that's on them. Thanks, but I didn't force you to write me.

I also don't respond to every random comment I get on the street. Oh well.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
A Simple Request? Unreasonable? Would you do it?
Posted: 9/1/2007 7:40:59 PM
What a bad way to contact someone.

Some of the emails I get amaze me. Do they honestly think some of this stuff will help them get dates or even an email exchange?

If you don't want to respond, delete me. No, I think I'll do as I please. Non-response is enough to tell you that we're not going to be hooking up for a big mac.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Face licking
Posted: 8/31/2007 2:21:27 PM
I once saw a movie in which an alien would wrap itself on someone's face. It would then lay some sort of egg which would gestate in the stomach of the person. Then the alien would burst painfully from their belly and proceed to rampage throughout the ship as it grew bigger and bigger. Until finally someone blew it out an air lock.

To sum up, always have an air lock handy.

It is important that we take lessons from movies. Thank you for pointing this out to me OP.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Aren't some things better kept in private?
Posted: 8/31/2007 2:15:55 PM
So let's sum up:

"people shouldn't have mail restrictions if they post, because then I can't message them!"

"Hey OP, you have mail restrictions, I tried to message you"

"Ooops, it's Clinton's fault!"

Do you work for the Bush administration?

Email restrictions are setup by those trying to date. This is a dating site after all.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 61 (view)
 
When a woman brushes her boobs against you
Posted: 8/31/2007 1:29:12 PM

If you are at a bar and not looking around, sometimes a woman will come up and brush her boobs against you. What does this mean? Is she just scratching and you are providing resistance, or is she interested?


I never knew people would need an explanation for why someone took their body and brushed it up against theirs.

They aren't asking you to explain relativity.

I think I'm going to start carrying a small bat. I'll just whack whatever guy I'm interested in. Maybe that will be a hint enough.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What's the Deal With Must Love My Dog(s)?
Posted: 8/30/2007 10:53:24 PM
They have pets. They love their pets. They want you, the you who dates them, to love their pets.

I don't understand the confusion. Either love their dogs or don't. And if you don't like their pictures of them hanging on their dogs, then move on to the next profile.

There seems to be so much consternation here about other people's profiles. If the profiles don't match what you're looking for, move along. Why dwell?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Signs that a 30+ woman might be a cougar?
Posted: 8/30/2007 3:57:42 PM
I'm going to agree with Kreuztraeger. Light banter and humor, all in good fun, is one thing. But to just start randomly insulting someone because you disagree with them has no place here. Add to the discussion, make a jokey comment, note the color of the sky, or don't bother.

Who do you think looks bad? The person who posted their opinion or you who just wanted to call them names?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Signs that a 30+ woman might be a cougar?
Posted: 8/30/2007 1:17:39 PM
You should rephrase this thread "Please point out the women who will have sex with me so that I don't have to try anymore, I also need a pee jug so I don't have to walk to the bathroom."

It's time to take the training wheels off and see if you an make it on your own.

good luck.

PS, they all have tattoos that say "I'm a cougar" located on the back of their neck.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Girl are teases On cam
Posted: 8/30/2007 12:50:32 PM
I mourn for the school systems around the world. It's clearly not just here in the states.

Could you please filter this mess through some type of decoder program and repost it? I'm sure a fascinating question is in there somewhere, yearning to break out. Then again, maybe not.

But I really want to help you, I swear.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Oral sex gives you cancer of the Throat....??
Posted: 8/30/2007 12:13:18 PM
Well if this is true, I'm going to have massive cancer going on. I wonder if they'll do a throat transplant. I'd like a nice new healthy one. Does this also mean I can get skin cancer if someone cums on my face? Ass cancer? Cancer of the big toe? (it got there once, i swear)

Does this mean men will have to stop masturbating? Penis cancer?
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 202 (view)
 
omg!! Not the phone! You must be an axe murderer or out for a cheap thrill..!
Posted: 8/30/2007 4:05:29 AM
I own a phone. Actually I own 2. A land line and a cell. Sometimes (often), I actually talk on the phone. With people. Honest to god, I do. Sometimes they're even men. Men I might date. Men I do date.

I don't understand phone phobia. How can anyone move from email to dating if no one will pick up a phone.

If my phone rings today, I plan on answering it.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 205 (view)
 
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 8/30/2007 4:00:31 AM
I like sex. No wait, that is a lie. I love sex. Oh shit, I've said too much.

Assuming there are people out there actually afraid to admit to liking sex, well they can live without it I guess. If you can't admit it, then you're not going to be able to seek it that well.

I can only hope that my love for sex will result in more sex, soon. Perhaps at noon.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 370 (view)
 
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 8/30/2007 3:22:12 AM
Ok so "some" men think younger women are better. Some men also think that women with pink hair are better.

There is this amazing thing about people, they have preferences. Shocking I know. And these preferences guide them in who they date or even become friends with.

I have no idea how that can result in a 15 page thread. I'm thinking something called boredom is to blame.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
whats the right thing to open with when you email someone?
Posted: 8/30/2007 2:48:18 AM
Use some variant of the following:

"Hello,

. I noticed your profile and . Thanks for your time,

Thanks!

Jesus (use your own name or maybe some type of code for your name)"

Friendly, funny, coherent....try using that formula.

Good luck in your searches. But keep in mind that sometimes no matter what you type, people will ignore it.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Fake VS Real Breasts
Posted: 8/30/2007 2:40:59 AM
1. no
2. yes
3. n/a

I hope my detailed answers have aided you in your quest for breast knowledge. Maybe you are writing an important article and my bit of information was the clincher on your prize winning piece which will make you rich and famous.

I'm glad I could help. And you're welcome.

PS, POF hates me with this message length thing.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
why not give more guys a chance after high school?
Posted: 8/27/2007 1:19:15 AM
After carefully examining your posts, I still have no idea what you're talking about. I get the sense that you're frustrated, but it could be that you have indigestion.

When I'm confused about life and the internet, I take a tums. Then I jump up and down 3 times, and then turn around 2 full times. If the answers still haven't revealed itself, I watch porn.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Need Advice For A Girl That Is HARD To Talk To; She Has MAJOR Issues...
Posted: 8/27/2007 12:17:51 AM
Why are you chasing someone that doesn't respond? Why are you wasting thought and breath on someone that has "major" issues? Just because they look pretty? Is that all it's about? How depressing. But a big poster of some hot woman and send it emails, you'll get the same quality of response.

Good luck with that.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 104 (view)
 
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 8/26/2007 1:51:02 AM
groan.

I'm pretty sure i'll never let anyone take a cheese grater to my ass or any part of my body for that matter. Unless we're filming Saw 4.

It's a good thing she told you about the specific kink before you made it back to her place. Once tied up, it would have been quite a site to see her walk in with a cheese grater and butter knife.
 Jasminekai
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Not Single/Not Looking
Posted: 8/26/2007 1:49:15 AM
People message you to "hook up" because this is a dating site. Sure the forums are great and you can meet potential friends here, but first and foremost this is a dating site. And a dating site with people who don't read profiles, they just email. So enjoy your forums and meeting email friends, you'll just occassionaly have to delete emails from people who want to hook up with you. Life is rough.
 
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