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 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Question for MEN
Posted: 11/3/2009 6:04:47 AM
Glad you had a good time. Just remember, men are pigs, and proud of it.

Diet is more important than excerice. My wife watches everything she eats and excercises daily, 4 days on the tread mill 3 days on the bike trainer and lifts weights with the ball for core strengthening. She is 44 with the body better than most 20yr olds after having 2 kids. She did this for herself, not me....though I much prefer it. After the second kid, she got busy taking care of them and the house instead of her and gained weight, size 4 to a size 12. Sorry to say if we had met when she looked like that, we wouldn't have gone out. I wouldn't have left her, but wasn't thrilled with her appearance. Now she's a size 1 or 2 depending and looks 10+years younger than she is. If he is attracted to you now, it can only get better with the work you are doing.

If he is only looking to get laid, frankly, breathing is the only criteria. Hope it works out and keep up the good work.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 9:04:49 PM

backcheck, did your wife have oral surgery too? That would be a real downer.
No, ovarian cysts, but I don't count oral....enjoy it, but there is no substitute or vaginal.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What drives you crazy in bed about your partner?
Posted: 7/7/2009 2:07:14 PM
Watching her face as she grinds away on top.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Leg Men? Boob Men? Hip men? Butt men? Huh??!!
Posted: 7/7/2009 2:05:28 PM
I guess I'm picky I love the boobs, but only if they are attacted to a small tight butt. I like a nice set of Ds on a tight athletic body. But she has to have long hair, preferably blonde or red head....the best bod can be ruined by short butch hair. An increadible rack can be spoiled by a flabby butt. Yes, I guess I'm superficial...lucky for my wife.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 1:59:13 PM
15 days and I was killing everything that moved. Wife had to have a surgical proceedure. Hell I get testy after 15 min. 15 months and I'd be in prison for murder.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Was your first time really dissapointing?
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:35:17 AM
I don't know if dissapointing would be the right word, confusing maybe. I waited until the ripe old age of 15 and glad I didn't wait any longer. Got it every chance I could, and got a lot of experience. Did it affect my marriage by not waiting? (she wasnt a virgin either), NO not at all. still a very solid, inimate marriage after 21yrs.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Good enough only for sex
Posted: 5/26/2009 10:59:36 AM
Went to college with some guys like that, they went after large unattractive women saying they were like mopeds, fun to ride but you don't want to be seen on one. One said he did that because the unattractive and large ones worked harder in bed....because they had to. I couldn't do it.

Some are just looking for a place to bust a nut, and they don't want anything else.

I'm married to a hottie and love to show her off. I'll take her anywhere, anytime, plus I've got a tongue thats 10" long and I've learned to breath through my ears. I'm not just going to had out that tallent to just anyone.

If you are in the situation of being used....it takes two to tango. He or she can't use you unless you let them.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
sex, chocolate, men and women
Posted: 5/23/2009 6:44:40 AM
The OP must listen to Dr Laura.....and I totally agree. My wife had a good job before we decided to have kids, she quit to raise the kids, take care fo the house. I provided the finances and took care of the outside stuff, sports, and vehicles.

How horrible was it, MARRIED 21 YEARS and still going strong. Kids are both straight A students, in the gifted program and recieve academic and citizenship awards regularly. Both are outstanding athletes in ice and roller hockey, and my daughter in softball. Due to the economic downturn of my busienss, she went back to work. She was a stay at home mom for 13 yrs and walked into a very good job after looking for 2 weeks. As the kids are moderately self sufficent, we share more of the housework, but she still does the bulk, I take care of all of thier sports (practice, coaching, equipment) but she never misses a game, and I take care of all of the outside work and vehicles as before.

