3rd date why..............

butt cheeks , I'm a sucker for nice butt cheeks

and the fact that i had nothing else to do with my time and money, lol

I want a gentleman in the street and a beast in the sheets and I will not settle for less! Hoo-ah!

But... I've been told I have a 'dominant' personality and I should seek out a submissive male... albeit this did come from a dude who offered to be my love slave.

spark just flew when we hooked up we were so in love he has never felt like this ever before and has told all are friends he wants to marry me and he is 48 and has never been married. well it was going strong exept i didnt like the way he still like to hang out with friends that went into bars so i would get mad and tell him i never want to see or talk to him again, he would cry and call me and tell me he loves me and to please just talk to him he would even come nocking on my door and i would just tell him to go away out of anger. he would still continue to call me crying and i would still not talk to him for days sometimes weeks.

I sorta got in trouble for this the other day, but I defended myself. Some women can best be described as "handsome". It doesnt mean that they are a lesbian, it just means that they are not exactly feminine looking, but they are still attractive...
Does anyone know what I mean here?
Can I get an Amen?

I did this thread before but it got deleted as the result of a troll. I submit it again. A woman gets raped by a total stranger. She did nothing to bring this on. It was a random rape. It could have been a home invasion type of rape or she might have been leaving the mall and was attacked/ambushed. Fast forward a few weeks and she finds out she's pregnant. She does the math and it cannot be her husbands baby. She decides to not have an abortion for either personal reasons or religious beliefs. The baby comes into the world. He looks exactly like her attacker. Everytime she looks at the baby she's reminded of the horrible event because the baby is the spitten image of her rapist. What about her husband. Can he accept his wife's decision to keep the baby and raise it as if it were his biological child or would he walk away because he couldn't live with her decision. The baby is certainly an innocent victim as his mother. Can someone overcome such an obstacle. Will the marriage crumble. How many marriages would survive such a thing. This is where the marriage vows come into play. For better or worse. How many husbands would stand by their wife's decision? How many men would stay only if she chose to give the baby up or have an abortion?

Today calls me at 1pm to give me an idea what time he is done work at. He asks me if my son is home, I said "yeeeeees" with an attitude kinda sorta, then he asks "so we're going back to your place tonight after right?" I said "ah noooooo" he suddenly says to me I have to go and I will call you back. Bah he called at 8pm and the phone rang once I didn't bother to answer it.

I thought for sure he was just being silly and testing the waters to see what my reaction would be when he asked the first time about staying over. Wow just when you think you've seen it all, you get another eye opener.

I've never tried a tactic like this myself, OP, but I could easily see it backfiring. Frankly, it strikes me as a cowardly way to go about things, and completely immature. I would hope that most grown adults were beyond this sort of juvenile tactic, but that's JMO.

She is all of the above. She is a pathological woman no doubt. Are you seriously considering seeing her again? She is psychotic and I do not mean that in a sarcastic way. It is possible to be a psychotic by being delusional and displaying her symptoms (because that is what they are) without being a shrieking banshee running about with a blade.
Stay farrrrr away from her, dude.

Another sarcastic load of dribble from POFs master flamer.

If you could change one day in your past, what...

The day I robbed that bank with the Symbionese Liberation Army!

He would crush Manny anyways...floys is too big, too strong, better defense and the reach advantage.

Mayweather has already started his bullchit calling out pacman. 50/50 is good. Anything else is unreasonable on Floyd. Pacman is focused and I like Floyd. Just want to see a fight.

I read something in a post where this guy said he has hit on girls in front of their boyfriends. To me there are some lines that people just don't cross - an unwritten rule so to speak and classless. Has this happend to you and if so, how did you respond. Is another persons BF/GF fair game when they are out together?

I am not used to this! I actually miss him during the week but it seems he doesn't miss me at all.

#2 - I feel like I cannot be comfortable around him now. I find I am walking on eggshells recently, because he has gotten upset with me over some little thing and then cuts off all comunication sometimes for a week or more! (i.e. - he got mad last time because I said I wanted us to have a closer relationship -WTF?!) He just got over that one, and we spent the weekend together but I was scared to even speak around him for fear I would say the wrong thing again and he would go silent on me.

#3 - Called twice yesterday. He didn't answer (as he never does), but he sees that there are missed calls and then he calls back (sometimes) not all. Yesterday he didn't call back at all. I waited until 10:00 pm and then texted him a simple hello. He replied with a ? (question mark). Huh, what did that mean? I replied to him that I would like to see him tomorrow if that's possible. (I knew it was a long-shot cuz we never see each other during the week). So, he replies "No- not tomorrow", no reason given. I reply that I miss him and asks if he still loves me?. He DOESNT answer at all.

