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Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

So why are u single we all have our storys!?!?! Posted: 6/11/2009 11:17:38 PM
Why am I single. I guess it's becasue I've been turned down by so many women that I feel like an old Bedspread......

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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the sweetest thing anyone ever said to you Posted: 6/7/2009 9:59:43 PM
Oh honey im going to scale your grades and then you can pass this year sweetie. Now that was one fine sweetie to me.

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Let's get naked Posted: 6/7/2009 9:51:13 PM
I like being naked. If somebody dont like seeing me being naked then dont look. I have so many scars that it just dont matter one onuce to me any more what other people think about me. Either look and accept it or just pack up and move on along........I have to live with all these scars from surgeries and accidents so every body else can or just go on and stay away if they dont want to accept me.....

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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So how have you changed over the years? Posted: 5/22/2009 12:07:44 AM
NO, for some reason people take a look at me and see something I dont see or know about me. So I dont feel like I fit in very well with most people. When I was a drunk and smoked I fit in with most every body. At the clubs that is. Now that I dont drink alcohol or smoke I dont seem to fit in with any body. Women that smoke and drink tell me I am a bore because I dont do either one of the two. I only go for women so I dont fit in with men at all. So no I dont feel like I fit in......But I like me and I fit in with me and that is what counts and think maybe one or two people on this site like me and I fit in with them.......

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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4 dates and they all used someone elses pictures Posted: 5/20/2009 6:03:57 PM
If you look at my profile the ol Buzzard in the picture is really me. If you dont believe me just meet me and take a look for yourself.

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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canceled on the first date Posted: 5/20/2009 6:00:32 PM
Yep got cancelled at the last minute. The next time it was not the last minute. It was a day before. Needless to say I just moved on..

Dead Wood

Joined: 10/14/2008

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do you remember being loved? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:50:26 PM
I remember thinking I was loved. It turned out that I really wasn't because if I was she would not have just disappeared on me...So no I dont remember being loved.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/9/2008 10:35:11 AM
I hate to burst your bubble Freeneasy but the post is not about you or your circumstances. I know this thread is not about me vixen. I was just explaining my cirumstances to so people would understand that Im not a moocher or looking for support from any body. Just friends here and could possibly be more from some lovely lady who may be interested in this ol boy......I don't have a bubble to burst any more vixen. I gave up on bubbles a long time ago. I just live and let live and be happy the best I can.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/9/2008 12:38:20 AM
I think Dixie hit the nail on the head. Where is this person's priorities, that's what comes to mind. I'm thinking, you're living in someone's house, you don't have a phone number yet, a bed of your own, you don't have a source of income -- how can that be a comfortable place to start looking for some one. To clear something up about this deal. I do have my own phone number, I have two sources of income, Pay the utilities bill, cable bill, heat bill, laundry detergent, toilet tissue for both of us, paper towls for the kitchen, bring her food home from restaurants and pay for it, and pay for my food. I eat out every day and buy the food I do eat in the house. I do share with my mother and she shares with me the food we buy to bring home. Mostly snacks that I eat at home. She fries everything she eats and I cant eat fried food. I have my own bedroom suit, three televisions in the house, one she uses because hers tore up, I own all the things in my profile pictures plus some things I have added since the pictures were taken, and I do all my own stuff. I do my laundry and most of the house cleaning. Dang folks she has her check mostly all to her self every month. Even though she can gripe the hinges off a barn yard fence and it drives me crazy as hell. I still live here. We pay for the grass cutting together and what ever else comes up. So there is no mooching going on here. I just cant bring a woman home with me to shack up with is the only thing. Not that I want to shack up with anybody but that is the only thing I cand do. Women can come here and make their selves at home. They just cant spend the night and run around nekid as to say. For anybody who dont believe I live with her I can produce pictures of the both of us for you all to see. You can see all this junk she has sitting around that is nothing but clutter to me. Useless trinkets she wont get rid of in my opinion. I have tried my best to get her to dump some of her mess but she wont do it. Dust collectors is all these trinkets are to me. But it is her stuff and her house so here it will stay until one of us dies and then it will go away as soon as my sister can load it into the trash or give it to somebody that wants trinkets sitting around on everything collecting dust.....I forgot to tell you she just took over my recliner and now she says it belongs to her. My son got the rest of my furniture except for my dining room suit. He cant have that at no price or reason. Price my ass he wants me to give it to him and I wont do it. I'm keeping it for me and who ever else want to sit at it with me when I do move from here. lol lol lol...... I might just go ahead and put up a couple of pictures of us so you can see what her house looks like. Pretty nice but small is the only problem. maybe you can even see some of my candy making in some of the new pictures if I put some up. I'll even give you my phone number and you can call me and watch me on my web cam at the same time if you want to. I have two phone numbers readily available. I dont think anybody wants them though. Heck the phone never rings like it is now. lol lol lol lol....... I have not made a habit of lying to people and using people for any reason. There is no need to start at my ripe ol age of 58. So for the non believers that is okay with me. The truth comes out every time and the truth is I live with my mother so she wont be terrified of living by her self constantly thinking somebody is trying to get in the house on her. When there is nobody in sight out side the house. She keeps the doors locked and chained with dead bolts because somebody is trying to get in on her. I have not found them yet but she is convinced that they are. When I move from this house I dont have a clue as to where I will live. Most likely close to my son and grandson and that will be in Decatur, Alabama..........