Traditional setup? yes, but it works. We appreciate eachother and "need" eachother. You can convice yourself you don't need anyone else, but that is one lonely life, and kids NEED both parents. We see the product of single parents all of the time
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How Important is Sex in a Relationship????
Posted: 5/23/2009 6:22:27 AM
Extremely important, look at the number of divorces and breakups due to lack of sex. Dont care how good the rest of the relationship is, it won't last without a good sexual relationship at its base....otherwise your nothing but room mates, easy to get rid of.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Guys: Tgirls hot or not??
Posted: 5/18/2009 2:40:57 PM
HELL NO, that is false advertising in my book and fraud. Someone is going to get hurt and it won't be me.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Going Without
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:16:30 AM
I can go a whole week, prefer 3 to 4 times a week though....I've slowed down in my old age. Back in high school, it was 3 or 4 girls 5 to 9 times a week. Had 3 girls in one night once, not at the same time though....ah the good old days.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How many of you RELIGIOUSLY demand your partners get tested before you begin having sex?
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:10:08 AM
In my 30yrs of sexual activity.....none. Back in the late 70s early 80s most of what you could catch could be cured with a shot or shampoo. Been in a monogamous relationship/marriage for 25yrs so No.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 371 (view)
 
Any women left with body hair?
Posted: 4/12/2009 4:32:19 PM
I prefer my woman shaved all the way around.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
When you have a long sex break is your drive goes up or down?
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:25:32 PM
Define long....I consider over 5 days very long and I start to get the urge to kill things. It takes at least 3 times a week to keep me on an even keil. And yes it goes way up the longer I don't have it.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Lookin foward to trying this weekend!
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:18:57 PM
Love when the wife does it, but if a guy offers, I'm getting my gun LOL
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 636 (view)
 
How long should good sex last?
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:15:13 PM
So far, 26yrs and counting.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Not that into sex with same person.
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:06:49 PM
Damn I guess I'm a freak....I've been doing the same woman for 26 yrs.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Breast Size [Do guys ever notice the difference?]
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:00:07 PM
Firm and perfect huh. Prove it LOL I'm from Missouri SHow ME
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 211 (view)
 
Women That Wear Thongs...
Posted: 4/11/2009 8:52:44 PM
Thongs are about all my wife wears. She say's they are very comfortable for her and she has a perfect butt for them....she cycles alot and its a nice rounded, very firm, perky butt. She doesn't wear them above her pants line though. Sorry, she looks hot as hell in them.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Breast Size [Do guys ever notice the difference?]
Posted: 4/11/2009 8:33:34 PM
Sure I've noticed, didn't really care, my right nut is bigger than my left, is that a problem? Now if one is a DDD and the other is barely an A
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
What bugs you?
Posted: 4/9/2009 8:52:01 PM
What bugs me....just about everything. Plus the fact the Blues have yet to bring home the cup.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
I wonder what non-smokers did before all this. Just sit at home all the time?
Posted: 4/9/2009 8:42:52 PM
Only a couple of dive bars in Columbia had a problem with the smoking ban, until the economy crashed, business was actually going up at restaurants and some bars AFTER the ban was in place. We wouldn't patronize establishments that allowed smoking. I've never smoked and I'm not subjecting my kids to it. Thier grandmother used to, now she is battling multiple health problems as a result...with her one remaining lung. If I were single, I would never even entertain the idea of dating a smoker. Obesety is a bigger problem than smoking though as far as health costs.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Losing your virginity for physical vs. emotional attraction
Posted: 4/9/2009 6:39:30 AM
[qoute]stay a virgin!!

the scary villians in horror movies never kill the virgins!!

No they are sought out to be sacrified at a satanic alter

The first time is usually rather alkward and rarely this magical thing people have it built up to be. You'd be surprised the number of divorces that occur due to sexual incompatablity in "virgin" marriages. Also the infidelity that occurs in marriages involving "virgin" due to curiosity after they become active. The divorce rate is higher in "vigin" marriages that those between previously active people. Neither my wife or I were virgins and we have a solid marriage after 21yrs. I had a lot more miles on me than her but any curiosity was taken care of and I could settle into one person for the rest of my life...sowed the wild oats as they used to say. It's up to you, but it is far more often a detriment than a benifit...except for STDs, though if you engage in oral or anal and believe only vaginal is sex, STDs are previlent there so..... just how far do you take the virgin title?
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Guys - when do you 'expect' sex?
Posted: 4/9/2009 6:01:32 AM
IF on the first date....she's a doorknob, but hey , I'm taking my turn, if she's really good, maybe several turns but I'm not getting involved.

If I didn't get it by the third date, there wasnt a fourth.

