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itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 98 (view)

Success, then utter disgusting failure Posted: 11/26/2009 2:34:51 PM
Dude, are you that desperate to get laid that you'd continue seeing a woman who shit in your bed?

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

met my 1st psycho ( might belong in the humor section)(Long read) Posted: 11/22/2009 9:38:05 AM
Some people are worth spending time with just for their WTF? value. But I think three dates goes beyond finding that out. Maybe the OP was questioning his own sanity on the third date.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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How long is too soon or too long? Posted: 11/21/2009 5:12:51 PM
If you keep in touch with her and keep asking her out on a weekly basis then what is the issue? Just don't stalk her by calling 10 times a day and non-stop texting. You have to show interest but at the same time don't be pushy.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 190 (view)

Have you found and then lost your soulmate? Posted: 11/21/2009 5:09:23 PM
I found what I call my "evil" soul mate. He brought out a part of me I thought I'd left behind long ago. I got rid of him and am thankful he left the state. Its odd how I still think of him and miss him, but I know in my heart that he is not right for me. I know the right man is out there, its just a matter of time before me meet.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Realizing ALOT! Posted: 11/21/2009 4:59:23 PM
it's one thing to think you're a great person but another thing to just know you're a great person. Big difference. You own your own self-esteem so why would you give it to someone else to pick apart to begin with? Be who you are and don't worry about them liking you, hon. Ask yourself whether these dudes are actually worthy of you liking them! Wise words. I've been through my ups and downs in relationships and have come to the conclusion that my life is all about me. The only person who can make you happy in this life is yourself. When you completely understand and practice this concept then you can date with confidence because you're not picking losers.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Variations of the Average. Posted: 11/21/2009 5:01:54 AM
that being 'weird' might be the deal breaker, but don't we all deserve a chance at love? Weird isn't the word for your photos and profile, its beyond weird...so beyond that I can't even think of a word to describe either one. Perhaps by attending conventions of like weirdness you'll meet your match and be in weird heaven.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

Was I right? Posted: 11/19/2009 8:26:25 AM
LMAO good one OP

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Is there any recourse??? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:52:44 PM
Stop playing the victim OP and move on.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 128 (view)

I'm a 58 year old guy with young kids (Where is the POF/AARP/K-8 Forum?) Where do I fish? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:43:37 PM
women 45 and older are looking to get to an empty nest ASAP I don't think ASAP applies to everyone. But I do know that all of my single girlfriends in my age group, 45 -55, are not looking to date men with young children. I have no desire in any bone in my body to be mommy to children under the age of 18. I'm enjoying my freedom to change careers and live wherever my chosen job will take me. I've got the freedom to take off for a weekend and only worry about who's going to care for my pets. I suggest you stay with your wife because there's not much chance that you're going to find a woman in your age group willing to be involved with young children. Of course if you have a lot of money you just might find a younger woman with children who'd be willing to date you.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:56:15 AM
Its probably your work place and the age of the women you're working with. I get the feeling you work for a telemarketing firm.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

Looking For Some Real Honest Answers Here Posted: 11/14/2009 6:37:33 AM
This happened 2 years ago OP and you're still not over it? You're bitter and twisted

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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does he not like me? Posted: 11/9/2009 6:10:56 PM
She was out of town the week he was texting you and invited you over. Then you didn't make out with him that night and his g/f came home the next day. You're the back up girl.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

Too small for a condom !?! Then What??? Posted: 11/8/2009 8:11:18 AM
Since his unit is too small for a condom she's not going to be your pretty well screwed.. Oh, I can think of more to add to this post but I'm going to be nice and say nothing more.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

A Plugged up Toilet, so she packed up and left?! Should I let it go? Posted: 11/8/2009 7:53:43 AM
This has got to be one of the funniest relationship issues I've ever read. I don't know who's worse, the woman and her toilet paper or the OP for putting up with her "crap".

