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Seren_dipity

Joined: 10/12/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Dancing Naked Posted: 6/13/2009 1:04:43 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CRjQKqZ4Dw

Seren_dipity

Joined: 10/12/2008

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WEIRDEST DATE EVER Posted: 12/14/2008 4:16:34 PM
kudos to Curvy, for introducing herself to Mom! and stepping up to the plate! My weirdest date ever: After initial 'coffee meeting'....he invited me out to dinner and selected a higher end restaurant, he arrived, sat down, and said,...."I'm very embarrassed......but only have $8.00". His explanation,.......long and short of it.........he thought the chemistry was there, and I would pay for this dinner and he would pay for the next dinner out. 'circumstances' prevented him from having the funds to go dutch, at the very least, apparently?, at no point did he even suggest going dutch. He fully expected me to cover whatever he might have ordered. Me: no deal.

Seren_dipity

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Dancing Naked Posted: 12/14/2008 10:36:06 AM
on that rare occasion when one is totally in sync, on the dance floor, as to be responsive to every slight movement of the lead while at the same time, being unable to anticipate what is coming next---to be in that space, where his heart is his self expression immersed in the music-----responding together in a soulful embrace is- dancing naked. dancing with one's clothes off---or the above, foreplay for sure---much more exciting the first way

Seren_dipity

Joined: 10/12/2008

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Witnessing Nature. Posted: 11/26/2008 10:05:21 PM
any species outsmart hedonistic human predator, the birth and survival of the nearly extinct

Seren_dipity

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What is a loser? Posted: 11/15/2008 8:14:12 PM
Who uses the word--loser? kids, from my experience. and adults following the example of kids? I guess. the prisoner or abuser, the homeless, the crackhead, the prostitute, the high school drop out: if they are ever going to see any progress in life, first they have to climb out of the tightly labelled box --Loser. Their loss is society's loss. People lose in general when they label. Why not limit the use of the word---to who is losing at poker? an actual game? not life.

Seren_dipity

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Grandma burns Herself - Cowardly or Brave? Posted: 11/15/2008 7:09:09 PM
sunsetsandbeer- if someone close to me, killed themselves, instead of coming forward and allowing me to assist,......I might look at that as being cowardly, in that they were ashamed to ask for help. is that what you mean? however, if I put myself in their shoes.......I'm thinking, they dont want help, they just want out because they cant see the forest for the trees, they only feel pain.

Seren_dipity

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What is to be must be??????? Posted: 11/15/2008 7:03:17 PM
I'd agree our purpose is predetermined, in a broad sense, with a predetermined learning curve, subject to short cuts or learning the hard way---our choice.

Seren_dipity

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How long must you abstain before having sex with another? Posted: 11/15/2008 1:21:48 PM
Being physically intimate, yet emotionally detached, wouldnt require time to heal. Seems to me, her involvements have been on a deeper level.

Seren_dipity

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What is to be must be??????? Posted: 11/15/2008 12:18:37 PM
Its possible to embrace both concepts: the power of self determination and of fate. Even forming an intention is a choice, which has a domino effect. A simply choice of philosophy can be a form of self determination. If one accepts that "what is to be, must be"---then do I become more passive--and less open to change? conversely If I believe that I control my fate, then anything is possible. I can accept that there is much in my life that was predetermined and but I cant say, what is to be, must be---because as long as I have the freedom of thought, choice and will, I can effect outcomes.

Seren_dipity

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Grandma burns Herself - Cowardly or Brave? Posted: 11/15/2008 12:07:29 PM
I dont see cowardly: in setting oneself on fire. Many suicide attempts are not successful and people continue to live with a very poor quality of life, alive but perhaps unable to do anything for themselves. People who try to end it all, don't think of that. So rather than cowardly or brave---I'd say her emotional state went beyond cowardly or brave. I'd prefer to look at the whole grandma and not take the simple way out and focus on that last event. Many people suffer from lack of emotional strength, motivation, depression, loss of independence....etc.......do they deserve to be branded as cowards when it all overcomes them and they take control? or lose control? whichever way you want to look at it.

