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fun_tall

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Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22? Posted: 2/9/2009 8:04:48 PM
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fun_tall

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Dropping your number to women Posted: 2/9/2009 7:56:49 PM
OP - You are making a mountain out of a mole hill. Tell me, you honestly have the time to ponder so much in depth about a phone number in an e-mail? I mean.......you are in LA, aren't you? I never give out my number for the fear that the chick I am talking to on a pc could be a psycho biatch- thanks to text messaging!!! fyi ~Forget it - I never will this is LA- I don't need to~ What does this have to do with a phone number you get in an e-mail? Honestly, I think you are only tooting your horn here! All I hear is.......Me, me, me......I, I, I ........ Nevertheless, do as Jaxi does....she gets a ton of numbers all day long On a more friendlier note - out of all the pictures you have posted, only ONE pic says it was taken 10-08. How about the rest? (ref: Your not hitting up me- you are hitting up my pictures looser...) Grammatically redundant but I think I know what you mean. Your turn.......

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:30:15 PM
Spicynicegirl I know eh....silly me If I cared one bit about looking for a woman in here anymore, do you think I would be saying all this or would you see me sucking up to good looking tall slim younger women with no baggage and no stretch marks? Come now, think about it. In the real world, my dream girl is very much out there, it's a matter of time and then one day, all out of the blues......W H A M! She will be in my lap while you browse the forums and feel bad about guys like me saying what I say in here about women PS - aren't you the one that posted a comment in response to a 19 yr old female's question about her bf not getting aroused? And you said......communication is key Do you honestly believe that communication is key? LMAO J E B U S!!!

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Why a lot of Hispanic girls put on their Prof that they are Caucasian ? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:21:00 PM
OneMoreTime.......... "I don't know how many "hispanic" girls try to pass themselves off as caucasian, but once they open their mouths, it's a give away, no?" Very well said...... And I see this in Houston (home to the hispanics) all the time.....it's hilarious! It's like the Asian girls in Toronto that prance around in blonde colored hair and only speak Tagalo ..... oops!!!

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The one person you loved is engaged to someone else. How do you heal yourself? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:15:19 PM
Si' ...... Kuddle, as always - on such firm and home ground! Ask him if he is true in what he is saying in here. Has he really told us everything? I am getting a feeling he is just angry because he messed up and let an opportunity go and now wants it all back. Knowing he can't have anything back, he could destroy her new life, don't you think? Is he on the rebound here? Tell me he won't jump off a cliff!

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extreme fetish Posted: 2/9/2009 7:09:23 PM
Woah......this is just so scary. Question, what kind of people do this stuff? What's going on in their heads? Jebus!!! Anyways, Europe is heavy into filthy fetish, stuff no one can imagine and...... barfs Howard Stern's radio talk show once had a guy on the air talking about how he met this insert nationality here girl; they went out got a coffee and then they went over to his place. What followed was the most bizarre description of a' fetish' I have ever heard of. If anyone is curious.......http://www.estefanias-dirty-fetish.com/index_scat_shit_piss.php

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The one person you loved is engaged to someone else. How do you heal yourself? Posted: 2/9/2009 6:44:47 PM
Kuddle - no you were not but I just threw that in ...lol....And now I hope you will come talk to our men for a change - we need a therapist AND a good looking one like you "the timing" statement I will not buy at all but I think whatever happened, happened for a reason....as the saying goes too! Nevertheless, I have seen real life situations like OP is going through and a therapist does not help. I hate to say this but with such a messed up mind as OP's, a therapist adds more injury. Why? Because of jealousy only. Jealousy makes people do crazy things and a therapist has no way of knowing or stopping something like that from happening. The Letter - Yes, now that's the only good solution I agree will help change a few things here....so yes, you are bang on there! "Scarface" comes to mind here......remember?

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Age Gaps Posted: 2/9/2009 6:35:06 PM
I still don't get it.....this whole age thing is so over-rated. If two people love and adore each other and find things both people can do without either complaining, what difference does age make for them? This is just shallow thinking. Come on people, what have we learnt so far in life? Am assuming - very little from what I see. Thousands of men and women are happily married/living together/dating/etc. I bet you, if you asked any of them, they would say - :Who cares, we are good together: I think society has put a scare in everyone to say you can't do this, you can't do that.....they've made the rules and we have no choice but to follow them or we are out-casts! That's just lame.

