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Posted: 11/14/2008 11:44:39 AM i have to thank the heavens when i see that people didnt read the initial post. three weeks ago i proved unequivocally that my older childs mother got into an arguement with an empty house, an answering machine and then accused me of being there hanging up on her. our case worker at child support has testified on my behalf that i was in her office at the moment that my sons mother says that i was 'unstable' and on the phone with her arguing. i waited patiently for 10 years to catch her in the act of being dishonest and manipulative. as a result of her actions, this morning in domestic relations court i was awarded joint custody with my son. his mother will also have to pay all of my legal bills and she is on probation for 1 year for being in contempt of court. my child support was also reduced as a payback for having to go without my son for 8 months. restraininbg orders do get placed against innocent people when the magistrate does not 'have time' to review the case because he is 'supposed to be fishin.' i DO KNOW THE CHILD IS MINE BECAUSE HER HUSBAND IS IMPOTENT which is why she left him to begin with. also i was ****ing her 5 or 6 times a day during the month that she got pregnant. we had at least 150 seperate times that she could have been knocked up. she never left the house or was around any other man during that time. have you ever been in a relationship where neither one of you could walk because you were injured from so much sex?? thats where we were! people on here make the most ridiculous and judgemental assumptions... I WILL NOT GIVE UP ON DAUGHTER JUST LIKE I DID NOT GIVE UP ON MY SON, I LOVE MY CHILDREN VERY VERY MUCH.  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 380 (view)   Do children need a father? Posted: 11/13/2008 5:10:37 PM YES!!!! a child does need a father!!! absolutley. i notice that every woman who doesnt have the father of their children around says he is unstable and hurt their child in some way and every guy on here i 'fighting for his kid' i am fighting for my son and have been for 12 years now... im fighting for my daughter too. he and she are my children are biologically and geneticly copies of me and will experience a lot of physical and emotional issues that are similar to me or their mother... not having a dad for a kid because YOU are paranoid only hurts the child. dad is a very importanat person in everyones life, for most people... im reading 'john adams' right now and he credits his father for 'making him what he was' thats what father do and a lot of major important human beings that have been successful (michael jordan)were very very close to theirs fathers, shaq wrote the song 'biological didnt bother' about his pain about his missing father give me a break women...  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 16 (view)   im living in bizaro world... Posted: 11/13/2008 4:52:59 PM look ferringous! you are a spineless poosy! show your face as you criticize and say hurtful things to everyone on here... you have 'using the POF forums as an outlet for bad moods' everybody please flag this guy or whatever one does when someone is on here being a jerk to everyone... and as i said before i understand my responsibility in this issue but a lot of the problems after i knocked her up were not caused by me...  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 14 (view)   im living in bizaro world... Posted: 11/13/2008 4:42:55 PM preoccupying myself with healthy activity and fun does not add to the mess... it releives my stress and ive learned my lesson so... why should not live because someone else caused a bunch of problems for me...  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 27 (view)   Routine prescription or drug abuse? Posted: 11/13/2008 4:33:51 PM i played my guitar all night while i was asleep on ambien. my sister woke me up and i was just sitting playing the same chord for hours and hours. i stopped taking it right away and yes people on here are jumping to some pretty serious conclusions. there was a guy who bought a car while he was on ambien ans woke up with it in his driveway not knowing where it came from...  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 4 (view)   im living in bizaro world... Posted: 11/12/2008 11:20:06 AM absolutley 100% percent sure she is my daughter... her husband is jordanian so there is an obvious way to tell. but, but if you hold up my baby picture, hers and my sons it looks like the exact same baby, dimples and all. there's no denying this one. i dont care about a huge child support bill. that's one of the things im pissed about. i want to support my child! and yes, after i knocked on the door, once, and left i had a protective order filed against me and dont forget this is west virginia so the judge didnt even allow me to present a defense. he said he was in a hurry because he was 'supposed to be fishin'.' he 'didnt have time for all of this.' so, i got ****ed in court. i didnt have a lawyer because i thought i would get a chance to present a case. my sons mother here in ohio attempted to file one against me three weeks prior to this one (and yes they know each other and talk often, both of my babies mama's) and i presented my defense and the order was dropped, plain and simple. there is so much spousal abuse in west virginia, i ve seen it, that they dont even bother to listen to the cases anymore and innocent people get destroyed in the process. please for the love of god, i know what i did was wrong, i get it!!! no need to comment on my character here. i really loved this woman and wanted a child with her. she turned out to be very emotionally and physically abusive and i had to leave. i deserve better than that....  