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weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

Orgasm Help Posted: 11/2/2009 8:06:16 PM
Being a guy, I'd say that your stressed or that your getting bored doing it by yourself. However, there are plenty of ways to spice it back up again. Take a bath, romance it up a bit with candles/soft music, or do it in a public place where no one is watching to get your blood boiling, or best yet, find some guy that you want to date/be serious with and make the orgasms better that way. If that doesn't help, try new toys, but...my guess is this: your under alot of stress and thinking about it way to much. Relax, masturbation = fun....not boring!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 313 (view)

On swallowing Posted: 10/21/2009 8:35:18 PM
If a woman is going to swallow me, I'm definately turned on! I'm turned on more though, to be honest, if she loves to be pleasured by me and lets me know about it. Kissing afterwards, either way, is the bomb, I love doing either! I can almost say its a must with this guy!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 76 (view)

sexually frustrated Posted: 10/19/2009 9:03:18 PM
Why don't you try another position instead of being on top all the time. Maybe that's the reason its taking so long before he gets one, thus then foreplay can be extended and you both can have more than one.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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For ladies, best/favorite position to feel your guy come?? Posted: 10/15/2009 6:18:25 PM
If it counts, Kaylie, some guys can't feel it either, lol. There's been times where I've been so caught up in the moment, that I'm all concentrating on my partner that we just forget about it and keep going!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

do men like getting more then giving Posted: 10/14/2009 6:39:34 PM
I'd rather give than receive. I get off on knowing that I can please my partner. Maybe I'm one of the few guys that can say that.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

sexually frustrated Posted: 10/14/2009 6:26:21 PM
Hey Irishrose7, I'm a guy that moved from Michigan to Canada, and I can verify that guys can go a few times at night or during the day. Doesnt matter with me, just depends on the foreplay. However, with my exs, they were never ones to give pleasure, so I was all about giving and making them and myself feel happy. Going the first time, good, but its awesome to find a woman that wants 2,3,4,5 times in a night. It's hard to find. My advice: Find a guy that truly wants to get to know you both on a personality and personal/intimate level and then things will come into place.(no pun intended). Guys have to switch it up a few times to get a few off, whether the position, who gets oral first or what "feels" right both on his partner and himself. Most guys think that going in the same position is boring (thus the people you speak of). However, the ones that can go a few sessions in one night, has to enjoy foreplay, lots of sex, and then foreplay again and exchanging of sex between the two and then sessions will follow. I'm open to talking more and helping you out, since us Michiganians have to stick together in these rough times. Hope I helped out and I hope you find the guy that can make you moan and scream soon.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Review Help Posted: 10/9/2009 8:37:56 PM
Can someone look over my profile and see what I can do to fix it/change it up? I have sent out alot of emails, but not alot of responses. Please help. I'm new to Canada, looking for people to get to know, date, and gain one relationship with that's romantic. POF is one way that I'm looking for this potential person. Thanks.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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help!! Posted: 8/11/2009 8:45:32 AM
TOO MUCH DRAMA! You have to ask yourself this: Are you truly happy with him, or do you want to find true happiness for yourself? Your young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Suggstion: Move on and find someone who truly respects and won't cheat on you.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

Do Men Really Want Honesty? Posted: 7/15/2009 6:48:23 AM
I'm looking for honesty, as well as passion, romance, attraction, but most of all: Love.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 108 (view)

How to you get your man to like giving oral sex Posted: 5/28/2009 11:20:12 AM
A woman never has to tell me to do that, since I love doing that to a woman. I find it as much intimate as making out or making love to her. In fact, sometimes I love giving oral sex to a woman more than receiving it. However, I said, lol, sometimes. :) Guys these days have to respect woman more, both in and out of the bedroom and enjoy making love to a woman in different ways, just like they do for us.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 344 (view)

Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 5/24/2009 10:12:28 AM
Things in a relationship that is a must: Trust, Honesty, Love, Kissing, Passion, Morals, Respectful, Compassion, and Loyality Did I miss anything?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 338 (view)

Is kissing a important part of intimacy??? Posted: 5/24/2009 8:11:30 AM
KISSING is sooo important within any relationship of intimacy or romance. It's has to be one of the most important things within a relationship that I have with a woman, behind trust and honesty. Making love is at its best when you have a great kisser kissing you back.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

