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sly848484

Joined: 10/30/2005

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Child Support Question Posted: 12/15/2006 3:40:29 PM
you have to have a court order to pay child support before you can fall behind on payments in the usa. if you are not court orderd to pay ..then you cant fall behind

sly848484

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Molested Child Posted: 7/21/2006 10:33:45 PM
omg thats so sad . i would make sure every one in your area knows what this prick has done . expose him anyway you can . your alot stronger than i am . i would have killed that sob if he did it to one of my kids . . be strong and be there for your son. i wish there was somthing i could do or say to make things better but theres not . if you would like some one to talk with or vent feel free to email me . i wish you and your son the best of luck .................................................................................................................jeferey

sly848484

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Older, single moms Posted: 7/21/2006 6:35:15 PM
im in the same boat you are . im 40 and my youngest just turned 7 . people our age seem to have there kids raised or close to it . try finding or dating some one when you have three kids 7-11-10. i dont even try to date anymore. if i meet some one great if i dont o well . i still have my kids and that is enough for me .

sly848484

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What should I cook for supper? Posted: 7/19/2006 10:00:55 PM
dont forget the desert . strawberry short cake is simple and nice

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 9:41:23 PM
its ok broken wings. sometimes i get a little hot headed when it comes to raising kids and being a single parent . i work my butt off to provide and give my kids every thing they need . yes i even wash dishes lol . i know i will be able to concer any thing that comes my way . have a great evening broken wings .

sly848484

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what is the one thing Posted: 7/19/2006 9:32:58 PM
when our dog got loose and hit by a car . the dog stumbled all the way acrossed the back yard bye were the kids were playing and dropped to the ground . all three kids held him until he died a minute or two later . we were all crying . and then my boy got up and said can we burrie him now so he can go to heaven . i said yes and the girls agreed . the kids put a blanket , family pics , and doggy treats in his grave ,

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 9:14:30 PM
i dont hate any one. i just believe that all kids raised in a good loving home with 1 parent or two have the same chance at life and the ones from unhappy uncaring homes dont have as good of a chance . and yes i can be mom and dad myself and i can concer any challeng that may appear . i want to know what i cant give my kids that a mother could ?

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 8:54:23 PM
can i have the xtra ? so i can be a better parent to my girls ?

sly848484

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How many sinle parents have their kid or kids with no help? Posted: 7/19/2006 8:43:40 PM
my kids havent seen there mom in 6 years no family around either . i think its pretty commin

sly848484

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Right or Wrong? Posted: 7/19/2006 8:32:36 PM
i would have laughed to . all kids pee on a fence or a tree in there life . its normal . i cant believe that old b---h was that upset .

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 8:23:40 PM
i agree with jenni . tell us what we cant do. so i dont have boobs and jennie dont have a penus . omg jenni we better call our surgions and get boobs and a penus lol . some people need to quit reading so many books that are wrote by people who dont even have children .

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 7:05:32 PM
well if i was capable of having another child i would but i cant so i wont . when my kids get a little older i will probly adopt a kid or two . i dont believe a person should go out and have a child just to have one . butt if sombody really deep down inside wants a child. i think if they are responsable enough then they have that right . there are a lot of single women out there that are having kids and alot of them do a very good job . there are alot of single father out there that do a great job too. what pisses me off is that you have a lot of women out there having children that dont even want them . i think people need to use more birth control . not all birth control is 100% butt most of it is 99% . i believe that would help with the unwanted children that are born everyday . i tell you whats sad . the beloit memorial high school in beloit wi had to open a daycare at the school becouse so many teens are having babies . this is the kind of stuff we need to worrie about not an adult having a baby that wants one

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 5:37:53 PM
so your going to sit there and tell me your daughter would have a better chance with two caring parents insted of one ? your crazy . the chance your daughter has depends on you and you as a father . if you give your child a a good chance at life she will grow up to be just fine . you can do just as much for them your self as you can do with two parents. learn to braid hair go shopping and do girly things with them i did . talk to them about anything they want to talk about . i do . a child only has a good chance if you provide one for them . can you braid hair or do you know how to apply makeup when they want to dress up . i do all of this and a lot more . my kids do have two parents and there both me .

