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Why am I always the back-up plan
Posted: 12/5/2005 6:49:50 PM | Well Hun considering I dont know you I can simply say coming from a female who has the same trouble.
That our "picker" is broken.
Some reason I always end up with the guys that want to meet me but always get the better offer despite what they have said to me. OR I get the ones that ONLY want to meet me for sex and could give (to use your term) a rats ass who i am inside.
Its hurtful, hateful and to be honest the world seems to be hell bent on presenting people who are in this world ONLY for what they can get and what brings some instant gratification to their miserable world.
The men always seem to want the size 3,long legged, blonde, blue eyed, professional female that has the same values on family and marriage. YET only want to show her around as a trophy.
I dont have a career, I had spent my life as a home maker and I got news for the men out there. Being a home maker is the MOST important job any female could have. Its the home makers that produce the next generation without help from nurserys, its the home makers who are generally the best cooks, best listeners, best lovers, and are more appreciative of what they are given in this world outside of material matters.
For me, I want a man that has a career and can bring in money while I make his home the castle of his heart.
I want a man that wants to take care of me and in return be loved like he has never known.
A man that knows HONESTY, LOYALTY, LOVE, and is settled inside himself enough to want an adventure with a life partner that is fulfilling, satisfying, loving, and most of all someone who will love them despite their faults and despite mine still be loved.
Sorry venting.
Look Shappy, just start choosing opposite of what you normally do and see where it gets you. LOOK inside before you look outside and see where it takes you.
Make a mate list that contains things like intelligence, a good heart and soul, someone who knows what TRUE UNCONDITIONAL love is and the rest should fall into place.
Just remember that the bad boys are bad because they generally know how to smooze words and confuse the female mind. Females are seduced mentally NOT physically.
Hope this helps and sorry if I went on too much about my own pain.
Best of luck.
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