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speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Oh God Please Help!! Posted: 5/28/2009 8:52:20 AM
I guess I should change that to I quit! I actually quit a few months back, I just sneak one every once in a blue moon when I go out drinking. I didn't think it was fair to say I NEVER smoked know ing this.. I guess I'll change it, and Ill take a big shit eating grin of a picture I've never been one to take that kind of pic, since it always feel fake and uncomfortable on my face (But to be honest, I don't like taking pictures so that probally explains it!) Thank you for the help, Ill give it a try and see what happens. Thanks again.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Oh God Please Help!! Posted: 5/28/2009 7:38:53 AM
And I am smiling in that picture! DO I really need a big toothy grin!?!? I never smile like that normally, so do I need to make a picture that is not even real? I'm on here trying to figure out whats wrong with my profile. I have the same thing on two other sites, and I'm not getting a nibble :( So is it my pictures more then anything else? I cant possible be that bad looking can I!?!?!?

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Oh God Please Help!! Posted: 5/28/2009 7:36:29 AM
Its a post on sex and sexual relationships.. I dont want a women that cant openly discuss these things! If you cant discuss sex, then your sure as hell going to be be bad at it (or the very least not tell me what u want!)

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Oh God Please Help!! Posted: 5/28/2009 6:49:42 AM
Okay.. I just updated my profile, and changed everything.. I have received virtually no emails, and I'm wondering what the heck am I doing wrong! Ive been trying these things for months and all i have gotten is one miserable date. Please help ladies!! I feel I am a great guy, with lots to offer! so what am I doing wrong? Any help would be appreciated.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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women that like anal sex that are looking for men and men =) Posted: 5/22/2009 6:01:05 AM
100% of statistics posted without siting the source are BS... 90 % of the people that do so know this because they made up the numbers... 100 % of those people are complete douch bags The other ten percent you ask? They are morons and are not counted as having a valid opinion anyway!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Would you date a Tomboy ? Posted: 5/21/2009 8:29:12 AM
What exactly is a tom boy? There are different levels to this. Me, I want a woman that wants to drink a beer, and watch a game once in awhile, and doesn't become a screaming baby if a spider appears. I also want a woman that keeps her hair an nails done, and can wear a sexy little hot number every once in awhile when we go out. And to be clear ladies, jeans and a sports jersey with sneakers DOES NOT COUNT as a sexy hot little number! Ive dated a tom boy off and off for years, and the main thing that pissed me off was she thought it perfectly okay to want to see me in a nice outfit when we went out, but wanted to wear a bandanna, jeans and a jersey. Or to put it another way, ladies would you want a man that is more fem then you? Probally not? As a guy, I want a woman. To me that means being able to look, act and dress liek one when the situation calls. Just my two cents

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Not want sex after a year celibacy? Posted: 5/21/2009 8:20:42 AM
only time I went for an extended period of time and not felt horny was during boot camp, and even then I became erect on a regular basis (I never had such vivid sex dreams like i did then, nor any like that since). Everyone is different.. I feel deprived if I'm not getting it at least once every day, and unless extremely tired, wack off at least once or twice a day. It might just be him.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Advice, please ladies. Posted: 5/21/2009 8:17:30 AM
Okay.. Ladies.. you can have babies.. Yes I know its so tight and you can barely get a finger in.. Its designed to stretch and expand. And while you can lose some of your original tightness (if your 35 you are not going to be as tight as you where at 21 honey.. just facts) Okay now, being a guy that encountered this problem in the past (and I am not 11 inches and I don't wish to be! Ive been kicked out the bed for the size that I am, told its too big) KY does completely and totally suck! Try WET!, or some of the other products out there.. hell buy one that YOU find particular slick, and give it a shot. Even if you think your relaxed, and ready, you might be tightening up on entry. The on top method is best. have him lay back, no thrusting, and start with just the head. lots of manual stimulation, and wait untill ur completly comfortable with just that part of him in. When you are ready, or want to slowly start rocking back, taking as much or as little of him as you feel comfortable. You may always fill pretty full up and like he is in the back of your throat, but hell the dude is 11 inches and thick as bottle, so what do you expect. You may never be able to take all of it.. That's okay too. The main thing is to remember that while he may be huge, he is in no way the size of a newborn's head! even without the hormones that help stretch, you can with a little practice take him with out pain and with quite a bit of enjoyment. Good luck and happy sliding!!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 264 (view)

If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 5/21/2009 8:02:09 AM
Assuming free time, no need to work, and nothing else to do? Hell until she quits!! I've always had a high sex drive, and was more then capable of doing it multiple times a day (epically when I was younger with way more time on my hands...How I miss college!!). Now, with work, stress and the grind of daily adult living, I would still say on a nice Saturday at least 5 or 6 times. A perfect partner, hell I would want to more then that, but you know what they say, the mind is willing but the body is weak lol.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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How many women here prefer short/skinny men? Posted: 5/21/2009 7:53:43 AM
Good guy you pointed out something I have had to deal with my whole life! I've spent my whole life hearing how I was too skinny and not big enough (up until recently my weight fluctuated between 160 and 175 due to a EXTREMELY high metabolism. I guess at the ripe age of 30, its finnaly slowing down, since I am now 200, but still mainly muscle. I'm 6'1 by the way). The common comments I have gooten from women include: 1) You are a lot stronger feel a lot more solid then you look 2) You don't look like a guy with a large penis 3) You don't look like you could defend me. 4) You are a lot better in bed then you look. I was very aware during my teen years (when I was a measly 165 pounds lol) getting these comments and seeing videos with female singers and rappers. The guys in these videos almost always look liked the where moonlighting from football or wrestling careers. When ever they needed a guy in one to be a comedic foil, the guy almost always was either tall, skinny and nerdy looking, or short and "fat". I tried for years to gain weight, and only a few years back said screw it, if you want some meat head there are plenty of them out there (I wont even mention the irony of following hitting my weight goal of 200 pounds to see that there is no remarkable difference, other then some of my female friends asking me have I gained weight since I seem slightly bigger then normal.. in the Facial area!). Ladies, its tough being a skinny guy in today's over market must have the perfect body and looks world! While you may struggle with weight issues, something that continually goes unaddressed is the negative body issues sent to young men. You think with all the information out there about how steroids shrink your penis and makes you impotent, most men would avoid them! However, I can tell you for a fact that the thinking goes I can have a smaller penis, but apparently if I'm built like I can rip track rails out the ground women will trip over themselves to get me. How many of you have post describing a guy alomg these lines: "Must be tall (at least 5'9, 5'10) and muscular. I'm muscular and I wont tell you how many responses I get telling me I am too skinny! Ladies, if we are supposed to not be jerks and want real women (you know with curves and not model. scarily skinny) then you need to start giving us "regular" guys a chance as well. I'm never going to be built like the Rock, or Vin Diesel or Brad Pitt (I am an engineer, and my Job is to sit at a desk, not go to a gym for four hours a day). I am in excellent shape considering my job, age and height. Ladies, should I assume that the smaller frame you are, the tighter the kitty? Because if that's the case some of you look quite loose to me! There is no "formula" for determining penis size. The average length is 4 to 6 and a half inches (in the u.s) if you find a guy bigger then that, feel happy! Like tight behinds, big penis is a rare and good find. And all my lady friends have told me the same thing.. While that linebacker for the jets may be 6'3 and 245 pounds of muscled up greek god, and fun to look at and touch, if you want someone packing a linebacker penis, the best thing to look for is tall and thin. And ladies... I'm tall and thin

