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 Author Thread: NCAA Football Season 2009
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 170 (view)
 
NCAA Football Season 2009
Posted: 10/26/2009 2:13:57 PM
I think this season is intersting and it will be interesting to me what TCU and Bosie State for the rest of the season and USC always lose a Pac 10 game but they are going to win the rest of their games.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 151 (view)
 
NCAA Football Season 2009
Posted: 10/16/2009 8:59:51 AM
LSU is not good this year because the offense can't move the ball and the defense is not all that great. The Gators defense is not overrated they just make big plays when needed and knock the lights out of people. I am a Southern Cal fan and they just reload and will always lose one game in their league but will be the teams in the games that really matter. Tebow to me is not overrated he just has accomplished alot on the field and off the football field and to me Tebow calling might not be playing in the NFL. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 84 (view)
 
The Dangers of Faceboof!!!
Posted: 8/23/2009 11:50:09 AM
I dont see facebook as being dangerours as people make the social sites as. Most of the friends I have on facebook are those I went to college with and some other people I know in the city where I live at. Granted I have more women friends than men friends but most of the women on my friends list are married. The way of the world is people are using the net as a tool to meet friend and businesses are using the net as a way to get new customers and we need to get used to that.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Good Looking, Nice Credentials - Why No Connection?
Posted: 8/11/2009 3:12:04 PM
It takes more than good looks and credentials to find a connection with a person. I mean it is important for a person to know how to treat people right and not think you are better than someone else. I know I think I am good looking and have nice credentials but lately I been playing it low key in getting dates because for me my career is imporant to me and some women in my region still are not used to a guy like me who has three college degrees. I have friends from all walks of life and also know how to find new friends and treat people with respect. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
I just don't understand
Posted: 8/11/2009 10:09:50 AM
You have to stay true to yourself and don't give up on what you are looking for in a women.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 44 (view)
 
what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:48:13 AM
I am attractive to a women who is cute and has a nice personality one who can realate to others. I also like women who are thick because I am a 240 pound man and also a women who has common sense.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 97 (view)
 
SHALL WE TELL THE TRUTH?
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:07:21 AM
Lets see my mom raised me to tell the truth. On these sites sometimes people really dont want to hear the truth on things like what your career is and what things you like to do because if people really did than a person might be able to find someone who can accept them for them. That is all I got to say on that.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
career-oriented people ....
Posted: 7/4/2009 6:12:32 AM
I can realate to this. I know for me I am a career oriented person and notice the responses I get when I tell women that I am a high school teacher some continue to talk to me and some don't. I do have alot of time for doing things for myself and my mom which taught me alot growing up. I learned when I was a caregiver alot of women made fun of me doing that but lately there are some finally giving me a chance but for me do women really want a career oriented man that is the question I want to know. I been teaching high for seven years and that is a career I love and have not alot of layoffs in the field especially where I live at in Louisiana.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Shaq to Clev...LeBron Cant claim He's the Greatest
Posted: 7/2/2009 7:15:41 PM
The only way that Lebron can be the greatest if he wins aleast 4 championships and that is when we can say Lebron is the greatest until then we will see how his career turns out.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Appearances & Money Matter?
Posted: 7/2/2009 5:42:48 AM
Finacnes should be important and a person needs to understand you have to live within your means and that is why now days I have money to live off because my mentors in college taught me ways that I could pay my debts off. But the main thing is being happy with the person you are wanting to get to know and someone accept you for you no mater how much money you make. Apprearance for me is a deal breaker for me, I mean I want a women who look great in my eyes and she does not even have to wear makeup. I dated fine women who did not wear makeup. I dated women from all different parts of the country and the main thing is getting to know them and see how they were raised when it comes to things. Like some people dont like to clean their room up or some dont want to save any money but you have to find out why. Take care now
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 261 (view)
 
Are men more attracted to women that play hard to get?
Posted: 7/2/2009 5:27:22 AM
I been with women who play hard to get and from what I seen on this site those who put on this site that are looking for a great men to me are not really looking for a great man because when you contact them they are like suprise you are interested in them. I know me I dont have time to play games. I mean if we want to play games we can go on the game sites and play all the games a person wants to play. I thought the whole point on this site is to get to know someone and not be suprise when someone contacts you. In my lifetime I met alot of women who have been suprise that I was interested them and it kind of overwhelm then and so lately I just sit back and relax and see who is really interested in me. I had a date Monday night and was impressed with the Lady I spend time with and yes she was older than me. The main thing that really impressed me that she was just thankful for the time being spent. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 90 (view)
 