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Penis Bulge. Posted: 12/8/2008 6:43:12 PM
I do say I love for women to notice my bulge. I didn't have one until I got the implant to make it stand up real hard and fast and for going head first into that thing called UH UH UH ya'll know what I am talking about. But with the way that thang is now I can have one hell of a bulge or just a dam good one. I am very proud of my bulge. All you women can look at it all you want to. Feel free. It really stands out when I wear dress pants. I mean BIG BULGE ladies.....Talk about a mid life ego but it will sure give a man one hell of one them. It has me....lol lol lol lol........

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/8/2008 5:46:37 PM
Well, Freeneasy I don't know why you are getting shot down. It could be that you live with your mother and plan on being there till she passes. There are privacy issues where something like that is concerned and some of the women you have encountered could have looked at it in that way. You just haven't met the right person for you is all. All of us have our preferences. Hi again you good looking woman up there in Virginia. As for the privacy I can understand all that. She is almost 82 and going down fast too. I dont expect her to live a lot longer but then again she might. I guess when I ask a woman if she wants to go to Casa Blanca for dinner she might think this ol boy might want to spend a little time on his couch with me too. When I live with "momma" comes out of the ol lips I guess that might drive them away. I dont know. I never thought I would wind up facing this kind of thing in life. But she took care of me when I was down and I have to take care of her now. I just cant turn my back on her. Regardless of what a looker might tell me. I have to know that I took care of her when I look down in that grave and it's her casket I am looking at. So I guess I'll make candy and have a candy making life until something changes one way or the other. I'll pick my banjo and play my guitar and wonder why dont them women folk want to with me any more....UH UH UH I mean music. lol lol lol........

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/8/2008 5:35:37 PM
Good luck on that Lady Samuri. I begged my mother to sell this house when the market was booming. She flat refused to. She could have got a HUD apartment where my niece works and been doing fine. Them apartments are great little places to live. Or, she could have moved in with me. My sister says no she cant live with her. So, I wound up selling my condo to live with her. Now I'm stuck because she was to stubborn to listen. Her house is paid for and I can understand why she didn't want to sell it. But on the other hand I can see where she would sell it and get one of those great little apartments. I guess we do what we have to do and then take back up on our lives f it is not to late. I cant just let her fall down and not be able to get up and let her die in the floor simply because I refused to live with her. So life goes on until I croak and then life will still go on......lol lol lol

