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Would you relocate ? Posted: 9/6/2006 2:15:22 PM
Depends on the country and on the connection I felt with the person. I won't say that I would move "anywhere" but I "may" move to a different place if I felt there was something deep b/t me and that person.

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Should a girl ask a guy for marriage? Posted: 9/6/2006 2:11:28 PM
Never - That is the man's job! If the man cannot pick up the clues and does not ask you - the lady, then he obviously does not have the nerve or the courage to pursue something like marriage!

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Much Older People Seeking Younger People. Posted: 7/25/2006 11:52:37 PM
For me - the main reason I am selective with my age range is beacuse I feel alot of pressure from my family. I know for a fact that they would disapprove if I dated a 40 or 50 year old man. My mother would go on about how they are a "Sick F**K" who is just wanting to "Take advantage of me". Because of this pressure from my mother I tend to look for guys between 25 and 35. Personally - I do not believe men under 25 are ready to "settle down".

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virginity.....should it really be a big deal? Posted: 7/25/2006 11:47:41 PM
I started a forum about "what men think of virgins?" (esp. if they are over 25). I could not believe the amount of negative reponses I got about guys saying that they would not date a virgin or other negative things. My only comment that I addressed to those men AND ANYONE who thinks this way in general is: "WE WERE ALL VIRGINS AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIVES!! We all had our virginity to lose and if you think you are better than another person because you lost it prior to the age of 25 - YOU ARE NOT!!" For me judging a "Virgin" based on their "age" is just PURE DISCRIMINATION!! What I say to all Virgins (Men & Women) is: "TREASURE YOUR VIRGINITY and YOUR BODY! Don't feel pressured to lose it just because of the way society thinks!"

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 7/25/2006 11:37:16 PM
It's not about how much money or status u can acquire, it's about relationships, with those you are surrounded by and those u meet along the way Part of life I agree would be to find out your "God given purpose" - however, the things that you mentioned it is not about (see above) are all too often the focus of relationships - especially longterm ones when you are seeking your "soulmate". Money and education are all too often the top of the list. However, over my life time I have learned to be happy with "WHAT I HAVE". I am not consumed by money. As long as I got the few things that are imprtant to me (re: sentimental things) and I have a roof over my head (be it a one bedroom apartment or bachelor suite or whatever) - I am happy!! I feel that WAY TOO MANY people base their happiness on those things that you mentioned above. People just don't see others for who they are if they don't have an income - despite the fact that they could be a great person!! That is my thought anyways!

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How Do Men Feel About Dating Virgins? Posted: 7/14/2006 9:42:34 PM
I am quite surprised at the number of men who would not get into bed with a Virgin. This society is so judgemental! My only question to those men and anyone who thinks this way is: "Were you all not virgins at some point and did you all not lose your virginity at some time? So what the heck does age have to do with it?" - To me judging a person based on what sounds to me like "How old they are when they are a virgin" (i.e. over 25yrs. old) is just DISCRIMINATORY!! Do You HONESTLY think because You lost your virginity prior to the age of twenty-five that you are better than another person? - I don't! Also - Keep in mind that alot of Virgins also masturbate and have toys and know how to pleasure themselves. Some also watch erotic films and some do phone sex & other things. So DON'T assume that just because a woman is a "Virgin" that she doesn't "Know how" to please herself. I would say that "Some (I DIDN'T SAY ALL) Virgin Women" who masturbate probably know more about how to please themselves than "some" of you men who have ladies to please.

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 7/14/2006 9:23:23 PM
In order to be "Happy" you need to have good/stable "Mental Health" (re: not be a depressed person). So your "Health" DOES play a factor in how happy you are! Health is NOT Only "Physical", but it is also "Mental" ! That is why "Health" is most important to me - b/c without good "Mental & Physical Health" then I won't have happiness, I may not live long, I may suffer depending on my physical or mental health, I will never find true love (if I am not mentally happy with myself - thank goodness I am). - ALL OF THIS TIES IN WITH YOUR "HEALTH" & THAT'S WHY IT IS #1 ON MY LIST!!

