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Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 338 (view)

Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:48:32 AM
Piratejohn At least she siad good bye, I admit an e-mail suck but it is better to know, then in one moment he is telling you he loved you and can't wait to see you the next day, to never hearing grom him again. I have know idea why he walked away.

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Msg: 297 (view)

this is for all of us who hurt inside, please read and respond! Posted: 8/8/2009 3:21:12 PM
Life after divorce , I thought not, but after several years, I discovered love again, just to realize, the hurt would return. So is life after divorce something reachable? I do not think so. Is this feeling , supposse to make me stronger, no don't thing so, it makes all weak and willing to do anything to fill the void that is not fillable.

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Msg: 91 (view)

If he says he's into you, why does he still look at other profiles? Posted: 8/8/2009 1:50:59 PM
Is my pofile better, did not even know it was changed..Learned lesson this time, if I get over this one, there won't be a next time, I will never allow myself to fall like this again.

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Msg: 318 (view)

I Still CRY at Night ALONE!! Posted: 8/7/2009 5:37:17 PM
I cry all the time. I can't go for a walk, without thinking about him. I can not sleep, I can not eat, I have lost weight, I can not watch TV, everything I do we did, and on top of that I due to an injury I can not even work to stop thinking about him. I wonder did he walk away because I am hurt, and can not do the things I could do. I can not even talk to a friend because all my friend left because of him. I know this is a fresh hurt this happened on 8/3/2009 he called we talked as usual, he said he loved me and I have not heard from him since, and it only Friday and it feels like a lifetime.

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Msg: 111 (view)

I've never understood the 'silence' method of breaking up Posted: 8/7/2009 5:28:32 PM
It would be easier to know why, then know nothing, or even just we are through. But what has receintly happened to me hurts too much, the day he decided to walk away, he called we talke as usual, he told me he loved me as usual, and I have not heard from him since. I wish I could give you insight, I wish, the heart could be replaced. Sometimes I just do not want to keep going and I ask myself what do I have to live for? Life sucks

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Msg: 282 (view)

Anyone else feel like giving up because of being unsuccessful? Posted: 8/7/2009 5:18:34 PM
I beleive giving up is all I can do, I dated a man for 9 months and the day that we would od been dating 9 month he decided to go his seperate way, I have know idea why, he did not even say anything,I heard from him at 9.30am we talked as usually planned to see each other the next day, he said he loved me and I have not heard from him since. I though he was dead or something like that and I worried, just to find out days later, he was alive and well. So I have know reason why there were nothing. I am so board with my life I get on these forums just to have something to do, because I can not find a light at the end of this tunnel.

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 1067 (view)

What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site? Posted: 8/5/2009 7:56:17 AM
it is time to run

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Msg: 111 (view)

who recovers faster after a breakup men or women? Posted: 8/5/2009 7:55:11 AM
I have found out that men move on quicker. It takes most women years after there first breakup. And men usually are dating with in a few days.

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If he says he's into you, why does he still look at other profiles? Posted: 8/5/2009 7:52:03 AM
good question, I dated A man for 9 months, got a call from a friend stating he was back on the site, she sent me the profile with no pic by my e-mail, it sounded like him but I said he would not do that. She sent him a message, he replied with his name and phone number, and told her to call to set up a date. She instead wrote him back told him who she was and that he was busted. He has not called me for days , not even to say good bye, and will not even return my calls. I thought about driving to see him but I decided without talking to him first, i could walk into something I really do not have the heart to see. So instead I opened up an accout of my own and started reading forums to fill the last 50 hours of my life.

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Msg: 38 (view)

if u don't love me why not leave me why stay and hurt me Posted: 8/5/2009 7:32:47 AM
I agree, why do you tell someone the day you walked out on them you love them only never to call again.

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Msg: 104 (view)

Do u believe in love at first sight??? Posted: 8/5/2009 7:27:59 AM
Yes I have, 9 months ago I went to meet someone off of POF, I was a little paniced , he got out of his truck and started walking towards me, he took my breath away, he was lit up like ,I do not know say an angel, he had a smile that consumed his whole face. He had a disabilty he lost an arm. But if I did not even notice. we talked and walkes all day. The time stopped we were together for a long time, and had a hard time going are seperate ways. That feeling never went away for me we were together 9 months as of Aug the 3rd then out of know where hewalked out of my life and left me with know clue that we were over. He just stopped calling, and will not return my calls. will there be another love like that I doubt it. That kind of love is going to be hard to forget.

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Do Cheaters Regret or Reform Posted: 8/5/2009 7:16:36 AM
once a cheater always a cheater, do they regret no, they thrive on it and when the get caught they just move on to there next conquest

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Msg: 143 (view)

How has your experience been with POF? Thumbs Up or Down? Posted: 8/5/2009 7:12:14 AM
I was on this site for 1 month when I started taking to someone, we met, we clicked (I thought), we even planned a future together. Then one day out of know where after 9 months, he stopped calling, will not return my phone calls. My daughter who really started to rely on him called his number to see if he was ok. A friend of his answered ask her who she was she said his daughter, he told her that he was screening her daddy calls because he did not need to talk to his last girlfriend anymore that she could not help him anymore, that I was know longer useful. Then this man asked her which daughter, she said her name, not very nicely, and he hung up. so what do I think about this site, it helps to pass the time when you can not figure what to do next, when you can't eator sleep. It is not the sites fault, so I guess a thumbs up.

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Msg: 103 (view)

Too much baggage to start a new relationship ??? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:57:51 AM
I do not know if I will ever want to date again, but I do know being alone hurts. Yea for me I do not know how I could start a new relationship because I will always love this man. Even though I was married before too a man for 14 years, that break up was not as hard. This on is killing me. But what can one do, just try to find something to keep tham busy.

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Msg: 304 (view)

Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:52:07 AM
I do even though he dumped me and could not tell me. I love my X and would take him back in a heart beat. He has had a rough life, lost an arm in a 4 wheeler accicent, got addicted to drugs and currently in a court ordered rehab center. But I stuck with him, and still be with him if he did not decide just Monday the 3rd of Aug, our 9 months aniversary I guess you would call it, around 8.30 am he did not want to talk to me again and he has not. He won't even return my phone calls. Am I foolish propbably, is he a bad man for it no, just broke my heart. So now I am this site looking at forums to kill time because I have know idea what to do with my time now.

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Southern West Virginia New Eve's Party...MY IDEA! Posted: 10/21/2008 6:51:01 AM
Huntington Sounds like a wonderful Idea, If you get it together let me know...people are already reserving places like this for New years.....

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Starting over Posted: 10/20/2008 7:39:17 PM
I beleive I understand the have too....People told me I had to find a new man...just so I could survive..But I did not even try.....I waited for years, bettered myself by going to college and setting goal in my life...only when I was mentally ready and my heart could be in the right place did I get to the stage of wanting someone else in my life...

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Msg: 64 (view)

Long Distance Relationship Heebie Jeebies...Is there hope? Posted: 10/20/2008 7:28:56 PM
Good question..I think I am working on a long distance relationship...In my eyes you are honest, upfront, and keep to you values. Take it slow and let your heart guide you....And if you beleive in the power of prayer.....PRAY

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Msg: 142 (view)

How to forget someone? How to let go? Posted: 10/20/2008 7:21:41 PM
It is hard in good and bad relationships. You pray, find good friends, and depends on why you split if you should remain friends..sometimes it makes it harder to let go.. Lynda

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