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 Author Thread: Telling him I'm a virgin
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Telling him I'm a virgin
Posted: 7/15/2007 2:03:46 AM
Personally it would not bother me one way or the other if you are a virgin or not. I think the only reason it is an issue for you is because you are a virgin and sex is still some sort of mystery to you. Waiting till your ready is definately the way to go. It's definately not something to be embarressed about. Be proud
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
sporting
Posted: 9/2/2006 2:34:39 AM
Dunno what type of guy would back away. I guess sport is a release for guys to be themselves but geeze think of the lack of arguments over the tv come summer fella's!
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I WAS BEING HONEST
Posted: 8/20/2006 2:21:02 AM
Y not date yourself? Might as well get used to it now. If your on this site you cant have THAT many options.

I say ages between 21 and 37. If a 20 or 38 yr old messaged me I would still give them the time of day.

Start collecting cats love
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
How to find the good men that want .....
Posted: 8/20/2006 1:47:12 AM
And here here wullis
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How to find the good men that want .....
Posted: 8/20/2006 1:43:47 AM
1. I think the best thing about your profile is the honesty in which you come across. If I was in the same boat as you, I wouldnt go back and sugar coat my profile just to attract men. You have 3 children who are obviously numero uno to you. I for 1 find that attractive.

2. Anyone who thinks your pics are suggestive can pass my best wishes onto pope benedict

3. Your 24 with 3 kids. Its gunna get easier with every birthday. And its not worth worrying about the no more kids thing cause its not in your control and your honest about it. The guys can make up thier own mind.

The only advice I would offer though, is. Just cause you have kids and are honest about your feelings, doesnt mean he has to meet them straight away. Its hard enough 2 ppl without kids to get to know each other let alone 4 meeting 1 lol. When you do find someone, give it a month or 2 before bringing the kids into it. Softens the impact for him
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Would guys
Posted: 8/20/2006 1:17:15 AM
nope. u all get em sooner or later.
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
What are you really looking for When...
Posted: 8/19/2006 11:07:57 PM
Dude, learn to do the pheotal position whilst rocking backwards and forwards. Then next time she asks, find the nearest corner and practise your new skill
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Is it appropriate to approach a woman at a grocery store?
Posted: 8/19/2006 10:50:05 PM
It's not as simple as everyone makes it's seem. Right men?


Too true! I get up on stage and do comedy, and im terrible at it die regularly lol, but i'll die on stage in front of a crowd any day than cop a knock back... Hence 27 single lol
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
One Liners>>>1.What did the Penis say to the condom?
Posted: 8/19/2006 6:15:07 AM
I had 2 eyes, 2 ears a nose and a mouth tatoo'd on the end of my penis....... Cause I like pulling faces :D
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 65 (view)
 
What's the ONE thing you DO like about women? (Nothing sexual I mean)
Posted: 8/18/2006 8:43:11 AM
What I like about women is that they are different to me. They organise things that I think about but put to the back of the pile, like sending those xmas cards to family, or keeping in touch with family. Sadly men put these to the back of the pile where it is priority for women.

Making sure the oil in the car is new, tyres are right family is safe, all mens domain in the most (dont want to be a pig).

I love the fact I know nothing about them and im no worse off than the next bloke cause neither does he lol
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
The great lost love, if you could do it all over again would you?
Posted: 8/18/2006 8:02:42 AM
I would, but only cause there was so much I could have done better. Although the memory of last time would make it a big call
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Conversations with God...The Books
Posted: 8/12/2006 1:05:47 PM
one thing i have noticed about the replies is none of u have read the book! how can u comment on somethin u havent read? Dopes for even attempting it so I will disregard you worthless comments. worthless bloody worthless.