What would the world be like if.... Posted: 5/19/2009 4:01:22 PM
If the world was like that, I would want to try to change it back to how it is now. There is nothing wrong with a woman that doesn't put out on the first-20th date. Its more on how your personalities match up and how you feel around each other. Sex is sex. Making love means soooo much more to someone when your in love and wanting to be with them through thick and thin, as well as in romance and intimate times. When I'm with someone, I let them know my # if they ask, its only fair. I know my # isn't high, and I like that, because it means that I have respected myself as well as the people I've dated in the past. Why lie?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 5/13/2009 7:41:09 AM
Personally, its the boobs that I look at after I look at the face and their personality. Big breasts turn me off, I actually enjoy a woman with small breasts. As to your other "history", I think you should do what your heart tells you about your fwb bf. Sounds like he is just using you and wanting to take away your virginity. I think you know that you don't want to lose it with him and you want to lose it with someone that loves you and wants to be with you. It's hard to be in a long-distance relationship, I was in one for 3 years. You have a great figure, don't let a guy tell you otherwise.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Brainiacs Better in Bed-- what say you? Posted: 5/12/2009 9:11:13 PM
Why do you need a twin, your intelligent as it is :)

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 495 (view)

Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor Posted: 5/3/2009 3:49:28 PM
So I have a question....if the Im Messenger has been discontinued, WHY do GOLD members have the options, that's messed up and unfair. That's no fair for the people that don't have a GOLD membership!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Bi-sexual dilema Posted: 4/12/2009 1:28:02 PM
Coming from a religious and romantic background myself, I wouldn't think that your being selfish. If anything, your honest and open with your girlfriend and your letting her know that you have a "thought/curiousity" to explore your sexuality with men. You may have been successful in relationships with men if those didn't attack you, but then you have to think that if they didn't do that, you may not be with your girlfriend now. Two ways to think about it. What does your girlfriend think about you exploring your sexuality with men now, even though your relationship with her is clearing present and good? Does her idea/thought about your curiousity okay with her?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Romantic Weekend getaway Posted: 4/10/2009 9:21:28 AM
I, myself, have not been there, but a few friends have. Look around the place to see if its "clean" before you start anything. Sometimes they don't clean the place after a party/the previous couple. Enjoy though.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Detroit Lions=Worst Football Franchise Ever Posted: 3/28/2009 8:08:41 AM
Detroit Lion's Fan all the way, doesn't matter if they go 0-16 for another couple years. At least I can say that Drew Stanton VII threw to ex-Lions son Charles Rodgers VI for a touchtown with Jason Hanson VIII kicking the winning field goal in SuperBowl 2105.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 895 (view)

yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 3/28/2009 8:05:34 AM
Never will I have a friend's with benefits relationship. It's silly to me, I'd rather wait and looking for someone to be serious with in a relationship, not just something here and there.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 54 (view)

Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 3/10/2009 8:07:20 AM
I consider myself very intuned to my sexuality and have NO problem pleasuring a woman before and after sex. I think its a turn on to kiss a woman after I pleasure her or she pleasures me. If I orgasm or she orgasms and wants to share it with the other, I find it truly amazing and truly romantic/passionate/sexual. It makes me want to pleasure her again, again, again, and again!!!!!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

Confused man, please help Posted: 3/9/2009 7:00:18 AM
Forgetting running or skating, take a bus or jump in a car!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

Gym Flirt only or Could it be more? Posted: 3/7/2009 7:26:37 AM
If its not on a date, you can ask him to lunch or to "spot" you when your at the gym. I mean, if a guy really likes you, your right, but lets' say this: If your at the bar, and you see a guy your attracted to, don't you try to make your eye-contact or flirtaeous manner towards him. Do the same with this guy, flirt more, or make eye-contact or do something "new" that he hasn't seen with you. I mean, when you gave him a small kiss, did he kiss back, or was like "WOW" afterwards?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Gym Flirt only or Could it be more? Posted: 3/7/2009 6:48:43 AM
If you like him, how about you turn up the heat and ask him out! :) I mean if your very affectionate/passionate and your attracted to him, be the 2009 women, take it into your own hands, and ask him out. If he says no, you have your answer, if he says yes, well, there's probably alot of those soft lips on your lips soon for you :)

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 294 (view)

Sexiest occupation (job profession) Posted: 2/25/2009 11:10:53 AM
Any occupation...since it doesn't matter what you do for a living, its the connection, but if I had to pick one....a woman that had a scientific profession, doesn't matter what it is. A confident/intelligent woman = Dreamy!!!!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

What little treasures... Posted: 2/25/2009 10:56:14 AM
Definately friendship and one that loved my goals ans aspirations. Confidence, beauty, loves to talk, and the little treasures, likes to walk around hand-in-hand puddle jumping after rainstorms, or just relaxing together on a couch, reading 2 books and taking every half an hour or so for a quick kiss and a hug. How perfect would that be.....

