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Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 42 (view)

HELLO!!! Posted: 6/28/2009 11:11:37 PM
I am in a relationship with YOU...not your family. If you want to introduce me to your family, it is because you want me to be a part of it...or at least you want / need their approval somehow. I ain't about either of these.... I so totally disagree with this. My family are my people. I am not introducing you to them for any kind of approval. I introduce people to my family because it opens the door of more things that we can do together. In my mind, it has NOTHING to do with marriage or anything else. I spend time with my family, if you want to spend time with me, it is the natural progression of things to be introduced to my friends and family. We can't live in a cocoon of just us. That isn't reality. I am NOT looking for a father for my children, but they are a part of my life. If you are part of my life, then at some point you will meet them. Simple as that.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

women only please Posted: 6/9/2009 12:28:08 PM
will you and him have sexual relations BEFORE you go out for the evening or when you RETURN Before and After if time permits. As for who initiates it........who cares as long as we are having sex. You did say boyfriend, not husband. I think if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, you don't need to do so much planning. I am assuming of course that if you have plans for the evening, you are alone, so planning isn't important.......just do it.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Well slap my ass and call me Daddy...WHY? Posted: 6/4/2009 9:45:33 AM
Ok the whole Daddy thing is more of a slang term and doesn't actually indicate that the man is your father! lol Latinas often say Papi Black women often say Big Daddy White women with a man of color often say either or. It is a sense of power along with the ass slapping (Which is a must 4 me!). For alot of women it is a major turn on and is very stimulating for them to be dominated in that fashion. I totally agree. It is a dominant thing. Some women want to be submissive. Personally, I thought the Daddy thing was weird, but now say it quite frequently. It is just another fantasy/fetish that some people have. So smack my ass, pull my hair. Dominate me BABY!!!!!!!!

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 54 (view)

The myth of a woman's so called sexual peak. Posted: 6/3/2009 7:41:14 AM
OP my first thought on reading your thread was.......was he with someone who didn't want him. I have ALWAYS enjoyed sex, however; when I didn't desire my husband anymore. My libido dropped. It wasn't that the sex wasn't great, I just wasn't into him. Personally, I don't think that you even know what good sex is until after the age of 30. By the time you hit my age (46), hopefully the kids are grown, or almost grown and you can have more ME time. If you are lucky like I am, you find a man who is just as into sex as you are. As for not being desirable to the opposite sex, that has nothing to do with age. I am pretty desirable to the opposite sex. It is called SEXUALITY some people have it, some people don't. One last thing.......I do NOT mate. I am not an animal.......well maybe in bed.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

An interesting phenomenon, for me at least Posted: 5/27/2009 9:33:21 PM
I happen to be simply looking for friends and ended up browsing women instead of men. I got quickly stunned by the number of beautiful and intelligent women on here, looking to date another woman. Personally, I like men. But I am so curious and interested in the reasons why a woman would decide to date (meaning to be sexually intimate with) another woman. I would appreciate any feed back. Are men so out-of-date? What is wrong with them? Thanks Does this mean that you are sitting on the fence of homosexuality? You are afterall checking out women. People are born gay. They either chose to live that way, or they chose not too. Do you not watch TV? The gray matter of a heterosexual male is darker gray. A heterosexual female lighter gray. While performing autopsies on homosexual males.....it has been found that the gray matter is a light gray, like a woman's. Many women may chose to become gay because it is the IN thing to do. I know, I have teenage daughters and a few years back it was all the rage in high schools. Some may chose to become gay because of some life experience where a man did them wrong. How many men have you heard of that chose to become gay? Personally, I am strickly****y. Then again, I am not on POF searching out women.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Is approaching men effective? (Question for the girls) Posted: 5/8/2009 10:40:21 AM
In person I would NEVER approach a man. On the Internet, I guess I feel safer as far as rejection goes. I am talking to a guy now who won't approach women first. If I hadn't contacted him, I would never met this wonderful man. I say go for it. Sometimes you get a response, and other times you don't.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 119 (view)

Going down on her Posted: 5/4/2009 10:00:26 AM
Seriously? Have you been dating nuns or what?

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Msg: 36 (view)

History of cheating Posted: 4/30/2009 9:17:23 PM
It is simple........if she cheated with you, she will cheat on you.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

My definition would be... Posted: 4/30/2009 9:10:59 PM
Best sex of my life. So far, but you never know what tomorrow brings.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

Why R they so Critical? Posted: 4/30/2009 8:50:36 PM
Most definitely tell him the truth. First off from the example, it is your painting not his. Communication is the key to everything. Little white lies are OK, but when it comes down to thoughts and feelings, you need to say what you think and feel, just not in a rude way.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 125 (view)

Spending the night Posted: 4/30/2009 8:23:02 PM
Personally, I think spend the night. I am not having sex with someone who I have no feelings for. I am not into eat and run, play and run, whatever you want to call it. I have been in a situation where I did spend the night (we had dated for months) in the morning I definitely got the feeling he wanted me out as soon as I was done with my coffee. LOL

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 464 (view)

Why do men do the diappearing act? Posted: 3/24/2009 8:54:21 AM
you don't seem to have a very good view of women. Some of us only want truth and honesty and do not have ulterior motives.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 463 (view)

Why do men do the diappearing act? Posted: 3/24/2009 8:49:15 AM
I think what it comes down to is that they need to change what they are looking for to intimate encounter. I am sure there are women on this site who are looking for intimate encounters also. I say, change your status and find each other. Leave those of us who are really looking for more to find it. Why lie? Why waste our time and energy? I just don't get it.

Joined: 10/26/2008

Msg: 235 (view)

Best break-up lines Posted: 11/11/2008 8:25:41 AM
You forgot.......baby, go to church with me. LOL

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