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Is it weird for straight girls to like female strip clubs Posted: 5/21/2009 6:38:21 AM
A little advice for taking a lady to a strip club.. DO NOT take her to some scummy hole in the wall. I'm in new york, so I would take a lady to a place like LACE or Larry Flints Hustler Club. Both places cater to couples as well as single me, are very clean, and even serve meals. Are the a bit dark? Yes, of course, its a strip club not a medical examiners office! Its supposed to be dark. Ask her if she wants to go. not everyone is open minded and sexually confident in their own bodies to be in an environment that in which hot bodies of the same sex is floating around turning on others of the opposite sex. Fellas, if you couldn't handle going to a male review with a bunch of women, then you shouldn't think it's okay to take your lady friend to a strip club. And finally, the whole is it weird or not is way to subjective! What is weird for you is totally normally for millions of others, and vice versus. ladies, just because you enjoy the look of the female body, it doesn't make you a lesbian! I enjoy the Michelangelo's David, and I know that doesn't make me gay. The human body, especially at peak physical condition, is a beautiful thing, regardless if its male or female. Nothing enjoying how it looks (and ladies feel free to get a lap dance or stick a few dollars in a g - string.. I'll provide the dollars, strictly in the name of supporting your research of course )

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 6:23:49 AM
If Im in bed nude and you come at me smiling with a pair of scissors, Im going to think you snapped and went Lorena Bobbit on my ass, and in that case I'm going to defend myself and go Ike turner on yours! Just kidding, but seriously ladies, aren't men supposed to be men? if you want someone all smooth like a girl, why not get a strap on and just get a girl? I dont have a problem with it, I just wanna watch :)