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 33 (view)

My gf is traveling with her friend for spring break = sex tourism? Posted: 2/25/2009 10:10:27 AM
Sorry to say dude, but you need to cut her loose before or after or even during her trip. She seems to not want to have a real relationship with you, otherwise she wouldn't be on dating sites or have kissed a guy at the club, or anything else you don't know about. It's her life, she can deal with the consequences, but you should find a woman that respects you enough to tell you the truth, not this one that lies constantly behind your back.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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when a guy calls/texts late ... Posted: 2/24/2009 8:56:25 AM
Sounds like a booty call, HOWEVER....maybe he's just getting off work from 11-12, some people work late, but it does sound like he wants to have some fun. But the word "fun" when guys use it can be used in so many meanings, so you might just have to go with the flow. At least you can always say NO!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 180 (view)

Open relationships... with feeling?? Posted: 2/24/2009 8:53:50 AM
Open relationships never work! Relationships only work when there are 2 people together, in love, and in great communication that want to be together with each other. Why have an open relationship when really all it is to date more than one person at a time? If anything, your cheating yourself and not letting yourself have a great relationship with just one person. Never will I ever have an open relationship, I'm not that kind of person. But to who has, float your boat.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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In Office Romance Posted: 2/21/2009 4:22:43 PM
I like a woman that I work with, but only been with the company for about a year or so. She's younger and only looks (I think) towards me as a co-worker. Lately though, I've been sneeking peaks at her, and I've noticed her glancing back at times, smiling. She's invited me out on the town a few times, but I couldn't make it with family in town or work the next day and she understands. What/how should I approach this, or should I forget about an in-office romance?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 931 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 1/9/2009 7:37:00 PM
Hey Krazy Kar, I can personally say that I'm that guy that you seek, however, at the time, I'm semi-dating right now. Just to let you know there are guys out there that enjoy giving all the time, and doesn't get any or if at all. I love to pleasure a lady when I'm in a relationship in any way, shape or form, especially this way. Hope that gives you hope for the guys in the future.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

No Sex on the First Date-Dealbreaker? Posted: 1/5/2009 6:02:29 PM
I would have to agree with Jamie....Sex on the first date is probably NOT going to happen with me, just because I want to be attracted to a woman over time, not wham-bam, thank you mam. If there's chemistry and the attraction is equal, I'll go in for a hug or a kiss on the first or 2nd date, but I don't put myself out there just for sex. I want to find that one that I can have a romantic connection with, and over time, make love to, why rush? Enjoy the moments you have that lead up to it.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 47 (view)

I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 1/5/2009 5:37:07 PM
I love to give 69 all the time, I wish I could do it more often. It's a thrill to do it before and after intercourse and to see her squirming around your face when your doing it right. I would enjoy pleasuring her more often but the concentration on her part is taken up as she pleasure me. Maybe I should just give it up and just put the pressure on her and give her all the pleasure ONLY so she can enjoy it and I can enjoy it after :)

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Night Club's Posted: 12/21/2008 6:36:09 PM
Night Clubs....an ex once told me this, so I hope she was right in some way or another: Dancing on the dance floor, one must have rhythm, whether with his hands, how he moves them back and forth(like trance/techno), or how one moves his legs dancing from side to side, back and forth, or all over the place, dancing, a motion....Anyways, the point I'm trying to make is this: To have a rhymth on the dance floor shows a woman that you know how to DANCE....not in anything else.... Dancing is Dancing, but it shows a woman that your confident in either knowing how to dance, or knowing that your making a fool out of yourself on the dance-floor. It's bonus points either way, lol.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

What's wrong with not wanting a relationship but wanting to date?? Posted: 12/20/2008 3:57:25 PM
There's nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship and just wanting to date.....I just hope everyone finds what they are looking for in 2009 and enjoys the holiday season with friends and family. On my behalf, I am single, and haven't been in a relationship/or dating situation in quite awhile, however, I'm happy with just hanging out with friends, and going on casual dates that end with smiles and hugs. I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, but waiting till it happens with that special woman.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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it is okay to hookup with your ex for sex? Posted: 12/20/2008 2:36:56 PM
An ex is an ex for a reason, so NO WAY!!!! I'd rather find a someone at the bar than go back to an ex, however, I'm not one to go to the bar to look for love, so I'll just wait till I find that one :)

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 872 (view)

yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 12/20/2008 2:13:24 PM
Friends with Benefits are DEFINATELY NOT the way to go!!!! Personally, there's no point to it. Making love/having sex with someone should be passionate/romantic/and sharing of expressions with someone you like/love.....not someone you want to just give away yourself to. I don't see the need for a fwb myself, even though I miss being in a relationship. I'd rather want to find a woman that wants a relationship, not just a fling or a fwb situation. The benefits of being intimate with your partner are AMAZING and many want that kind of attention often, however, being with someone that doesn't want a relationship with you......your giving into temptation and your desire to find that parnter that makes you truly happy in and out of the bedroom.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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A way to tell the difference between a woman being friendly and being interested? Posted: 12/20/2008 1:39:55 PM
I tend to agree with Kelley and Nan, take their advice. Coming from a guy's point of view....if you think she's being friendly or interested, just come out and say how you feel in a flirtaeaous way. If they don't flirt back, its a friendship, if they do, well, you have your answer. Best of luck this holiday season!!!!

