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Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 24 (view)

Smoking....In the House? Posted: 4/25/2009 5:06:19 PM
This will fester into a huge problem one day, and gawd help you when you quit and 'hope' she does too. Could be a possible homicide situation in the making 'ya ask me' :) Talk this through with her and 'get it in writing' if she capitulates. HTH Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Why is it that many dates have to involve liquor to have a great time? Posted: 4/25/2009 5:00:44 PM
What ever happend to having a great time without liquor involved.... I'm pretty sure that a lot of people are still doing it??? HTH Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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staying friends after a break-up Posted: 4/23/2009 3:34:35 AM
The secret is a clean break until you have both mated up at least once. At that point, if the break was clean and somewhat mutual, then it can happen that you can be quite close to your ex's. It's all about forgiving maybe, and forgetting, definitely, and most of all, it's all about being mature and remembering that you used to love that person. They can't be all bad... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Stuck in the middle. Posted: 3/24/2009 7:51:17 PM
I'd be questioning my 'friendship' before I started trying to figure out my troubles with the ex-gf. With friends like that... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 128 (view)

Husband of 26 yrs. Left for a girlfriend 15 yrs younger Posted: 3/24/2009 5:33:57 PM
My advice: hire a lawyer today and protect yourself. Get your finances in order immediately. Don't be emotional, be smart. You could read the 6 pages of posts preceding, or you could read this one line I quoted from Landra. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Cum placement Posted: 1/27/2009 4:03:53 PM
I think some folks just kinda get off publicly chatting about splooging... Interesting and entertaining to imagine people typing some of this stuff... OT: Being pro-choice, I'll usually discuss the placment of the glazing over the pre-sex meal. Placement accuracy evaluation is usually gone over while enjoying post-coital c*cktails... HTH Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 90 (view)

Tight pants Low Cut Tops is it sexy or Skanky ? Posted: 1/27/2009 3:47:44 PM
If ya' got it... flaunt it!! IT won't be around forever... HTH Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 168 (view)

Is it normal for straight women to consider other women to be more beautiful and hotter than men? Posted: 1/27/2009 3:45:34 PM
Well there's 7 minutes of my life I'll never get back. I still don't get the question!?! HTH Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Men and yoga.. yay, nay or gay? Posted: 1/27/2009 3:14:13 PM
If the guy is over 35 and exercising regularly, do you really, truly care what it is he's doing? I tip my cap to anyone who does anything that in any way can be considered a form of exercise regularly. It tells you alot about the person, and it's all positive in my opinion. Maybe you should join him on the mat for a little downward-facing dog action... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Boyfriend.... Posted: 1/27/2009 3:02:41 PM
If in fact he did get this girl pregnant and then is denying it..He is capable of doing the same to you in the future. Now THIS is significant mind food for the poster... Great point! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 237 (view)

test drive before buying? Posted: 1/27/2009 2:37:13 PM
Again a post asking questions that can only be answered by 'self'. Who in the great good world can tell you when it is time for the first 'session' besides you. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. If you choose to have sex with anyone, anytime, under any circumstances, it should be because you want to experience the joys of mating and/or sharing an intimate moment with someone you care about. If you have to consider the entire future of your life with the person as a variable, you'll never get there. If you have to ask this sort of thing, it's simply not the right person or time. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Boyfriend.... Posted: 1/27/2009 2:31:09 PM
I'm confused! If he impregnated 'Sara' before you started dating him, is that grounds for splitting up? If he is still involved beyond the normal duties of a father, that's one thing, but if he is just carrying out his duties as a dad, I'd think that a reason to think better of a man, as opposed to a good reason to dump him. This so-called problem seems to be masquarading as a day in the life of a couple in the new millenium... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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who recovers faster after a breakup men or women? Posted: 1/27/2009 2:25:16 PM
I'd venture to say the one who initiated the break up. It was probably something they had thought about for a while and already had it reconciled to some degree. What he said... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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What happens when u hit a non-negotiable - she wants kids! Posted: 1/8/2009 6:27:17 PM
You can meet someone and mutually fall head over heels. But as you get to know each other better, sht comes up. Some of it resides in the class of being 'deal breakers'. Personality conflicts that simply have no resolution. Wanting kids and not. There simply is no work-around that will not end badly. Be realistinc, be grown up, think of each other's long term happiness as opposed to your own and walk away grasping firmly the memories of the time spent together as opposed to the time you won't spend together... Being unselfish and acting mature is a btch, but it will server you well in the long run I assure you... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Relationships and paying the bills..... Posted: 1/8/2009 6:19:30 PM
Must.... not.... make.... fun... of.... OP... so.... hard.... killing.... me.... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 169 (view)