And a little chase is ok, otherwise it's too much work.


Of course this was my policy years ago.....been married of a long time. No more chasing involved. A backrub and anything goes.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 187 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 4/7/2009 10:55:26 AM
I personally don't like a big butt....wife has a perfectly curved size 1 as tuned to perfection through lots of cycling and excercise. Her buns fit perfectly in my hands. and even at 43 and having had two kids, is virually cellulite free. Love she small rounded very firm butts, as well as the rest of the body. No large women for me thanks, but I have friends that like the big butts.....just not my thing.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
A difficult decission...
Posted: 4/6/2009 12:42:30 PM
It's not unrealistic to expect to be with the same person till death do you part. I've been with my wife for 26yrs and love her more today than yesterday. Having premarital sex has no bearing on this at all though. Neither of us were virgins, and I would be considered high mileage for my age at that time, hell even now. It puts a remendous amount of pressure of people wait for thier wedding night. The first time is far from magical, and to hinge your marriage on what could be a disaster, doesn't get you off on the right foot, if it is boring, your relationship has a high probablity of failure. It's your call of course, but "saving yourself" doesn't guarantee anything. Plus long distance relationships are very hard, especially cross boarder. No one can tell you what to do, it is your decision, but considering what you've laid out here, I'd be inclined to throw in the towel
Sorry
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Is Sex the BE all or END all of a relationship?
Posted: 3/17/2009 6:53:43 AM
Even after being together 26yrs......it is of the upmost importance. I would put it as the end all, be all.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Sex is over-rated
Posted: 3/16/2009 9:45:01 AM
All I can say to urine is ..thank god I'm an athiest...get it but I'm still an atheist and sex is very important to me....us. the wife and I, even after being together 26yrs.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Sex is over-rated
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:23:10 AM
Sex is only overrated of you can't get any. Dr. Oz on GMA even said sex is not just recreation, but needed for good health. It can add years to your life, and essential for quality of life. Men equated it , if good and on a weekly basis, to a $50000 pay increase. It greatly aids in stress relief too. Women gain the most in quailty of life. If I go more than 3 days without it, I'm ready to kill someone.

I guess if you can't get it, or you suck at it....it's overrated. For the rest of us, it's imperative.

How many sexless marriages (totally, including outside recreation) last?,
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is there such a thing as a Try-sexual?
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:06:02 AM
Definately bi

"try" would mean you would TRY to have sex with anything, men, women, farm animals

"tri" means 3...

Unless there is another form of live involved, it is BI. meaning two. men and women.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Mismatched Libido's or Insecurities?
Posted: 3/11/2009 10:17:49 AM
M54, he's only 32, when I was that age, I could go a couple or three times a day, everyday. At 32, Age shouldn't be a factor unless he's obese or has MAJOR medical problems. At 45 I can go daily and I've torn my body up with sports and motorcycles. The flesh shouldn't be weak at any age below 60, unless you've been in a tramatic accident or had severe medical issues. Eat right and excercise....the spirit seemes to be the weak link in this.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is he kidding me??
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:58:11 AM
DO ladies still exist?... in this society?

No what I would post, height yes, I got him by 10lbs, but the rest....don't think so.

And of all my single friends, none of them are looking for a lady.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Would you watch?
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:49:16 AM
Too many variables to give a yes or no answer...
If she was hot, I'd offer any assistance, then grab my cameras and camcorder.
If she was average, I might watch, if there was nothing better on tv
If she was butt ugly, I would probably leave, or have some fun by screaming "MY EYES, MY EYES, I'm BLIND" or call the cops and report a case of beastiality...gotta have some fun.
If this occured at my home and she was ugly, I'd throw them out and charge for damages.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Sex after 40 and neing alone for a long time
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:38:04 AM
I vote for a bottle of tequila, and then the booty call. Gotta get going somehow.

As Nike puts it...Just Screw it....I mean Just Do it.

