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 Author Thread: Have the seeds of Fascism been planted in America?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Have the seeds of Fascism been planted in America?
Posted: 3/18/2009 12:32:59 PM

It's been a while since I've seen a thread run into Godwin's law right in the original post.

This thread has nothing to do with Godwin's law. No one was being compared to Hitler. The thread and the article are about the circumstances that allowed a Hitler and a Nazi party to come to power.

Hitler did not start the fascist movement in Germany. He was picked by the wealthy elite because he was good at flaming the fires of hatred. Hitler just got out of control and ruined their long term plans, but they still made out like bandits.

In America, we have just had the largest transfer of wealth take place in the history of the world. Even before this economic meltdown we were spending billions in Iraq. For what? Because they had weapons of mass destuction? For our national security? Or was it to transfer wealth from the American people to the rich elite?

Does anyone ask themselves if we are spending all of these billions of dollars, who is getting it? Certainly not the Iraqi people or the American people. At the same time our wages have been declining, yet big business was generating more income than ever before. Then, after a number of huge firms recklessly loose billions of dollars (again who got it?) our politicians hand them billions more.

We have also lost quite a few freedoms that we used to enjoy:
Following are examples of freedoms which President Bush and his fellow Republicans in Congress have already expunged (as reported by the Associated Press):

* FREEDOM OF ASSOCIATION: Government may monitor religious and political institutions even if no criminal activity is suspected.

* FREEDOM OF INFORMATION: Government has closed once-public immigration hearings, has secretly detained hundreds of people without charges, and has encouraged bureaucrats to resist public records questions.

* FREEDOM OF SPEECH: Government may prosecute librarians or keepers of any other records if they tell anyone that the government subpoenaed information related to a terror investigation.

* RIGHT TO LEGAL REPRESENTATION: Government may monitor federal prison jailhouse conversations between attorneys and clients, and deny lawyers to Americans accused of crimes.

* FREEDOM FROM UNREASONABLE SEARCHES: Government may search and seize Americans' papers and effects without probable cause.

* RIGHT TO A SPEEDY AND PUBLIC TRIAL: Government may jail Americans indefinitely without a trial.

* RIGHT TO LIBERTY: Americans may be jailed without being charged or being able to confront witnesses against them.

I say that it is already happening here.

As for those who think Rush Limbaugh is a good guy. Do you understand what he was saying when he said that he hopes Obama fails? This economic meltdown has already caused real suffering for millions of people. Lost home, lost jobs, lost pensions, and Rush Limbaugh sits in one of his mansions hoping that the situation gets worse so that the republicans can get back into power. I call Rush Limbaugh a black hearted **stard!

This is only the beginning, times may get much much worse. I hope they don't, but the republican policies have left us up sh*t's creek without a paddle. There are no quick fixes that are going to get us out of this.

I don't blame the republicans for this. There are people manipulating republicans as well as democrats for their own selfish ends. Check out this series of videos:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ueEfRXZCVA

I believe the people who have been profitting from this see themselves as Greek gods dwelling in their magnificent palace on the heights of Mount Olympus while toying with us mortals. Their greed and their arrogance know no bounds. They will stop at nothing to keep the money flowing their way.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Have the seeds of Fascism been planted in America?
Posted: 3/16/2009 10:30:06 AM
After WWI Germany was in shambles. A newly elected left wing government was trying to bring restoration. The right wing, the same people who had brought Germany to the brink of extinction, launched an all out effort to thwart the recovery efforts of the new government. This worked and eventually led to the election of Adolf Hitler as Chancellor of Germany.

Could it happen here? There is a good article that states the case better than I at :
http://www.commondreams.org:80/view/2009/03/15

What do you think?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Letter to God
Posted: 3/8/2009 4:09:50 PM
Good one!!!

Messages this short may not be posted
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
The Penis Study
Posted: 3/8/2009 4:07:43 PM
I thought it was funny!
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Random bad jokes
Posted: 3/8/2009 3:55:57 PM
Dustin Hoffman told this joke on the Tonight Show to Jay Leno, I retell it from memory.


A beautiful woman walks into a pet shop. The pet shop owner is quite taken with her and watches her as she looks over all of the dogs. She doesn't seem to find one that she likes, so she moves on to the cats. Next she looks over all of the hamsters and guinea pigs.