Seren_dipity

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Does technology have a conscience? Posted: 11/15/2008 11:41:45 AM
We have gained the wonderful ability to maintain connection with people we know in distant places. That is definitely an asset. The initiation and development of relationships based on profiles; sure it works--think of all the success stories--but I wonder what the statistics are? What is the ratio of utter disasters : huge disappointments: new friendships: casual encounters: perfect first dates: love at first sight? I wonder. What are the long term psychological implications of all this? Deep cynicism among those that fail to find him/her? and then what? drugs, alcohol--or maybe a better game? In real life, if someone speaks to you---generally you reply. However it seems to be acceptable for many to choose to not respond, online. If you begin to throw out accountability, on such a minor level, then is anyone accountable, for anything, and is conscience being erroded?

Seren_dipity

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How long must you abstain before having sex with another? Posted: 11/15/2008 9:42:44 AM
I dont know what being Catholic has to do with it? Never heard "the abstain from sex for 6 months, between- partners -rule". Since she's decided to circumvent the sex within marriage --only-- rule that comes with right wing catholicism, it looks like she's manufactured a new rule that will be balm for her over zealous conscience? Likely she was intimate with the 60 yr, with good intentions and now has reservations----she didnt think to ask,........how important sex was to him? Whatever works for her, absolutely! Maybe she needs that time and thats why she picked 6 months. Is she trying to keep it all, from becoming casual and meaningless? If so.....I think thats a great goal---lofty but attainable for many. No one's perfect--the matter of her conscience and how it works is a very emotionally intimate matter--perhaps she could have been less specific about this 'rule'. too much information.

Seren_dipity

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Does technology have a conscience? Posted: 11/15/2008 9:22:12 AM
Have we lost something, in the way we interact, due to the anonymity of the communication mode---online? or does it create a means where people are more emotionally connected? What is your general experience and what would you change if you could?

Seren_dipity

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No good deed goes unpunished... Posted: 11/13/2008 6:25:06 PM
Righteousness is oftentimes far from good

Seren_dipity

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What side of the bed do you sleep on? do you know why? Posted: 11/13/2008 4:06:47 PM
sleep on my right side........doesnt matter if its in the middle of the bed, upside down in the bed, on the left side of the bed, or at the foot of the bed, or on the ground in the middle of a field, or on a beach......come to think of it, where there would be no sides, just like in the aforementioned hypothetical round bed----but there are serious circumstances which do call for a change of position!---maybe to turn on one's back or the not so favorable left side, with the accompanying placement of a favorite pillow

Seren_dipity

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INSTANT Turnoffs? Posted: 11/13/2008 3:58:28 PM
Incongruency----actions that are opposite to the image they manufactured of themselves Poor listening skills---go on and on about every relationship they've had over 20 yrs and lose focus the minute the conversation isnt on their favorite topic---themselves Make assumptions--- you're the game and they're the hunter Favorite daily subject---way beyond inuendos, that they return to daily, hourly? maybe early dementia

Seren_dipity

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The disappearing and reappearing load of crap Posted: 11/13/2008 3:43:04 PM
Figure out what "it "could step in, that will leave tracks! I dunno? chocolate pudding, vegetable oil?..............

Seren_dipity

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No good deed goes unpunished... Posted: 11/13/2008 3:37:15 PM
I wish that accepting that people's values and beliefs are different, was sufficient, for me to understand some people's actions, or lack of action. Accepting that there is no real rational may be as close as I can get. Maybe when the deed is unexpected , the mind grasps for logic......and ends up with----I must be guilty of something and therefore deserve to be punished.

Seren_dipity

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Mistakes Posted: 11/13/2008 3:28:20 PM
Sometimes the big mistake; is thinking that the mistake is a mistake. Ends up, you beat yourself up over it. ---which could be a definite mistake. Perhaps it was an absolute necessity, in order to move forward and make progress, or find a path that works---it takes time to put things into perspective. It could have been simply a catylyst. a little 'error' a Whoops

Seren_dipity

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assumptions we make on pof Posted: 11/13/2008 3:20:29 PM
*RINGS--I'll second that one! LOL

Seren_dipity

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My Intrduction here! Posted: 11/13/2008 2:55:10 PM
I'm Aline, been on POF for quite a while.

Seren_dipity

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THE Date! Posted: 11/13/2008 2:38:05 PM
definite red flags! pushy, inconsiderate, changes the time for the first meeting, at the last minute or insists on his own way for the place to meet tries to kiss you before or after coffee doesnt offer to pay for the coffee or the drink talks endlessly about the last woman/women in his life

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