With out man bashing here, I just don't get it.
What is the commonality of a 48 year old male, seeking out a 18 or 19 yr old lady.
Is it purely sexual ? I see it more and more on dating sites, Men in their late 40's saying they are only seeking 25 and younger. I know there is a core need for men to reproduce, spreading their seed sorta thing. Seriously other then that, why do men do this? Is it an ego thang.

With out man bashing here, I just don't get it.
What is the commonality of a 48 year old male, seeking out a 18 or 19 yr old lady.
Is it purely sexual ? I see it more and more on dating sites, Men in their late 40's saying they are only seeking 25 and younger. I know there is a core need for men to reproduce, spreading their seed sorta thing. Seriously other then that, why do men do this? Is it an ego thang.

OP... there are such men out there, and although they are a minority, they are still common enough that if you are looking, you'll have no problem finding them. It's just separating the wheat from the chafe...

He will whip mayweather. He's has power that mayweather doesn't have. I like mayweather but his retirement was a ducking of cotto.(imo) Pacquiao will not get fustrated floyd will have to fight not box.

Excuseeeee me ? Just because you can't get any, you think nobody else can't either ???

You're delusional pinky! DELUSIONAL You need to go out more, change your venues. I mean I understand you hangout with losers like yourself but come on! ~ It's 7 billion people on the planet, you think all of them are losers like you ???

Of course it is. How many times I told you! You lack the intelligence to play around here. You're hurting yourself PINKDRAGON...
Where is your lego set ? let's go find your toys...

btw..you start to creep me out.... I don't mind a beautiful female stalker, but a guy like you?!!?.Ugh! . .. I really don't play like that...

Times are changing, get on with it. Successful men with options don't need marriage. They get laid whenever they want. If they ever feel like having kids, time is on their side. I personally know many successful men in their mid 40s - early 50s marrying/having kids with women in their mid 20s - early 30s ~

It's the desperate women with ticking biological clocks, or desperate men who can't get any. Those are the ones looking for marriage these days.....

Rest of us are too busy having a life.... sorry...

When I was 19 or 20, "dating" was picking a girl up in a bar and taking her home for sex. That's all. I thought, given that this lady was closer to my age, that I was supposed to be a "gentleman." This "rejection" apparently really infuriated (hurt) her.

Who's your favorite past or present MMA fighter(s), and why?

(note: I didn't say 'best' - although, best is still a good reason for them to be your favorite)

One of my favorites is Fedor Emelianenko. He doesn't showboat or trash talk, and he gets the job done. Peep his record: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fedor_Emelianenko

Wish the UFC would get on board & hire him...

What does everyone think of seeing this statement in a profile? I know for one I would avoid contacting this person because by using this statement it tells me shes uneducated about the internet dating scene and tells me their paranoia level is at an all time high

The better question is how will Mayweather duck the winner. IMO he retired not to face Cotto. I'll take Pac in a great fight.

Sorry OP I have to raise a couple of things that makes me wonder why you would report him.

You chose to engage into a email conversation with him.
You chose to give him your number
You chose to have not one but two phone conversations with this person.
You chose to instead of quietly asking a Mod behind the scenes or to read
the report violation criteria which clearly states what can be reported you came out here
to make it public.

I am sorry I think you made some wrong choices here and well need to accept the responsiblity for them.

If you don't want to have contact with someone then don't block them. Don't give them your phone number etc...

IMO

I've been on match, eHarmony (GAWD does it suck!), lavalife, yahoo, craigslist...I like PoF the best, because it's free, tons of people use it (so better odds) and it has the forum.

The other sites have their share of nutjobs, azzhats and decent people, just like PoF.

It's classic. You're an ass, immature, mean and a jerk if the "receiving party" lacks intelligence to deal with witty humor. I find people who don't like sarcasm to be very BOOoooriingggg.... and slow.... mentally that is... LMAO//

Another separated man story. This is why I will not date a married/separated man. Until his marriage has completely been dissolved and he is emotionally available, I will not tread those waters.

I do believe you can love more than one person, but I don't think you can be "in love" with two.

But in reality, after all I've been through, I'm just OVERJOYED that I have not turned out to be a bitter vendictive **** trying to take the world for all I can get. I just need to find that balance of not being taken.

I appreciate some of the insight the posters have given, some of which is hard to hear, but sometimes the truth hurts.

I live and breathe on sarcasm.... I find clever sarcastic humor a HUGE turn on. To me it shows intelligence.
When stupid people try to use sarcasm, they fail and become "mean" ....

All women have a will of their own which needs to be broken. So in my view all women have a stubborness and pride about them which needs to be destroyed before they're any use to a man relationally.