The pet shop owner approaches her and says,"I've been watching you checking out the animals and I have a feeling that you are looking for more than just a pet." "I get the feeling that you are looking for a friend."

"That's exactly right!", says the woman, "How did you know?" "Well, I've been in this business a long time", says the pet shop owner, "And I've developed an eye for these things."

"Well what do you suggest?" says the woman. The pet shop owner takes the woman over to a cage with a frog in it. "This is the friend that I believe you are looking for", says the pet shop owner. "A frog?" asks the woman incredulously. "Are you serious?"

"This is no ordinary frog", says the pet shop owner, "This frog can perform cunnilingus better than any human lover in history!" "All you have to do is buy the frog, take him home, take off all of your clothes, lay back on your bed, put the frog between your thighs, and tap the frog lightly on the head." "He will take it from there and it will be the best sexual experience you have ever had!"

The woman is skeptical, but she buys the frog and takes him home. The next day the woman returns with the frog to the pet shop and she is furious. "I'll bet you had a good laugh at my expense!" shouts the woman at the pet shop owner. "What do you mean?" asks the pet shop owner.

"I took this frog home and did exactly what you said and nothing happened!" said the woman. "You must have done something wrong", said the pet shop owner, "It should have worked." "Did you take off all of your clothes?" "Yes!", replied the woman. "Did you put the frog between your legs?" "Yes I did! replied the woman. "Did you tap him on the head lightly like I said?" "Yes!" replied the woman, "I did everything you said and nothing happened!"

"Well, follow me", said the pet shop owner. The woman followed the pet shop owner to a back room with a bed in it. "Now show me exactly what you did" said the pet shop owner." "Right here in front of you?" asked the woman. "Well, it's the only way that were going to find out what went wrong", replied the pet shop owner.

So the woman stripped naked, laid back on the bed, put the frog between her thighs and tapped the frog lightly on the head. She waited for about ten seconds and tapped the frog on the head again. "You see!" exclaimed the woman, "Nothing happens!"

The pet shop owner picked up the frog, put him off to the side,and crouched down between the woman's thighs. Then he turned to the frog and said "Now I"m only going to show you how to do this one more time!"
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Sexy Black Leather
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:58:42 PM
Very funny!!!! I actually did LOL!
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Dr Phil's test....
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:56:35 PM
I got a 48. I'm happy with that
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Why Can't he cum
Posted: 3/8/2009 5:04:00 AM
He's not gay, he's not bi, he's masturbating too much. That's why he doesn't ejaculate much and has lost some sensitivity. If you can get him to stop masturbating for just a few days, I'll bet he ejaculates more. If you can get him to stop masturbating for two weeks, I'll bet that he cums inside of you.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Disappearing acts
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:05:22 AM
I think the disappearing act happens for many possible reasons. As stated already they may be married or otherwise entangled. The may be commitment phobes, they may have found someone else since they made plans with you. They may be players who told you what you wanted to hear in the hopes of getting into your pants. When it didn't happen they vanished.

One reason I haven't seen is ANTs. Automatic Negative Thoughts. I saw this show about brain health on PBS. How negative thoughts creep in and we accept them at face value even though they are untrue.

I think some people over analyze the date afterwards and start reading between the lines of everything that was said.

Also, it was said that some people just don't want to hurt your feelings. I think this can be true in some cases. This just happened to me recently.

I met a woman through my sister who had recently broken up with her boyfriend. We had 2 dates over a period of about 2 weeks and on the first date, she told me about her recent break-up (because he cheated on her) and asked (retorically) how many times she should let him break her heart.

We had been talking on the phone almost everyday and suddenly she stopped calling or returning my calls. I e-mailed her and told her if you don't want to see me anymore I will be sad because I really like you, but If you don't have feelings for me just let me know. I won't be mad I would just like to know.

She replied and wrote that she didn't think she was ready for a boyfriend and please don't call anymore. I replied to that e-mail: Thanks for being honest I promise not to call anymore (And I haven't). If you have a change of heart or you just need something, or someone to talk to you can always e-mail or call me.

I heard from my sister that she went back to her ex. I think she did like me and did not want to hurt my feelings.

She is a really nice person who is in love with a jerk (my sister knows him well, she set them up and he has hit on my sister several times since he's been seeing her).
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
What is the best way to get out of a bad date and turn people down who hit on you?
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:54:23 AM
I think you got some good advice here.