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 801 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 12/18/2008 8:28:24 AM
I would have to agree with misshoney31...any type of kissing, oral sex, intercourse is a form of cheating in any language from most women and guys. Giving yourself in that way to another being(whether bisexual, lesbian, homosexual, or straight) is cheating if the other partner doesn't know about it or isn't involved. Cheating is cheating....how else can we put this people?????

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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How to make a guy cum from a b/j Posted: 12/18/2008 12:34:58 AM
Okay....so when your down there, doing him....what are you thinking about.......just take your time, dont rush, take your time, like he does with you, and it will happen at its own pace....don't suck on the head, just lightly roll your tongue and lips back and forth and over it. Use your hands too, but not too hard/soft, just help your tongue/lips with it, and massage his body too.....Don't look up at him and think you have to engulf all of it in your mouth, just take what you can...don't force the matter. Just close your eyes and wish it was a sweet-lollypop that you like slowly licking and sucking with a "pop" sometimes, but DONT let him put his hand on your head, and push your head down on him, just trust yourself and be confident in the good job you'll show him........Have you given another guy a bj before, or is this bf the first that you've done this with????

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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How to make a guy cum from a b/j Posted: 12/18/2008 12:25:42 AM
Question....has he "done you" yet....I mean, has he made you orgasm and your wanting him to enjoy the same pleasure as he is giving you, or does he force you/ask you why arent you giving him an orgasm during oral sex????

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 3 (view)

How to make a guy cum from a b/j Posted: 12/18/2008 12:19:59 AM
Take your time, make sure he relaxes and just think its a lolly-pop and enjoy licking as much as you can, whether deep-throating him, or just sucking/licking slowly on top.....Try to enjoy doing it as a woman, don't make it a "job" for you to do, you should enjoy it as much as he enjoys pleasuring you.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

I'll Try Anything Once... hehe Posted: 12/17/2008 10:59:43 PM
Try anything Once.....Hehe....would be to have a partner that wanted to go scuba diving. Go down about 60 feet in the carribean in the blue waters, be swimming with tropical fish, and then lie on the bottom of the bay/sea/ocean, in the crystal blue waters, and have sex th our oxygen tanks next to us and our bathing suits off with them weighted down by the tanks and us making love and kissing with taking a breath to take the mouth-piece at the same time to take a breath as the motions continue.......I know, pretty wild and crazy!!!!!!!!!!:

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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First times Posted: 12/17/2008 7:57:25 PM
So how was meeting up with a guy for your first time, stephannette? Are you two dating now, or was he just one you wanted to give your 1st time with?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 162 (view)

Casaul Sex with Strangers Posted: 12/17/2008 5:10:26 PM
MSG 153......so how's that guy you were talking about in your post lately...the nice one that picked you up when your car broke down? Any news on him?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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in love but horrible sex Posted: 12/13/2008 10:56:18 PM
I've been in this situation before....just lots of communication in the bedroom is the easiest way to tell and fix the problem. My ex...she had the same problem....and in the end, it was because she wasn't truly satisfied with her own body and didnt truly understand what she did/didn't like because she didnt do anything on her own. Do they have foreplay, or just trying for sex?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

pandora's box opened.... Posted: 12/13/2008 7:41:23 PM
Maybe he already knows....and maybe he enjoys it, and he knows you have a higher sex-drive than he does and doesn't want to "ruin" it for you. Maybe' he's being supportive of it...I know I would break up for you if I found out.

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

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Women geting help for sex addiction Posted: 12/11/2008 7:16:03 PM
Shucks...I guess I have an addiction....just like probably most people will answer in this forum. Masturbation is not an addiction...smoking , doing drugs, drinking is....

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

If the sex aint mind blowing Posted: 12/11/2008 6:53:33 PM
What do you call mind-blowing sex, Tink? What does it include that's different from making love/having sex?

weatherguy80

Joined: 10/11/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

How long is too long to wait before having sex while dating... Posted: 12/10/2008 10:33:04 PM
Your right, i took what you said and literally looked at it the wrong way without thinking it through...Wow...soo sorry. You are selective and I should have known that with talking with you a few times. You were sticking your neck out and I totally respect that in you, just was taken back from what you said. Your answer came out right. :) So what's going on the MD coastline tonight?

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