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Why a lot of Hispanic girls put on their Prof that they are Caucasian ? Posted: 2/9/2009 6:08:52 PM
Because they want to try and 'fit in' and the whites tan themselves to get away from looking like Snow White.... For the 'trying to fit in' girls/women, it is a novelty to be looked upon as white. How lame and stupid is that. I mean...................hello! I think it makes these 'want to fit in' people feel good about their lying selves. Priceless For the intelligent one's: "The term Caucasian (or Caucasoid) race has been used to denote the general physical type of some or all of the indigenous populations of Europe, North Africa, the Horn of Africa, West Asia, and South Asia. Historically, the term has been used to describe the entire population of these regions, without regard necessarily to skin tone. In common use, the term is sometimes restricted to Europeans and other lighter-skinned populations within these areas, and may be considered equivalent to the varying definitions of white people."

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The one person you loved is engaged to someone else. How do you heal yourself? Posted: 2/9/2009 5:51:31 PM
Si' Kuddle.......the Toronto posts miss you too eh :P Well, if he tried to get away from thinking about her now, maybe he could deal with things. Poor guy. If he could only turn back time. Someone said in their post: "Stop lying to yourself. There is no such thing as "the timing was off in our lives" - why would anyone want to take a break with someone they are in love with? That would be dumb really:. You agree with this?

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The one person you loved is engaged to someone else. How do you heal yourself? Posted: 2/9/2009 5:08:42 PM
Oh hi Kuddle.....have not seen you in a while! No he did not.......he needs to THINK that in his little brain a.k.a create a notion. Think he can do that?

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Behaviors of men Posted: 2/9/2009 5:05:13 PM
"Behaviors of men" - to begin with, this header needs to be completely changed. It's generalizing all of us out there. Not true. ~Still trying to put the pieces together~ Don't. He is not coming back and not to you for sure. He has found something better and nicer elsewhere. He played with your emotions, put you on cloud 9 and then dropped you like a bag of potato’s. He is dead. You need to move on or you will go mad and end up in therapy. Visit a bar with girl-friends, drink as much as you can and then pick up the ugliest guy. Take him home and ......... you know the drill. It will give you weeks of talk-material and you will forget this other fool. It's that easy. A 20 yr. old could have told you that.

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The one person you loved is engaged to someone else. How do you heal yourself? Posted: 2/9/2009 4:51:53 PM
~Can someone help me build a time machine!? I need to go back in time. That's the only answer. I know the night I need to go to~ Personally, I would not waste a penny on building a machine to take you back in time! Plutonium is very expensive and doesn't come by that easy. Now, if I were you, here's what I would do. First, I would find a reputable shrink and work this time-table with him step-by-step while seeing him twice a week: - Don't idolize her and build her up into something great. - It's essential to definitively end any hopes of reconciliation. - You have to break off contact or you will go mad. Don't beg, cry, drink-dial, don't write her e-mail. - Write her a letter pouring out your negative and weepy feelings & then disassociate them from yourself. - Don't venture into her territory - you won't be welcomed. - Throw away anything that reminds you of her. - Unless it's a diamond ring or something that's one-of-a-kind, you're better off not contacting her to get it back. - Let your buddies give you a reality check on how your ex wasn't all that to begin with and that there are more fish in the sea. (THANK GOD for Pof eh buddy) - Freedom is always intoxicating. There's a world of activities you can partake in that you were never able to enjoy because she didn't approve. - If you feel nostalgic, then think of all the times she was a b1atch to you. - Nothing reminds you that you are a man quite like having a new woman in your bed. (Once again, that's what Pof is for!) So take solace in the arms of another.................................Banish her from your mind! You will be healed forever (till your next tragedy hits you), the world will be a bigger and brighter place and baseball will have reached a whole new level as a sport ;)

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Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22? Posted: 2/9/2009 2:39:12 PM
~ A true minority of them is relying on benefits past the child's babyhood~ When was the last time you went into a welfare office? Do you ever read the news-paper? I bet .... never! Now, take a trip into one of these offices and tell me you are wrong in what YOU say. Jesus! ~investing into the children, is far more of a society contribution than you are obviously admitting, therein pretty much lies the future~ Like what..........summer camp

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Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22? Posted: 2/9/2009 2:16:06 PM
~hipmomma~ Sorry to hear about things and as they stand with you but it's good to see that you are looking to going back to achieve something that you feel will help you in time. Life is not a bed of roses for anyone - we all have to work hard and strive to get what we want. At your age, the opportunities are endless. This is where you need too get your head strapped onto your shoulders real hard and work it. A job is a job, it pays and you in turn can pay bills. It's not bad at all but the drive should come from you. Being on welfare is an economic strain on the economy - help lighten it's load! So good luck and when you do achieve your goals, stand tall and be proud of yourself ;)

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/9/2009 1:34:31 PM
------------------------- this is priceless!!! Ty, you are a funny one!