For question #1, I agree with those who said just meet for a drink. Whether it be a glass of wine,a beer, coffee, a soda, you're only "stuck" for the time it takes to finish one drink. After that, if there's no chemistry, just thank him for the drink and tell him straight out that you don't feel any chemistry. Wish him well in his search and say goodnight.

Make sure that you meet at a well lit (if at night) public place. A diner, a Dunkin Donuts, StarBucks, a bar etc. It's best if it's a place that you've been to before and the people there know you.

If you meet at a bar, go somewhere that's upscale. A place that also has a dining area and caters to families will have less seedy characters hanging out there.

For question #2, Turn them down politely the first time. Be more direct and serious (don't smile) the second time, and if the message isn't recieved by then, ask for help. No establishment wants their patrons to be badgered. Again, it's good to get to know the staff and managers of establishments that you frequent.

If they throw the guy out, do not go to your car alone. He could be out there waiting for you. Ask to have someone walk you to your car.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
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Do you think this is true??
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:16:14 AM
These are simply averages, based on a sampling of people who may or may not report their stats honestly. I think the high end (people who say they've had hundreds) and the low end (people who say the've only had one or none) kind of skew the results. Especially the high end numbers if they are way above the average numbers.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where?
Posted: 3/6/2009 10:32:11 PM
Check out this thread

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9841654.aspx

Many of the posters are women who say they squirt.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where?
Posted: 3/6/2009 10:15:44 PM
From what I've read, it may or may not come from the bladder, but it's not urine. It's very close to semen, except there's no sperm.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How to ask about oral?
Posted: 3/6/2009 9:44:53 PM
I think you should ask orally, as in:

Are you a cunning linguist?
How do you feel about going downtown?
Drinking from the furry cup?
Eating out?
Giving lip service?
Tipping the velvet?
Kissing the kebab?
Tasting the taco?
Munching the bearded clam?
Having a box lunch?
Having a furburger?
Dining in the bush?
Carpet munching?
Muff diving?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Jack Hammer Sex and checking the merchandise out
Posted: 3/6/2009 9:21:05 PM
I think you need a pecker checker or some other kind of erection inspection device.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 260 (view)
 
I hate it when men do this during lovemaking
Posted: 3/6/2009 8:40:02 PM
Did these guys pull out and masturbate to orgasm or did they go soft and were trying to get hard to contiue with intercourse?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 384 (view)
 
Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 3/6/2009 7:55:20 PM
As I read through this thread, I was intrigued to know what exactly this fluid that squirts out is. In researching this topic I found that it seems that it is very similar to male semen without the sperm. Interesting.

Also, it is thought that many women don't squirt because the initial feeling is that they are about to urinate, so they hold back and it never happens.

An article I was reading said that this holding back may be the reason that some women don't orgasm at all.

Oh the woe of those who never know the joy of letting go.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Women/Lesbians/Homos/Bi
Posted: 3/6/2009 6:14:28 PM
I don't see this one as a double standard. I think it is simply a matter of sexual preference and how our minds handle data. (by association)

A heterosexual man sees a man kissing a beautiful woman. His mind puts him in the place of the man and says, 'kissing beautiful woman good'.

He sees two beautiful women kissing, his mind puts him in the place of either woman and says, 'kissing beautiful woman good'.

He sees two men kissing, his mind puts him in place of either man and says, 'kissing man disgusting'.

He sees a man kissing an ugly (in his estimation) woman and his mind puts him in place of the man and says, 'kissing ugly woman disgusting.

He sees two ugly women kissing, his mind puts him in place of either woman and says, 'kissing ugly woman disgusting.

There was a skit on Saturdaynight Live years ago. These young guys were granted three wishes. One wish was for two lesbians making out right there in front of them. Their wish was granted and two not very attractive butch looking lesbians appeared and were making out in front of them. The young guys were not at all turned on but were completely disgusted.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Women question a man over 50 and not been married?
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:33:13 AM

RonnieSimo, I don't think you are selfish either. You don't sound like a "commitment-phobe," and anyone who hears how you've spent your life would know that you are very capable of commitment...you surely have committed your life to helping others. You sound like someone that is going to make some lady very lucky one day, when she finds you! Kudos to you for living such a selfless life and thinking of others.


spoken for,
Thank you for your kind words.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Women and Fetishes?
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:15:37 AM
I have a fetish for women who have fetishes for men with foot fetishes.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Women/Lesbians/Homos/Bi
Posted: 3/5/2009 7:56:14 AM

If you're still calling people asinine/outdated names, you need to revisit that Bible you speak of (or visit it and actually read it) because I don't believe it instructs anyone to be hateful.


