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lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

would ya? Posted: 1/26/2006 8:37:04 PM
Been there done that. Hey how can we expect a women to drink our cum down if we won't even go back down on them when its mixed with thiers. Besides if the timing is right she is still vibrating for orgasms so once you lock your lips around her clit she's back off to the moon.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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When is the best time Posted: 1/26/2006 5:10:39 PM
When it feels right and you both want to. In this day and age sex isn't looked at the same way it used to be. I think if its the right time you will both know it and agree to have it happen cause its what you both want. Just because you don't come to that agreement right away doesn't make her a prude.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Hermaphrodite dating advice Posted: 1/26/2006 3:39:00 PM
I agree Melly put it perfectly. If you are into this women and want to continue a relationship with her then what does it matter. What is under her skirt is between the two of you and no one elses business. So simply be open to her that your worried about her wanting to go in your ass but otherwise go for it bud. Its the women you are falling for not whats between her legs.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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A short,quick question?? Posted: 1/26/2006 4:49:10 AM
I believe if you can't do one right you can't do either one. So I would say neither one is better I have had equal comments from both

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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CAN GUYS IGNORE CELLULITE ON WOMEN WITH A NICE FIGURE? Posted: 1/25/2006 8:56:14 PM
Well I've said it before and I'll say it again. If I'm attracted to her and there is a connection why would it matter. The body is not the end all and be all of a realtionship or even just friendly get togethers.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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right or wrong?? Posted: 1/24/2006 7:35:49 PM
There is nothing wrong with that at all. And I hate to say this but you are 42, who you date, screw or hang with is totally up to you. Tell your brother if he doesn't like it thats just to bad for him. Not like you are going to get married to him or anything. All in all GOOD for you, hope he's very good at handling your needs.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Was it worth the build up Posted: 1/23/2006 7:39:37 PM
Oh I'm not using this post to change my mind or deter me from meeting new people its always great to make friends, I was just wondering what the average was for most people.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Was it worth the build up Posted: 1/23/2006 7:37:19 PM
Well you haven't met me yet blonde that may change your mind...LMAO But sure I'll run into you some day at one of the POF parties.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Was it worth the build up Posted: 1/23/2006 7:29:29 PM
I've been wondering about other peoples experiences when meeting someone. On average with the people you have met from here or other dating sites how many were worth the build up to the meeting. You know the chatting and emails and maybe talking on the phone. whats the average that when you finally met you met exactly who you thought you were going to be they were the same online as in person or very close. Me I would say so far on average anyone I have met on here I've had atleast 80% success rate of meeting the same person offline as they were online.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Is the clitoris really.... Posted: 1/23/2006 2:29:50 PM
Definatley not. I have been with women who have small clits and large clits and the sensitivity varies by the women. I have been with women who had small clits that just a rub on it shot them through the roof. But also remember as you become excited just like men the clit grows and at the same time so does its sensitivity

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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help me Posted: 1/23/2006 2:19:39 PM
Well you have been in this relationship now for year and half. I don't think after this length of time that its not something you can talk about. Simply take the next opportunity of sitting down together and ask her why she hasn't wanted to have it anymore?

