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Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 154 (view)

3 Months, no sex? Posted: 11/3/2008 7:15:19 PM
she's not sexually attracted to you. You guys are so deep into friendship that she doesn't want to tell you that directly and hurt you. Maybe something about you could have turned her off..It could be something simple. Compare her to ex's or friends in your past to try and find out what they all may have in common of you for thoughts. Or possibly something is wrong on her end and she just don't want to hurt you or have on her mind a dirty conscious.

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Do I tell my friend.... Posted: 11/3/2008 7:06:18 PM
She is your friend. You should keep it real and tell her. You don't want your friend to get played. Friends look out for each other. Whats the true definition of a friend?..There are many ways to do it. You can be more laxed in a way. I personally would just copy and paste the url from this website of your findings and email it to your friend. Tell her that you emailed her something that you stumbled across. Since this will be very sensitve for her I wouldn't give her an opinion unless she asks. I wouldn't suggest anything to her unless she asks..As long as you make her aware of what you found, you've done your job as a friend.. Sometimes the truth hurts and people tend to lash out at the messenger. Believe me she knows the flaws of this guy. Love is blind.

Joined: 10/14/2008

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A man who communicates his feelings... Posted: 11/3/2008 6:46:17 PM
You ever ask these women why they are running away or getting offended. Maybe you're to straight forward. You can try expressing your feelings in a more toned down easy going approach. Or maybe you are too real of a man that these woman are just not on your level. A real woman will tell you if you're coming off offensive or too direct.

Joined: 10/14/2008

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i just can't reach orgasm :( Posted: 10/22/2008 11:39:03 AM
Possibly it can depend on your level of attraction!? Type of penetration. Relaxation. Distractions? Time limits. You need to find out what turns you on the most mentally, and sexually then focus on maximizing that experience or feeling. Sex is a mind thing. Here's an example. Its sick, but here goes: Women that sell sex don't orgasm while performing sexual acts. Well most don't. Meaning their minds are not into the sex. They basically just go through the motions. Like a lot of female porn stars they fake it. The guys don't though. For guys not be one minute men while having sex they have to think about something else when the sex gets too good, if not you know..or just switch up. There are many different types of sexual stimulations..clitoris is one of them. You can still orgasm without having it touched. Deeper stimulation, and g spots are other other types. Some women experience all three at one time. To orgasm from your clitoris you have to have it touched repeatedly or grinding, etc. You can try an all girl party..You have your orgasm there..lol..jp I've been told by a 33 year old woman that she had never orgasmed until she met a guy that she was extremely attracted to. They had passionate sex and it happened. Try wine, romantic music, candles, toys...etc Worst case scenario you will need to see a medical specialist..Don't feel bad some guys need viagra!

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Sit ups vs. crunches Posted: 10/22/2008 11:00:44 AM
Sit ups make your abdominal section stronger, because you're lifting your whole upper body as a workout. Crunches are a lot easier because you're in a rolling motion, not really alot of weight on your abs. I personally think sit ups are better. It works all the stomach muscles at one time. You can get amazing visual resluts from both though. Crunchs squeeze the stomach muscles. Situps strain the stomach muscles. If you want strength then do sit ups. For extremist; use weights while doing situps. I like to do both. Crunches on my lazy days while laying in bed. Situps when I have lots of energy. I get much faster results doing situps. The more strain the more the gain!:modhammer:

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