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/8/2008 4:55:38 PM
Aw class I didn't mean for you to think I was twisting your wrods to fit my life story. I was just curious if you would look at me the same way as that other dude. I read your post right good looking I was just curious is all. It could help me understand why I get shot down so much by women. Is it because of me living with my mother or is it just "ME" that women take a look at and sak. Who dug you up? lol lol lol lol........ I will surely be back out on my own but after my mother dies or I die first. Me first then I wont havae to worry about moving out will I. lol lol.....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Moving and Dating At the Same Time Posted: 12/8/2008 3:31:59 PM
Clasacat I am living with my moter, gainfully unemployed, and my priorties are straight. I sold my condo to live with my mother after her begging me for about 2 years. I am on SS and retirement income and I am really 58. She is not doing real good and is 81. Does that put me in your category of useless dudes that live with their mother. I'm dong real good now. When or if I out live her I this house will be sold if the market is right. My sister and myself will divide the income from it and I will get my own place again. Apartment, condo, or maybe a house of my own. But until one of us dies I will live here. My question is why would you hold it against me for living in the house with my mother and helping her along financially and with her falling down. Why would you not want to date me because of that. Just a question and not intended to hurt your feelings or attack you. Just curious as to why you would not want to date me because of that one fact of life. I will admit I have met some loco women through internet dating but I have met them in real time too. Just being out in public. Who knows they might even think I am loco too though......lol lol lol......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/8/2008 3:20:49 PM
I forgot to tell you daisy01 when I did something for a woman or an older couple or older single person. I never asked for anything in return. That took all the goodness out of giving and that is what goodness is all about. Giving and not taking. I learned that from my daddy at his little country store. Him and my mother grew up with nothing, ended up with lots, raised me and my sister on a silver platter, and was very happy. He said he didn't want to see anybody have to live through what they did. so he passed it on to me. I give my son my whole house of furniture last May. He got married, needed it, I was not using it, and it is his now. He called me tonight wanting me to get him a comfortor for his new bed. Well ol dad said "you got to come and get it. Dad dont feel like bringing it to you". Now, I'll see how long it takes him to come and get it. Most likely i'll end up taking it to them.....I love my son and grandson and daughter in law too.... I am divorced, I am divorced, I am divorced. My son was worried I would get back together with the ex. She was not his bio mother. She left when I got down and sick and my boy was almost 5 years old. Both the exe's are out of my mind. I am divorved, i am divorced, i am divorved.....and so the ol saying goes I am divorved....lol lol lol......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/8/2008 3:08:56 PM
Hi daisy, the ex is totally out of my mind. I dont want anything else to do with her. She called me on Nov. 4th about the elecetion. She hinted that we should get together and I totally ignored the hints. She knew It was not going to happen. I've had enough of that kind of treatment from her. Anybody esle too. But you never know what some body is going to do until you deal with them..... Well 01 from you picture those heart strings would be some really great one's to pull on. I dont have much when it comes to looks but I am a good person. Looks seems to win out over goodness most of the time. If a man dont pass the looks test then the goodness test never comes about you know. Especially if he is not "gainfully employed". I seem to go for the rotten people. That ol saying "if you keep on doing what you have always done you will keep getting the same thing you've always got" is true. I seem to attract women who are that way. I just dont know why. If you knew the whole story about the ex you would understand why I dont really want anything to do with her. It gets personal about some things that I dont want to post on here. My note: the ex is 100% out of my mind as far as wanting a reunion with her. She has been for a long time now.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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Ever came and stayed inside .... Posted: 12/7/2008 10:45:22 PM
Yep, I've done that a bunch of times. Shoot the cream out and keep right on pumping for more cream to shoot. Of course that was in my younger man days. But with what I have now I can do it now and keep right on pumping the cream shooter. Until the soreness sets in and we have to quit. There is no reason for any man to be impotent any more. With the new way of fixing us up to cure that any man with it can go and go and go. Unless the soreness sets in or the ol body just get to tired to pump the ol cream shooter. No dang pills to pop for a stiff willis either Ever again. It's awsome to have but it's hell to have it and it just going to waste. Believe me on that one folks.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 10:24:14 PM
WHAT! You dare appeal to my heartstrings? Ok Ok...it's ancient history....but you still have to repeat that mantra....AND...get out dating, man! There is nothing wrong with being soft-hearted...just be so for the right reasons. Enabling bad behaviour is not a good reason. daisypetals01 forgive me for appealing to your heart strings...lol lol If you only knew 01 the pain and suffering she caused me you would understand why it is ancient history. And I do mean ancient history. I will repeat that mantra over and over too. I cant do much about the soft hearted ness. I got it from my daddy too. He was a real softie in the heart. He had a small country store and would sell people who he knew were never gong to pay him for the stuff on "credit". He would make me mad at him for doing it. He sat me down and had a long talk with me. He grew up in the great depression and had to work for nothing all day just to get something to eat. Not hardly ever any money. Just food. She said they liked to have starved to death. His daddy lost every thing he had because of the depression. He tole me he would not ever let anybody go hungry because they didn't have any money. He had lot to say to me about that in that long talk in that little store. I got up from that talk with a totally different view of people and how to treat them. I started giving and selling thing on credit to people and most of them paid. A few didn't but we never missed it any way. As for dating. Women just wont date a man who is not "gainfully employed". I am on Social Security and retirement from my former job. I draw more money than a lot of women make working that I approach. I know where they work so I know how the income is difference. I dont want to elobrate or brag but I do pretty good for a living. The only thing is I am not "gainfully employed" and that just kill the hell out of me with women. I have been told by several women that they know men who are drawing money just like me and they dont get but so much money a month. Then they question me on just how do I draq so much. The amount it not mentioned. But because most people draw small amounts they think everybody does. That income is based on how much money you made working and that makes a huge difference in how much a person draws. But nobody believes me and just dont want to date me. I am supposedly looking for a "Nurse and Purse" situation so they tell me. I dont need either one at the present time. So, I stay home and play on the computer, go out to dinner by myself, and come home. But I live a good life and am happy. I could be a lot happier with friends and especially a good woman friends who would understand where I am at and why I am where I am at in life.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 10:07:38 PM
just wanna know from you & guys like you with 'these' women ..Ok plse tell me what exactly is it they have? when u give them money & gifts do u get 'favors'??? do they hatch golden eggs? do they do your housework,wash ur car, perform fellatio, make you dinner and whip up fresh desserts?? Do there crotches smell like everything wonderful while they perform whatever freakish act you wish?? WAIT I know they are sweet & gentle & manipulative..geesus I think I can , I think I can...............nope.maybeeeeee...NOT NO mzsomebody there was no sexual favors from her. Heck I was married to her. She is very pretty from head to toes. I mean if looks were all it took then she was a winner for sure. But her mean hateful ways would kill anybody's desires for her. As for cooking my dinner she was one of the best I have ever met. She could make gourmet meals out of hot dogs. I was in total disbelief when she sat the first hot dog meal down to me. She was amazing in the kitchen. She could make meal like I have never seen before and wont again unless she fixes it. As for the sex when we were married it was great. So no sexual favors for buying the things for her. She got in her car and went home and I got into my car and came home the night I bought the stuff for her. I've never requested any woman to do anything for me sexually for doing things for her. I have always figured the sex would come if they were interested in me. I just never thought about trading favors for sex, dates, meals, or what ever. No golden eggs either, no house work, no wash my car, fellatio, make me dinner deals, or anything. I'm not into the freakish acts with sex. I do like lots of thing like most people surely do but not to the point of freakish. I am just a normal man that like lots of things but surely not freakish. That is out of my league there. I have done things for women that I have dated and never expected to be repaid in anyway. I dated a young woman once and I had a really good job with very good pay. She was down on her luck and we had gone out. While she was in another room I slipped money in her purse and didn't mention it. Of course I left and the next day when she found the money she called me to ask about it. I told her I had no idea how she got that money. She never knew. I had a large amount of money and never missed one dime of it. If I give some body something it is theirs. What and how they do with it usually is their business. But the ol ex wife should not have pulled the wool over my eyes like she did. That was just a no no to me.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 107 (view)

I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 9:50:25 PM
Freeneasy, see you got took, only for 88 bucks, however it still peeved you, and had you been sitting with dear ex wife, and "michael" called, you most certainly wouldn't have went out to be so kind. Did you have an agenda for your ex??? Was there some expectation of manipulating her into doing something, or changing in some way; OR did you sincerely believe that she was down on her luck, and with a little help she would get back up. nexthyme she was deffinitely down on her luck. She had lost the Jeep Liberty we had to repossesion, lost the best job she could have ever had with the best company and people she will ever find because of her own messing up, and had filed bankruptcy. I really felt sorry for her at that time. She would call me crying and falling all to pieces form the problems she was facing. But she is the one who didn't want to stay married and just walked out and left. This Michael had kicked her out of the house they were living in. He told her to leave and she did. She had got an apartment and was having a hard time getting things she needed. So she calls ol soft hearted me and asks me to buy her dinner for her. She tells me at the restaurant about her mother buying her a stock of groceries. So I was relieved that she had food. She kept talking about how she had no bathroom supplies like soap, tissues, and all kinds of things a woman need. So ol soft hearted me tells her okay lets to to Wal Mart and I'll get you some things. That was on Tuesday. On Saturday she had her Michael in her apartment with her. That is when I knew I was totally used by her. However he moved away for a while. She kept trying to get me to come visit her but I refused to and wont ever again. That was enough for me. I dont want to be around her any more for any reason. There is a lot more to the reason as to why I dont want to ever be with her again but the subject matter might make some body on here mad. It's not just the money I spent on her for things she really needed. It is really gets personal.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 102 (view)