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HELP!!! Top 10 most aggressive dogs????? Posted: 7/8/2006 9:50:16 AM
I have owned Rottweilers and German Shepards and ALL of them have been very good with people - INCLUDING strangers. I feel the German Shepards get a "bad rap" b/c they are used so much as "attack dogs" in law inforcement and other places. However, they are "TRAINED" to be aggressive and "Naturally" are NOT! - My family used to breed them too. I have seen many husky's from strangers (while walking in the park) and they seem for the most part to be a nice breed too. The BREEDS that I WOULD NOT GET b/c of how "NATURALLY" aggressive they can be are: -Doberman Pincher -Pitbull -Boxer (I know somebody who had their face ripped off by one) I will leave on this note though. NO MATTER WHAT BREED (good/bad) - There are always going to be a couple "bad apples".

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IMPORTANT - When Do You Want To Be Told??? Posted: 7/7/2006 7:13:27 PM
Hello - Question for all the men out there... Suppose you have messaged a woman several times, met up with them and chatted. To all accounts they seem "perfectly heathy". Then you find out that they have some type of "physical condition" (for example: diabetes, epilepsy, rheumatiod arthitis, etc...) that you Could NOT see from the outside.... QUESTION: Would you be upset at the woman for NOT "being upfront" about their condition to you And "WHEN" Do You Expect A Women Should devulge this type of information to you (re: first email, first date, etc...)??? *** In my opinion... I am alright with meeting a guy a few times before he tells me anything personal regarding their health.

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How Do Men Feel About Dating Virgins? Posted: 7/6/2006 7:15:32 PM
Just wondering how men in general feel about dating a woman who is a virgin (especially when they are over 25)? How many men believe the woman when they tell you that their a "virgin"?

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 7/5/2006 9:28:02 PM
The second most important thing that I value in life would have to be my family (being that "health" is #1 on my list). What about everyone else?

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Do Alcoholics Choose To Drink? Posted: 7/5/2006 9:25:23 PM
I disagree with you Eurocanadian about alcoholism being a "sickness". As I mentioned before I do know somebody very well who is an alcoholic. I do believe that genetics DO play a role as to "whether or not you will be prone to become an alcoholic", however in terms of actually controlling your drinking and quitting - that is a choice. Alot of alcoholics in my opinions are people with very low self esteem or who are in a great deal of mental/emotional pain and use the alcohol to escape from their REAL issues! As YOU yourself said "Eurocanadian" - you "have given up booze" AND THAT WAS A CHOICE! P.S. - Good for you for doing that and "making that choice"!

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Do Alcoholics Choose To Drink? Posted: 5/26/2006 10:26:27 AM
Do you feel that an alcoholic chooses to get drunk every night? Do you feel that they know the difference between drinking smart and drinking stupid? Or do you feel that they have no control over their drinking? I personally feel that every person knows the difference between right and wrong (and I know an alcoholic personally) and I feel that alcoholics choose to drink themselves stupid. How else can you explain all the "Recovered Alcoholics" - Those people had to CHOOSE to make a choice to get better!

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Are Pets Intuitive?? Posted: 5/26/2006 10:13:52 AM
Do you feel that Pets (i.e. Dogs, Cats or other pets) are intuitive to their owners feelings? Do you feel that the pet can sense when their owner is feeling "blue" or "upset" and can also sense when their owner is having a "good day"? Do you know of a pet that could predict an "Event" before it happened? Do you have any specific examples of pets you owned that were intuitive in this way or other ways?

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 5/21/2006 11:45:29 PM
How can you POSSIBLY as you "Pablo_El_Diablo" state as "The most important thing in life is to leave this world better off than it was before you got here." - How can you POSSIBLY do this if you do NOT have Good Health on your side????? I agree that what you said would be ideal too. But overall Health is definately More Important in the grand scheme of things, because without Good Physical and Mental Health you cannot do anything (or almost nothing - especially things like you Pablo are talking about)!!!