How has your experience been with POF? Thumbs Up or Down?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:05:05 AM
My experience on this site has been great. I met some great women from this site who I helped play a major role in helping them advance their career. It would be nice to finally meet someone on this site who really wants to take the time and effort to get to know me. I had like 7 dates from this site. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 181 (view)
 
Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay?
Posted: 6/15/2009 2:31:51 PM
There are decent guys out there and sometimes it has nothing to do if you put longterm or whatever you put on your profile. To me it is how you take a approach to getting to know decent men. I am a decent guy but the women in my area are scare to get to know me. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
How can I work up my confidence to talk to girls?
Posted: 6/11/2009 5:08:48 AM
The way you build confidence to talk to girls is for one improve on whatever people skills you are lacking at and than be yourself and be upfront with the women you want to get to know. It is always important to be yourself and not be something you are not.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Take off the mask
Posted: 6/9/2009 8:39:47 AM
Some people who put profiles on here are not real and what I mean by that is they say in their profile they want a great man and than when you meet them they tell you, that you are not their type. My whole thing has always been whatever happen to giving a person a chance and it take more than one date to know if they person is for you. I have had this happen to me many times but it is insteresting how some people wait 7 years where I live at to see that I am a great person and people I work with believe in me the first time they meet me. I have met some real women on this site and thankful for that. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Shallow? Or can you really tell in 20 mins?
Posted: 5/17/2009 4:45:19 PM
I get what you are saying and understand that but I been with women who were physically attracted to me and broke it off with me and now the women keep calling me. Alot of times I feel some men and women don't know what they really want in a relationship.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Shallow? Or can you really tell in 20 mins?
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:51:13 PM
Lets see to me you can not really tell if you are attracted to the person within 20 minutes. I mean lets be real when you meet someone new you can not really get to know them on one date. I know in my lifetime some women I dated wanted miracles on the first date where they wanted to know everything about me . I believe to many times we write off people without really getting to know the person and giving the person a chance and so many people I believe just want things to move fast and than get bitter when they say well there are no great guys in their area. I hear the women in my area say that daily and I tell them I am a great guy, but when it comes to me alot of women in my area are not used to seeing a educated man like me. I seen alot of shallow people on this site, I mean just talking to some of the women on this site. I mean there are some women who want even talk to me because I am not a LSU fan. Whatever happen to having a openmind to meeting someone new. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Burn out effect of online dating
Posted: 5/4/2009 2:50:58 PM
I believe one main resaon so many burn out on internet dating is because some people expect miralces on the first couple of dates and to me it is even hard to find people who live in the same city to get a date with. I mean I dated women who live near me lately and so many want to find something wrong with me but lets be real we all have flaws. I am a man who is real but some women can't really handle a real man especially if he does not fit the mold they want to put on the guy. The best date I had was last year was with a women from Iowa who I met from another site and I had the best time of my life with the person because the person understood that I am real and can handle what I had to say. So why not those who are burn out change the way you go about what you want in a mate you might want to date.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 2471 (view)
 
Hockey Playoff Predictions
Posted: 5/2/2009 4:35:10 PM
The Red Wings will repeat.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 49 (view)
 
dating as a interview...
Posted: 5/2/2009 1:50:09 PM
I know some dates I had some of the women would take notes on me to see how I would answer the questions and what I notice alot of times if I did not answer the question the way they wanted me to than after the date they would tell me I am not their type. It is amazing to me sometimes in the dating process how some want instant connection but are not willing to take the time and effort to see what the person is all about. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
dating as a interview...
Posted: 4/29/2009 1:58:45 PM
The whole problem as seeing dating as a job interview is it limits the value a person brings to the table getting to know someone. I mean so many times people want to see a person as a project as to seeing them as a great person who can be with the person longterm. Like me being a teacher I understand the value that each student brings to the table and be open to things. I mean so many people focus to much on what they have different instead of going with that they have in common and learn to respect those who are different from you. I been all over the world and can bring alot of things to the table if a women takes the time to get to know me and not get caught up with what other men have done to them. That is all I have to say.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
dating as a interview...
Posted: 4/28/2009 12:11:20 PM
Dating is a interview because alot of times people ask you questions as if you are at a job interview and alot of times some people want miracles when they first meet someone. Whatever happen to enjoying a person's company and getting to know them for them and learn to accept what you have different with the person.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Problem With The Yankees?
Posted: 4/14/2009 6:08:42 PM
The main problem with the Yankees is that they think the key is to buy talent and it does not work that way. They need to learn to develop their players through the farm system. Look at the teams who are winning in baseball now like the Rays they develop players out of their farm system and even the Red Sox and alot of the teams in the NL. To me the Yankees are going to miss the playoffs again this year.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Would you dismiss someone just because they like the rival team ?
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:19:07 AM
Where I live at so many women reject me because I am not a LSU fan and I like Southern Cal and to me that is why I feel some women don't write me on this site or send me messages. To me it is shallow on rejecting someone because you like different teams. Whatever happen getting over dumb things like this to get to know a person.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Dating while unemployed
Posted: 3/31/2009 6:27:38 PM
If I was unemployed I would forget about dating and focus on getting a job. Last year when I was unemployed for three months that was what I did and got hired somewhere and was happy about it. It is important to be creative in dating when a person don't have a job anymore.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 170 (view)
 