I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 2:55:00 PM
Now daisypetal01 I didnt mean to make you puke nearly. I am over her by the way and have been. But last spring she called crying and telling me how bad she was having it and wanted to know would I buy her dinner. So I met her and bought dinner and listened to her whine. Knowing how soft hearted I am she laid it on big time. I really felt sorry for her and gave in to buy her some things. That was on I think a Tuesday night and that is when I bought her the things. The following Saturday night is when I called her to see if she was okay. Something was telling me to make that call. So I did and when she answered she was whispering. Her reason was Michael was asleep and she didnt want to wake him up. That just burnt me up. That is when I lost it with her. I knew then I had been had as to say. I really got mad at her. She had already let him move back in with her. Less than a week after I did the good deed as to say. lol lol... As for me being over her I am totally over her daisy. She has been gone since April of 2003. I have not been to her house in well over 3 years now and dont have any intentions of going. I dont have a clue as to where she lives now. Her and the live in boyfriend who used the toilet paper supposedly got a house together. How do I know. She called me last Nov. 20th to wish me happy birthday. She said the community where she moved but it is big and I didn't ask the location. I dont want to know either. There are people who know about me buying the stuff. I catch the devil from them still. They ask me have I been buying any more things for my ex wife's boy friend. They also want to know when I am going to buy them some things they need. I have caught the devil a lot because of it. All in good clean fun of course. Nobody has a been ugly as to say. Just joking me real heavy. Daisy I have a good and loveable heart. I have always been that way. I got that from hy daddy. He would give you his shirt if you asked him for it. I have done good things for people lots of times and asked nothing in return. The thought of some body being hungry worries me real bad. I have done house repairs, plumbing, and other repairs for people and never asked for anything in return. But that one time when the stars came out for the night I knew I had been "TOOK" but the ol ex wife and her whinning. I dont have a broken heart Daisy. I dont have anybody to be broken hearted over. I've not had but one date in the last nearly 2 years now. So, that kind of leaves me out of the ol love scene and heart break state. Your are alright daisy my dear. Thanks for being tough on me instead of padding me along with how sorry you were for me. I promise you I will keep saying that phrase you have here. I am divorced, i am divorced, i am divorced at least a 100 times a day. Even though I dont have any body to use me or take advantage of me at the present time. I will still say that a 100 times a day. That shopping spree broke me of doing that big time for her. I honestly cant say I would not help you if you needed it. I am just that way daisypetal01. I inherited that way you know....Very softhearted....To soft hearted.....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

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I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 1:11:34 PM
Boy your bing tough on me are you daisy!!!!! I did learn on that one o1 that she was not my responsiblity any more. Regardless of how broke she was because she wont keep a job. As far as not still being married to her I learned that a long time ago daisy but I felt bad for her at the time. I am soft hearted and she know's it. So I done what any level headed man probably would not have done. I bought her some things she said she needed. She didn't need any food items she said. She told me her mother had bought her enough groceries and she was stocked up with food. So, I though okay I'll help her out and so I did. But when she moved the dude back in the house with her in less than a week. That really set me on fire. I called her about 10pm on a Saturday to check on her and she had to whisper. Her boyfriend was back and was there. I found out in about three more days he was living there again. I realized that she had just "used me" to get some things they could not afford to pay for. So, I was really one not so happy camper at her and I really told her so. Even her mother apologized for her but she thanked me for helping her like I did. I did close the door completely on that one daisypetals01 and completely. She called me last month on my birthday whising me happy birthday. She even hinted for us to meet and talk. She was thinking that her marriage plans with the same dude were not going to work out. I simply declined and let it go at that. I am a divorced man, I am a divorved man, i am a divorced man, i am a divorced man...lol lol lol lol.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