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Do women really like anal? Posted: 5/21/2009 6:18:36 AM
Thanks danzandsing. I pretty much thought your points was self explanatory, but I'm glad you posted them. What really amazes me is how SELECTIVE one can be in reading some posts. Once again, there is no denying that there are risks with anal activity. Of course, as some ladies have pointed out, and which I thought I stated as well, those same risks exist with ANY sexual activity. I thought I was very clear that before engaging in ANY sexual activity, one should do thier homework, get tested, and most of all ASK questions. The inherent dangers of anal sex are no greater, or less than, any other sexual activity. My point was simply to give links pointing out what those dangers could be, how you can minimize them, and if interested in engaging in the practice how to do so safely and enjoyable. I never claimed to be a medical doctor. I've never taken a medical class in my life (Outside of the sexual health and awareness classes I took in college to become a campus Sexual health rep, and again in the military when I was command sexual health liaison). I am a quality assurance engineer for goodness sake! By your own admission, neither is any one else here. Yet there is plenty of information out there from DOCTORS and EXPERTS verifying what I have previously posted. Only you will know how anal sex feels, and whether you will enjoy it or not. I simply posted a link with testimonial from WOMEN who enjoy it, and explain why they enjoy it. I didn't bother to post men's testimonal because I think its pretty obvious a tighter hole= more pleasure. I didn't post anal stimulation for men simply because the question was wether Women enjoy it, and quite frankly its not my thing. One thing about size. Ladies, you can have babies! Your vagina can expand in a matter of hours to allow the passage of a baby's head and body! There isn't a penis on the planet that CANNOT fit vaginally given time and lube. Studies show that the anal cavity, again given time, relaxation and good old lube, can accommodate objects much larger then you think (all those porns of tiny women taking 12 inches all the way is proof of that. Of course, those ladies have practice, and I am positive they spend quite a bit of time "warming up and loosening up" before shooting those scenes). I have gay friends as well, and none of them have ever complained of any long term problems from anal sex. I do here lots of jokes about lube, and the occasional crap related joke as well, but outside of hearing stories of what they call some new "child" (in the gay community for those unaware, those that newly come out of the closet are often referred to as children or babies because of their inexperience in the gay community) either hurting themselves or their partner by trying to just shove it in with no forethought. Again, unless its a repeated practice (yes go figure some keep doing it exactly that way) or extremely brutal in nature (as consistent with extremly rough sex or rape, and again the damage that can occur can occur vaginally as well), there are no long term health risks. As pointed out above, health services see kissing as being dangerous as well if not careful. (see your mother was right! Don't go putting everything you see in your mouth!) I simply promote an open view point, neither promoting or discouraging the practice (as so many seem to want to do). The op simply asked was it true that women enjoy anal sex. Not the safety of the practice, or the long term consequences. I think we clearly have enough body of work within the post to show that the answer is in fact yes. I simply wanted to dis prove the misinformation being posted as fact. Again, I believe others and myself have posted more then enough information showing that anal sex is no more dangerous or harmful, in the short or long term, then any other sexual activity. This is my last post on the subject, because I frankly think we are beating it to death. Obviously, there are strong opinions for and against anal. I simply state that there is plenty of evidence that shows that its a normal sex practice, and can be done safely with a little time and knowledge. Again, please note that I said can be done safely with a little time and knowledge. Keep an open mind. Ask questions. Get tested! and more then anything else, use that sex organ between your ears!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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How can anyone feel comfortable enough to have sex? Posted: 5/20/2009 6:01:07 PM
OP... A couple of quick questions.. God created the human body correct? If god created the human body (male and female) why would he make the body capable of having intercourse? Before you answer, remember the human body was created before the act of "original sin" (the eating of the apple of truth and the lying to god after wards). If sex is immoral and so bad, why did god make sex feel so pleasurable and good? Assuming that sex was meant to be enjoyed ONLY in the confines of marriage, why would it still be dirty and immoral? You need help. From your post, it appears to me your parents created these huge hangups in your mind, and you have never dealt with them. Seek help. Its okay to have christian values, and its okay to believe that sex should occur only in marriage. However, your clear attitudes about sex in general means that any romantic relationship you pursue will have serious problems from the start, since a physical component is part of any romantic relationship. Otherwise, what you are seeking is a friend. Sex is a wonderful experience, something that can be enjoyed between two people, or even by yourself! It's natural, something that god gave us as one of his ultimate gifts to give in love and joy to each other. While we can debate the morality of when its okay and right to share that gift (and I can guarantee you we will differ wildly on this point), we would not have it in the first place if IT WASN'T GIVEN TO US BY GOD (or what ever higher power you believe in). You need to first realize that since sex is a natural act, and the commandment is to go forth to procreate, the act itself is not immoral or a sin. God (or again what ever power you believe in) created all natural acts.. and sex is about as natural as you can get. Seek help.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:36:51 PM
Okay, i love a bare woman.. It makes it a lot easier to eat. I trim, but I do not shave for one reason.... Hair bumps I am a hairy stard.. Full chest hair, basically none on my back, but on my arms and legs. I was teased virually all the time for this while in high school (its tough at 16 having chest hair like a full adult when all the other guys look like 10 year old boys lol) and when I went to college, I shaved it.. You think being a hairy stard is tough, when men with smooth chest is so in, try having a chest full of hair bumps! I wont even describe the horror that erupted when I tried the groin area. 3 months of wearing anti itch creams, and of course no sex. I let any women I am dealing with know up front, if you are looking for some hairless BOY, I am NOT the one, and I am not shaving anything for a night of pleasure. The three months of torture was enough for me. I like to think that I have a nicely trimmed bushes around my lovely tree. If you want a bare lawn, or better yet nothing there, I'm sure there are plenty of metro - sexuals' running around someplace. I was lucky enough to meet a woman that told me if she was looking for something smooth and hairless, she would be a lesbian! Just my 2 cents!!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Call Girls Vs Strippers?? What do you believe? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:20:44 PM
For a close friends 30th b-day, we got him two strippers for two hours (it was his female friends idea). They did a complete triple x show (I wont even describe the "sandwhich" lol) and lap dances at the end, including a very hot and erotic dance with me and his friend. She was shocked when I told her it was actually the ladies idea, and offered to come back and give me and her a private show (since it was her idea and I basically paid for it). Not a single offer of sex at all. Just depends on the agency and the girls.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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WER'S DA MOS FREAKY PLACE U'V EVA HAD SEX???????? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:14:51 PM
In the champagne room of a strip club (and no it was not with the stripper.. Don't get drunk with hot friends of the opposite sex at a strip club in Italy!)

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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is it easier for a homely woman to get laid? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:04:00 PM
Greg my man I am a horrible wing man lol! Once I do the opening approach, I'm all jokes and silliness, and I am not smooth at all!! My female friends keep telling me to tone down the brain power cause its intimidating! I mean really? Nothing is sexier to me then a hot woman with a brain!! What is with women loving pretty idiots? Sorry off topic Lol.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 5/20/2009 4:59:32 PM
Really? if you don't want cum in your mouth, why are you blowing him? Do you warn him when you are cumming, or do you grab his head and pull him in? If you really dont want cum in your mouth and want to blow him 1) ask him to warn you 2) watch his body signs My experience has been if you don't want my load in your mouth, you probably didn't want to blow me in the first place! and if that's the case, do us both a favor and don't bother. I like going down on a women, and I love her juices! I don't half ass eat the kitty, and I damn sure don't pull away when she is cumming! If you have that issue, stop giving BJs.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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is it easier for a homely woman to get laid? Posted: 5/20/2009 4:39:00 PM
I can tell you art that you are so right! The one place where meeting those of the opposite sex should be easy is n fact the worst place to do so. I go out often, and I can tell you that I have completely stopped approaching women in bars or clubs. I now go for the music, to dance (shut up I know it sounds gay but I like to dance!!), to socialize and to play pool. I can tell you I never had the greatest of egos, and I am painfully shy when it comes to approaching women. I forced myself past that issue, to only spend plenty of nights getting shot down, in some cases quite nastily! I mean come on ladies, if I approach you, politely ask your name and could i buy you a drink, is it really necessary to say **** off dirt bag? I wasn't rude in the slightest! and I had this happen multiple times in a night! Again, I have plenty of female friends, and not one of them, no matter their looks, has ever said they had a problem getting laid (this included my 5'2, 300 pound bald headed mouth breathing friend, and quite frankly when I see some of the guys she is bagging, I want to know how she is doing it!) I do know that when I see a beautiful woman, and she looks like she wants to murder someone, I am not going to approach. I'm nervous enough without trying to melt some ice queen! If I have to smile and look approachable, then so do you! beautiful women tend to have nasty attitudes, and be extremely unapproachable (I'm talking about women that think they are beautiful. Ive seen this same attitude from women that was horrible looking). Try working on being approachable, and guys will trip over themselves to get to you.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

