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Kissing and the Spark Posted: 5/27/2009 1:23:32 PM
Passion is all glandular, it's Dopamine and oxytocin and are both needed for bonding !when dopamine drops, oxytocin levels can't rise, weakening emotional bonds. And this is why marriage doesn't last Because people think they have fallen out of love.. So Don't put to much emphasis on a "Kiss" You can basically have the same effect with ANYONE! As long as the two have a mutual trust and understanding of each others needs, hopes, aspirations,and outlook on life, the mind will create this stimuli... Most drug users will lose their ability to feel the stimuli because they have weakened the output of the hormone, which is very sad for when they become mature and wonder why they can't find love. And another main reason people suffer from depression after a break up, is because they were basically addicted. It's like a drug, and you will have it again, because it's a natural part of your body's gene. Finding someone you work well with- is the first step. Worrying about "Is this person right FOR MY LIFE, Instead of selfishly wondering if they are right for your physical needs" What if something happened to where you couldn't consume sex with each other? Would you still be able to carry out the relationship? Or will you Next Them?

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Is he not that into me? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:40:30 PM
Who cares, someone else will be.

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He took my money and ran Posted: 5/22/2009 9:38:24 PM
Ya, He works in Vegas part time as a male dancer. He can't speak english but I'd give him all I had if I had any to give. I feel your pain.

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:36:19 PM
NO, Not until they actually start feeling a little emotional.... Just plain science.

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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:35:21 PM
Another GED advocate

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Do you guage physical attraction on..... Posted: 5/22/2009 9:34:18 PM
Physical attraction DOESNT last....

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What is classified as a date.? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:33:15 PM
When he pays for the Valet.

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He's still fishing after dating for 4 months... Posted: 5/22/2009 9:32:10 PM
With a handle like that I would too

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I don't want to be interviewed Posted: 5/22/2009 9:28:59 PM
Well get use to it, Does your boss just give you full benefit package after the first day on the JOB? DUH Just meet her at a Rest Stop and get it over with. Aint it fun working for the goods... High school drop out syndrome

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I don't want to be interviewed Posted: 5/22/2009 9:28:28 PM
Well get use to it, Does your boss just give you full benefit package after the first day on the JOB? DUH

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Whatever happened to humor and flirting? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:26:28 PM
dude, throw out the dictionary, and work on your syntax. Relating to ANY woman doesn't start with a Kiss or Mr. Prong, it starts with your HEART ..

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:22:25 PM
Is that Skunk or dog sh!t?

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Anyone Ever Dated A TRUE Narcissist? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:21:43 PM
you wouldn't be here if you didn't

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Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:19:46 PM
Hide that thing, no open invitation

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When to say I was engaged before? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:18:50 PM
Or when to say I've been married 9 times.

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Why do you need my email address? Posted: 5/22/2009 9:17:42 PM
no more like, DO YOU YAHOO? no I don't and get lost

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~~THE STADIUM ~~ Hilliard~ Sunday May 24th~ POOL & KARAOKE~!! Posted: 5/22/2009 6:20:28 AM
Thanks Debbie, will try and get over there this Sunday,

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Calves are sore along shin bone from running. Posted: 5/17/2009 5:38:49 PM
They will go away in time, just run through it after a day off, they will swell and you'll be walking like a crab, but they will soon vanish

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Running/jogging Posted: 5/17/2009 5:37:18 PM
I'm pretty sure that your weight will govern you. Go for it. Personal trainers are typically undereducated. So true, anytime I see someone is a PT it's eyeroll

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Running Posted: 5/17/2009 5:31:20 PM
Awesome, sounds like someone is at their peek. Congrads

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What is the best running shoes for you? Posted: 5/17/2009 5:27:43 PM
My friend is a running trainer and I always wore my size 7 when I ran, he told me to up the size in my shoe, and it works. So I wear a size 9 running shoe Nike's zero blisters and more comfort

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Fitness and Smoking! Posted: 5/17/2009 5:19:46 PM
Yep it's possible, running helps get rid of the urge to smoke. It's hard but works

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I'm a musician and I fell for a deaf girl... Posted: 5/17/2009 5:09:54 PM
One time a guy broke out the vocal cords holding my hand and starts singing to me on our date, I thought to myself. "When is this going to be over?" "is this going to take long?" "Did this work with other girls?" "I didn't ask for this, did I?" "Thank God my friends aren't here!" "my ear's feel violated" "I forgot the clothes in the dryer" "Am I suppose to clap afterwards?"