Why are so many women over 30 Cynical Posted: 1/4/2009 3:56:29 PM
Young women make really bad choices when it comes to men. And young men are a **** to try and have a relationship with, I'm sure. Add this up and by the time they have been around the game for a dozen years, they can't help but have racked up a 'bunch' of negative experiences. That is the bitterness you whine, er, speak of. If you treat a women (or man) respectfully and with care, you won't get to see so much of that bitterness. But let those things surface that they have come to loathe and you just might. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 1/4/2009 3:50:49 PM
Hair pulling is never about pain, but control. Women, generally speaking, enjoy being controlled in the rack, so long as you aren't really hurting them. Of course, there are exceptions for nearly every word in the sentence... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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will you or wont you have sex infront of the dog? Posted: 1/4/2009 3:45:51 PM
WTF? Surely, in the real world, people don't really conciously consider 'putting the dog out for the night' in order to have their weekly saturday night special? Are you supposed to plan like that? What if it was an impromptu session starting at the kitchen sink? If a chick said "stop I have to relocate the dog first', I can imagine it kinda making me think she's really not that into it :) Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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if he doesn't orgasm Posted: 1/4/2009 3:39:28 PM
Maybe the dude is just more of a giver! I'd think at 60 it might take more vigorous activity to get over than he may be willing or even capable of. You can enjoy yourself quite immensely without ever getting to the grand finale. Sometimes, almost getting there many times or for an extended period of time is far more enjoyable than the grand finale itself. To each his own. The bigger question is why do you care if he isn't complaining. Why do women need to know they made a guy get over if he is satisfying them. Surely women aren't as insecure as men? ;) Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Is my husband odd or just a real kinky guy Posted: 1/4/2009 3:32:19 PM
You just need to make up stuff, which allows you to really get interesting. These could be tales based on a true story or not. Remember to change names to protect the innocent and yourself... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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When does hangout turn to dating? Posted: 1/4/2009 3:16:31 PM
If you can't tell the difference between hanging out and dating, you're hanging out! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Co-habitating etiquette - AFTER the breakup Posted: 10/16/2008 8:21:27 PM
As I have done on a few occasions, rent the girl an apartment, rent a cube van, let her take whatever furniture she needs, bake her a casserole and then sell the whole thing as one final act of caring. Using your logic for letting her stay, she will be there till you go mad and throw her out a window, maybe. There are a few kinds of crazy and letting her stay in your home and thinking it will work out is at least 6 of 'em... One last thought, how long has she been there? Watch 'them there' common law marriage laws. She might just stay long enough to qualify for a portion of the property value. [shiver] Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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A man who communicates his feelings... Posted: 10/16/2008 8:08:17 PM
I have heard many women state that they wanted a man to communicate well/more and I have heard that women want men to show more emotion, but I can't get my head around 'communicating feelings'. You should not really be 'communicating' feelings in the early stages of a realtionship. I have told a woman that I really enjoyed meeting her and such but you get gushing and it is going to be 'too much' for many. How do/would you feel when you have a chat with a strange woman and a half hour in, she is implicating that she has strong feelings for you. She's a nutbar, right? Feelings of attraction do not need to be verbalized. Ever! Be nice, buy a cherry blossom. She'll get it, I assure you... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 127 (view)