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Do women really like anal? Posted: 5/20/2009 4:19:55 PM
All the risks you described, can also be attributed to both vaginal and oral sex (remember the place with the most bacteria on the human body is in fact, the mouth!) The damage that can occur, can also occur during vaginal intercourse (hence why lube becomes so important). And why, oh why would anyone want any sex while afflicted with hemroids? I totally agree with you that all it takes is one time! It only takes one time for lots of things! So in truth, if your that worried about long term health effects due to sex, you shouldn't be having sex in the first place. The risk of transmission of disease exist with ANY sexual contact, hence why I suggest, not condoms, but having yourself and your partner tested, ad do not engage in risky behavior of unprotected sex with multiple partners, or the use of inject able drugs. There are horror stories for every activity in the world! The case is that the vast majority of them involve one or both parties doing something incredible stupid. There are inherent risks with ANY sexual activity (especially today), however that risk can be greatly reduced with again, education and information. If you want to eliminate the risk all together, then simply do not have sex of any sort! This of course would be rather dull. When I stated that you should grow up, its that you obviously have strong feelings against anal sex. That is okay. However, to imply that anal sex is this extremely dangerous activity is being disingenuous. Like ANY sexual activity, it CAN be dangerous if you are uninformed, unprepared, and quite frankly, looking to re-create a scene from Big Booty Hoes # 8, I can almost guarantee that some one is going to get hurt. Give informed, balance information, so that individual can make informed choices. To summarize 1) ANY sexual activity carries inherent risks! Educate yourself, your partner, use protection when necessary, and always keep a bit of lube handy. Even the wettest women can become dry during sexual intercourse. 2) Anal sex, in particular, carries its own dangers. But hey, so does oral (i.e its not really wise to attempt oral sex in a moving vehicle.) Again, learn the risks, how you can minimize them, talk to a doctor if your really worried, and remember patience and a lot of lube goes a REALLY long way. 4) More then anything, willing participants are key! If she is NOT relaxed, or doing it because he wants to, this is a recipe for disaster! Again, this is not something to spring on a drunken night of passion (at least not for beginners!). I simply want anyone considering this activity to know both the risks, and the potential benefits. Its been shown in studies that Anal sex leads to : 1)Better, stronger and longer lasting orgasms then vaginal or oral sex for both partners 2) Creates even more intimacy between couples (it takes a lot for a women to give that part of herself to you) 3) creates yet another sexual activity for couples to experiment and enjoy. I'm done. There is plenty of info out there folks. You wont know if you like it or not unless you try. If you want to try, educate yourself and your partner, and more then anything have fun As always, use that sex organ between your ears! its the best one you have!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 75 (view)

Can we talk about relationships without sex? I'm not talking ''a little'' sex I mean none. Possible? Posted: 5/20/2009 3:41:26 PM
Abbey, I think we can assume that the OP meant NO SEX. Lets not get into Bill Clinton definitions please. She said NO SEX. that meant sexually contact of any kind. I found this as a definition of intimacy, and I think it sums up what most here have said. "Most people seem to define intimacy as two people engaged in hot and passionate sex (or a reasonable facimile). Having discussed the subject with numerous men and women, this seems to be the first image that comes to their minds. However, there is a strong argument to be made that intimacy is much less physical and has more to do with the mind, heart, and soul of those who enjoy sharing it together. In fact, I am personally convinced that the beautiful experience of physical connection between two people is really the culmination of all that is intimate between them. It includes how they relate outside of the bedroom as much as what they do inside of it." Assuming the OP meant NO sexual contact of any time, then the type of relationship defined would not traditionally be romantic in nature. A romantic relationship culmination is some form of physical contact that would normally be defined as sexually in nature. I.E, a kiss can be sexual or non sexual, depending on how it is given and to who. I see post describing physical limitations. I think for the purpose of the discussion, we can eliminate this argument. We can assume in these relationships, if the individuals was physically capable, they would have some sort of sexual contact. So where talking about a situation in which one or both parties have CHOSEN not to have a physical, sexual relationship. This would normally be defined as a friendship. I love the brother sister example posted earlier. Normally, we could say family members have intimate relationships that are non - sexual in nature. However, for the most part, that is due to cultural and social norms enforcing this convention. However, this is a choice! There is plenty of literature of family members getting it on. The body of work on the subject includes Shakespeare buy the way, in case anyone want to argue this is simply the work of "pervs". The point, is that assuming both parties are capable, the culmination of a ROMANTIC relationship is sexual contact of some sort and nature. So Abbey, while u and your bud might not have been having sex n the strictest definition, there was sexual contact occurring. To put it another way, if you both was involved with others, would your significant others approve of the activities of you and your bud? Anything is possible, so I will retract my statement that its impossible to have a long term romantic monogamous relationship without sex. Its just extremely, highly unlikely. Like on the order of it suddenly raining money, or an alien invasion tomorrow. Its possible, but highly unlikely.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

Do women really like anal? Posted: 5/20/2009 3:03:17 PM
Eschec mat, Did you even bother to look at ANY of the websites that I so recently posted? Medical science has already established that Anal sex, with a bit of forethought and lube, has no long term consequences. You say the ass is not made for sex. Neither is the mouth, fingers, dildos, or vibrators. Are those things dangerous as well? You also state that vaginal sex does not cause pain, due to lubrication. Why, oh why was KY Jelly invented? That's right! To lubricate when none is present. Not all women naturally become lubricated enough for vaginal sex. Furthermore, there is a naturally occurring medical condition in which vaginal contact is extremly painful for a women. This is corrected by surgery of course. You mention the Karma Sutra, yet I am inclined to believe you read the Americanized version, as the original text not only includes anal sex, but double penetration as well! You are right, there are dangers associated with Anal sex. There are dangers associated with all sex. You say ask your doctor and educate yourself, please, refer to my earlier post, and check out the websites yourself. There is nothing wrong with dis-liking a particular sexual practice. For example, I am turned off by the idea of "water sports". However, I have done the research, and I know that, again, with forethought and preparation, there is nothing harmful with the practice. I just don't like the idea, and I have no inclination to participate in the activity. However, if a friend expressed interest, I would provide them accurate information, tell them to be careful, and enjoy their "shower"! The question originally, was do women enjoy anal sex? There was obviously in accurate information posted as to the danger of the practice. I think there is plenty of information on line that establishes that its about as dangerous as any other practice. I know for a fact, that the damage that can occur to the rear, can occur in the front, again without proper preparation thought (hence why during rape, they look for vaginal tearing and bruising, since most women will probably not become lubricated during a forced encounter). This is a forum in which some, will turn to gain information. Now, I try to remain knowledgeable about the things I talk about, and keep my own personal feelings about the subject out of it, so that Adults can make informed choices. Fear mongering, when the overwhelming evidence clearly proves you wrong, is horrible immoral and quite frankly selfish. Different strokes for different folks (pun intended) so stick to the format. Your personnel experiences has lead you to feel its disgusting and not safe, FOR YOU. The overwhelming evidence shows that if a person is willing, no lasting damage will occur, its quite enjoyable, and frankly just another natural sex act (again, if you had checked any of the sites I previously posted, you will see that its a practice that been around for centuries, if not longer!) I encourage everyone who is reading this post to do their own research, ask their doctor if they are REALLY worried about long term consequences, and make up their own mind. As always, before engaging in any sexual activity, use the biggest sex organ you have first.. The one between your ears.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Is it weird for straight girls ... Posted: 5/20/2009 11:46:33 AM
Hmmmm... why the hell would I want to go to a club with one or two hundred screaming, drunk horny women stuffing MONEY down a guys pants.. I mean really!?! Its not like their horny or anything!!! Lol.. You ladies that go to the strip club with your man or by yourself.. TO DAMN SMART FOR WORDS lol... And any ladies want to take me to the male review, I will be more then happy to go lol.. Purly in the name of research and support of course.