You hit the nail right on the head. Yes, the Bible says that homosexuality is a sin. It also says that adultery is a sin. Jesus said to even look at a woman with lust is commiting adultury. Lying, stealing, being disobedient to parents, lusting after your neighbor's wife or his stuff, are all sins according to the Bible.

How can I condemn a homosexual without condemning myself?

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish but should have eternal life. For God did not send his son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world though him might be saved.

Jesus came to save us from the laws and rules that codemn us. If only "Christians" could understand this.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
LONE'LINESS
Posted: 3/5/2009 7:31:42 AM
Two of my relationships were with women who turned everything into an arguement. Even when I agreed with them, they somehow became contentious. Frankly I'd rather be alone than in such a relationship. I can be alone without feeling lonely.

Lonliness is a state of mind just like unhappiness. I choose to be happy and I choose not to feel lonely. If a find a woman that I can find harmony with, even better.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Scarlet letter to identify an HIV or AIDS carrier?
Posted: 3/5/2009 7:13:22 AM

Having a disease in and of itself isn't a crime, passing that disease along to other people because you're unwilling or unable to tell them about it for whatever reason is in a lot of places.

Tell you what, if you slept with a woman and she serves your cheerios for breakfast that she neglects to mention are poisoned I doubt you'd be saying "Keeping poisoned cheerios in your cupboard isn't a crime."

Of course it's not a crime, until you start giving it to people.


The OP wasn't saying we should brand people who pass AIDS along purposefully. She was saying we should brand all people who have AIDS and HIV. That's what I'm against.

As far as I'm concerned they should execute someone who passes it along purposefully.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
hardcore kinky ideas to do with bf?
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:28:56 AM

1) To all out there that said "get help" or "see a therapist" go screw yourself. You are not being productive and no one cares what you think thats why you feel the need to say it online.


So you're a member of the opinion police and you get to decide whose opinions are valid and whose are not?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Nose Pinching
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:11:58 AM
[qoute] MILF is from American Pie. Mainstream movies, not just porn.

Yeah, that's where it was first coined, but that was just two guys looking at a picture of a guy's Mom and one saying she's a MILF.

In these pornos, the 40 something women can't say no to guys that are the age of their children and there are many young men who think this happens in real life all the time.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 521 (view)
 
Can women really go without sex????
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:33:14 AM

AND i would guesstimate since I have been on here? IMHO at least 95% of the men on here are looking for ASS and the at least 3% are SUCKER FISH like you!

I guess that leaves me in the 2% then.


Yes women can go without sex but not longer than we can and for any lady out there that thinks im BSing well guess again we men do not say OK im going to have sex with you (whoever the girl might be), its the ladies accepting to have sex with us not the other way around, so the normal thing is that we dont have it when we want it always so we are OK, but oh man tell a woman that offers herself to you that you dont want any, and you will truly understand the meaning of the phrase "Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned"


LOL You got that right!
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
what kind of women advertise on sex sites?
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:18:32 AM
That would be expected on a sex site wouldn't it? People go there looking for sex, not LTRs. Maybe she should join POF.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Terrible headache made me unable to get an erection
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:14:11 AM
Did you tell her you weren't feeling well? If not she may have taken your poor performance personally and thinks you're not that into her. If you did tell her then she may not believe you, otherwise I don't see why she would be mad.

If you didn't tell her why, tell her. If you did tell her, there isn't anything else you can do except give her time to get over it.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Nose Pinching
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:07:15 AM

I hope the young ones don't think porn is real by any means and is what everyone considers normal behaviour.


Many do think porn is real. My 48 year old sister gets hit on by 18 - 22 year old men all the time. She usually says, 'I have sons your age baby', and has asked why they are hitting on her. Their answer, because you're a MILF. That's straight out of porn.