I THINK IM crazy Posted: 12/7/2008 12:32:25 PM
My second wife kept calling me wanting us to go out for dinner. We did and she was about to cry saying how she was out of everything and had no money to spare. She was haveing problems keeping a job. BY the way it's her fault she cant keep a job. She can find more better paying jobs than anybody I know. But she wont stay with them. So back to the point. She was putting the ol guilt trip on me I suppose knowing I am very soft hearted like she does. So we go to the Wal Mart and I buy her $88. worth of house hold goods and beautifying stuff. Cleaning items, lotions, liquid hand soap, lots of other things, including toilet paper....lol lol lol.....Well she was really excited and happy and thankul. So we got to her car and I gave her the stuff I bought for my self instead of keeping it. She left very happy and thankful for me buying the stuff. In less than a week she had her old boyfriend back living in the house with her. Pissed me of royally. I went off on her and told her what I thougth about her. She apologized and said it was not what I thought it was. I dont know how she could get that one across. Now....Was I a fool for buying the ex wife some house hold cleaning supplies, lotions, hair color, and lots of female things. I mean I had to go far enough to tell her since I bought the toilet paper for her boy friend to wipe his arzz on did she at least think he could pay me for it. "Well, no he's not using the toilet paper you bought he has money of his own". Like the dude was going to live there but not use the bathroom supplies that I bought for her. Do you think he would not wipe his butt with the paper simply because I bought the stuff. lol lol lol....Heck no he woudn't give a hoot where it came from as long as it was on the dispenser by the comode. I had to laugh at her about that one. Okay was I a dumb clutz for falling for her whimpering and buying her the stuff she said she needed. Or was I just being soft hearted easy prey and spending money on her or her boyfriend.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Has the economy affected your dating? Posted: 12/6/2008 8:42:10 PM
Nope I'm not "gainfully employed" and hadn't been in a bunch of years. So it's nothing new to me. Even though I draw a decent income in retirement and other income that dont seem to make one dime's worth of difference. I AM NOT GAINFULLY EMPLOYED so that puts me down under the bridge as to say. lol lol lol lol..... Women just dont want to date a middle aged man who is not "gainfully employed". Been told that time after time by women folk. That is just life I guess. So these hard times wont make one dime's worth of difference in the dating field for me. Heck it's been so long since a date and the plow is so rusty it may not be ready for plowing hard and heavy right at first anyway. But the plow works great though. Just a little rusty is all....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Vasectomy and Pregnancy???? Posted: 12/3/2008 7:57:23 PM
Call in Perry Mason. He will get to the bottom of the case for you. He never looses a case you know. If this dude had a vassectomy there would be scars on his scrotum better known as his Nut Sa-k. I had one about 10 years ago and did I swell up and hurt. I have scars to prove mine. I had to let the ol boy spit 15 times and then have a sperm count done by the urologist. Mine was still shooting live loads and I had to let the ol boy shoot another 15 times and then another sperm count. That time I left the Dr.s office shooting blanks. He guarranteed me that I was out of the baby business. If this dude had this surgery sneak a look at his little boys and see if you can see scars. No scars no vassectomy. My vasdefrens were cut and then clamps put on each end of the little swimmers tubes. There is no way one can get past mine. There is an 1/8 inch gap in the tubes. Sounds like this dude just didn't want to use a rubber and got you pergnant to me. But it could very well be a little swimmer got past the what ever he had done and loaded you up with on off spring. Babies are great. Love it and take care of it. There is nothing better than having a baby and watching it grow and then the next thing you know you will be buying a car.....Date money, snazzy clothes, friends over all the time, spend the night parties, snacks at midnight, crying for mommie, and lots of things that babies can do.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 42 (view)

Worst thing you/someone else said after sex?? Posted: 12/2/2008 9:36:18 PM
It was big around enough but it wasn't long enough!!!!!! After about 30 minutes of going at it the female bent her knees, picked her ass up off the bed and said " let fu-k i'm tired of playing" and liked to have shook me plum off of her. Now that was hard to deal with. It was like riding a bucking horse but she was holding me on top of her. Another female was wanting it bad. She got it and was not satified at all. I got up and went into her bathroom and seen this deal on the floor. It had a suction cup holding it to the floor and she could get on it like being on top of me. That dam thing was as big as my arm. No dam wonder I was doing her no good. Not need to say I put my clothes on and left immediately....... Where are all these women at now since I have my new pump up****and can really go at it with them? These women cant seem to be found any more. OH well. That's life in Harvest I guess.....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Involvement in singles groups ... what's your take? Posted: 12/2/2008 8:50:18 PM
I was involved in a singles group for a few months. It was basically a who's who group. If you were not part of a small group or clique then you sat there or walked around talking to yourself. Or the very gracious few who would offer up a hello before they walked past me going for the free coke that our monthly dues paid for. I never got close to a date with a woman from there. It was the typical group and the instant it was found out I was not working for a living. BANG goes the ol get lost gun. Then when it was found out it was because of a medical disability then it was totally useless. I was like the only person that was totally ignored. The newbies were great until all this information came out. Of course the women would tell the newbies as soon as they could so they would know to stay awayfrom me. I finally just threw in the paying towel and quit the whole group. I went back and tried again a few weeks later and the President of the group almost started fight with one of the other members. There were two new women there that night for the first time. Needless to say they got scared to hell and back and got up and left. The next week the group met and it was real shaky with just a few of us there. The next couple of weeks it was totally disbanded and up the creek it went. All because of one idiot showing his ass about nothing of any value to him or anybody esle in the group. Then I got involved in a lager group as an organizer. I caught hell from every body there because they didn't like something that somebody else was doing. They kept me running like a puppet until I just said enough and let it go. Not long after that it totally diabanded. Instead of the singles getting together to have fun and enjoy their selves they continually wanted to gripe about somebody or something not going like they wanted it to. Everyboyd brought a food item or drinks and there was a live band. It was set up for nothing but fun times. But for the life of me Some of the older people was intent on ruining the whole deal for every body. They finally did too. That was the last of my singel groups. I dont have a clue as to where any meet now or I might give it a try again . It would beat staying home all the time doing nothing. Unless one or two unhappy people wanted to ruin it for everybody that was happy.....lol lol lol......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Seeing someone in public, how would you react? Posted: 11/30/2008 10:08:02 PM
I went into a Bar B Que restaurant just Tuesday of this week. This is sunday so it was just a very few days ago. I was already sitting at a table when I seen three people come in. A young couple and an older woman. When they came around the corner I recognized the woman from well you guessed it. Right here of POF. She looked at me and sat down at the table right in front of me. She sat facing me and the young couple had their backs to me. She kept peeking around the young woman and finally it struck her at to where my familiar face was from. Well it was from POF. She kept peeking and telling the young couple about how she had asked somebody to do something for her and they wouldn't do it. She was saying that "he could have he just didn't want to do it for me" so I sat and ate and listened. I never said a word to her I just listened, ate, and left. She peeked up out of the corner of her eye as I walked right by her. In fact less than a foot from her shoulder was all the room I had. She looked very well in person but nothing like her pictures on here. She was not a beautiful woman as to say but she sure as hell wasn't any where near ugly either. Of course I cant say about people's looks because I know I am no hunk or Romeo. The point is she shot me down on POF. I wonder how she knew in advance we were not a good match. We had never talked or met. When she sat there talking to the young couple I could tell from what she was saying and the way she was talking that we very well could have been a good match. Our ways were alike and they way we both act and talk and laugh while we talk were identical. So how did she know we were not a good match. I guess I wont know that answer will I. Funny how life goes. Everybody wants somebody but they dont want anybody that they see.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