New Serious Member Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2009 11:21:14 AM
To me the new serious member thing is kind of saying okay if you got a message a person is not serious about wanting to meet someone. Who decides who is serious to get to know someone or not. The dating sites where you pay people play games and on this site some play games or are scared to get of their comfort zone. I am not against POF making money but their are ways they can come up with ways for people to be consider serious members. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 232 (view)
 
What is it with girls in their 20s
Posted: 3/16/2009 5:15:57 PM
I just turn 30 and when I was in my 20's I did not get alot of responses on this site from some women in the same age range as me. I believe sometimes though it takes time for people to learn to accept a person. I mean some women in my age range don't like me because of some sports teams I like. I have always dated women older than me because I have always click with them. As I get older I see online dating has change and lately I have been turn down from women in thier 20's and granted I have three college degrees and a down to earth person. The only time I really have had a date with a women in their 20's was when I was playing college baseball and hoops in college and now me being a school teacher some women look down upon what I do. I always had a passion to make a positive impact on a person's life. There are great women in their 20's on this site I just have not found anyone who would give me a chance. Its seems al the older women message me. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 62 (view)
 
be careful of what you wish for, HONESTY
Posted: 3/10/2009 2:10:55 PM
Whatever happen to being honest in the first place. I mean if you are real and a person dont want to get to know you than you move on. I know where I live at some women don't like the fact that I speak my mind and speak the truth. I know some are not used to that. It is time to be honest in all of the relatinoships we get into.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Why do people waste time chatting online and email, before meeting?
Posted: 3/3/2009 5:42:27 PM
People waste time because they don't really want to get to know someone. I know when I was in college when I saw a women that I like I started talking to her right away and got to know the person. Now days with the net we sometimes have this rule lets wait three weeks before we meet someone and we write a person everyday and never want to meet a person and that is a wasting time.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 174 (view)
 
Do you suffer from feeling out of their league?
Posted: 3/3/2009 5:13:45 PM
To me there is no such thing as being out of their league. You have to get to know a person and see what they are all about. I know lately some women who have message me have told me that I am out of their league and these women have the same amount of college degrees that I have. I think alot of time is people use out of the league as a excuse on not wanting to get to know a person.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Is cooking considered a gender role?
Posted: 2/19/2009 1:40:37 PM
I do not believe cooking is a gender role. I cook all the time because when I need to eat I do that. I have had women cook for me in the past but most of the time they wanted to. Both men and women can help each other out when it comes to cooking. Lately been cooking alot of great food. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 89 (view)
 
the list on your profile
Posted: 2/10/2009 6:32:23 AM
I mean the list on a person's profile help a person see what a person like. You cant not always go by the list because you have to get to know a person. That is how I feel about the list.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 86 (view)
 
About the Friendship First
Posted: 1/25/2009 6:27:00 PM
Whatever happen to getting to know someone first. It seems people want to move fast and than get mad when the relationship fails and than wants to blame someone for the mistake they proably made. It is just like when you go for a job interview sometimes the people who are interviewing you might take their sweet time to decide if they want to hire you. That is how it is when it comes to wanting to date someone, you have to take time to get to know someone and see how you connect with one another. Granted alot of people proably on this site can get a booty call but in the end what does it lead to if you don't know how to relate to the person. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 143 (view)
 
why do you think the love of your life will be within 75 miles?
Posted: 1/13/2009 3:47:30 PM
It is hard these days to find someone who lives 75 miles from a person. I know I message women on this site who live 5 miles from me and none give me the time and day. I believe alot of it had to do with they are not used to seeing a man like me who is doing great things. Granted in my lifetime most dates I had were with women who live aleast 200 miles from me. Granted I had some dates with women who live 10 miles from me last year and they went well but never heard back from them. Each day I see profiles of those who live near me and wow no one even messages me and wonder sometimes do people know what they want on this site. Whatever happening to getting to know a person. I had a date Thansgiving with a women who lives in Iowa and it went well and she was impressed how things are where I live at in Louisiana. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 405 (view)
 