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Permanently stuck in a rut Posted: 11/6/2009 9:05:59 PM
After reading your profile I gather that you are a highly intelligent guy who probably has a lot of interesting things to talk about....with the right woman. Have you tried meetup.com and joining some groups for social pursuit? Perhaps your conversations aren't appealing to the women you're meeting. I find this true of myself, most men I meet say little that interests me or they can't hold an intelligent conversation.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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should i text him, or just wait? Posted: 11/6/2009 8:55:15 PM
If he was interested he would have called you to make plans. Don't text him and don't call him, go make your own plans with friends for tomorrow night.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Are you available; or jus wasting my time Posted: 11/6/2009 8:44:04 PM
I'd rather be home alone than sitting in a car drinking coffee with a loser.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

What's the upside to being over 50 and single Posted: 11/1/2009 6:42:00 AM
I can go to college to change careers then sell my house and leave the state if I choose.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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A friend's cheating husband Posted: 11/1/2009 6:01:10 AM
There is far too much drama going on, time to find new friends.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Making an Excuse to Party on Halloween - Roadblocks if any? Posted: 10/31/2009 12:07:23 PM
At the bar we frequent Halloween is the best party of the year. All my friends are going in costume. Its going to be a blast. Got my costume ready to go, bar is an $8 taxi ride home.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Question about Internet Dating Posted: 10/30/2009 11:06:56 AM
I have reservations about spending a bunch of time, money and effort on the "first encounter." Keep it that way.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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ladies tell me whats going on? im confused? Posted: 10/30/2009 11:04:18 AM
she's playing mind games. She's enjoying your attention but doesn't have any interest in you. Stop feeding her.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Im not sure wether to call it off or try and fix it. Posted: 10/29/2009 3:02:15 PM
mom advice: Don't do it. Take this time to discover who you are and what you want out of life. She's not the one.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

People won't share or exchange pictures Posted: 10/29/2009 1:54:50 PM
I want to see someone's picture before I even contemplate corresponding with them. I don't allow users with no pictures to contact me. Waste of my time.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Haunted Houses Posted: 10/29/2009 1:45:13 PM
There are lots of women who love Haunted Houses. I'm one of them. Busch Gardens Tampa Bay and Universal Orlando put on some of the best Halloween scare nights.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Does exactly what it says on the tin? hmmm doubtful! Posted: 10/29/2009 12:45:24 PM
OP, with XXX in your username what do you expect?

itsmejuli

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Complicated bad boy crush..any hope? Posted: 10/29/2009 12:35:12 PM
if he doesnt then Im stuck admitting I want to be on his 'ho train' which I hace already said I dont.. After looking at your pictures on your profile, you're asking to be on somebody's "ho train". If you want to be taken seriously you need to clean up your act.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Slutty/Sexy Halloween Costumes Posted: 10/29/2009 12:28:14 PM
Halloween is my fav time of year, its all about fun.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Questions for moral women. Posted: 10/29/2009 12:13:25 PM
Seems to me OP that you are just trying to get some sex talk from random women. Where are your morals? Are you going to start preaching next that only your morals are correct? If I tell you what I really think you'll tell me I'm a sinner.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Need Advice About A Girl I Like Posted: 10/29/2009 7:59:25 AM
so get off the sidelines and talk to her. Find out if she wants to meet you for lunch or something.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 37 (view)

He's just not that interested Posted: 10/29/2009 5:11:40 AM
OP is the last person that needs to be handing out dating advice. Epic fail.

itsmejuli

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Its been a year and a half Posted: 10/29/2009 4:49:10 AM
No matter how much you throw yourself at him, he's just not going to be interested in you. Do you really want to compete with his ex? Close the door on this guy and find yourself someone who'll give you the attention you deserve.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

how old is to old ? Posted: 10/28/2009 3:48:17 PM
Age is just a number. But being honest about your own age is more important than the ages of those you are contacting.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 14 (view)

First date flake. Posted: 10/28/2009 2:42:37 PM
She decided she didn't like the size of your rod so she spit out the hook.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 10 (view)

Does he or does he not like me. Posted: 10/28/2009 1:42:29 PM
You're the back up girl. The only way to stop feeling hurt by this guy is to say good bye to him. Stop all contact. If he calls you, ignore him.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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He wants to be friends !! Posted: 10/28/2009 1:35:33 PM
I have a rule, I don't date men who are going through divorce nor freshly divorced. I don't want to be the rebound girl or get involved in their personal drama. OP, do you want to be this guy's friend so you can listen to his problems?