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/9/2009 1:09:35 PM
Oh dear god..........your interests are men AND bisexuals? No wonder your life and thinking are so painful, Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh you poor little ugly thing!!!!!........................................................... forforumfun - this one's going down the public gutter....fffffffffffffffffffffffflussssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssh!!!

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/9/2009 12:56:25 PM
~No fun_tall, she won't be at the back of the Springer show, she'll be on stage, jumping up and down and throwing chairs. They'll have to beep out every other word she says. The only thing you'll be able to hear without beeps is "I tayke cahe a mah keeds!"~ OMG! You made me spew coffee all over my desk, I laughed so hard.....awesome! THIS is priceless! But trash can be spotted from a mile, can't it? You should see what she said to me all of last night. And everytime she said she is going to drop it, she would come back in 6 mins intervals and barf venom - only cuz she's hurt so bad and can't do a damn thing about her pathetic life now! I obviously touched a soft spot and oh la la.....she went postal on me! (she has others like her in here as well......watch out)

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/9/2009 12:39:19 PM
~Mr. Fun Tall has a problem with because I have a problem with his rudeness towards women in general~ Ask yourself one question - "Am I worth it?" The answer - 'Not at all.' I have nothing to say to you except that I hope I can spot you sitting in the back on the Jerry Springer show raising your hand, dying to ask a question Everything that forfourmfun has said about you is apt.....she has read you like a book. Instead of hating others, start loving yourself, your little lovelies and their daddies My suggestion - find yourself a sugar daddy. You can't do much with your life now...it's sitting at the bottom PS - you can't even type a full, complete and correct sentence, you have so much hate in you. But this is as good as it gets for you - POF and Welfare. Pity!

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/9/2009 12:11:30 PM
~You came on this thread where a woman clearly stated she was having a hard time finding men that are fun. She is over 40. You did nothing but bash women of this age group~ EM, all I did was put down an opinion - mine! Everyone has an opinion and has the freedom to voice it, would you agree? Funny, the poster has not said a word to my response but every other older woman has jumped at my throat. And you want ME to be respectful? LOL Calling names, use derogatory slurs and stooping low - and you want ME to show respect? LOL You have responded with sense in your posts without the ugliness of the other oldies in here. Why is that? I know it is frustrating to grow old and the younger women are so much in the lime light that the oldies feel left out but hey, such is life. I keep saying it, there is no room for the old anymore.......nobody cares! I certainly don't......ppphhhfft! My thoughts exactly - You don't demand respect, you command it!!!! None of the oldies get it.

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Why do some women behave this way? Posted: 2/9/2009 11:22:55 AM
~By the way, even if a man hasn't done anything for the woman, and she has taken the time to chat with him, and then they meet for coffee, but there isn't love men TOO will say they have been used~ Not too sure if I want to agree with this but I will share something with you. I seem to be feeding all the women I take out to good food and wine and 'doggy bags'. These are initiated by me and followed through to the end by me. I pick up the tab. Not too sure how ‘love’ would come into the picture over wine and food but from in what the general public says, I think I better start taking them out for coffee instead! Should I not be feeding them.....I wonder! Damn…..I KNEW I was doing something wrong! scratches head and wonders if time can be turned back PS - Who is used here or who is using who here, if I can ask.......politely?

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I just don't understand~~ Posted: 2/9/2009 9:38:20 AM
So you both dated for 2 yrs and then he left and became your ex and now 'thinks' he see's a future but does not know when? Is this how I am reading your response? If that's the case, I hate to burst your bubble but there IS no future......he's got you exactly where he wants you - in a state of total confusion. Don't waste your time. Your upset child is more important to you right now and you need to be there for her. This dude is not worth your time. Think hard, drop the ball and move on. Never rely on false hopes. My thoughts. See what the others have to say.