Dating after losing it all Posted: 11/28/2008 8:45:41 PM
OP:::::My advice is not to mention your ex wife to a new woman ever. Never talk about her unless you are asked. Then only talk very little about it. Change the subject with the new woman. Dont volunteer any information about your former marriage. Talk to the new woman with new interests and about her and things will be a lot easier. Other wise you will just be opening old wounds and making the new woman mad at you for talking about it to her. Wait until you are alone before you start letting the pressure off about an old wound that is open. It wont take long until thing will get a lot better for you. But if you keep these old wounds upen it will take for ever. I found out the very hard way to keep my mouth shut about a divoce. I learned form No.1 that was the wrong thing to do. Then when No.2 came along I kept my mouth shut about the divorce and things went a whole lot better. People had to dig things out of me about it. It was like prying gold out of a dead man's teeth to find out anything from me. I would just say "I'm divorced is there a problem with that" and let it go. Then I got anulled with what would have been No.3. Now talk about a blow to the ol ego but that was one hell of a blow. Now it is a joke. I cant help but make a joke out of it. She is the one who threw down the wedding rings in my car and got out and walked away just raising hell to her self. lol lol lol......I fall over laughing about that now. It's to every one and then A Happy New Year.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Fixed Incomes... Posted: 11/28/2008 8:24:08 PM
Living on a fixed income can be very tough at times. I sold my condo and moved into the the house with my mother alomost 2 years ago now. Her house if paid for and I pay most of the bills. I pay the utilities, gas bill for heat, and water bill. These are about half or less than what my condo payment was when I sold it. Momma cant live by herself any more so it has helped me and her a whole lot. But as for the dating scene. Well when women find out I am on a fixed income and living with my mother. I am shark bait floating around in the ocean. Waiting on the next hungry shark to come along and eat me up. It's like being in prison on a work release. I can come and go as I please but as for a social life. Well it just dont exist. I will survive this too. Just like the hard times we are facing. I'm a country boy and a country boy will survive. When it comes to haveing food and paying the bills then food will come first. I am like another poster. Bad luck with a car and helping my son got me in credit card debit. I dont regret helping my son. The car is almost as necessary as a horse was in the 1800's. With out it I would be up the river with out a boat or paddle the creek would be to narrow. It would be deep water in that river to. But I will survive. I'm a country boy and a country boy will survive....... My only regret is not haveing a female companion. But you know I cant make people care about other people and make them want to be with me. But I will survive that too. I'm a country boy and a country boy will survive..... It's HO HO HO time of the year folks and so it to every one and then a Happy New Year. Then the hard times will be up on us and it's good luck to every body.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

My date was too interested in my daughter Posted: 11/25/2008 8:22:05 PM
I've been in that situation before. I didn't go back. I just made the night and kept my thoughts to my self. It is really like shananana says. It was very awkward for me. It has happened both ways. The older mother came on to me and was flirty and they woman (daughter) my age was not happy. She later told me her mother (A Mrs. Robinson) was real bad about flirting with her dates (ME that night). The other way too with the younger woman wanting to flirt with the mother's date. (ME that night). I found out that the daughter was jealous of her mother and men. What a total shame. It drove me away permanently. The daughter didn't look near as good as the mother did. Not even close in looks and body either. But doo doo does happens......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

This is weird, but anyone here into ENEMAS? Posted: 11/25/2008 8:01:01 PM
Are we talking about a fleets enema or just a regular ol hot warter enema? Either one of them is just plain ol shtty though. But sex in the sht house? Is that an inside or out side sht house? UMM UMM UMM what a new shty idea to try.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 186 (view)

Is it ok to ask for your wedding ring back after divorce? Posted: 11/25/2008 5:32:20 PM
One of the two sets I had made into one is in a drawer and the other my son has for his little wife. One going to waste and one going to waste again it looks like. lol lol lol..... The anuller threw the rings down in my car, got out, and walked away. She didn't want any part of them any more. So that is how the story goes with me....Anyboyd need a one carat wedding ring set?