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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wuts better oral sex or intercourse sex, and why Posted: 1/22/2006 6:53:43 PM
They are both equally enjoyable with the right person. And if you have the stamina to do both more then once in a single night hey. I have to admit though I prefer oral and wierdly enough giving more then recieving. There is just something about licking those engorged lips and flicking the clit and licking those juices that is just a HUGE turn on and if she relaxes enough and starts flooding the bed even better.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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My embarressing oral question Posted: 1/22/2006 6:49:11 PM
Well Pap if he is good at it it will be an experience to remember and one you will want again and again but hey just lay back, enjoy the experience and let your body do as it wishes. The best thing you can ever do is let your body make the decisions for you in that situation not your mind.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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How many times have you used the wrong name? Posted: 1/21/2006 7:51:58 PM
I have used the wrong name before and she has done the same but never during sex.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Sexual Mishaps Posted: 1/20/2006 8:01:27 PM
Well I have had two mishaps that haven't involved animals but basically the bed. First time I was when my partner and I were staying with some relatives. They gave us my nephews futon for a bed, after a while we got interupted by a knock on the door was my aunt with 4 towels, when asked her what they were for she said to put under the legs of the futon cause we were making so much noise, we covered and turned on the light, hehe we'ld moved the bed to the other side of the room. The other is on going, to this day I can't have a frame under my bed, I've had 3 different ones to date and broke each one, finally gave up now the bed just sits on the floor.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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having sex till it HURTS??? Posted: 1/20/2006 7:52:56 PM
Oh yeah and more often then once. Its not that unusual actually when you are with someone that has as much drive as you and you are both go go go eventually you gotta take that break cause its just to damn sore to continue.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Banter and Wit a turn on? Posted: 1/20/2006 7:51:46 PM
I think its great when a women can think quickly on her feat and be quick with responses it shows intelligence which means she's a girl you can carry on a conversation with.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Do you use rubber copies Posted: 1/18/2006 8:20:30 PM
Actually there is a product out now that you can purchase so that you can rubberize your partners privates.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Does cyber/cam work for you? Posted: 1/18/2006 1:06:43 PM
It can be great fun from time to time if you are both willing participants. Obviously the real thing is way better but sometimes it can be nice to watch a women get off on cam as you do as opposed to a porno or something or just having to go with a fantasy in your head.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Would you like it if a guy talks to you as if he was talking to his best friend Posted: 1/18/2006 1:02:35 PM
Well personally I always talk to a women I am involved with as if she's my best friend because the way I see it if I can't treat her like a best friend what am I doing in a relationship with her or even have the possibility of one. Better to be open and honest and hope for the best then keep things to yourself and loose in the end.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Bleeding During Sex? Posted: 1/17/2006 9:15:28 PM
I've had that happen to my partner before. Usually the only time that ever occured is we were both drinkin and smokin and were playin for hours and just got a little over enthusiastic. Actually ended up we were both raw the next morning.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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S or M Posted: 1/17/2006 9:13:35 PM
I usually let the situation set where things will go. I can be the submissive if I need to be but with limits. I do prefer being the dominant or maintain some of the control.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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She always seems to get off when I... Posted: 1/17/2006 9:11:15 PM
Well then maybe you shouldn't have used that for a subject. Maybe change it to entale both men and women and mention in your post finish this sentence or something like that.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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confusion need help Posted: 1/17/2006 9:03:50 PM
I would basically take that as she's not interested in anything more then an ocassional get together. How long have you been doing the dinner thing and the no kiss and no invite when she is out with other friends should be the no go sign. Move on.

lovelickin

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If I could do it all over again I would..... Posted: 1/17/2006 4:31:34 PM
I try not to worry about the past unless it's something I'm still working on fixing for the future. I have enough stress in life without worrying about events I cannot change. Ahmen BarnBabe Ahmen