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Anyone Recieved A Marriage Proposal??? Posted: 5/20/2006 7:04:51 PM
Definately NOT!! I NEVER accepted any of these marriage proposals! I happen to agree with alot of you members who have stated that "most of these people who 'propose' are just trying to get into Canada or the U.S.A. to get a Greencard!" I would NEVER marry somebody I have not met and that I do not know well. I would have to know a Man for "Quite a While" and something about his background, family and lifestyle and I would have to feel a connection IN PERSON before I accept any sort of marriage proposal. I just think it is funny what some people send to others like myself is all. I feel like some of these foreigner's who send me these mail messages must be real despirate to get into North America that they will do anything and tell me any kind of B.S. - then when they get into North America, they probably will dump me (is my guess)!

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Who is Your favorite Figure Skater? Posted: 5/20/2006 4:26:30 PM
"Both Brian & Elisabeth Manley were ripped off in '88..." I totally agree with this comment!! Brian Orser was in First Place going into the long program and lost the Gold because he missed one jump. Liz Manley had a perfect performance and Many of Katerina Witt's attempted Triples were reduced to Doubles in her loong program. Liz was third going into the long but the only reason she lost Gold was due to being 4th in figures (which she was fighting a terrible ear infection and flu at the time) If it were under todays rules (re: there are no more compulsory figures) Liz Manley would of Won Gold!! I read a line somewhere that stated "A prior Olympic Champion is not to be De-Throwned at the next olympics" and I truly believe that is why Katerina got the Gold in 88' and not Liz - Because Elizabeth was the Better Skater by far!! GO ELIZABETH MANLEY & BRIAN ORSER!!

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 5/19/2006 2:50:03 PM
What is "The Most Important Thing In Life" in your opinion. It could be anything you think. Some examples are: Money, Being Educated, Health, Family, Sex, etc... For me the most important thing is Health.

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Anyone Recieved A Marriage Proposal??? Posted: 5/18/2006 7:10:53 PM
I seem to recieve alot of mail from foreign people (those who don't live in North America) telling me "how much they 'Love Me & My Eyes' and that 'They want to spend the rest of their lives with me' and 'If I accept they will make me very happy as a dedicated and loving husband and provide everything' " ! How many other people are recieving emails like this? Did any of you accept a proposal like this or meet the person or talk on the phone to them or respond to the email?

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Who is Your favorite Figure Skater? Posted: 5/15/2006 11:10:17 AM
Hello Everyone - My favorite figure skater is Elizabeth Manley (Cdn). She won the silver medal at the 1988 winter olympics in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. I am a huge fan of hers and read both her bios. My favorite men's skater is Scott Hamilton. My Favorite Pairs group is Barbara Underhill & Paul Martini (I especially like the program the two of them did to the soundtrack from the movie "Ghost").

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Masturbation & Virginity Posted: 5/8/2006 10:08:25 AM
I can understand how you may feel that dating a virgin may be difficult or aqward because of what you seem to feel is a lack of experience. However, my only statement that I would like to say is that "We were ALL Virgins at some point in our lives - even those who are the most experienced in sex - We all had to have our virginity to lose at some point! That is why we got a brain, so that we can 'learn' !"

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Masturbation & Virginity Posted: 5/7/2006 10:51:27 PM
I have chatted with a lot of people on this site who ask me about the "last person I have dated" and when I explain that I only went out for a few months with a guy but never got intimate - hence "I am still a virgin", they go on to ask me "how I can live with myself?" (re: sexual urges) and they do not believe me and soon after me telling them "I am telling the truth and could pass a polygraph to prove it" because they are so doubtful they disconnect the chat or never write back!! Just because I am 26 and a virgin does not mean I do not know how to pleasure myself. That is partly why God gave us a Brain and sex shops! Anyone had similar experiences?