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

Ladies stop settling for bootycall status... Posted: 5/20/2009 11:41:22 AM
Thanks Greg! Now if I could only convince a lady on here of that lol!!

speaksty

Joined: 10/29/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

Is being rough good or bad??? Posted: 5/20/2009 11:31:37 AM
If you dont break something then whats the point!?!?! Ahemm Seriously, I like it rough! Its called a little slap and tickle for a reason! Everyone has levels. I like to lightly slap, pull hair, toss around a bit, call nasty, vulgar names, do a little... hey I'm not telling you the rest!!! But seriously, thats why you discuss with your partner what you want. Me, the idea of grabbing my partner, throwing her over the desk and forcefully taken her is a huge turn on. Of course, when I wake up I'm not looking to do any of that! I want a nice sweet, slow and long session. ill do the other stuff after breakfast if you want. You have to remember there is only two types of "Bad" sex. Rape, and minors.. and the last time I checked both will get you 10 to 20 at minimum. :) P.S: And if anyone is interested, I know some really nice knots..

speaksty

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Msg: 81 (view)

swallowing to end sex Posted: 5/20/2009 10:31:11 AM
Can I have her Name and number? But seriously, did it occur to you she actually likes the taste of cum, or might not want to risk pregnancy?

speaksty

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Msg: 172 (view)

How to measure your D ick the correct way.. Posted: 5/20/2009 10:24:14 AM
How the hell did they know MY size!?!?!?

speaksty

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Msg: 92 (view)

Ladies stop settling for bootycall status... Posted: 5/20/2009 10:23:22 AM
You know how many women I know that complain about this but see nothing wrong in thier behavior? 1) the friend in Italy who ****ed 4 guys at the club in a matter of 2 hours. and this was not druken behavior, this was a common thing with her. Then complaining why all the guys she knows just want to hit it and quit it. 2) The women that believes she can get a bad boy to settle down! 3) The chick that states nice guys are so boring? I mean what women wants a man thats thoughtful considerate, caring and wants to make you happy? 4) last and not least, the women that stays with the man abusing them, hoping against hope they will change. I'm a pretty decent guy, I'm no angel, but I know I am decent guy. Yet it seems so many women want a guy that will treat them like shit! its quite sad really

speaksty

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Msg: 151 (view)

Black Women and Sex Posted: 5/20/2009 9:30:22 AM
Thanks lorimac.. I've always tried to date who i thought was hot.. I have been straight up told "Your a great guy, but I dont date black men." WTF!?!? So your single, and your holding out till you get the right COLOR? Your not buying a car people... Grow the hell up!!

speaksty

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Msg: 169 (view)

How to measure your D ick the correct way.. Posted: 5/20/2009 9:27:29 AM
Wait.. why lie about****size? Sooner or later she is going to see it right? lol.. thats funny. And no I'm not telling you my size because you would think I was full of BS unless I showed u a pic! When speaking to women, some like it super sized, some want average, a few want small. Women want whats comfortable for them! I can say, nothing is worse then getting kicked for being to big! It's like what did I enter opposite world or somethin!?!? And OP: Lady chill out! No need to be nasty!

speaksty

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Msg: 94 (view)

Nice guy tryin to figure out the mysterious line Posted: 5/20/2009 9:19:17 AM
In order to have a family you have to have a kinky time!! lol.. the stork aint bringing those kids!

speaksty

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Msg: 93 (view)

Nice guy tryin to figure out the mysterious line Posted: 5/20/2009 9:18:12 AM
You dont have any friends that dated for awhile some guy that treated them like shit? You dont know any decent guys that are single? You never said he is great but he is too nice? really? really?

speaksty

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Msg: 149 (view)

Black Women and Sex Posted: 5/20/2009 9:12:36 AM
Three words... Anna Nichole Smith....

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Msg: 148 (view)

Black Women and Sex Posted: 5/20/2009 9:09:39 AM
That's just racist! No one race is better then any other! It depends on the individual. And i find it truly sad that in 2009 people are still making racist remarks about african american sexuality (i.e all black men have large penises, black women are very sexual, and so forth). My friend has a thing for black women.. call it his fetish. Me, I don't care, but I do find myself attracted to Hispanic and women from the med more then other races. Another buddy of mine loved Asian women. Its a preference people! Of course if your attracted to black women, the sex will seem way better then sex with another race. How could you objectively judge? It would be personnel! Assumptions about race makes AN Ass out of You. Sex is highly personnel people! Everybody enjoys it differently, are attracted or repulsed differently and does it differently. Before opening your mouths, use that big old heavy sexy organ between your...EARs!!!! or as my mother would say.. "Think before you speak so others don't think your a complete moron!!"

speaksty

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Msg: 28 (view)