Life is too short to be scared. You could get hit by a bus tomorrow, listen to your daughter.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Mismatched Libido's or Insecurities?
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:29:22 AM
I'd be all up for sex, well, almost every night, gotta have one night for hockey. Of course I'm old, and believe as long as no one winds up in the hospital, anything goes in the bedroom. I see it putting a strain on the relationship though. Maybe you can meet half way. If you can't find middle ground where he can accomodate most of your sexual needs, well.........maybe he isn't the one. My wife is no where near as adventurous as I'd like to be and it does strain our relationship.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What does voluptuous mean to you?
Posted: 3/11/2009 7:03:43 AM
Years ago, it meant large breasts with a small waist..

These days, after seeing pictures associated with what women label voluptuous, it means fat.

What most women call "a few extra pounds" is considered obese by the AMA. When the national average is a size 16, that is no where near average according to the medical community. a size 6 to 8 should be average.

So these descriptive words mean nothing anymore.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Tough Love
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:37:10 AM
You should have started this at birth. My son learned quickly, he acted up at a dentist appointment when he was 6, he lost his Playstation for 6 months. Now at 12, he knows if he acts up he will be pulled from his hockey team, which he loves and is a stand out player. His grades have never been less than As and sees that as his future, which we expained to him from early on so school has never been a problem, but he and his sister know the line and are well aware of the consequences if they screw up. That line needs to be established early in life. If he has something in life that he absolutely loves and is passionate about, basicly defines him, be prepared to use that to get him to shape up. I've yet to have to resort to the "wood shed".
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 269 (view)
 
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:24:30 AM
Absolutely not. I have two that take alot of time to raise, I wouldn't want another, especially someone elses kid.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Daughter (7) is being bullied...cant believe it is starting already
Posted: 2/26/2009 7:25:33 AM
Girls tend to be the meanest of the sexes. My daughter is a goalie on an A2 level hockey team and takes care of bullies more like a boy.....pick on her and she'll knock you up side the head. She also practices with my son's team who are 2 to 3 yrs older and has endured a few comments, make one to many and as two of the older boys found out, she'll chase you off the ice and you better not stop running. 90% of the time she is as girlie as you can get, but if you piss her off, look out.

It takes a lot to piss my son off, but when you do, there will be a smack down. One boy on his bus a couple of years ago decided to start hitting my son in the arm, after four warnings (as confirmed by several people on the bus), he calmly stood up, grabbed the shoulder of his shirt hockey style, and landed four quick, hard blows to the side of the kids head and sat back down like nothing had happened. The boy was nice as could be after that. He has been put in this situation a couple of times because he is the brain of his class. .. Straight As (lowest class was a 97.55%, 3 were 100%, and 2 99%, wears glasses, and has a somewhat bookwormish look. He is also a top flight goalie and if he plays out can flatten any guy on the ice, but because he gets perfect grades and is in the gifted program, he gets picked on and has to defend himself, which he has no problem doing.

I tell my kids, if they start a fight, thier butt is mine....if someone else starts a fight with them and they don't FINISH it, thier butt is mine. They may get in trouble with the school, but not me, but if they don't stand up for themselves, they will be in trouble with me.

It was funny, last year a kid on his bus was getting picked on big time, my son asked me if he could beat the kid up that was doing the bullying to which I said no, it wasn't his fight, so he tried to get the kid to redirect his taunting at him....it didn't work since he had heard of what happens when you pick on my son. His intentions were good though.

I figure, if my daughter keeps playing hockey, I'll won't have to worry when she hits dating age, if she say's no, she can enforce it.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
My girlfriend is bi-curious, help!
Posted: 2/19/2009 10:21:22 AM
I'd be screaming HELL YES, and do what ever I could to help her out. Love that kind of stuff. I'd love to have your problem.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
do bigger women orgasm more than skinny women
Posted: 2/12/2009 11:46:14 AM

Personally I've lost forty pounds and I have a lot more orgasms now that I'm thinner than when I was bigger.

But then again, I've never really been insecure about my body in bed either which perhaps some women who are thinner feel oddly enough. But I figure, if the guy wants to sleep with me, he probably likes my body as well.