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 1 (view)   im living in bizaro world... Posted: 11/12/2008 9:54:51 AM so, i have a 10 week old daughter with a woman who is technically still married. she left her husband. we got together with reassurances that they were indeed getting divorced. she then attemped to mold me into him but good in bed, whatever. she threatened to get an abortion if i left her. i stayed long enough for her to get into the third tri-mester. my daughter was born on august 23rd. i received an e-mail 8 days later saying 'my daughter was born, her name is ***********' thats it. nothing else. i havnt met her. i drove 300 miles to attempt to meet her (she is in west virginia) and had the police called on me the moment i knocked on the door. no dice. so now i am attempting to get visitation and financially support my child but i am told that her divorce was never finalized. this means that legally my child belongs to her husband. he has already stated in court that the child is not his, so has her mother. but until the divorce is finalized there is nothing i can do except initiate a massive custody battle which i do not want. i have baegged and begged this woman to please just attempt to be amicable for the sake of our daughter. she wont... does any of this sound fixable as far as my relationship with her mother is concerned, my relationship as her daughters father not as lovers? ...and yes the child is mine and i understand that what i did was wrong so please spare me the critism, ive had enough at this point...  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 8 (view)   is not having a car a deal breaker? Posted: 11/10/2008 5:30:03 PM not paralysed, i experience random moments of paralysis which make it so i could stop being able to use my feet while going 65 mph..... but the fact that i am being passed up by that particular fact, not even looked at, just because i cant drive?? there are some really really shallow people on this earth and i have lost a lot of faith in the human race since i started internet dating... do you know how frustrarting it is to have explain to every human being that you meet that you are disabled? the car thing makes so i automatically have to reveal my private life to the most unknown of strangers..... it sucks, bad if i write the reason in my profile, which ive done, i get no responses at all... and please do not make suggestions on how i can drive, i cant, legally, the state wont allow it, nuerological conditions that prevent someone from being able to control vehicle at random are very very dangerous. stevie nicks 'tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies, tell me lies.'  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 5 (view)   is not having a car a deal breaker? Posted: 11/10/2008 5:19:11 PM those two answers have given me more insight. understanding and selfless women will skip over that part but it does hurt me to know that i am being passed up because of something so superficial. the state of this world saddens me, really  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 3 (view)   is not having a car a deal breaker? Posted: 11/10/2008 5:03:47 PM sorry i had a serious 'dyslexic' moment during that post. the spelling is atrocious, sotty people.... so, women would pass up superman becuase he doesnt have a car?????? sounds kind of selfish. i dont drive because im disabled. i cant.  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 352 (view)   oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 11/10/2008 5:01:25 PM yeah, i love that... my last girl friend, whom i now have a daughter with said she wouldnt swallow because my swimmers were so dedicated that they would travel from her throat to her ovaries by drilling holes through her organs..... but in reality she swallowed  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 1 (view)   is not having a car a deal breaker? Posted: 11/10/2008 4:53:07 PM i have a reason for not having a car, is it ok to say that ihave a car and then explain why i dont? would women be offended by that. i dont get any responses whatsoever when i check that i dont have a car. when i check it as yes i always get responses. why is a vehicle so important to women that all other positive charachteristic become moot?  oddbirdman2008a Joined: 10/26/2008 Msg: 1 (view)   error message on POF Posted: 11/10/2008 4:49:22 PM i keep getting thismessage when i try to post, not every tiime but pretty consistant Server Error in '/' Application. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Object reference not set to an instance of an object. Description: An unhandled exception occurred during the execution of the current web request. Please review the stack trace for more information about the error and where it originated in the code. 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