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How do I begin a relationship? Posted: 2/9/2009 9:28:54 AM
I'd hit the "start' button if I were you and see if the engine rolls!! Once the momentum clicks in......it's beer and wings and drive-in's and cheap condoms

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I just don't understand~~ Posted: 2/9/2009 9:19:27 AM
Very touchy story indeed.....sniff....sniff! But anyways - if I were you, I would ask him: 1. Why is he not ready to 're-kindle' this so called relationship? (personally I don't think there was one; sounds more like an FWB kind of thing) 2. Why is he showing his jealous side knowing he is not ready to start off where he left of? (duh......everyone wants to bake a cake and eat it too...cheesy!) PS - Help me understand, why do ex's still be so much part of one's life and so important to each other? Makes me sick. But that's just me.

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Being viewed... Posted: 2/9/2009 9:08:45 AM
Well, to put this in perspective... I've been profile browsing before, then I see a profile with a witty title, or a cute thumbnail, so I'm like "hmmm". Then I click the profile and my mood becomes: "OH GOD PLEASE NO!" repeatedly taps the back button as fast as possible Amen brother..... No one could have said this more correctly!!!!! PS - My back button is now broken! Imagine my scare!

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Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:52:48 AM
Q - Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22? A - Because they are so innocent and have no clue what they are getting themselves into It's called the age of innocence! I think it is bad parenting and up-bringing as well. They watch and learn and nose dive in their teensFew aspire to be contributors to society. The rest strive to put a strain on the economic functioning. On a funnier note, it's hilarious to see then hop onto a school bus with strollers From the frying pan, into the fire!

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Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:16:28 AM
~WOW. I think Fun Tall is proving men over 40 can be cranky too. Geez~ Nope. But if you want to assume that….please do feel free! That tells me some more about older people ~The question for you might be "what do you have to offer a 20-something?~ A ton of stuff that they would enjoy, want to be part of and relish. Am not used to buying goods with ‘expired’ dates on them

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/9/2009 6:57:02 AM
it's like I hit a soft spot and yes, I did If one takes time and looks deep inside themselves, they should be able to find out what lies at the bottom. What DOES lie at the bottom? Everything that can't float ......sinks to the bottom! Such is life and trying to fight it with derogatory words isn't going to change anything. Period. My interest does not lie in older women, never has, never will. I do and always will enjoy seasonal pickings. Again, OUT with the old, IN with the new! We should learn to 'respect' each others opinions. Fell free to hop onto the maturity train, its a free ride!

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Eye Catching!! Posted: 2/8/2009 8:23:32 PM
Two self pity threads in ONE day......omg! this is so not good for the digestive system. tears rolling down cheeks - hang in there OP, hang in there buddy and one day you will receive mail - open it, even if it is hate mail. PS - if you can, pick up the phone book and start dialing women alphabetically

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:04:58 PM
~Whatever lonestar, you're a train wreck, so no need to feed your psychosis. You have such issues related to hair color, it is pathetic. You think darker hair makes someone better, which is pathetic. Well, you're trashy, so it really doesn't matter what lame comebacks you throw out. All I know is that you obviously are jealous of blondes, otherwise you wouldn't need to attack for no reason, and you have serious issues, which is why your life is such a wreck also. Have fun with your stupidity. Just don't breed anymore, it's sad that you already have brought a mistake into the world. Commercial break is over, Jerry Springer is calling you back on stage. Your comebacks are so not clever, it's sad really. Proving you are the ultimate dumb brunette. Also, a smart brunette would've learned how to use a condom. I'd say more about you, but my mother told me I shouldn't make fun of the retarded. ~ I knew I wasn't the only one reading THESE lines and making them fit! LMAO............Jerry Springer comes to life - OMG! I so want to be part of that audience. I want to sit with societies 'lowest' ever for a bit. Maybe I will understand them better forforumfun - the female pof'er you are communicating with is a young individual who hates the world and everyone in it only because of her current situation at this age. I think you have pin pointed traits that best fit the pof'ers real life description. Omg.....you made me laugh so hard! Thanks.

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Is it wrong to be selfsufficient? Posted: 2/8/2009 7:38:52 PM
~diamondgirl2727~ ~Could you please teach the rest of the male population to do this too? I might actually consider marrying again someday! ~ Can I fill out an application form and stand in line? I am a quick learner. PS - Is it just me or do I see an Ashley Judd in here!!!

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Big boobs Posted: 2/8/2009 6:51:10 PM
Since I am not a boob man, all I can say is big boobs are nasty.....anything out of proportion is gross. They remind me of big fat ugly bearded men on Harley motorcycles bopping up and down a freeway, trying to get from point A to point B and with a lot of difficulty. What happens to them when warranty on them expires? Do they just fall to the ground and look like bad ski slopes that no one wants to create their record on?