2008 NFL prediction(P-R-E-D-I-C-T-I-O-N Thread)
Posted: 12/23/2008 11:58:14 AM
The Colts I believe and feel are going to be playing the Giants in the Superbowl and the Colts will beat them.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 148 (view)
 
Why do we choose to met people online instead of Out There?
Posted: 12/23/2008 11:52:12 AM
I know me personally I choose the net to date women and have had alot of success lately. I met three women from this site and was happy about that. When I met some women in person at places to many trip about me being a big man. When I think about it I am a built man. I love meeting women on the net and for me with the job I have it is easy for me to chat with women on the net and than meet them in person. That is what works for me.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 153 (view)
 
distance problems
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:27:22 PM
Distance will always be a issue in a relationship if someone always trip about . For me it would be nice to get to know a women who lives 5 miles from me but most that are on this site have not interest in me. So for me I have to go out of my city to get dates with women because most I talk to on this site who live near me trip about me being a educated man. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 128 (view)
 
How many people have actually went on a date using this site?
Posted: 6/22/2008 9:09:13 PM
I have been on some dates meeting women who have profiles on this site. I chatted with someone last Sunday and met them this past Friday. The lady that I went out on the date had a great time and suppose to go out with her again soon. It take sometime to meet people on the net sometimes.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 368 (view)
 
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 5/21/2008 7:58:28 PM
From what I see in my own life most of the women I wanted to date who were in my age range always found something about me to trip about. Lately the main thing some have been tripping about is my race and I cant help the tone color that I came out of my moms womb. Never had a problem with women older than me. I find it sometimes that some can't handle someone who is smarter than them and someone like me who loves life. Never had a problem about my race with older women I mean what more can a person do.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
NEW YORK GIANTS
Posted: 2/4/2008 12:34:25 AM
I am not suprise that the Giants won and they play like they wanted to win the game at the End. I want to know what does everyone who don't like Eli have to say now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Too Accomplished
Posted: 1/22/2008 6:06:57 AM
Why do people on these dating sites have a problem with a person accomplishing whatever goals they have. I mean I have flaws don't consider myself all that. I know in my life when I want to get to know a women I always start slowly to getting to know the person. I know in my case people always question me on everything and all I do is be truthful and lately alot of women have given me alot of encouragement on going after my goals and consider it was alot of hard work for me. I would not be scare to date a women who is smarter than me because I know I can learn from that women who is smarter than me. Take care now.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 316 (view)
 
college football season 2007
Posted: 1/7/2008 2:29:30 PM
I really want to see LSU win this game Even though I am not a LSU fan. I am a Southern Cal fan. The SEC will always be good from Top To Bottom. What the Big Ten schools need to do to complete against teams who are in the SEC is get players who have speed. Have a great night.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 312 (view)
 
college football season 2007
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:51:04 PM
I was happy to see USC win the Rose Bowl they stopped a team who ran a spread offense. I am from SEC Country and there is alot of great teams but if LSU loses to Ohio State what will everyone say.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Where to meet single people???
Posted: 1/3/2008 5:27:56 PM
I find it easy to meet single people in the Malls and the Gym. Also tried other places that you never thought of.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Eli Manning
Posted: 12/22/2007 1:28:32 PM
If the Giants don't get some O Line Eli career will not last that long. Also his receivers need to catch the ball and stop dropping passes.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 51 (view)
 
What's your favorite Extreme Sport?
Posted: 12/18/2007 7:49:07 PM
BMX is my favorite.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 890 (view)
 
Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women.
Posted: 12/5/2007 3:51:17 PM
So many times people get caught up with all the negative with dating. Why not do something different if the dating you are doing does not work well for a person. I know me personally with internet dating I only talk to women who are reallty interested in me. Meeting a mate at work is a bad idea been there and done that and learn to creative in dating. Earlier this year I had five dates with one women in a week and they went great but me and the women decided we love way to far from one another but it was good while it lasted.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 264 (view)
 
college football season 2007
Posted: 12/5/2007 3:46:49 PM
I been to Lubbock and know what you are talking about. If they hired Leech he needs to find a good defensive Coordinator if he wants to do well in the Pac Ten.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 262 (view)
 
college football season 2007
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:44:21 PM
UCLA will never be good as USC because USC gets the better players and have better coaches and if UCLA hires Leech he will have hard time coaching in the Pac Ten.
 extrememale2004
Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 69 (view)
 
College Football disapointments
Posted: 12/1/2007 8:03:25 PM
West Virginia losing to Pitt. This season is getting crazy each week.
 
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