I dont believe this guy is a prophet, but I HAVE read his book, ( you dopes) and it gave me inspiration in a hard time in my life, and i didnt want to read it either! after doing so it helped me. What else is religion there for? dont comment on somethin u admit to not reading u dopes!
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
If you believe she is the one?
Posted: 8/12/2006 12:35:50 PM
y arent more girls like you. men r boys in the end. if we have to do it, we dont want to do it, no matter how much we love it.
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/12/2006 12:15:38 PM
Ketra, as a male i have no idea. The best thing a woman can do is tell us. Only way to get what u want. tell us 2 weeks in advance if thats what u want lol
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:58:25 AM
bad arss when is comitement time? in my case comitement time had stopped by the time i had evidence. what do i do there?
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
The infamous NICE GUY rant
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:52:53 AM
Bring in stephen spielburg what an epic! The reason men are insecure is cause we are made guilty by being us so we turn into nice guys. GIRLS MAKE UP YOUR MIND! WHAT DO YOU WANT A SENSITIVE NEW AGE GUY OR A REAL MAN! as a guy the boundaries have been smeared. stop confusing us for crists sake
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:17:19 AM
nope we dont, weve tried...... cant figure females out
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:15:27 AM
True true, my ex split up with me on holidays with her family on new years and was with another bloke that same night! Somethin tells me thats not where it started lol'
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 8/12/2006 11:10:17 AM
here here anzac
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:58:40 AM
I do stand up too. Jokes r just that.
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
just friends material
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:48:17 AM
Yeah it sux, I have a friend who has helped me through everything and she considers me "just a friend" I dont feel the same, our friendship has ceased as of about 3 yrs ago. Women dont mind having an each way bet, thats where the just friends phrase comes from
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
dating etiquette
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:37:54 AM
Im a 27 year old guy and even after 2 yrs in a relationship, most of the time, I would want to pay. Sometimes your broke and if its a relationship then its ok. but first 5 - 10 dates, man pays, opens doors, pulls out chairs and watches his eyes and language.
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:31:50 AM
most of us are faithful. You just hear about the sad stories
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
If you believe she is the one?
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:22:46 AM
Its not supposed to hurt, the reason is he's not that in love with u. Harsh but likely. When a guy loves a girl, he dont mess nothin up
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I LOVE YOU?
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:12:27 AM
when they understand what love is, they wont need advice
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Abuse
Posted: 8/12/2006 10:05:26 AM
guy or girl being abusive is wrong. Relationships r supposed to feel good. Abuse crosses all genders and relationships but has a place in none
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
How Do Men Feel About Dating Virgins?
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:58:10 AM
My ex was a virgin at 22 or 23 when i met her. I will never date a virgin again. She left me with the excuse she wanted to "experience" other ppl. I loved the fact that we shared somethin special, but not again
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
guys ...
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:48:06 AM
give me the fat chic
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 139 (view)
 
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:28:02 AM
Its the same reaction as a fly landing on your nose, natural reaction is to shoo it away. Guys like boobs cause we dont have em, its how the guy recovers after realising whaqt hes looking at that counts. Take it as a compliment if he reigns himself in, but realise he's a goose if he doesnt
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
One serious sex question-all perspectives appreciated!
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:23:49 AM
that is the funniest thing ive seen on this site lmfao
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
One serious sex question-all perspectives appreciated!
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:20:40 AM
its been 12 mnths, oral would be welcomed lmao.
But seriously, yeah i could i suppose, but i would really have to love the girl
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 63 (view)
 
nice guys dont usually approach strong women...why?
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:13:12 AM
I think the world is shifting, guys are no longer the confident world beaters we used to be (which is a good thing). If the lady is so strong, why doesnt she make the approach? What im trying to say is, the way i think, if a woman had interest in me then she'll say it, I feel almost guilty for approaching a girl in case she is attached or not interested or i just have no idea how to open discussion.

Maybe thats y im single lol
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
She broke my heart and my mind (venting)
Posted: 8/12/2006 8:27:09 AM
Mate I feel your pain. I was in a similar situation and I have not seen my ex for over 2 yrs. I still love her above anyone else and think about her daily. I have tried to date and meet new women but find i am totally unable to fall in love. I keep chasing that first butterfly that flew in my guts the first time i saw her.
Life is not rainbows and lollypops and we only have one shot at it dude. You just need to push on and acknowledge your feelings as they present themselves. I also isolated myself after the break up and didnt talk to family or friends untill very recently, if thats what works do it, your true friends and family will understand.
Its also important to take the positives out of this. You will never be hurt like this again i dont believe cause u will not let it happen. (that can also be negative if u let it)
life goes on even if it seems hard
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Are There ANY Faithful Men?
Posted: 10/31/2005 6:25:53 AM
I have known more women to cheat than men in my experience. I have had a few cheat on me and I can honestly say I have not done the same. If someone is gunna cheat they arent worth your time.
 nate1979
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 205 (view)
 
worst thing anybody said to me before they broke my heart.
Posted: 10/31/2005 6:20:11 AM
My ex fiance told me she wanted to sexually experience other people because I was her first.

That cut pretty deep considering I took that pretty seriously.
 
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