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Is it wrong to be selfsufficient? Posted: 2/8/2009 5:24:33 PM
Smart Lass.......pppst.....this is where you need to tell him he needs to get himself a dog that can give a finger like Gracie.......she will have a friend for life on POF and you and OP can hang out too. BTW - did you ONE woman or was "SOME woman" meant actually to be read as YOU and only YOU - One Woman? PS - Don't wake Gracie up now!

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times are changing Posted: 2/8/2009 3:57:44 PM
Poor parenting skills (due to poor upbringing of parents themselves) and no education or a total lack thereof. ~What are we doing as a society that kids are experimenting with booze and drugs younger and younger??????~ ------ Putting up one pagers on wooden lamp posts if anyone has seen their favorite dog/cat/puppy/bf/lover and if so, to call a cell phone! Or......a one pager about a garden sale on a Sunday starting right after the 10am mass at the age old community Church. PS - the items displayed on the lawn are mmmmmmmm......well.....you use your imagination, I have run out of mine and lost all words!

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Paying child support for kids that are not yours Posted: 2/8/2009 3:38:57 PM
So dude, what WAS the married man, while being married to her, shooting? This is a hilarious post. ~So I'm wondering should I get a DNA test if I ever have a kid~ No need to waste the tax payers money, call Dr Phil or Howard Stern or better still - Jerry Springer! ~Just to make sure. I think it should be mandatory especially if your in the military. ~ Military eh, what makes YOU so sure YOU aren't the root cause of all evil. Military, common shower rooms, weekly slipping of soap bars, bunker beds.....oh my, the list is endless!!!

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Classmate Crush: What to do? Posted: 2/8/2009 3:06:57 PM
LOL....OP, for your sense of humor, let me send you a cheque for 10....I just doubled the reward points for you. Now go get her you big tiger! ;) Make sure you come back with pictures and a success stroy - kinda like BEFORE and AFTER .

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 2/8/2009 2:00:22 PM
Absolutely and extremely easy to do. One 'dose' of blond is equal to 2 pints of Honey Lager (for comparison purposes, let's put Miller Genuine Draft in this picture for all US of A readers) PS - Most blonds are dyed blonds. Only they know and think they can pass off as natural blonds. That's how smart they are! Sign....

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Be wary of recently divorced train wrecks Posted: 2/8/2009 1:56:02 PM
~I have better things to do with my time/energy and emotion. If I want drama, I'll create my own. ~ You ARE Act 2, Sc 3............. If you have been around the block at all, you know as well as I do - old does not mean mature and vice versa. I think you should take a break, have a kit kat. The bitterness shows.

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Classmate Crush: What to do? Posted: 2/8/2009 11:25:57 AM
What to do? - I say do her! Ask questions later. Then tell her you finally were able to figure out how to kayak your way towards a cruise liner! She will be impressed and yours forever. Btw, this is no crush you have, this is a bad communication between your penis and your brain. It makes you want to squeal since you see her sing and prance on a stage. I bet you 5 bucks I am dead on.

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Probably a stupid question.... Posted: 2/8/2009 11:18:52 AM
Dude, don't start to plan a weekend get away to get your royal oats sown here! She probably wanted to smell the laundry detergent you use. She wanted to know since you make 40K, whether you shop for quality detergent or stuff from Target/Wal-Mart. Get over it.

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/8/2009 9:20:59 AM
~I quit my career about 13 years ago. Gave up the secretaries, the long hours away from home, and have since got rid of the excess baggage dragging me down.~ Yup and I bet that was the best decision you ever made in your life! How nice. Worked for you.......times have changed. Out with the old, in with the new. A fact of life. Everything I have been saying so far is all true since it's making an impact on you older women...lol Interesting. But this still does not change anything. Women over 40 are dusty trophies in a trophy cupboard! There's a time to shine naturally and there's a time for a mandatory over-haul. Make sense?

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Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/8/2009 9:07:00 AM
~I notice you have flooded the boards with these ridiculous misogynistic posts. If you have such a low opinion of women, why are you on this site claiming that you seek a woman for a long term relationship?~ Aren't you glad it's a Sunday and you have time to go through so many posts!!! My opinions of women in here are very low....yes they are! But they are my opinions. Don't you think? It's a free-for-all dating site meant for the 'elderly'..........the woman I seek is younger, smarter, better looking and far more adventurous and comes from the real world. But then again, who knows, I could run into a diamond in the ruff in here The odds?