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 13 (view)

dating a drug (ecstasy) user Posted: 10/28/2009 9:24:37 AM
ohhhh heck no, run away from him fast. Let him deal with his own problems. I'm sure that his drug use entails more than ecstasy. Now why did he call you? Probably because you're the last person he can think of to help him. He's probably burned his other bridges already. Do you want to be that person? I didn't think so.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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He told me he loved me after two years then disappeared! Posted: 10/28/2009 3:13:46 AM
Haven't seen him since...that was two months ago. Stop wasting your time thinking about this guy. He only told you what you wanted to hear. He has no respect for you, he's not worth thinking about.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

you cant beat a fantasy can you Posted: 10/27/2009 7:35:37 PM
Wow, at 51 you should have some sense in your head. You're both a pair of drunks from the sound of it and enjoy each other's drama. Good luck with that.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 15 (view)

What's up with him? Posted: 10/27/2009 7:24:22 PM
You've been out on three dates, he asked you out again. Why are you complaining? The man is showing you respect. I bet you'd be right back here complaining if you did invite him in and he tried to jump your bones on the third date.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Great dates end bad Posted: 10/27/2009 7:21:11 PM
Well if you showed up in that M&M costume, I'm not surprised.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 17 (view)

fake improvements Posted: 10/27/2009 4:12:48 PM
no to all, I like my men masculine. I live in Florida, fake tan is not "in". Neither is baking in the sun kind of tan, but if you work outside or fish then a light tan is understandable.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

Is Dating over 30 tougher than it was when you were in your 20's? Posted: 10/27/2009 3:52:33 PM
amillio-bello So you just do what is right for you. So if lying about your age by 10 years works for you, go for it.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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should i be worried for having sex with friends sister Posted: 10/27/2009 12:53:16 PM
Has anyone been harassing you about that incident since you left? If not then I bet you have nothing to worry about when you go back to visit. Behave like a man, not a boy, when you go back and keep your mouth shut. If someone brings it up, apologize for your bad behavior. If you see the girl, be cautious and if she brings it up apologize.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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what does it say when your boyfriend won't move to be with you? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:20:39 AM
If your intention is to sometime leave the city you're in, then you are with the wrong guy. His desire to stay in the city has nothing to do with his love for you. I'm planning on moving in a couple of years, I'm single. One of the requirements I want in a man is his willingness to relocate. I'm not about to coerce a guy into leaving if that's not what he wants.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Robot lovers - yes or no? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:12:58 AM
ohhh hell no, it'd probably be higher maintenance than most of the men I've dated.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

What ever happened to Love Posted: 10/26/2009 1:55:12 PM
I'd like to fall in love. But How do I get a date?

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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Dealing with the crazies Posted: 10/26/2009 1:26:18 PM
People take their frustrations over their own shortcomings out on other people so they can feel better about themselves. Did you just write that OP?

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Traveling by jet/Best and Worse Airport Posted: 10/26/2009 9:02:41 AM
Best airline: South African Airlines...when you have to be on the plane for a 17-21 hr flight you want comfort and entertainment. SAA has good food and tv screens in the back of every seat with endless movies, programs and games. Every seat comes with a blanket, pillow and comfort kit that includes a blindfold. Good service too.

itsmejuli

Joined: 10/27/2008

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you just know Posted: 10/26/2009 8:57:35 AM
You just know he/she is the right person for right now. Nothing in life comes with a guarantee of forever.

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