Do women really like anal? Posted: 5/20/2009 8:39:05 AM
Really!?!? Do u realize that posting info that anal sex might kill you is the same as posting that sex in general may kill you!?!? Look, I could finish my coffee, swallow wrong and choke to death! Does that mean coffee is dangerous? No it means I was an ***hole and swallowed wrong! Anything can kill you! Breathing can lead to lung cancer.. So everyone hold your breath!! lets be real... Some women like Anal.. some don't. Some women like giving BJ.. some don't. Almost all cancers have been shown to be either genetic, or gotten through environmental factors. Before engaging in ANY type of sexual activity, you should be checked for ALL types of sexually transmitted diseases. If sexually active, you should get immunized for what ever diseases you can be immunized for. You should educate yourself on all ways you can "screw things up", because one time of unprotected sex can lead to HIV, or any number of sexually transmitted diseases. The risks associated with Anal sex are on par with any type of sex. If your doing in unprotected, with multiple untested partners, you are placing yourself and others at risk. If your jamming things into your body, or allowing things to be jammed into your body, without forethought, care and knowledge, don't be surprised if it hurts!! There are plenty of women that will say they enjoy it, with no adverse side effects, and its a natural part of what they do in bed. Lets not give bad advice based on fear or your like or dislike people, give good educated advice backed by research. Here is a few sites for all to better educate themselves. http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/anal_sex.htm http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/buttsexbeginners http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/guides/anal.html http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/anal.html http://www.analsexyes.com/ There.. And there are thousands of web pages on the subject! Use your biggest sex organ people!! Your Brain!!

speaksty

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Msg: 87 (view)

What's the deal with toes and feet!? Posted: 5/20/2009 8:16:09 AM
I yet to meet any one that doesn't like getting something on their body sucked and licked lol.

speaksty

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Msg: 99 (view)

Describe your first time Posted: 5/20/2009 8:14:41 AM
lol nice guy.. You had a tool that some of us older folks did not have at your age.. the internet. I was lucky enough that I had a caring mom that believed you can never be too informed, so she made sure I had all the books I needed on the subject. A very, very big shout out to Doctor Drew, from MTV fame, that published a A to Z book of sex for teenagers and young adults. It even came complete with technique guides!! My first time was horrible for ME, but that was due to nerves, and inexperience (I fondly think of it as the first game a rookie plays in the pros.. It almost always bad, and its mainly due to nerves and.. yup, inexperience). Sadly enough, there are forces at work that feel its best to keep people as ignorant as possible about that "yucky" activity that nice people don't do (I'm still chuckling over steven colbert's comment to John McCains daughter, when she said she was pro sex, and he replied "Why would republicans be anti sex? How do they reproduce, by cell division?"). In Europe, sex education is taught, and being a more liberated culture, when a virgin gets around to doing the deed, they normally have an idea of what there doing. Ahh Italy, I remember you fondly :)

speaksty

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Msg: 251 (view)

When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 5/20/2009 8:06:08 AM
Lol thanks Dave.. I had this argument with two women about 6 months ago and even after showing them the videos (and no there are a lot of EDUCATIONAL videos, not porn) the articles and the research, they both still insisted that since they had never done it, it must be pee! I stated this in another post, which I think no matter what the question, we should always remember. The biggest and best sex organ, the most pleasurable, is the BRAIN. There is no such thing as bad sex or wrong sex (not of course including minors and rape), so there are numerous ways to approach sex. If you don't know something, or are simply curious, I bet there are plenty of informative, and well written articles on the subject. You ultimately have to make the choice of what is pleasurable to you! Even if female ejaculate is pee, so what?!?! Urine, folks, is sterile (baring of course some sort of sickness). It wont kill you, it cant harm you in any way, and besides the smell (and that is mostly due to diet and what you ingest) you wouldn't even notice it in the act anyway! Now I'm not into water sports, but if you are, god bless you! I'm glad that you have found someone to enjoy a few pleasurable moments. Lets get over the hang ups people!! No wonder Europeans laugh at us when it comes to sex. Educate yourself, educate your partner, and try to enjoy it! And as always, if any of you lovely ladies are looking for a willing partner to try this particular trick out, I am currently available :)

speaksty

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Msg: 249 (view)

When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:40:30 AM
Nope I was fully relaxed and clothed the whole time. She is on Wikepedia as a mention under the topic of squirting! I saw a post wondering if this is a relatively new thing. Again, erotic writings dating back to the mid to late 1800's detail the concept of squirting in great detail. Of course it was not called that back then, but if you read the story, the description matches what we now know as squirting. I had to do a little research myself (again) and it seems that in fact, both sides are right and wrong! http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2009/feb/26/pamela-stephenson-connolly-sexual-healing http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Lawless1.html and last http://www.whitelotuseast.com/FemaleEjaculation.htm As you can all see here, there is plenty of information out there on this subject, including how to induce one. In case anyone was to lazy to plug the links in ill post the summary from one of the links The Myths & Truth About Female Ejaculation- THE MYTHS- 1) Female ejaculation does not exist. 2) Only rare women can achieve female ejaculation. 3) Kegel exercise is the key to achieving female ejaculation. 4) Only women with prominent G-Spots can achieve female ejaculation. 5) Female ejaculation can only be achieved through G-Spot orgasms. 6) Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information. 7) Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine. 8) Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence. 9) Women who have given birth are the only women capable of female ejaculation. 10) There is only one way to achieve female ejaculation. THE TRUTH- 1) Female ejaculation comes from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also known as the G-Spot). 2) Women do not realize that they can ejaculate because they are missing the cues of when they can do it. 3) There are specific techniques that can be taught to a woman to teach her how to do it and how to hold it if she does not wish to ejaculate. 4) Women can ejaculate without having a G-Spot orgasm and for that matter without having an orgasm at all! 5) Women can increase the amount of fluid they ejaculate by following specific steps. 6) Women can ejaculate multiple times within a short period. 7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is much like the consistency of water, is clear in color, and usually smells like nothing or has a slight sweet scent. 8) OBGYNs and other physicians often misunderstand or even misdiagnose female ejaculation. You may be wondering "If all women are capable, then why is it that many women have never done it?" This is a very good question, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with reviewing some basic information about the female anatomy to better understand how this works. Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From? Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and making up the G-Spot) during sexual arousal. How Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum? There are two types of female cum that can be excreted during sexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal. You probably have noticed it is milky and ranges in its thickness and odor based on a woman’s diet, overall health and the phase she is experiencing within her menstrual cycle. Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing female ejaculation and is less common. It is the watery ejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that is generally less known about. Again, this is not because only a few, special women are capable, but rather due to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues in this culture. What Is In The Fluid? Let me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE. Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic acid phosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is "wet" or has had an orgasm. How Much Ejaculate Comes Out? Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors. Why Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It? Female ejaculation is not difficult; its techniques are just not known about by many. Because women typically don't know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm. One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus, making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back. There are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women. The ejaculation techniques that I have begun training thousands of women and their partners have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels. Are There Health Problems For Women Who Do It? No, in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate about teaching women and their partners about female ejaculation because unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about it. Did you know that thousands of women each year are told that a normal female sexual response such as female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which it is not) or something that they should be ashamed of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating on their partner(s)? Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners are not informed about it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response! There!! We have I don't know how many posts on the subject, when a little google can go a long way!! If any ladies require help to achieve one of these orgams, please feel free to reach out at any time. I'll take one for the team and help out any way I can

speaksty

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Msg: 591 (view)

