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Joined: 11/5/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

I need a man's opinion Posted: 6/3/2009 11:14:45 PM
"dating about a month" and"we only see each other every other weekend"? and "He is an excellent lover"? but "he hardly talks"? Let's see, he's seen you twice,hardly talks to you,and he's gettin laid? Do you really want someone's opinion? About him or you? It sounds like he is getting what he wanted out of you. Why should anything change for him?

Joined: 11/5/2005

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would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure? Posted: 6/3/2009 2:00:55 AM
We all started as parasites living and feeding off of our mothers body's. Wouldn't using your line of thinking make everyone trash?

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Sore on eye? Posted: 5/10/2009 10:20:30 PM
I notice you want people to contact you via IM to learn "bout me". Unfortunately,if you knew much about computers, which you may, then you should know that using an IM program networks your computer to whomever you are Im'ing,and some people dont trust IMs because so many BOT programs and such can be distributed this way. You give people access to your computer when they are networked together. Not a good thing for security.

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havng piercing and dressing like a teenager in your forties, is that ok? Posted: 5/10/2009 10:04:00 PM
Prudish? No. Just a personal preference of yours,which is not for someone else to judge. Is it ok for a lady in her 40's to dress this way? Yes- again- it is a personal preference-hers! But..........here's the kicker- to me it was a classic bait and switch game-illegal in retail and used often by con artist on their marks. She may not think there was anything wrong with what she did,but to me, it was just as wrong as someone that post only pics of what they looked like 10-15 years ago. A type of false advertising if you will. If she is to be out and about with her peircings and hair that way,she should also post pics of her that way. I speak from experience myself there. One lady hitting me up hard for a date looked great,but said she had trouble getting dates. She seemed nice enough,and she said she was in great shape physically,so I figured I could meet her and if nothing else.possibly at least a friend for activities. She arrived and couldnt walk across the Red Lobster parking lot without stopping to rest. She even set off the alarm on a car she leaned against. And her hairline had receeded at least three inches btween when the pictures were taken and when we met.I wont even mention the amount she ate,or why she also ordered extra while I was in the men's room. $160 lunch at Red Lobster!!! lol

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Msg: 58 (view)

Women Over 40: Ending Relationships Posted: 5/10/2009 9:45:05 PM
Possibly you think it is a budding relationship,but they dont see as much into it as you do. In other words, are you being too hungry? Sorry. When you ask a question. the answers will not always be what you want to hear.

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Get together at The Flame Steak House in Sanford Posted: 10/10/2008 9:49:42 PM
Isnt Saturday the 11th?

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First ever in Sanford, NC = The Flame Steak house - 26 Setpember Posted: 9/20/2008 12:24:51 PM
Even though I have to be at work in Garner that night at 945pm,I am still very tempted to show at this one.

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Where Do You Find Your Gift points? Posted: 5/15/2008 12:04:09 AM
I am a frequent login on this site(I work third and the night gets slow) and seem to have totally quit recieving gift point for logging in. Does anyone else seem to have this problem?

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Virtual Gift Points Posted: 5/14/2008 11:58:54 PM
My problem is that I have quit recieving gift points at all.Strange

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Msg: 182 (view)

The body beautiful and men over 45! Posted: 12/31/2007 5:04:48 AM
""when they say "I'm very oral" it means they have E.D. bigtime". That's not totally true. I have been very oral since before my teen years. And I am 48 now and still functioning very well thank you. Maybe,just maybe,it is the other person not giving the needed arousal,because of whatever reason. I know there are some that cant get me exited-at all !

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How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 12/31/2007 4:51:41 AM
I have never dated in any other way. 100% interracially.

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Msg: 83 (view)

ethinticity- non caucasian Posted: 12/19/2007 2:17:16 AM
I love the option. Though I am white, and have known some fantastic white ladies,my actual preferences are still to the non-white side. And not just sexually.

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are the pay sites scamming us Posted: 12/19/2007 2:11:26 AM
I have also found them to use fake profiles, and even re-use the same pictures in many different fake profiles,with the people "living" in different locations.

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One for the guys... Posted: 12/16/2007 11:32:53 PM
Thank you Nikkibear. I totally agree with this post. There are some great people on here,male and female.But you just can't know a person by their profile they have posted. That is but their own opinion of themselves,more than anything else. If they arwe a forum contributor,it does help to see moe into the person as a whole,and what their personality/outlook on life/and even where their hearts really are in the good vs evil struggle. But even then ,you have to meet and really get to know the person. In fact,one of this sites very worst slammer/posters has even posted a reply to this very post,claiming to be and do exctly the opposite of what she actually does. She doesn't fully read and comprehend posting before she puts her foot in her mouth. Just to go back and read everything she has replied to/on and then her replies would explain that. She even recently chided/slammed me on an honest posting/question,but you can tell by her reply that she didn't read or comprehend what I had posted. She was even able to get my posting closed for redundancy in order to keep me from replying to her reply. She also chided/slammed me for posting when I had only been on this site for a "less than a month" , when in actuality, I have been on this site THIS time alone for over 2 years. LONGER than she has been. And I have been reading her postings all this time,and wondering- "Gee, is this wicked woman really the web site owners GF??"

Joined: 11/5/2005

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Blocked ???? [Closed Thread] Posted: 12/3/2007 2:18:42 PM
I have never contacted anyone for an intimate encounter,which I see will automatically block me from contacting people who check that preference on their mail settings.I am fine with that. My problem is that I am automatically blocked forever,because either someone seeking an intimate encounter has contacted me,and I sent a reply email, or ,after having read an intimate encounter profile,I emailed with a comment or recommendation. Being automatically blacklisted for these reasons is wrong,and there should be a way to get yourself removed from the blacklist without having to totally delete your profile and starting over!

Joined: 11/5/2005

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How do you feel about Interracial Dating ? Posted: 9/12/2007 2:36:59 AM
To be honest,it is the only way I have ever had a relationship since my teen years.

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It Happened to Me for the First Time at 48 years Old. Posted: 6/22/2007 8:47:19 AM
He was a cad. Be glad he is gone.Keep looking, there are still good men out there.

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