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pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 294 (view)

If you're independant, why R U here? Posted: 4/26/2009 6:23:08 PM
I'm bumping this topic up again b/c the response one of my potential matches was in this post. He seems to be on the independant = b**ch club. What a joke! I'm an only child. I grew up in the country. I learned to do things for/by myself. It's hard for me to let someone (man or woman) "help". I consider myself to be independant b/c I have never had to accept a handout and - I can't stand clingy men who have to call you 50 times a day to ask what the h&&& you're doing.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Partaaaayyyy In Orange Park May 23rd!! Posted: 4/24/2009 11:20:53 PM
yawn Ego Drammmmma What more could ya ask for? Would anyone care to chat and/or help me out on the directions/hotels/etc situation or is this a private party?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Partaaaayyyy In Orange Park May 23rd!! Posted: 4/20/2009 6:14:15 AM
I'd love to come to this party but it's about an hour and a half away from me and I'm not familiar w/the area. Why does all the fun stuff have to be so far away?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

Gillette , the best a (wo)man can get !! Posted: 12/28/2008 7:20:44 PM
So did anyone fulfill their Christmas fantasy? I love candy canes and ice

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

I don't think much of people who do this Posted: 12/28/2008 6:40:01 PM
IMHO The problem lies with the person using the label as an excuse- "Oh, I can't do that because I have OCD...." or whatever. It makes me crazy! You know you have the problem, get help or get over it. We all have problems!

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 98 (view)

What would you do if the sex was really bad! Posted: 12/28/2008 6:36:35 PM
If he just flat out ignored your request there is something wrong with him. I would run.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 297 (view)

why men run away when they see a pic Posted: 12/5/2008 12:03:07 PM
I used to think that guys would run if they saw my pic too. lol I decided to just go ahead and post the pics. That way, if I msg them they don't have to reply....I guess. I think those types of people are dumbass*s anyway. Why would I want to spend all that time getting to know someone, spilling my guts to them only to have them run screaming b/c I send them a photo?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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what did i do Posted: 11/30/2008 1:15:09 PM
I basicly agree with everyone else. This guy is trying to have his cake and eat it too. You are being a crutch for him. He needs to get his arse off the couch and make his own plate of food! I mean, there is a difference between loving and ....well, what you're doing. Let this jerk go. Spend some time with yourself- make a list of things you want in a partner (I bet it won't include "I want my partner to have man many bills and no job - while I break my back making his life comfy.")

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/29/2008 5:05:21 PM
"Can you pop that zit on my back?" "Man, I really need to take a dump..." "Um, are you, like, sleeping over?" After he returns from the after sex pee: "I thought my #ick exploded, are you on your period?"

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 5 (view)

Thanksgiving and an ex Posted: 11/27/2008 11:38:15 AM
It's never a good idea to get back with an ex, IMHO. I'm spending this holiday w/my ex's parents while he get's drunk/high in another city with his "friends". I lost an SO but gained a family. lol

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 11/27/2008 6:11:11 AM
I haven't met anyone at all. I have to wonder about the people that post pics of themselves but have to half-assed edit out their ex -SO. Can't you just get a new pic, please? lol

pony4yourthoughts

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Msg: 190 (view)

Cowboy hats Posted: 11/27/2008 6:08:26 AM
Cowboy hats---- are we talking about real ones or the ones they make for country line dancing? LOL You can tell a lot about a man and his hat. If you're at the club and the "Cowboy" has a nasty "I just got off the trail" hat on then you know he a) doesn't give a rip about dressing out to snag a woman b) is trying to prove his Cowboy-ness by keeping his work hat on. If your "Cowboy" has a "made-for-dancing" hat (short brim so you can get in close)....I guess there's nothing wrong with that but it's just for fashion. If your "Cowboy" has a nice Stetson 6x Silverbelly with a sparkly hatband, clean Wranglers and decent boots- then you know he's the real deal.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 267 (view)

Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 11/27/2008 5:56:50 AM
Sounds like some of you need to try to cuddle without the heater turned up so high. lol I prefer NO HEAT in the winter so that I can share my SO's body heat. The summer is another story....

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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He needs time to think about things Posted: 11/26/2008 7:45:55 PM
Been there done that, ain't lookin back! Just let him go. He isn't in a position to date anyone right now. He needs to get his shit straight...and that could take a looooong time. 3 months isn't that long at all. Life's too short to be a crutch for this idiot.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Thanksgiving, not invited, help..is it wrong? Posted: 11/26/2008 7:28:30 AM
Been there done that. My ex b/f has some good friends that live in a nice house - on the outside. The only time I've been there I had to breathe shallow b/c it stunk so bad. It was filthy! Also, I had nothing in common with the lady of the house. I wish he would have left me home that day. I'm not saying it's right for him to have put you thru the guessing game of why you couldn't spend Thanksgiving together but he really may have been trying to do you a favor here- especially when most guys in the US are going to be staring at football and just assume that you and the women folk will get along w/o them just fine.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 156 (view)

I would to ask you how important is voice for you? Posted: 11/26/2008 7:24:34 AM
When I talk to someone by phone they think I sound like a little girl - or a size 5 "hottie". I think too much importance is put on what people sound & look like. If you've been "chatting" with someone by e-mail or whatever than you should know if you're going to mesh IRL. I do have a problem with people that simply can't find the time to talk on the phone. I'd have to agree with the other's who have brought that up. What is that person hiding?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 106 (view)

Y do men always do this or does it just happen 2 me??? Posted: 11/25/2008 10:28:19 AM
James_in_SD Well, you know guys will never ask for directions or admit they're lost. That's almost worse than the OP's problem- I used to hate it when my long term SO wanted "that", would try to ram it so I'd move, he'd get lost and not take a hint...so in the end he'd end up dry humping my leg. I mean, would it relly hurt to ask for directions sometimes?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Dating someone who is always away from home. Posted: 11/25/2008 10:01:16 AM
My EX b/f decided to take a job out of state- he promised to call, e-mail, write, whatever. I saw him 1 weekend out of the month. I waited and pleaded for him to not ignore me, at least IM "hi" every once in a while or RESPOND to the long e-mails I'd write about what's going on here, to no avail. It turns out, he went back to his party lifestyle b/c no one was babysitting his sorry arse! Sooooo for 8 months I was faithful, hopeful and expecting to continue on with life as normal when his job ended. Instead he basicly IM'ed me, drunk, that he wasn't coming back. What I'm trying to say is, yes- long distance relationships can work but it's going to take more than a good lay every 2-4 wks for it to work out long term.

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

embarrassing question re: feminine products Posted: 11/24/2008 6:28:09 AM
I agree w/the others who say if you're too embarassed to talk about it then you prob shouldn't be having sex. Sex is for grown ups. Sounds like he needs to grow up if he's scared of tampons in the trash. lol For those that use cups - how do you clean it in a public restroom?

pony4yourthoughts

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 1 (view)

Daybreak Posted: 11/23/2008 4:07:35 PM
Daybreak Lay your hands on me at daybreak Feed me from your palm. Your morning song heats my body, the chill's gone, Kiss me on the nose as we watch the rising dawn. Softness of your touch, fingers thru my mane, Stopping to scratch my neck and then doing it again. A simple time, a simple place Welcomed change from our lives daily race. My ears flick back n forth as I listen to you breathe Knowing your every step and yet, I wait for your reprieve. You feel a heavy sigh as you lift the saddle to my back, Gentle, warm hands lift the bridle to my brow. You take the reigns, and whisper lovingly in my ear 'Come with me Pony, let's get it right, now' © 2000 CwbysDarlinPony (All rights reserved)

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