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/8/2009 9:00:58 AM
~And by the way, Gracie just sent you a very nasty paw gesture.~ Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Tell Gracie she is just like her mummy

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Why are there more online daters who are workers? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:44:47 AM
Home run small businesses/grocery stores/flower shops/bakeries/network marketing(Amway’s, Primerica)...........these sort of jobs is what I see that women have in here. Nothing surprising but hell, they all 'pay bills' OP, you can say what you want about living on love and fresh air but I can see that you are not any different from a woman running a 'business'.

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Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:36:36 AM
~In your profile you say you are looking for someone who has a positive outlook on life. Like the one you are displaying Chief?~ I can see you are going on the defensive here but that's ok. The truth always hurts. Not your fault. When you start taking pictures with your pets.......sigh.....it's a sign. Going back to what I said earlier, 40 and onwards, a woman is like a dusty trophy only. This trophy needs to be shelved and room must be made for new and much younger talent. After 40, a woman becomes more bitter, has more issues and suddenly turns to achieving a career cuz she has built-in anger and hatred in her and needs to go on a power trip. She is absolutely no fun to be with. Very repulsive thought.

fun_tall

Joined: 11/3/2005

Msg: 27 (view)

Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:21:49 AM
Women - single/single-moms/divorced/etc. between 30 and 40 are a pure failure in life. I find them to be more than repulsive since their conversations revolve around -ve energy only. Their over-whelmed lives are ugly and have no room to brighten up - no matter what. Hence they are who they are and they tend to age much faster. Men - they are too busy making it big in the world and will wait till 60 to become foolish.

fun_tall

Joined: 11/3/2005

Msg: 466 (view)

WHY ARE WOMEN OVER 30 A FAILURE WHEN THEY ARE SINGLE AND CHILDLESS? Posted: 2/8/2009 8:12:25 AM
~well, i say it's all in how we want out lives to be~ Sure. No one's stopping you going that route but don' t blame the world for a pre-conceived notion. It is what it is and that's why women over 30 with no kids and/or single are a pure failure. It is very true. Don't try and change that. Now, instead of taking a vote in a public room and gaining sympathy from others like you, make the effort and change your own life. Single women over 30 don't have to be smart and goal oriented at all. They should concentrate on making babies, cooking, cleaning and sorting out bills. That's the way it is and that's the way it will be. Don't fight it, join it - you and the rest of them out there!

fun_tall

Joined: 11/3/2005

Msg: 18 (view)

Be wary of recently divorced train wrecks Posted: 2/8/2009 8:01:15 AM
~I felt more like a divorce counselor than I did a girlfriend. It ended in a train wreck! The lesson I learned from this is to stay away from any man who is going through a divorce or is going to war with his ex over a kid.~ I kinda question this and ask myself, 'aren't older and more mature people able to pick up on things' before making a scene? And I can't answer this. You say you asked him if the drama with this ex was all over. You got your answer and now you are in here in Act 1 - Scene One, Chapter 1......yourself. Question to you - how DOES it feel?

fun_tall

Joined: 11/3/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Once a woman hits 40 what can she do to help herself w/finding someone fun? Posted: 2/8/2009 7:49:32 AM
~LMAO ~ You are going to have rough go with that attitude. You aren't far behind the rest of us and in case you aren't aware: Benjamin Button is a movie, it's not real. You don't get younger as you age.~ It's not all about the attitude. In this case, this is a reality. Most of my friends in their late 20's and early 30's are looking to 'test drive' an older woman once in a life time. None of them care for anything else including me. And when we get to where YOU are, our attitude will still be the same as it is today. ~If you want to meet someone fun ~ try meeting somewhere where YOU actually do have fun. (Hobbies, interests, etc., etc. of your own.) ~ I took this approach when I was a little boy, say 15...16....I can't understand how 'older' women in this day and age can talk like this. I think a lot of 'older' women need to get out into the real world - you included.

fun_tall

Joined: 11/3/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

how to approach people Posted: 2/7/2009 11:32:49 PM
OP - In any public place, approaching a group of women is fun. While they talk about their ex's and 'un-happy days', barge in and start a conversation! They love it. Never approach a woman or women from the back and tap on their shoulder/s to get some attention - this is a deal breaker and you will go home alone. Women like ballsy men........be a man and most certainly .... pack like a man! Do it with confidence.

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