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Second chance? Yes or No? Posted: 1/17/2006 4:28:48 PM
Well regardless of his answering machine message I think just the fact he stood you up is enough. If he doesn't even have enough respect to call and tell you he's leaving the mall then obviously he's not to worried about making true friends. And I do agree with someone elses comment call him on the answering machine msg and ask him to ask his friend to call you and just let you know that she did it. Plus if this is a good friend of his you may be able to get a little inside information on him if she does call you as to the type of guy he is.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Custody for fathers Posted: 1/17/2006 4:09:50 PM
Congrats ricky...I know exactly how you feel as I went through a 5 year battle to get sole custody of both my kids. It wouldn't even had taken that long had my ex not lied and not given all information but you are right. Fathers and Mothers never give up, if you feel you are truly the best parent for your kids to be with then make sure you show that to everyone. The biggest mistake most men make is to go for custody simply because they know what they will have to pay in support and they know that if they do win custody it will hurt the ex so its almost a vengence thing. Unfortunatley those are the ones that make it hard for us that do it because ultimatley we are the best parent for the kids to be with.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Am I Holding Out??? Posted: 1/17/2006 4:04:25 PM
Well I think if your kids know about him and are comfortable enough to express to you that they want to meet this guy then by all means I think you should let them. We all run into this my kids are 13 and 11 and I still have this problem from time to time. But ultimatley the decision is yours but think if you have been together for 3 months and he wants to take it to the next level you have a great relationship happening and like I said since the kids know why not let them meet him. Worse case they don't like him but you could find yourself having alot more fun with him and a better relationship as now you can all do things together from time to time.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Potential New Mate knows your F*ck Buddy....... Posted: 1/17/2006 3:56:59 PM
I personally think you should tell your potential new guy. But make it clear to him that if you two are going somewhere the other is no longer a f*ck buddy just a friend. If you don't tell him and he finds out later it could cause suspicion and distrust which could ruin the potential relationship. I've been in that boat and believe me if your serious about your new potential you should let him know.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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sex or love making, which do u perfer and why? Posted: 1/17/2006 3:42:05 PM
I like sex where I can explore and take my time and enjoy every part of what we are doing from start to finish so I guess I would be a love making type as preference. But have to admit once in a while spur of the moment raw hot quickies can be very satisfying as well.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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can u climax while on anti depresants? Posted: 1/17/2006 3:20:33 PM
Actually if you look into it anti depresants side effects are sex drive. Because anti depresents are more or less a downer to keep your mind from thinking and your body from acting lack of sex drive and ability to orgasm or even become properly aroused are one of the most common side effects. With my ex we consulted the doctor and fortunatley for her spending a day or two off of her meds on occasion was acceptable so that was normally what we would do is friday mornings she would take her meds but then not again till atleast sunday depending on our plans. Unfortunatley this may not be an option for you but I will say don't get discouraged its nothing to do with you or your body its the meds.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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BAD IN BED EXPERIENCES ( and not in the GOOD WAY ) Posted: 1/17/2006 3:14:14 PM
I can't say I have ever had a bad experience in bed. I guess the best I could do in saying my bad experience was a woman I met up with that didn't really have any experience in foreplay and oral and all the other good things that come with it. I guess she had always been with a guy that just rolled on top, slide in, blow and go so. It wasn't a bad experience other then I was worried about hurting or upsetting her as she hadn't had really any experience with a man what so ever, was almost like being with a virgin.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/16/2006 10:04:03 PM
Wow finally a gathering on the weekend I don't have my kids. Well gonna do my best to be there only bummer is probably have to pay full rate for a room as I won't know till the day if I'm actually gonna be able to make it

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Could you say NO to sex Posted: 1/16/2006 9:52:30 PM
I can and have said no all depends on the situation and the person.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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You Wanna ______? Posted: 1/16/2006 9:42:08 PM
Well like you it would all depend on why I was already there. If I was there to meet another girl that I was interested in I would have definatley turned her down but otherwise I may have struck up a conversation and asked to questions, what prompted her to just walk up to me as a total stranger and ask that and the second would be is the next statement outa your mouth going to be a price.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Would you complain????? Posted: 1/16/2006 9:37:39 PM
Would definatley never complain, the wetter the better and if she wants to squirt all over the place no problem with that either.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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SEX activity Posted: 1/16/2006 6:43:13 PM
Sex makes me think of .... licking a delicious **** My favourite sexual activity is .... making her squirt The one thing that makes me feel really sexy is .... a women who wants more My least favourite sexual activity is ... having to stop and catch my breath My partner's orgasm makes me feel .... that I have done her well After having an orgasm I want to .... grab a drink, have a smoke, and go again Sex makes me feel .... energized and ready to take on the world