I respect the hell out of a woman who isn't afraid to speak her mind. She can even "put me in my place", as long as she does so respectfully. I'm not a child and I will not be talked down to.

Reverse psychology... ballsy. I'd be too afraid he had the 'same' feelings!

I just love it when men refer to us women as psychos! Esp since I have never even contemplated half of the stuff in these stories! I think the term "psycho" gets thrown around too much!

A few weeks ago, after returning to Toronto, while I was at a cafe, she saw me and approached me. We both were polite at first, however, in her conversation, she hinted that I had over reacted to the whole situation. I don't believe I over reacted so I'd like to get some opinions about this situation.

Bad*Monkey, he wasn't a creep because he didn't like her... he was a creep because he had no social skills. Um, doh. And she has a bad picker. So the blame is shared between them.

But I don't expect you to recognize proper social skills given that you lack them...

When he got there, I was sitting outside on bench waiting for him. It had taken me almost an hour to get there. He looked awkward & nervous, & asked me, “Should we go in?” Incredulous, I said, “Um, yeah.” Couldn’t believe he asked me this, when I’d driven so far to see him. Very turned off by his comment, I tried to make best of situation & we sat down & talked. Then he said something about not feeling well, & we ended the date. Yuck, what a creep!

I have been reading these forums and have gotton so much food for thought , I really want to know if you met somone you was interested in ,and they said they are still having sex with there soon to be ex husband , only because they have always enjoyed it,that never stopped and it was for sexual pleasure instead of doing with out or waiting till someone you really like comes into your lives

The OP's fiance clearly has problems of his own creation and doing that he requires counselling for. His cheating has NOTHING to do with the OP or the relationship. He is CHOOSING to be a cheater. She is the innocent party in all of this.

scd....ugh her fiance has issues WITHIN HIMSELF.

Cheating is always the cheater's fault!

It's pathetic how some choose to blame the innocent SO.

This is a place where LOTS of grievances (real and perceived) are aired by both knowledgable and articulate posters as well as others who are neither. Does reading these posts now affect the way that you approach new dates? Good or bad? In other words, do you think that it might be easier if you weren't exposed to the experience and attitudes of the other fishies.

You date someone or live with them and the person marries the next person after you. You did all the work making someone a better person. Another person reaps the rewards.

Has someone ever jilted you??

I don't know what to do. I've asked her to leave me alone. I've blocked her on my e-mail and Facebook and sites like that where she used to be able to contact me.
But the egg incident? That's taking it too far now.

Any advice would be Greatly appreciated!

I’ve dated two women (not at the same time) over the last year. Both of them had strong religious beliefs. Our personalities clicked and we had a lot in common; however once the sex started they began to feeling guilty. Not just “did I sleep with you too soon” guilty, but “I’ve sinned against God guilty.” Then they broke it off because they needed to seek the Lord! WTF? I liked these women! I would have been glad to keep the relationship(s) going but I don't understand this feeling of "sin" they had.

I don't know what to do. I tell myself that I SHOULD do NOTHING, and yet--he keeps doing these things and I HATE it. The series of text messages he recently sent me (asking for sex or at least phone sex) were lurid and completely inappropriate--and while I told him to fvck off he shows NO shame at all (I've seen them both since--and he does the brushing against and "oops" and suggestive comments thing). It's like he BELIEVES that he's got complete impunity, and he's right because NOBODY ever TELLS her. Meanwhile, he's a deacon in his church and just as "pious" as he can be. He's very well off and I think that it's unlikely that his wife really would actually divorce him for that reason (and the fact that they have fun together and are of a certain age and she LOVES him truly)....but I don't know and I feel like she should KNOW that she's being betrayed.

I mean, right now we are FRIENDS, which is what I thought he wanted, but then he gets all jealous when I am seeing someone else and just generally still wants to hang on but not commit. He's alone all the time and doesn't date ANYONE, or even allow close friendships or close relationships with family members. I just wish things would go ONE WAY or the other, and he can't seem to do that for me. So I guess I just wanted to know if anyone has dealt with something like this, and what you decided to do.

32 and still living at home? What's the big deal? I think it's the smartest thing to do.

While I understand your perspective, others are not required to function according to your rules of communication. Terrorizing someone in order to coerce a desired behavior reflects a number of significant mental and emotional issues that might suggest why someone would simply end any communication and not provide any "closure". The only closure that one is entitled to is that which one provides for oneself.

I hate stating the obvious but umm...half the stories related in this thread include somewhere in the posts something along the lines of "I saw the red flags but decided to give him/her a shot anyway" sooo.....umm....

truth be told, the perverts probably equal out the flakely and fickle women.

Oooh had a psycho guy like that *shudder*
VERY hard to get rid of.