Does No Car Mean No Action? Posted: 10/12/2008 3:28:04 AM
A car is totally a necessity - especially in winter. Then there is the safety aspect in it for women. Then there is the convenience factor....yadda, yadda, yadda - just get a car. At the very least its a good signal to the woman that you've got your sht together and don't live in your mom's basement For some, a car may be a total necessity, winter or summer, but for some, a car may be a total waste or even a total pain in the ass. As for safety, I am unsure of what that even means. I don't think people are suggesting hitchin' with your date or anything. How is a cab less safe? As for a car being a sign you have your sht together, what moron with a steady job can't afford a car? And how many superficial idiot's live in their mom's basement, so they CAN afford a flashy car? And how many potential dates even see a guy when he is driving his car, unless he is one of those tools that tries to be seen driving his car? The bottom line is that if your car is in any way a conscious part of your game plan when it comes to getting girls, you are going to be spending more time 'polishing' than you will actually enjoying time with the opposite sex. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/11/2008 3:14:00 PM
In my experience, people without pics usually are hiding the fact that they are not overly attractive, generally speaking. Of course, I usually add at least 5 yerars for most any woman over 25. I have been fooled with 10-15 year old pics before. It's the worst kind of dishonest. Meeting someone with no pic would be preferential to meeting someone with false photos. If I had more time to waste, I would be less adamant about a couple recent pics first. I would like not knowing on one hand, but anyone who has done much internet dating can tell ya. That's a really crappy feeling you have when someone you are hyped up about meeting walks around the corner and you are immediately turned off. But what can ya do. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Too long without love? Posted: 10/11/2008 3:05:24 PM
For the right kind of person, being 'alone' is not the worst way to go. Compare it to the plethora of horror stories by people 'luckily' with another and being alone can develop a warm fuzzy glow by times. Does it get harder as you go along. Hell yeah. It MUST. How could it not. You are aging, and evolving as a person. You are getting more and more selfish and more and more 'set in your ways'. I figure that once you get past the stage where you are not driven by the burning need to 'get laid', being alone just kinda happens for longer and longer stretches, more and more often. Like any 'habit', not being alone after doing so alot would have to have its difficulties, I'm sure. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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I'm a ex convict, should I tell the people I date Posted: 10/11/2008 2:48:00 PM
Was I 'surprised' to see am attractive young lady as the OP. My first thought after checking your profile and photos was that you could get X-CON tattooed across your forehead, and it wouldn't put too many guys off.. at first! I think it's a little silly to lead with that sort of thing. It's a little presumptuous really. Of course if the person lists ex-cons under dislikes in their profile, yup, you have to come clean from the beginning. Otherwise, let it ride for a couple of dates/meets. If you think it may evolve, then let it slide out during date three. That's when the little white lies start to get flushed out and such. With a little thought, you could easily develop a way to introduce this info as part of a humorous story... with a shocking ending. Which would segue nicely into your story of rehabilitation, resurrection and flying straight... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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What do you do to keep from thinking about someone that you're no longer dating? Posted: 10/11/2008 2:40:13 PM
Why on Earth would you be thinking about someone you are no longer dating? This would have to be the single biggest waste of your time you could possibly come up with. If you simply can't help yourself, I would suggest whacking your head on a sharp rock a few times. This will definitely help in one way or another, I promise... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Some insight into good people. Posted: 10/11/2008 2:31:40 PM
Boys, boys. Can;t we all just get along After reading some of that back and forth, I no longer have a clue what exactly the question was... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Is falling in love first or having sex first? Posted: 10/11/2008 2:27:09 PM
I didn't read this whole thread, but I saw a pattern forming in the first couple pages. 'Older ' people want the love first, cuz sex is just meaningless sex without it. But younger people want the sex first, cuz, hey, sex IS sex! Funny how the two differ. Maybe there is a lesson in there somewhere. Have lots of meaningless sex when you are young and not in any way ready, willing or ABLE to have a proper relationship. Then, once school is out and you have to start buying your own toilet paper, start holding yourself up to a higher calling. And you'll have feasted at the table well enough in your youth to not always be thinking about just having sex for sex. Why the hell do you think these boards are filled with middle aged married or divorced men and women. They just never feasted prior to getting 'committed'. Now the kids are gone and they really , really believe they will be able to pick up where they left off after high school. Silly wabbits... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

Msg: 125 (view)