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Why Does a Man need to act first? Posted: 5/17/2009 4:31:18 PM
Just make your own rules..

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Curious about peoples success rate on here... Posted: 5/17/2009 4:29:32 PM
Yea, I've made lots of friends and had a lot of dates, Not all of them are serious nor are ther kisses exchanged. But all have been right up my alley

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 5/17/2009 4:24:06 PM
Sorry Nocturnal Princess, Sex with A drunk person in the state of Ohio. Is considered RAPE........... But i understand your not an attorney

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 5/17/2009 4:20:30 PM
What a dumb dumb..

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Why some women don't like receiving oral Posted: 5/17/2009 4:06:29 PM
Mainly because it causes bladder infections- I've never been to fond of it either. its like YAWN

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is it easier for a homely woman to get laid? Posted: 5/17/2009 4:04:30 PM
I would say your homely enough to get laid

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Russian Kettlebells Posted: 5/14/2009 5:38:34 PM
Hum? Wow, They have video's

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I take Creatine in both solid and pure gel powder Posted: 5/14/2009 3:41:36 PM
it's supposed to be similar to HGH, human growth hormone. I've read and inquired about the time on which when to take it. Critics suggest on an empty stomach and/or after a workout. So I would assume it's up to you. I would imagine the glutamine is heavy and us less- like protein powder shakes- the intestines can't handle the load and cause embarrassing flatulent's.

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Carido Posted: 5/14/2009 3:25:45 PM
I suggest Running outside, and how do you get motivated? You just get your gear together without thinking about it and go do it, don't FIGHT yourself and just up and go do it. Invest in a GPS cad watch to be your personal buddy, Great investment for YOU! Start out running and walking within your first mile. DO not try and complete a mile all in one day, it will only take you a couple of weeks to run a mile without stopping. It will HURT cause it is suppose to HURT. Recent studies show that the Human body is built to run and we can out run any animal on the planet IN DISTANCE! So dont' worry. When your running expect your body to build from the ground up. Like your feet muscles, then your ankles then your shins and gastro muscle or Calve muscles. Use your arms to change your running rythum. We call it "Dancing" Tell yourself I'm heading out to Dance be back in a few Just do it and Bring it. You wont have to diet when your up to running 6 miles a day. And it wont take you long to get there either

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Why Do Guys Do This?? Posted: 5/14/2009 2:41:05 PM
Most guys tend to find a HOT girl, and think "Wow, I bet I can find an even hotter girl" Lmaoff. Then a few weeks later You find them calling you back up! It's the American way, find a European Man....

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Takes me for Pizza but his Kid to the Ritz Posted: 5/14/2009 2:34:22 PM
Who cares about his money, he can't take it with him and he has you for chores, so he's saving a bundle.

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rude emails that spoil your POF experience Posted: 5/14/2009 9:33:56 AM
Click the Block Button

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What am I doing wrong??? Posted: 5/14/2009 9:31:26 AM
Combine the "we had sex and they treat me like a stalker" along with your username and... well... maybe you can put a muzzle on that thing. I just caught that. GAWD...

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What am I doing wrong??? Posted: 5/14/2009 9:30:07 AM
Your just a Booty Call Babe- And are you using protection? You should always always tell him, "Sorry, I use condoms until I am in an exclusive monogamous relationship. never drop the condom cause he's pressuring you to do so!!!!

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Should either gender be emotionally unavailable would you.... Posted: 5/14/2009 9:26:39 AM
Most likely they have experience serious emotional loss/trauma in their past and do not want to bare or snare the snake again. In honor of not being promperly judged. Since that is what most people DO! I have a friend that just this morning, made a joke about another friend of hers that was just told she didn't want to date this guy any longer and his response to her was "it's because I was sexually abused as a child isn't it" I know it's not funny but you get a bunch of girls in one room and yes, they'll start LAUGHING it up.. So don't take another person's emotional deficiencies as a personal attack.. It's a defensive act on their part through experience. And No, she never knew he was molested as a child!