My wife lost 72lbs and she orgasms much more often now that before she lost the weight...not only that she wants to have sex far more often...good for me...and her. She couldn't stand being larger and hated her body. I rarely saw her naked during that time, now she wears lingurie and walks around (except when the kids are around) naked..again good for me. I think that is why she has more Os now, she is much more comfortable with her body and though I love her in any form, she knows I prefer thin women and she feels I'm more attracted to her, which I can't deny.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Married Men -To date or not to date?
Posted: 2/12/2009 11:30:02 AM

You want to know why married men are here looking for sex? Because their wives decided it was ok to disregard their husband's needs for any number of reasons, but the reality is that something is missing, and the husband wants it back. Yes there are some guys that have to get laid by as many women as they can so they can keep their ego puffed up, even if Elizabeth Hurley is at home in a negligee anxiously awaiting his arrival. I had a VERY happy marriage up until my first child was born and then it was like going from being married to a porn star to living with a Nun, and no amount of protest changed anything. Its been almost 10 years of neglect, and yes I can wait another 10 and hope things change, which i doubt so instead I will find some passion and perhaps love in a willing participant. For you ladies who choose to give me a scathing "I Dont Do Married, get a divorce if you're unhappy!" response to my kind inquiries, perhaps you might walk a mile in someone elses shoes before you make such blanket black and white judgement statements. Married men will continue to seek sex from other women, because married women will continue to neglect them their basic human needs of emotional connection and sexual contact.


I've been married for 21yrs, and though there have been a few lulls in intimancy, I wouldn't call it neglect. Now she has taken an article of Dr Oz's to heart and making every effort to have sex a minimum of 200 times a year (yes with only me). When we have had problems we have always resorted to taking it out over screwing someone else. It takes both sides to make a concerted effort to make a marriage work and too many find it easier to screw around. I've never taken that road and don't plan on it, good things take work and I have no desire to go after anyone else. In many cases, if you put the same effort..and money.. into your marriage as you do running around, you will have a strong marriage and not need or have any urge to run.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Married Men -To date or not to date?
Posted: 2/6/2009 8:24:41 AM
Yes, I'm married and on this site for the fourms, I am trying to learn from others mistakes to avoid thier pitfalls. I have never even kissed another woman in the 21 yrs I've been married, and many opportunites have come up over the years. My wife is a hottie and we get along good, no reason to wander. But knowledge is power and you can get some interesting info from fourms....plus maybe spice up the sex a bit more with something we haven't thought of. My profile says I'm married and I haven't propositioned anyone on her or anywhere else. I'm more than willing to chat with anyone as long as it isn't of an "interpesonal" type. I'm dedicated to my wife and kids.

Not all married guys are creeps but I do know plenty, one is now single...after his fourth divorce. I'm the only one I know my age that isn't on their second+ marriage.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Thin fella's and bigger women!! Whats the deal ??
Posted: 1/22/2009 7:34:21 AM
I see it around here all of the time. Skinny farm boys with MUCH larger women. If that is what they find attractive....so be it. I stopped by a friends house a while back and he was watching a porno...400lb plus with guys that couldn't have been over 150lbs, I found it disturbing personally, plus dangerous for him. It takes all kinds. I personally prefer thin, athletic, petite women, that is my preference. Why isn't someone screaming about that. My wife gets alot of glares and rude comments from some of the larger women where she works because of her size. The thin women are in the vast minority and they take alot of crap. She even gets crap from her family, almost all of which are larger women. My how things change with time.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Sexy vehicles... not for looks, but what vehicles you had sex in.
Posted: 1/7/2009 10:02:35 AM
Too many vehicles to list, but the most uncomfortable was a tie between a 71 Pinto and a 73 Mustang convertable. My wifes current vehicle would be easy, 05 Odyssey, but haven't had the occasion. Best hood was my 70 Impala.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Scars, do they scare you (guys)
Posted: 12/31/2008 5:39:35 AM

This is why I don't get too upset about 4-wheelers, which are inerently unstable nor snowmobiles. You die ot get maimed. Ten snowmobilers died in the past week in their horribly polluting two-stroke egines.


My wife has scars from an apendix operation as a kid and two C sections, as a person that plays hockey, I don't mind the scars at all. I've been riding quads for 10 yrs and have yet to get more than a scratch from a branch and I ride agressively, on a track or tight trails....plenty of air time. Most of my scars are from bicycle accidents with idiot car drivers...then a few from hockey and other sports. Only one is from a motorized vehicle, layed a street bike down in the rain..and it was minor. Don't get a chance to ride snow mobiles much but I ride like theres not tomorrow and still unscathed.