Why do some younger men want to have sex with an older woman? Posted: 5/19/2009 5:35:12 PM
I just turned 30 so I can state the following: 1) Older women are more mature, tend to be a lot more stable (i.e I don't have to take her to the hottest clubs, bars and stores to keep her happy) and have higher sex drives (women are supposed to peak at 35 I believe). 2) Younger women do tend to play a lot of emotional games. 3) Older women are no nonsense when it comes to their wants and desires, and tend to know how to please a man. Its funny, but there are no questions as to why young women want older men!! Historically, it wasn't even conceivable that a young women would marry a man her own age! Older people provide guidance, stability and education to young people that are in a period of their lives when they are just starting out. I was very lucky to have to older women in my life. The first I lost my virginity too, the second a few years later took the time to teach me what women like (and I was a VERY god student ). I found both to be very, very attractive, and to be honest, the biggest difference I have ever heard or experinced was the things that interested us was a bit different. I was 16 with a 35 year old, and while i listened to rap and rock, she listened to R&B... it was very fun to learn about the music she listened to when she was my age, and I was like a little puppy when I could find a song she liked. and I really don't need to hear comments about being abused by her! I knew EXACTLY what I was getting into, and if I could I would do it again. My best friend at the time had a 39 year old boyfriend! You should have seen the looks he got from the guys in my school when he showed up in his BMW to pick her up!

speaksty

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Msg: 41 (view)

Dryness . . . . . What is he to do? Posted: 5/19/2009 5:03:18 PM
first, lets assume that on face we have the facts. 1) She has a medical problem causing dryness, something that a doctor has prescribed gels, lotions and creams to solve. 2) He is trying his best to be understanding, and work with her through the problems 3) She is self conscious about the problem, and has quit working with him to resolve it. 4) He started an online sexual relationship, but he has not cheated (yet) There are a few problems. He was wrong for starting a relationship (albeit one that is mainly mental) online to achieve satisfaction. He should have approached her upfront and told her how he felt, including that the lack of physical intimacy makes him feel unwanted and un loved. He should have also suggested that perhaps they try some expermentation to find what works and what doesnt, and approach it as a fun project together. The suggestions of more foreplay, and including the creams, gels and lotions as part of that foreplay was excellent. Another visit to a doctor to determine if thier are hormonal or chemical imbalances is also warranted, as well as perhaps seeing a theraphist. Major medical problems can leave mental issuies buried that only manifest itself physically. The comments that he is not attempting foreplay, or making her feel wanted, is unfounded. From the OP's original post, it sounds on face that he is trying to make it work, and make it enjoyable for her as well as himself. The OP has stated that she has pretty much given up on resolving the issuie. Assuming that untill the problems they enjoyed a healthy and pleasurable sex life, that is highly un forgivable. He didn't walk when she had problems, and he didnt give up on her when the problems first appeared. If she loves him, she has an obligation to meet his emotional and physical needs, the same as he has trhe obligation to do that for her. What he did was not right, however, it IS understandable. I dont expect anyone, male or female, to remain in a relationship where there needs are not being meet. Cheating is wrong. However, if your needs are not being meet, I can UNDERSTAND why he went the route that he did. There are to many posts from both women and men that seem all to quick to lay ALL the blame at his feet. She refuses to use the things to make sex pleasurable for both of them. Why is the obligation all on him to get her to use the very things prescribed by a doctor? If she was bi-polar, would he have an obligation to give her her meds if she stops taking them? Sex is a two way street! He needs to make her feel sexy and loved, and she needs to do the same for him. If my partner walked away from sex like that (and I have experince in that area!!) I would feel that its a rejection of me, regardless of the situation. The greatest sex organ is between your ears! If you have a problem, work together to solve it! for myself, I refuse to be in a relationship in which I am either physically or emotionally unsatisfied. I am very quick to let my potential partner know what I like and dislike. With all that being said, my advise is to sit her down, and first and foremost apoligize and ask for her forgivness for betraying her trust. I would tell her I love her, but we have some problems to work out. I would tell her as part of a relationship I expect a physical component, and ask what can WE do to get there? I would also tell her that if its purely physical (i,e the pain scares her so much she cant be turned on) then there is lots of ways to advoid that, and lets fine a way to solve that. If its mental, lets see if we can go talk to someone, and work through that. I would tell her that if she is unwilling to do those things, then it might be the time to go your different ways. You will only hurt each other as you both become unhappy with the situation, her angry at the demands for sex, and him angry for why he was being denied. Just my two cents

speaksty

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Msg: 93 (view)

Describe your first time Posted: 5/19/2009 4:23:40 PM
I keep seeing to young or too old.. I thought the first time was supposed to be when YOU was ready? Me, I don't regret it at all. She was older, taught e a few things, was gentle and kind and I got it over with so that I could learn to become a decent lover.

speaksty

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Msg: 8 (view)

For The Ladies: What Do You Think About A Guy Friend Going Down On You When You Wanted/Needed It? Posted: 5/19/2009 4:17:04 PM
Here here ladies!!! While I love to go down on a lady, I want to know that the lady I'm going down on is in fact clean. There are A LOT of women thate have some serious problems going on down there (i.e smells, dis colored discharge, horrible taste due to diet) and I know I will not just go down on any random chick. Just like you ladies wont touch a smelly**** if I run into a problem, I am going to walk then and there! Second, while I love going down on a women, I am definetly not going for the whole Ill do u just for the joy of it. I wouldn't even want to take oral and not do something for my partner. The very least you can do is return the favor.