For those that don't know MILF means "Mother I'd Like To F*ck". These young guys think that older women will jump at the chance to have sex with them because they see it in porn.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Sex and Dating
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:03:31 AM
Maybe you should mention in your profile that you like to get to know someone before the relationship gets intimate.

Unfortunately many young guys, and even older men think that real life is like the porn that they watch where people are always hooking up immediately.

Be patient and know that there are guys out there that know that you are well worth waiting for.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 190 (view)
 
Scarlet letter to identify an HIV or AIDS carrier?
Posted: 3/3/2009 9:00:44 AM

Hmmm branding people? Can you say 3rd reich?

Not really.

Unless you're trying to say Non-Aryan people having kids is the same thing as passing around aids.

I really hope that's not what you're saying though.


What I'm trying to say is branding people simply because they have a disease would make us no better than the Nazis.

The OP was saying we should brand everyone who has AIDS or HIV. Not just those who are infecting people without their knowlege.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
blokes!! please answer this!
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:01:36 PM

We go to pray and thank the gods........[/qoute]



But seriously yes you can get a bladder infection. I got one once where I was peeing clumps of blood. Very painful and scarey. If it happens to you, Tylenol can really reduce the pain.

I wouldn't have thought it would. I didn't take anything for the pain, I just went straight to the emergency room. There I was given Tylenol butI had to pee again before I could have the presciption for the anti-biotic filled. I was dreading having to pee, but it wasn't so bad after taking the Tylenol.

Of course, Tylenol will not kill a bladder infection, you need an anti-biotic, so get medical attention as soon as possible.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Do women lie about how good IT was?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:44:24 PM

aww, a 'mea culpa' for all males? are you apologizing on our behalf? :)

not another "men bad, women good" thing?

I'm pretty sure that almost all women have pretty sensitive egos too, particularly about how 'good' they are in bed, and wouldn't want to be told they 'suck' or are shitty in bed..


No one said anything about a woman saying saying the man sucks or is shitty in bed. My point was that many men can't take the slightest bit of constructive criticism and that's why a women might lie.

Am I wrong ladies?
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 174 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:16:10 PM
I wouldn't date her because she was an ex-prostitute, but if I was inclined to date her anyway and found out that she was an ex-prostitute, then yes I would date her. I believe in redemption.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Do women lie about how good IT was?
Posted: 3/2/2009 12:54:36 PM
Thanks rain,

It's our enormous egos that are the problem. They are so big but yet they bruise so easily. That's the same reason we don't ask for directions.

In many ways were still little boys trying to be adults. Like the saying goes, 'The only difference between men and boys is the price of their toys'.

I suffer from it to, but at least I'm aware of it and working on it.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Do women lie about how good IT was?
Posted: 3/2/2009 12:25:04 PM
That's kind of what I assumed. Women lie to guys who don't want to know the truth, or to guys they don't know very well who are very selfish in bed so that they can get out of there without a lot of drama.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Paraphilias: Which Ones Set Off Your Ick Meter?
Posted: 3/2/2009 12:19:10 PM
Furries don't set off my ick meter, but they are very high on my WTF??? meter.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Fingering/manual?
Posted: 3/2/2009 12:07:56 PM
OP,
It's not about your bedroom skill or lack of it, it's about your eagerness to be part of the act. If foreplay is going on for hours, maybe it's because you are not initiating anything.

You don't have to just lie there while he pleases you, sex is an intimate communion between two people. Don't worry about what he expects. If foreplay has gone on long enough for you, say something like, "I want your****inside me", men love that.

If he's not hard, help him get there. Maybe foreplay is going on so long because he is waiting for you to reciprocate. Also, have fun, laugh, talk, make jokes. If he does something you don't paticularly like, good naturely rib him about it.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Do women lie about how good IT was?
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:19:16 AM

That's a big reason why I don't date young guys. They are useless to me. I need a man that knows his way around a woman's body. Guys generally don't excel until after 32. Before then, they are only concerned with their own c0cks and think porn is real life. [/qoute]

That is so true about young guys thinking porn is real life. I have a 49 year old sister that is constantly getting hit on by twenty somethings and younger. It's because of all the MILF porn out there. She's been called that alot and they think that it is a great compliment.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Paraphilias: Which Ones Set Off Your Ick Meter?
Posted: 3/2/2009 10:59:42 AM
Bestiality, pedophilia and necrophilia are right off the "ick" meter and way up high on the "sick" meter because they are all forms of sexual abuse. Basically they are all types of rape because they can never be consensual acts. Even if the dead person gave consent before they died, it's still way up on the "sick" meter for me.

sadomasochism, exhibitionism, voyerism, are more in the line of sexual thrill seeking if they are performed with consenting adults. No ick factor for me, kind of like a sexual rollercoaster ride. Hmm, sex on a rollercoaster.