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 3:45:49 PM
i read your profile treeman and i dont understand how you can sit there and say that two parent kids are best . how could you even think like that ? are two parent kids better than your daughter ? i really hope you dont think like that .no kids are better than my kids . and i hope you think the same about yours . are you teaching your child that she would be better if she had two parents ? you need help.

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/19/2006 3:31:36 PM
hey treeman il argue you one point with you . im a single father of three . you stated that children with both parents are best . my kids havent seen there mother in 6 years . all three of my kids are happy and they are all at the top of there class . its not about having to parents . its about how the parent is and acts . if you have a worthless parent who does't care then there kids probly would have problems when they get older. 2 parent kids are not better than my kids . all i can say is that i hope you dont make commets like that in front of single parent kids . if you make remarks like 2 parent kids are better than 1 parent kids you will make the single parents kids feel that there no good . then people like you wonder why we have problems with single parent kids that are tought that they arent as good as 2 parent kids . its not about comming from a single parent life . its about the parrents themselves and how they bring the kids up .

sly848484

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Question for the men! Posted: 7/18/2006 3:40:02 PM
thanx skinnbones . i do my best

sly848484

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Question for the men! Posted: 7/18/2006 2:40:39 PM
i used to hate coming home from work and finding the kids in dirty diapers . the house would be a mess . the kids would be hungary . i allways gave her the benifit of doubt .i know its not easy taking care of three kids . so i would come home from work start cooking dinner and giving the kids a bath and after i put them to bed i would do the dishes and clean the house . it bothered me that she was so lazy . she left almost 6 years ago and the children and i havent seen or heard from her since . what nerve . i guess it bothers me the most is that she could be out there some were having more kids not to take care of .

sly848484

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Easier or Pickier Posted: 7/17/2006 12:03:13 AM
pickier on some things and easier on other things . easier on looks and pickier on who a person is . all i can say is that it would take a very caring and honest ...kind hearted . person to catch this fish...

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/16/2006 11:28:16 PM
sorry i wasn't talking about you Verygreeneyez . i was talking about just 43 . he acts as if a kid does not have both parents that they will have psycholigical problems . i think he has been reading to many books. sorry for the misunderstanding verygreeneyez. and thank you for the compliment cotter .

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/16/2006 10:04:56 PM
i just think its sad that people like you read a pamplet or a book and think you know it all. In reality the person who wrote the pamplet or the book probly dont have children of there own .

sly848484

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Single moms... Posted: 7/16/2006 9:52:56 PM
i dont know who you think you are and i dont really care . im tired of hearing that kids needs both parents . i have three children who havent seen or heard from there mother in almost 6 years . i am single and i choose to be that way . are you trying to say that im selfish becouse i havent chose to bring another women into my kids lives ? well let me tell you a thing or two . i had to give up alot for my children and i didnt mind it a bit . my children are very happy and all three rank in the top of there class . there sport oriented and they will offer a hand to anyone who might need it . just yesterday they made my neighbor some icetea and went over there and helped them weed there garden . my kids are very happy having me as there dad and they never ask about there mom . ONE GOOD PARENT IS BETTER THAN TWO PARENTS WHO THINK THE KNOW IT ALL .

sly848484

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What to do about the dead-beat dad eppidemic! Posted: 7/16/2006 10:29:40 AM
my kids havent seen or heard from there mother in almost six years . i think the deadbeat parrents should have tattos on there forheads so the general public knows who they are or what they are. i think the general publuc would have a better impact on this situation than our government . ........................................................................................jeferey

sly848484

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So help me.... Posted: 7/11/2006 1:12:19 PM
every situation is different . i forgave my ex 2 times for cheating on me . i felt that it was in best intrest for our children . the third time she cheated on me she got cought and arrested for having sex in a public park . they called from the city jail to see if i would bail her out . i said no and i never heard from her again . its been almost 6 years and we havent heard any thing from her . i learned that once a cheat allways a cheat . DUMP HIS ASS

sly848484

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i have a problem!!! Posted: 6/23/2006 7:17:29 AM
spank his ass and stand him in a corner every time he does this. if you dont get him under control now you will have more problems later . he will be starting school soon and if you dont get him under control the school will step in and then you will have even more problems. i dont believe in beeting a kid but i do believe in spanking a kid ..