Scars are a sign of living.

And we use the term, pain heals, chicks dig scars, glory is forever.
 backcheck
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 599 (view)
 
Tattoos on the breasts
Posted: 12/27/2008 12:31:55 PM
I didn't say it applies to all. I'm saying that is what at least most of the people I know refer to as when they use the term trailer trash. And as a contractor, I don't do repairs on mobile homes. When I pull up, if it wasn't stated when the appointment was maid, if it is a mobile home, I refer them to someone that does work on mobile homes. As far as other work, we bid everything by the book, use top quality materials, and have references a mile long. The majority of the people I do work for expect very clean cut people, and thats what they get. I don't have anyone smoke, and if a sub has someone, I don't care if the owner smokes, they do not on the job..period. Tattoos will be covered, my clientel is put off by it so they will remain hidden or that person will not be on my job site. Most of my customers are very conservative, so its something I will not allow. Feel free to do as you wish.....I was just stating what at least the people I know and am around refer to as trailer trash, and I can show you MANY examples, mobile homes are no longer even allowed in Jeff City, the few remaining are only there till zoning can get them out. Congratulations on your kids, I wish them well on thier future endevors. I have seen the some of the newer manufactured housing at shows, they have improved over the years, not to what I am used to building, the last one was a 4500 sq ft timber frame at the Lake....well over half a mill. Again, I said old single wides crammed together on tiny lots.... as far as moving, I don't plan on going anywhere, the kids are in great schools and excelling...like the area. Both are in the gifted program and my son is planning on MIT and my daughter Boston College, though at 12 and 10, they have a little time to change thier minds (I know my son won't ). There are two trailer parks in Columbia that make the news two to three times a month with drug busts, shootings, all sorts of illegal activities....there are places that are shining examples of the stereo type. There are exceptions to everything....but there are many examples that support the term.

As far as the backstab comment, I don't have to like or even approve of the people I work for, all I have to do is a good job at a fair price....which I do. Fully licensed and insured. And I've worked for some wealthy, well educated bible thumping people with very large expensive houses that are the scum of the earth. My job isn't to apporve of them, its to do the job the to the best of my ability and not use inferior materials or improper building methods. I don't work on mobile homes because they do not use standard building practices, the newer ones are much closer, but he calls I usually get are for older ones. Business and personal likes and dislikes don't mix....and I've worked for some restaurant owners, in all of the years, I've never worked for a conveinent store clerk or server at a restaurant....just never got calls from them, lots of state employees, doctors, lawyers, architects, retirees, various busiensses....just not them, and if I did, I would price the job just the same and do the same quality work.
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Msg: 596 (view)
 
Tattoos on the breasts
Posted: 12/27/2008 9:51:16 AM

can you do me a favor and define what trailer trash is?[/qoute]

I can't speak for all areas of the country, but generally in the midwest, trailer trash are people who reside in trailer parks, usually older single wides packed onto small lots. Most usually prioritize alcohol and cigs over food and paying bills. Personal hygene isn't very important either. Not all but a large number are uneducated, abuse substances, alcohol, drugs, cigs, etc.... and are employed at places like gas stations and restaurants. Often you will find a mid 70s to mid 80s car on blocks in front of or next to the home. In the St Louis area they are also known as hoosiers or reside in JeffCo or south St Louis. Many have arrest records.......have kids by mulitple partners......and have tattoos.

This is just what I have seen, and as a contractor I have bid jobs in alot of homes and this stereotype has proven to hold water, not saying it's necessarily right in all cases, but there seems to be a reason behind it
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Msg: 115 (view)
 
sex with pregnant women
Posted: 12/24/2008 6:55:10 AM
Had sex with the wife up until about the last 2 weeks, then the doctor said it could induce labor and since she had to have C sections, we didn't want that kicking in. On the bright side, She was ready to go much quicker with the C sections and no damage to the plumbing.
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Msg: 197 (view)
 
Breast implants
Posted: 12/23/2008 10:51:22 AM
And what about those that look like a couple of lemons in a tube sock? Ones that a woman can toss over her shoulders?
 
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