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

Impotence Posted: 11/23/2008 8:34:59 PM
I was 43 when this impotence problem hit me. I told every woman that I dated at the time about the problem. They guaranteed me it was just in my head that they could make it work for me. Well when they couldn't then they got mad at me and would always tell me. "It's me right? I just dont excite you enough do I?" Even after I had explained to them that the heart attacks and heart surgery completely robbed me of my ability to get up a boner. It always turned out to be bad and after a while it got around big time and people started calling me ugly names because I could not get up a boner. So, I pressured my doctor to do something about it. She sent me to a specialist, he fixed me up with the implant, and now there is not problem with that at all. But then women would drop me like a cold piece of ice as soon as they found out that I was impotent and could not perform. Maybe I should have been living where the most of you ladies are living and that problem would not have mattered. But here in Huntsville where I am from it sure as hell mattered to the women here. At least where I was involved it sure did. I am so gald I had that surgery and got my self esteem and confidence back. My ego is at it's best and I feel so good about myself simply because of that Implant operation. I know now that regardless of what I can get up a boner and make love better than ever.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 91 (view)

Credit for Being Normal Posted: 11/23/2008 2:08:26 PM
I've had three heart attacks todate with several angie grahams and open heart surgery. I woke up in a totally different and new world from that surgery. Nothing has been the same for me since. Each heart attack has changed the way I look at life and live. Believe me people it will surely do that to you. That is why women run from me so bad. They think they will have to take care of me and want no part of that life. Well who knows if that will every happen or not. I sure dont. So I know exactly where you are chill pill. It opens the old eyes up completely dont it. I can sit and listen to people talk and see how they act. I know with in one second they can be laying in the floor with a killer heart attack and all of that bad ass, kick ass, whoop ass attitude will get the best of them. They will give you hell about besing sick but just wait until it happens to one of them. The pitty wagon come right out and it's poor poor them all of a sudden. I've seen it happen and believe me the pitty wagon came out in a flasy. My cousin's husband cussed me for every thing I was worth for not working because of heart attacks. He had one and nearly died and did the pitty wagon start rolling. It came back to bit him in the ass. Stand tall chill pill I have got the same thing from women in the past. It was not what I had done for them. It was what they had done for me. This is after I got down with the heart attacks mind you. S0 I know where you are coming from...... I love women in spite of all they say to me though about not working. Heck Nature says they are great. Or you women are great.....Hang in there Chill Pill....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

Early retirement: curse or blessing? Posted: 11/23/2008 12:41:43 PM
Happy birthday tallyover. I just celebrated 58 on Nov. 20th. Dont let the market crash stop you from retiring tally. If you can draw social security and live on it then go for it. Hopefully you will be able to live on it and do well. There are lots of poeple who have lost in this crash and will continue to loose because of it. But life will go on and yes keep your dreams and retire. You may have to let them stay dreams but you will still be retired.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 4 (view)

Impotence Posted: 11/23/2008 12:25:50 AM
I got into this impotence deal because of health problems. I was belittled for five years trying all kinds of pills and tests. I even got that dam Austin Powers pump pushed over on me. Useless is all it was for $400. bucks. I finally got my regular Doctor to send me to a specialist for it. He did one test and knew what I had to have done. She took it out of a drawer and threw it up on his desk. It is called the "Three Piece Internal Pump". He put me through all the prep tests and phyc. tests and then he did the surgery. Talk about getting up a boner but ladies and gentlemen it is a 24 hour hard if you want it that long. Once the soreness of the surgery is gone and the pumping it up starts it is awsome. You can pump it up as many times a day as you want to and let it down. You can pump it up and go at it for hours if you can hold out. I has restored me back to a very confident man and will stay that way. Early ejaculation is no problem. If you do you just keep on going and have a ball. There is not one reason for any man to be impotent any more. Implant specialist can make sure of that. So if you are impotent and read this assure your self you can be cured and be back in action better than you ever were in your life. Pfiffer Pharmaseuticals has made sure of that. It's the greatest thing to come along since the invent of the female species.......Take it from me I have had it since Nov. 19, 1999 and am one very happy man.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

This is weird, but anyone here into ENEMAS? Posted: 11/22/2008 9:02:39 PM
In Russia they have an annual enema day for a clinic that they have that does the enema thing. I think they celebrate it as a good day for any kind of shit!!!!!!!!!

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

This is weird, but anyone here into ENEMAS? Posted: 11/22/2008 8:59:57 PM
Maybe you should take a job with Dr. Kellog at Battle Creek Infirmary and then you could have your deisres fill of enema giving. I hear there is a lot of Shit going on there all day long. You might just like it........lol lol lol lol lol......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 168 (view)

Is it ok to ask for your wedding ring back after divorce? Posted: 11/22/2008 8:45:28 PM
What do you do when the female takes it off and throws it in the cup holder in the console of your car. Then she gets out and walks off and leaves like nothing ever happened. Annullment day!!!!!! I had two sets of one carat rings made into one set for her. I had them took back apart and gave my useless d- i -l one set for my son, and now I have a useless one carat engagement and weeding ring set sitting in a box in a drawer. They are very nice and are pretty. But who would want them. I wont give them to another woman because she would most likely throw them back at me too. lol lol lol....I wouldn't blame her one bit either. But I got em any way.......Do they shine and glitter in the sun light...da sho doo.........

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 53 (view)

Early retirement: curse or blessing? Posted: 11/22/2008 8:35:58 PM
At times and especially from the beginning it was a curse for me but now that I dont care what people say it has been a real blessing for me...... Women. There aint nothing better. UH UH I do like candy pretty good and sweets of any kind, A good Hamburger, A real good Grilled Chicken Sandwich, and some tea and diet coke. But danged if any of them beat a woman. UMM UMM UMM good. I just love em.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

moved in with the parents do you mention it? Posted: 11/22/2008 8:24:03 PM
I sold my condo and now I live with my mother. If you could have seen her arm and face after that hell of a fall she had you would know why. She broke her left wrist and peeled the skin on her arm from her wrist almost to her elbow on her left arm almost off. It was about 4 inches wide and a little over six inches long. It was very deep and looked horrible. All I could do was stand in the emergency room and look at her. She looked like she had been in a car accident she was so skinned up. She has fell twice since then but I have been living here with her when she took these two falls. She was not hurt but she very well could have been real easy. I have been here almost 2 years and will be until she dies. If that is standing in the way of me getting a date with an older woman then okay. Maybe that older woman might need to think about her mother or daddy just might need some help from her. Or even a younger woman might need to look at the same thing with hers. I am assuming that their parents are sill alive. If I out live my mother then I will be back out on my own again. Her house will be sold considering the housing market is back up I should say. Then money from the sale will be divided between me and my sister and off to wonder land I will go. Where I will end up and live who knows. But I will live there until I die. Oh wait uh minute. I am still alive here right? Hey, Hey, some body check to see if I am still breathing here. He bub am I still breathing or am I ready for the Urn?!!!!!!!lol lol lol..... Have a happy life folks. I am.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