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Would you date a college drop out? Posted: 1/16/2006 5:11:56 PM
I have to agree with auburn on this one. There is a big difference between not finishing school and basically just being a bum. I'm not scared to admit that I never graduated grade 12 but for the last 11 yrs have been in computers and 9 had my own consulting company so schooling definatley a bad reason to judge someone.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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condom brands/woman condom Posted: 1/16/2006 1:42:30 PM
There isn't really a best brand of condom. Personally each time I get them I used to get a different kind each time as they are all made and fit differently. The best condom is the one that you feel is best as for protection read the label on the box for that part.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Getting naked infront of your lover. Posted: 1/16/2006 1:22:34 PM
I personally have never had an issue getting naked infront of my lover. I have had lovers who were uncomfortable with the lights on but everyone has there own self conscious issues they have to bear. I am not the build nor the shape I want to be but am working on it and am proud of my progress so with that attitude I don't feel uncomfortable or self-conscious about getting undressed in front of my lover. Oh and amazon can't mail you directly but see by your long typing that you have recovered from Fri 13th...hope you had as awesome a time as I did this year.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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does having a couple of drinks make you a better lover Posted: 1/14/2006 9:42:23 PM
Well from my experience drinking gives you one of two results depending on the amount I drink. Either I can go for hours because my body is already numb so it takes me forever to orgasm and sometimes don't even have one or its off like a shot cause I have no control what so ever. It does all depend on what you are drinking and how much. I don't think you could say it always does its one of those 50/50 crap shoot having sex after drinking.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Survey: percentage of women who swallow, men who go south Posted: 1/14/2006 9:37:37 PM
I would have to say the percentage of women that have swallowed me falls in average between 80 to 85%.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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why are you guys obsessed with issue sex on dates? Posted: 1/14/2006 3:47:08 PM
Yes but I think you need to look through a little more as there are tons of posts from women asking questions about men. Its an equal thing so if your gonna call all the men flaky you had best do the same for the women

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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do u ever get embarassed when... Posted: 1/14/2006 3:41:08 PM
I was never shy about buying condoms when I was younger or as I got older. Hell I have and never had a problem even going in an buying femine products for family or girl friend. Hmmm maybe I'm just strange...lol thats it, I'm strange but would have it any other way..lol

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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why are you guys obsessed with issue sex on dates? Posted: 1/14/2006 3:35:48 PM
k first of all not all guys are obsessed with sex, no some of us don't get enough of it, and finally there are many women out there that aren't uncomfortable about it at all but actually enjoy it so what are you asking or are you making judgements on people?

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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What would you want? Posted: 1/14/2006 2:38:26 PM
Well don't worry pats I'm sure as you get a little older and learn some self control you won't have that problem anymore.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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An*neal sex Posted: 1/14/2006 2:14:27 PM
Ok I think you need some more experience in the bedroom cause spooning is not the best way to get the G spot. There are many ways to hit it and for each women it is different based on her arousal.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/14/2006 2:12:03 PM
Well I can't say I have ever fainted but I can certainly say for myself that one orgasm is not always the same as the other. It all depends on the person you are with, the emotion if any, how open she is etc etc. I think you are classifying based on the men you have been with when there are many of us out there that can scream and groan and shiver etc etc given the right women and situation.

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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An*neal sex Posted: 1/14/2006 2:02:35 PM
Well she says she doesn't like anal sex and that it hurts. Maybe you should go to a sex store buy yourself a dildo the size of your d*ck and try shoving it up your own a$$ and see if it hurts then maybe you will understand what they are talking about. Not all women dislike anal sex but don't take it personal there are plenty other lovely holes on a women to lick and f_ck

lovelickin

Joined: 11/6/2005

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Did we women ruin romance? Posted: 1/14/2006 12:21:14 PM
There is a big difference between sex and romance. Just because you've had sex even on the first date doesn't mean that there is or cannot be any romance. I think its more that the rules have changed in how romance is peceived. Romance was originally brought over from courting and wooing. Just because I'm with someone that I have been intimate with doesn't mean there won't be any romance it simply means that the romance is part of the entire joy not the lead up to it.

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