Does No Car Mean No Action? Posted: 10/11/2008 2:06:33 PM
When I moved back to Canada last year, I rented a car for a couple months. Then I was with someone who had a car. I was going to get a car when we went our separate ways but got to thinking about exactly how often I actually drove anywhere. It was almost never. I live less than a 5 min walk from work, shopping, etc. If I need to go somewhere, I actually jump a bus or a cab, according to the situation. I am proud to be "part of the solution". If I needed a car all the time, I certainly could afford one and would have one. If a woman decided not to date me because I did not own a car, I would honestly think she was doing me a favor. Do 'grown ups' really judge each other on such things? Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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If Your Partner was doing things with an Ex that they refused to do with you. What would you do? Posted: 10/10/2008 6:46:54 PM
What "your buddy's" cousin did to his other cousin before she hooked up with him is irrelevant. After all, everyone knows... what goes on in the trailer park, stays in the trailer park! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/10/2008 6:41:02 PM
I never understood the controversy surrounding this topic. Any self-respecting man knows what a waste it is for her to swallow it anyway. You should be shootin' it in her eye! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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would you ever date someone who has an std? Posted: 10/10/2008 6:34:44 PM
This is a retarded question asked by someone who obvisouly has little imagination if this is the best they could do to add a new post. And only 13 pages of people commenting... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Would you wait till marriage to have sex? Posted: 10/10/2008 6:18:15 PM
I think ity's a great idea. That way, if you are completely physically/sexually incompatible, you can spend the rest of your days whining and ****ing about it and can slowly evolve into a very unhappy and jaded old phogey, just like our parents and grand parents and great grandparents did. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex? Posted: 10/10/2008 6:13:12 PM
I've had sex with probably 250 or more women. I'd say about 200 or more of them were American. All I have to say is this: Where in the name of all that is holy are you when the short guys are whining about women not liking short guys? Take heart all you little fellas! Phuck holds the key. I smell a tell-all book in the making! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Was I being arrogant?? Posted: 10/10/2008 2:28:45 PM
Something just doesn't smell right to me. But all I really want to know is how you went from living in a shelter to having money to burn in a few years. Perhaps we could get that story on paper. I smell self-help gold! Congrats and thanks for giving guys a good name by taking the high road when you could have done otherwise... Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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Confused! Is she just not interested? Posted: 10/10/2008 2:20:11 PM
I am definitely mising something here. Who says you have to 'text/call' everyday. Hell, if someone expected me to continuously text/call/email/whatever everyday , especially when I was just beginning to date them, I'd take that as some sort of warning flag. As for the trying to figure out when to maike your move, jeez-us man, give the girl a chance. Unless you guys got to know each other electronically for a long time, ya gotta give the girl at leastg 5 dates to come across. Hell, I ALWYS warn women to wait for 5 dates. It's enough to shake all but the very best of the players. Chill bro. You are making something of nothing. Be the patient bull! Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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The WHole He Opened His Mouth Thing Posted: 10/10/2008 3:34:52 AM
my question was serious, the idea was a joke. Hope it made ya crack up a bit. Cheers. To move through life as an insecure, narcissistic musclehead must be a worse way to go than simply being less than beautiful. To always be trying to say what you think people want to hear would have me muted in no time. Your response to one poster, as quoted, proves that perhaps you should maybe consider not talking so much. Your cousins were talking about young men like you that come off so insecure and insincere, no amount of working out will help. Squeeze a Dale Carnegie course in amongst some of those self admiring hours in front of the mirror and you'll be glad that you did. Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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E-relationships.... How I hate them lol. Posted: 10/9/2008 8:54:22 PM
e-Well e-said OMTWF. Couldn;t have said it better myself. Dear lord, what is the world coming to when you can have an entire relationship complete with ups and downs electronically without ever meeting! Sounds like getting all the downsides of a relationship without the upside. Thanks but no e-thanks. e-Chaz

Chaz Brown

Joined: 10/6/2008

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peeping Tom Posted: 10/9/2008 8:45:22 PM
There is no accurate way to track people viewing your profile. If someone is getting bent out of shape over your doing that, they have no real basis for their less-than-civility. Why would you want to be friends with someone like that? Chaz

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