sly848484

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you wont believe this [why do you love your children?] Posted: 5/30/2006 8:40:11 PM
i want to thank you all for your replies . i will be helping with the class again tomorrow . ther will be 29 different people in the class . i will let you know if any of them answer this question . there were alot of great replies from all of you . i hope we will have some people in the class as smart as some of you . thanks again ..............................................................................................................jeferey

sly848484

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you wont believe this [why do you love your children?] Posted: 5/25/2006 2:25:54 PM
do to a bad car accident a few weeks ago ive been off from work .so i decided to volenter some of my time to a program called PACT (PARENTS AND CHILDREN TOGETHER) its a required class that you have to take in this state when you get a divorce and minor children are involved . there were 18 people in the class and they were asked if you love your children and they all said yes . but when they were asked why they love there children not one person in the whole class could answer that question . can you answer that question ?i know i can . i would like to hear everyones opinions on this. ........................................................................................................................jeferey

sly848484

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How good mother's lose custody todays? Posted: 5/24/2006 11:55:35 PM
i read an artical about custady . back in the early 1900's the men use to always get the kids becouse back then the kids were considerd property . then in the late 40's the women allways got the kids becouse they were allways at home taking care of them ...and then in the 60's and 70's there was the womens rights thing and today women go to work just like the men do and custady can be awarded to eather parent ...

sly848484

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Wht are men not understanding of single moms? Posted: 5/23/2006 3:53:50 AM
i think a lot of guys look at the pictures and forget to read the profile ..with some people its not who you are but what you look like

sly848484

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Big Divorce Question Posted: 5/22/2006 12:32:14 PM
i havent seen my x in over 5 years and i got my divorce ....talk to a lawer and if you can prove grounds for a divorce it will go smooth ...im divorced and my x doesn't even know it ...lawer is the way to go...

sly848484

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Will Someone Please Explain Posted: 5/20/2006 5:31:44 AM
its really sad butt true . so many people will lie and do what ever they have to to get what they want . and yet there are a lot of people who will lie becouse they dont want to hert another persons feelings . forget him -and keep on looking..

sly848484

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How to get rid of a stalker? Posted: 5/16/2006 4:31:30 PM
first tell him to leave you alone . and then keep a notebook with the time and dates that he contacts you .keep a record of everything he says .. and make your local police department a ware of it . keep all of your doors and windows locked when your sleeping .and dont go for walks a lone in the dark. be carefull and alert ....

sly848484

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/12/2006 8:04:15 PM
HAPPY MOTHERSDAY TO ALL OF THE MOMS OUT THERE AND ALL OF THE DADS THAT HAVE THE JOB OF BEING MOM AND DAD ....

sly848484

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/12/2006 7:59:59 PM
my three kids made me cards for mothersday and on the card my oldest daughter wrote on the card i love you daddy and your the best mom ever ..i thought the card was very cute ...and my 7 year old wrote happy mothersday daddy ...and my 9 year old daughter wrote happy mothers day dad your the best mom in the whole world ...my kids are the greatest ...

sly848484

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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/11/2006 7:27:23 PM
i was in a bad marrage and i wont let it efect how i feel about getting married again ...you cant let on bad apple spoil the bunch ...i do believe one day i will meet a very nice person.

sly848484

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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married? Posted: 5/11/2006 6:32:04 PM
im 39 and some day i hope to meet the right person and get married again. i would love to find some one and fall in love. my dream is to find someone who will love me as much as i love them..i hope someday to find that special person to grow old with and spend the rest of my life with . if you fall in love with sombody and they fall in love with you . grab them up becouse true love is very hard to find ..