Scat, golden showers, are more about humiliation I think. Scat has a higher ick factor for me because of all of the bacteria, but urine can really smell bad and is on my ick meter as well.

Toys are masturbation aids and don't even cause the needle on my ick meter to move.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 459 (view)
 
Why do women find sex on a first date so weird?
Posted: 3/2/2009 10:24:24 AM
Maybe many women just like to have good sex and they are intelligent enough to know that some stranger that has no emotional connection to them is very likely not going to care whether or not the woman is fullfilled.

Maybe for many women it is impossible to have fullfilling sex with a stranger. And since they are risking their health and safety, both physically and emotionally, they at least want the sex to be fullfilling.

Maybe many women would like to know a guy's name before they becomes aquainted with his anatomy.

Maybe many women think that it's their prerogative to decide when they are going to have sex and they don't want to be pressured to do it.

Yeah, I know, I'm writing all of this just to get laid. Not because my mom taught me to have respect for women.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 217 (view)
 
What was the best kiss you ever had?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:57:14 AM
The best kiss I ever had was with a lesbian. It was about 30 years ago. We were friends and we went out and got plastered the night before she had to go to rehab. I took her back to my parents house (where I was still living) and we swam naked in the pool. Then we went out to my van and started making out.

She was an amazing kisser. She had the softest lips and her kisses were so warm and passionate. Then we gave each other oral and fell asleep in each other's arm. We woke up in the morning and I drove her to rehab. I did not see her again for over ten years and that was just a brief encounter in a Burger King. I have not seen her since.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:28:57 AM
Yes, but then she'll have to let me teach her something.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Are most guys only into one night stands?
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:08:12 AM
I think that many people think that sex should be this wonderful magical thing, but when having sex with a complete stranger, it rarely is. That's why there are so many one night stands, because the experience isn't really that great so the search for the person who is going to knock your socks off on the very first night continues.

Having better sex comes by knowing your partner better. The stories you read in Penthouse Forum are ficticious. The very best sex is had with a partner that you're deeply in love with. Yeah a one night stand can be exciting, but most of the excitement comes from the anticipation and not from the actual act.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
One person clothed, another naked?
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:36:41 AM
Yeah, I think I'd like to try that with the woman fully clothed. Preferably in some kind of uniform, like a nurse or a cop. That would be rock!
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What do you all think about golden showers?
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:15:14 AM
Urine is antiseptic, so it's not unhealthful, but it can be very smelly, especially if she is taking vitamins. I don't get the connection to sex with this one. It seem to me that it's more of a humiliation thing. I haven't done it and don't think I ever will.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
We are trying for a child
Posted: 3/2/2009 2:10:02 AM
When people say "We're trying for a child", It's not to announce that they're having sex, of course they're having sex, they're a couple. The announcement is to let the family know that they are now actively trying to start a family of their own or to add to the family.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Wants to cheat. Do you?
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:51:10 AM
I know a woman who has had this happen quite a few times. She has many male friends and she is also quite hot. She always turns down their advances and tells them to be straight with their significant other.

Either be faithful to them or tell them straight out that you can't be faithful and let them decide if they want to remain in that kind of relationship.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Women question a man over 50 and not been married?
Posted: 3/1/2009 11:49:44 PM
I'll be 50 in July. I've never been married. I've fed, clothed and housed homeless people and people with drug and alcohol addictions. I comforted and taken care of people who were dying of AIDS. I practicly lived in the hospital with one woman for about six months. She and another woman dying of AIDS became my dear friends and I was at their bedside when they died. I now take care of seriously mentally retarded adults.

I don't know, I don't feel like I'm selfish.
 RonnieSimo
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Scarlet letter to identify an HIV or AIDS carrier?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:39:23 PM
Hmmm branding people? Can you say 3rd reich?
 
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