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Hiccups Posted: 5/7/2006 2:04:05 PM
I have the INSTANT cure for the hiccups (But you must do it EXACTLY as I Say - and make sure you message on the board if it worked for you). Step 1 - Take a real deep breath and hold it while plugging your nose and covering your mouth at the same time. Step 2 - Hold the Breath for AS LONG AS POSSIBLE (Like until you feel like you are reaching the point of no return) and do NOT remove the hand that is plugging your nose and coving yoru mouth. ***I know what you are thinking I have heard this before (but there is more).... Step 3 (Last Step) - While holding the breath and covering your nose and mouth, once you have reached that point of no return, you MUST SWALLOW all the air that you are holding in without uncovering your mouth/nose or inhaling. (This sounds easy but it is actually quite tricky). DONE - Once you do this exactly as I have stated you WILL be cured!

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Would my profile attract someone? Posted: 5/7/2006 1:54:27 PM
I think your profile is great. I get the feeling that you have "convinced" yourself that there MUST BE something wrong with it. Based on the the replies you have got so far (incl mine) most people seem to think that there is "Nothing Wrong" with your profile. One man made a brief comment about not saying much about yourself and I feel like you took "His word for Gospel" when all the rest of us are telling you that IT IS GREAT!! My advice to you is: "Leave the Profile alone, Be patient - there is somebody out there for everybody! And have a little 'self-confidence' " Your profile is 100% GREAT the way it is!! You have to be happy with YOURSELF!

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Review My Profile Please & Thank-You! Posted: 5/7/2006 1:04:04 PM
Please Feel Free To tell Me How You feel about My Profile. If There is anything more you would say or anything you would take out please tell me. Also if you would change to the main profile pic to one of my others (Keep in mind my hair is Red now) - please tell me. Thanks Very Much. Also what you you rate it overall on a scale of 1 to 10?

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Profile review Posted: 5/7/2006 12:51:32 PM
You seem to repeat yourself ALOT in your profile. For example, form the top of your profile I already know you have dark hair so I dont need to read that in the "about me part". In the "About Me Part" I also notice you talked alot about what you want in a mate and it was very "critical" in my opinion. This part is supposed to be ABOUT YOU! Also having a profile that you state is "Always changing" is not something that I find appealing - I like consistancy! Also your interests are very vague - "Weekends"? - There are thousands of things you can do on a weekend. I am asking myself does this mean that you want to sit at home and watch television or are you into movies or the great outdoors (hiking, camping)?? Your first date is not very romantic either.

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Being Honest To Anyone Posted: 5/7/2006 12:28:58 PM
I feel like people are so superficial. Nobody on this thing is interested in getting to know "ME - THE PERSON". In my letter That I write to introduce myself (And I will not change that because they must like me for who I am and I have pics too) I tell Guys that "I am 180lb. and I am not going to tell you 120lbs when I am not (but I am working on changing that)!" Just because I have some excess weight does NOT mean that I am NOT "Intelligent" and it does NOT mean that "I am LAZY" or that "I CANNOT LOSE IT!" - Which I am in the process of doing now. You can always change your body - but it is alot harder, I feel, to change a persons "Beliefs" (A.K.A - Mind). And if you do not click intellectually that is alot worse!! PEOPLE STOP JUDGING OTHERS ON THEIR SIZE (they can change that you know!!) Also - by me being upfront and Honest with who ever you may be, maybe you should be thinking instead of "Oh my God - is this person lazy (or whatever)", Maybe you ought to be thinking "This person is Really HONEST" (something that not too many people are on this thing)!

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HAVE ALOT OF THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE Posted: 1/19/2006 8:13:43 AM
I had a cousin who committed suicide, then about 4 of his friends all did. This was about 7 years ago. I was 18 when it all happened. I for a period of time did not want to accept this. However, "suicide is a temporary solution to a problem". My advice to you is to go have fun and do things for YOURSELF!! Life is a "gift". Honestly, now that my cousin is gone 7 yrs. "Yeah - we miss him" but it is not like we all dwell on it everyday - LIFE GOES ON. So if your mission is to make others hurt YOU WILL NOT SUCCEED - all you will do is take away your life! If I were any of you's I would go and LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST!! Whether that means travel or see a movie or have sex (FORGET WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS) and just go enjoy your life!!

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