sly848484

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Are you lonesome tonight? Posted: 5/2/2006 8:41:42 PM
i miss having some one to sit at the table with me eating a piece of pie and drinking a glass of milk and talking about anything thats on our minds ..most of all i miss cuddling and holding eachother ......pie anyone

sly848484

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is it my profile or my kids or am i just that uggly ? Posted: 5/2/2006 7:47:35 PM
hi.i want to thank everyone for your inpute on my profile ....as you can tell im not really good at writing this kind of stuff ..i changed my profile and my pic ..i hope its ok ..plzzzz let me know what you all think and if i need to change anything ...once again thank you all for your help .........jeferey

sly848484

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is it my profile or my kids or am i just that uggly ? Posted: 5/2/2006 5:56:07 AM
i have been using this website for quite some time and never get a response .i just wondered if its my profile or the fact that i have kids or if im just uggly ....

sly848484

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Would you date a woman with a special needs child? Posted: 5/1/2006 8:38:43 PM
i would date a women with a special needs child ...i have three children and i love them alot ...i love all kids and i have plenty of love to share ...if i fell in love with a women i would love her and her kids as if they were my own..nomatter if her kids have special needs or not ...a good relationship should be based on love ....not convienance................................................................................................................................................................................................................................jeferey

sly848484

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mom bathing boy Posted: 5/1/2006 6:40:25 AM
i am a single parent of 3 kids ...boy6 girl 9 girl 11 all though i have never taken baths with my children i all ways had to give them baths ...my 11 year old takes showers bye her self now and has taken her own showers since she was 8 ...my 9 year old still needs help washing her hair and she calls me in to wash her hair ...she is now learning to take showers .soon she will not need help with her hair ..what im trying to say is .that every kid is different and as they start getting older every thing comes naturaly ...you will know when your kids are ready to bath themselves .....you have to be open and honest with your children..if your paranoid about giving them baths that will only make your kids paranoid and that could create a lot of problems when they get older...for axample my 11 year old daughter got bit bye a dog 2 months ago while walking on the bike path ...it bit her in the upper leg right next to her croch ....she came home and told me about it and took her pants of to show me the bite marks ..the dog broke the skin and i had to take her to the doctor ...what im trying to say is that if you make your kids think there is somthing wrong with giving them baths at to early of an age or seeing them nekked ..they might not come to you if they get hert or have a problem with there privates ...

sly848484

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what do u think of a single dad... Posted: 4/30/2006 7:26:55 PM
i am a single father of three ....1boy and 2girls....my boy is 6 and my girls are 9 and11 i am 39years old my kids havent seen or heard from there mother in over 5 years ...i find that most women my age are not intrested in a man my age that have children as young as mine... my kids are my whole world and if women cant understand that i have children then thats ok becouse .i love my children ...so remember if you have children then you have all the love you will ever need ...dont get me wrong ...but if the right women come along i would date her but i cant ever see that happening .....kids first women later ...good luck to you and your son ......jeferey

sly848484

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worried about my daughters going though puberty Posted: 4/30/2006 6:51:45 PM
hi . i just wanted to thank everyone for your advice and taking a few minutes of your time to respond ....everyones advice was really helpful ...thank you all for responding ...jeferey

sly848484

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worried about my daughters going though puberty Posted: 4/29/2006 9:58:47 AM
hi i am a single parrent of three beautiful children. my oldest is a 11 year old girl ...there mother has not been around in over 5 years .she abbanded us . my family lives far away in the state of georgia ..anyways what my question is ..i was wondering if my girls will learn enough in school about pubertyand menstro cycles .or if i should seek out help with this situation ....my girls talk to me about everything ..but thats just not one of my better topics ..any advice i can get will be much appreciated ...thanx for your time ....jeferey

sly848484

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How do you date when your children are your life Posted: 4/29/2006 9:26:13 AM
i am a single parent with three children ..and i also find it very hard to date people ...butt sometimes you need a break or a little time to your self ..i have learned from experiance if you need a little time to your self take the kids out and do somthing fun with them and then take a few hrs for your self ..it seems to work really well ..and if you have to cancel a date becouse your x does'nt pick up the kids its ok becouse a good person will understand ...as long as you do somthing with the kids they wont feel left out ...good luck to ya

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