What is the best experience you have had with online dating Posted: 11/22/2008 12:27:03 PM
About the only experience I have had with on line dating is rotten luck with meeting women. It seem like I am to ancient for the women on these date sites. Even though they are older than me I am to old for them so they tell me. It must be because I was born in the middle of the last century. Other wise I dont really know what the problem is....

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Settling Posted: 11/22/2008 12:15:51 AM
If you marry a person and after a few years they start looking a little old and getting fat on you. Well then if you hadn't looked in a mirror with open eyes then you might need to. You may just as well be fat and looking old too. Other wise you have died young and skinny. If you have true love for a person then when that person gets fat and old looking to the rest of the world. That person still is the apple of your eye and you see them as they way you have always seen them. Most of the time they are still attractive to you. Ture love never dies only make believe love will die and wither away.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

this is embarrassing! Posted: 11/21/2008 7:44:00 PM
I dont see it as a problem at all. I have slept on the wet spot lots of times. UMM UMM UMM I love it when I finally get it with a woman and there is a huge wet spot on the bed. What a real turn on. I know that I might have done her some good when I see that big ol wet spot. She will know that she has done me some good. I can promise the woman that.... I luves me a wet spot on my bed with a hot woman.......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 148 (view)

Do I ever miss physical touch! Posted: 11/20/2008 11:40:32 PM
Well for me I love that physical contact of the hugs and even some kisses to go with them hugs too. UMM I could handle a few right about now. But for the people who say then can get by without the hugs and kisses then that is okay with me. be to you and a happy life too. Some folks are just that way. As for me and my house we love them hugs and kisses and making love and snuggling up close and all the rest too.....lol lol lol ......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

Haven't dated in awhile...problem??? Posted: 11/19/2008 11:20:48 PM
Yeah I thought about that statement but it was to late. I had already posted it and I cant delete it. Or can I. Sometimes I say before I think and it comes out wrong just like the above statement did. I guess we all make mistakes when we speak. There was no harm intended in the statement or meant to hurt anybody's feelings. Just a wild thought that came out. As for a dinner date. Well I have quit asking just about any body at all. I guess I have aaccepted the fact that nobody is interested any more. Simply because I am no "gainfully employed" and on a medical disability. When that part of the conversation come into play I am a cooked goose. With these hard times coming on like they are they money I draw dont count because I am no "gainfully employed" for the money I get. So, I just go by myself and settle for that. I get plenty of weird looks fair enough but looks wont kill me I dont guess. I do apologize to anybody who might take that statement wrong. My personality gets me into trouble a lot it seems like.

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

Haven't dated in awhile...problem??? Posted: 11/19/2008 9:31:35 PM
As for my case I cant even get myself a date just for dinner with a woman who is on the Buffaloo side and dont have any looks. That says a lot for me dont it. It looks like I will be here for a long time or just give it up and to hell with the typing these posts. I've only been on here about three weeks and already I'm getting tired of spinning my wheels and getting no where. I dont think I am that bad of a person. Heck I am very mobile, self supporting, and not quiet broke as to say. Maybe my approach is wrong. Instead of asking do you want to go to dinner maybe I should just say "hey baby you want to go to my house and Fuuuuu uh uh uh uh". No I dont think I need to post that now do I.....lol lol lol lol..... Have fun people tomorrow is my birthday and it will be my last 58th birhtday. Nov. 20th will certainly come around on a regular basis but 58 for me will only be tomorrow......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 111 (view)

Do I ever miss physical touch! Posted: 11/18/2008 9:26:48 PM
I tried to email you and not have to reply on here but you wont accept emails. I am in the same boat you are in with the ol disability. So you are young and getting the same thing I am getting at my riep old age. I guess you might as well get ready to live a long lonely life. Women for some reason just cant accept a man being on a medical disability regardless of how hard you try or what you say. There is a huge amount of emphasis put on the word "JOB" and does it carry a big punch. It will knock you right down every time. It has me for 14 years now. I guess it will until I die. So dont let it worry you and live your life and make yourself happy. I've not had the physical touch in so long til It just dont matter anymore. But I am like you I keep trying and hoping that some body will accept me for being me and not for how much money I draw. IN my case it is more than a lot of people make and them working. That pisses women off to and there comes another problem. I dont work and draw more money than they make working. Like I already said I will keep on trying and I advise you to do the same. Some where a woman on this planet will accept you and me to and the disability status wont matter. But until one of them does I wish you the best and hopefully life will work out for you......

Freeneasy437

Joined: 10/14/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

If someone stands you up, should you make a stand? Posted: 11/18/2008 3:23:36 PM
The only stand I will take to being stood up is to forget the woman who stood me up. It was a waste of time to start with if she stood me up. It works the same for women when a man stands them up. There was nothing there to begin with so why waste their time with them again. Sometimes there is a good reason for not showing up. But most of the time is just a simple mind change or some thing else come up that they had rather do or somebody else come up.

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