speaksty

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Msg: 64 (view)

Can we talk about relationships without sex? I'm not talking ''a little'' sex I mean none. Possible? Posted: 5/19/2009 4:10:08 PM
So many people have nailed it dead on the head! A relationship that is exclusive and without sex is not going to work. The argument that what if he cant physically perform sex is also BS! There are people who cant move from the neck down and enjoy healthy sex lives. Now, for those that say sex is NOT needed, the science proves you wrong. Men that have active sexual lives have less incidents of prostate and testicular cancer, heart problems, mental issuies, and generally live longer then men who do not. Women have less rates of cancer, heart attacks, post partum depression, and a host of other ills. The science has shown couples with healthy sex lives stay together longer, live longer, and generally report better quality of life and happiness then couples that have sex rarely or at all. If a man cant get it up, that does not mean the end of sex! Hello, that's why we have mouths, hands and feet! So what we are talking about are people that want intimacy, but for what ever reason do not want the physical part of that intimacy. If you think about that, its a contradictory position! The very definition of intimacy implies that there is some sort of physical element. You may have a close friend, but that does not equally or replace the intimacy associated with sex. A poster called it being a "dead fish". My ex was one, and I have a friend who's husband appears the same way. In my case I quickly discovered that my ex had failed to mention that her past sexually experinces had lead her to feel that sex was something to be indured and gotten over with as quickly as possible. As much as I loved her, I feel to this day the lack of intamcy is what destroyed the marriage. What I have found is that those that claim that physical, sexual contact is not needed or required, normally have serious issuies concerning sex, and that ultimately are not ready to be in a relationship at that level. If you feel that you want a relationship similiar to what couples have without sexual contact, then you should either get a pen pal, find someone that u can truly confide in, or let whoever you decide to date that you do not need or desire sex, and do not want to pursue that portion of a intimate relationship. Its extremly unfair to expect most people to want to be with you exclusively while denying that aspect of an exclusive relationship. Of course, the other option s to encourage your partner to pursue sexual encounters, with the understanding it will ONLY be sex, and nothing else. However, I have seen relationships that attempted this, and it almost never ends well.

speaksty

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Msg: 112 (view)

ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 5/19/2009 3:40:57 PM
This question depends on the guy. Me, I am a ass man through and through! Don't get me wrong, I love and appreciate a great rack! However, if I had to choose which one I prize more, I will go with the ass every time. There is nothing in the world better then a curvy, round ass! Please note, Curvy as in curve back, not out to the sides. Nobody likes a wide load!! From dancing (nothing like a round ass grinding into your crotch to a hot beat.. why god invented lad dancing!!) to seeing a great ass on top of some beautiful legs, to how it feels to slap an ass.... Okay i need a minute.. Anyway.. u get it.. As sir mix a lot said "You can do side bends and sit ups, but baby please don't lose that but! Some fellas may tell you the but aint gold, but I'm not down with that!!"

speaksty

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Msg: 138 (view)

is it easier for a homely woman to get laid? Posted: 5/19/2009 3:26:53 PM
Okay I'm going to end this right here and now. Every man can tell you the time he was horny, and went out to try very hard to get laid, and batted a big fat zip! As in nothing, nada, zilch, zipo. Now are there any ladies here on here who truly believes that if they walked into a bar, could not get laid by simply walking up to a guy and saying "wanna **?"? I want to know why you think that. You can be 500 pounds, no hair (as in bald) missing all your teeth, a boob and have one leg, and I can tell you that you would still find a guy willing to do you within 30 minutes. And I'm being generous. It should only take you 10 minutes. Why? It is not because "all men are dogs", or we all need a "wet hole" to stick it in. The fact of the matter is that we all know we are taught nearly from birth by our societies that while the man can chase, the women chooses. Depending on the guy and what his odds, are, we know we have to strike "while the is hot", simply because we know that no matter what, nothing ensures you WILL get laid. A perfect example is the British chick that blew the judges away singing. She stated she was a virgin. She was a virgin by choice. If there is a poster child for the definition of "homely" she is it. And the only reason she was a virgin was because she decided to NOT put out. I find this a little funny. Every guy here knew exactly what the op was asking, and so did the ladies. I truly believe that in some ways, this was a cry for attention, because she knew the answer already. I can count on one hand how often a women has approached me! I've lost count of how many times I have approached and been shot down. Why do I keep approaching? It's because my success rate is still WAY higher then the times I've been approached, let alone "got laid" after the approach. Everyone, your being a little mean to the op, insulting her, her looks and the question. OP: If you want to really answer your question, get some of your Ugliest friends (and dont tell me you dont have any.. We fellas already know all ladies try to have at least one friend they feel they are better looking) go to the bar, and tell them they have to approach guys all night and ask if they want to **. The one with the most REJECTIONS win. I bet in a bar of 150 guys, you both have less then 10 real rejections (don't count the guys that turn you down due to girlfriends and or marriage. You get two extra points if the guy is!) Tell us the results.

speaksty

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Msg: 171 (view)

sex on a 1st date Posted: 5/19/2009 10:44:25 AM
A few definitions.. Slut-N. A women that loves sex. What the hell is wrong with that? If a man thinks your a slut for sleeping with him on the first date, what the **** does that make him? Ladies, ask that question and gague his response. If he says he has no respect, lose him, because the guy is a moron.

speaksty

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Msg: 61 (view)

Should foreplay be equal or mostly about her? Posted: 5/19/2009 10:41:56 AM
The assumption in the question is that all a man needs is a wet hole to put it in! Sadly this is not the case. I want a women that wants to please me! If she thinks her only job is to lay there while I give her an orgasm, then we have a problem. The worse lay of my life was with a drop dead beautiful woman. Sadly, forepaly consisted of me doing all the licking, kissing and touching. One night together, and i never went out with her again. My friends still think I am insane.

speaksty

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Msg: 555 (view)

do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 5/19/2009 10:35:12 AM
as long as its clean and smell good, my face can be your personal seat any time you want to ride baby ;) Nothing like eating a clean smelling and tasting women, then having her scent in your mustache for the rest of the day.

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