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Singleton Syndrome Posted: 5/14/2009 9:19:27 AM
NO, he's not crazy Nor selfish, He most likely like myself. Has way to many friends, that are always vying for his attentions- because he's an awesome friend and good company to have around. Most single guys I know are always fun, lively people. Someone you would never expect to be Still Single. They have pool parties to watch their friends have fun, and poker parties to laugh. The weekends are always tough for any single person because that's when the friends make plans way far in advance. You just have to keep on trying girlfriend

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Why is it that girls i date always dump me or are just not the one Posted: 5/14/2009 9:14:51 AM
I would suggest to just date like a crazy Mo-Fo. until you find them and when you finally get bored BINGO they appear. if you run low on entertainment funds be creative with your date suggestions. - One AM bike ride, 4 dollar bottle of wine and a chair in a your local park. Raid mom's fridge and put a picknick together. Never offer to entertain a lone. Suggest her to bring a girlfriend. I do. I always take a friend along.

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Curious about peoples success rate on here... Posted: 5/12/2009 3:43:51 PM
well, I went out with a guy for the entire weekend, next weekend is coming up so we'll see. I like him. He's handsome has a high status career, passionate, but he also isn't American.

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Younger woman dating an older man Posted: 5/12/2009 3:38:33 PM
I've always, always, dated older men, My ex was 22 years older then I and my he was wonderful. Most Unless they are a psychologist do not judge your behavior and they are wiser more comical and most certainly more attentive. I think it's because they understand a woman is a flower and she really does desire to be taken care of pampered and adored to reap the rewards

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Strange Behavior for a 38-year old? Posted: 5/12/2009 3:34:07 PM
Police officers and firefighters Aren't all there babe. I usually when I see em coming at me online. I've heard the stories, met the wives, and compared notes: It aint worth it

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Hotness does not overcome dull, boring or shallowness Posted: 5/12/2009 3:30:59 PM
Maybe you made her nervous hun, Some girls are just a little shy afraid they may say something wrong. Next time just hold her hand and say. "It's ok. Your doing fine"

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Record time - how much time does it take to catch a fish? Posted: 5/12/2009 3:26:23 PM
I think most guys aim to high,

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U are everything I ever wanted in a woman... Posted: 4/7/2009 9:17:16 PM
It's like this, When you start a new job does your empolyer give you the full benefiets package after a few days of work or does she wait 90 days after you've proven yourself worthy of doing the JOB? Never give a man the goods until after he's proven he is capable of being worthy enough of them. Unless your just in it for the sex and that always follows with the word NEXT

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Virtual relationship? Posted: 4/7/2009 8:31:52 PM
I find it is best to build an online repertoire with each other first- I know most men become really annoyed with the wait some even become down right violent with a hateful attitude. I don't want to be involved with a man that doesn't have patients and feels like I owe him my time for the exchange of a few words. I think people take the online dating scene a little TO FAST... When they should be stepping on the breaks.

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Whats the difference btw being friendly and flirty? Posted: 12/23/2008 10:13:37 PM
When women see a Beautiful Stunning woman on the arm of any man, what so ever his appearance, they are instantly attracted to you but fall over their own feet to pass a smile his way. It is actually flattery on your part not his. As rude and as disrespectful as it feels like real pain. Just remind yourself not everyone has moral values or old fashion courtesy. When it happens again reassure yourself by taking a deep breath and pass a smile over your own shoulder. It's all about you girl It's disrespectful how some women engage men that do not belong to them and sad how many men can't tell the difference

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Does writing first actually lower your value to the opposite sex? Posted: 12/23/2008 9:52:52 PM
People are so amusing to me.

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Why do men like to give women backrubs? Posted: 11/12/2008 2:11:28 PM
It's actually very dangerous. And should be left for a professional masseuse Damaged blood vessels Burns or open wounds on the area to be massaged A bleeding disorder or taking blood-thinning drugs Recent heart attack or heart problems Rheumatoid arthritis in the area to be massaged Deep vein thrombosis (a blood clot in a deep vein, usually in the legs) Weakened bones from osteoporosis or a recent fracture Fever Pregnancy Fragile skin, as from diabetes or a healing scar Damage to bones or muscles that could be manipulated out of place, like a slipped disc Rashes, such as eczema, poison ivy, or other skin allergy It's not wise, I have a brachial plexis issue and got a massage from my Ex- and it put me in the hospital

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