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Posted: 11/6/2009 10:30:05 PM OH gee...sounds a lot like me. I have done the same thing. I think it is because I felt they would lose their "love n touch" for me eventually so I got scared and ran away. Fear that it may not work out. Some say not to let fear stop us from doing things but on the second hand there is this, "but what if ".........getting in the way again. I feel that nowadays, in this day and age, love may not be for real, or, it may not last (but we could make it last if we both work at it.) I have fallen "out of love " too many times in my life time and I was marrried 3 times. The first never does last anyway. (so far as what I have seen) My second was great but I was the one who ran. MY excuse...he worked too too much and in my mind I thought he was seeing someone else..My third hubby died in a vehicle crash but I had second thoughts of him also because he boozed too too much. I had always felt that I was too too insecure to hold my man so I let him go, I ran away. I have been single since my last hubby died and that was in 1999. I'm still scared to get involved.  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 299 (view)   Older fit men shunning older fit women and chasing 25 year olds??? What's with that? Posted: 9/10/2009 9:24:38 PM Older men chasing younger women are on an ego trip ( a BIG one) they want to show off ,are very insecure. Besides, most of the public take it for granted she is his daughter. The younger woman may not have high esteem of herself and she may be after his money if he's rich or close to it. It is a cryin' shame because most older women have money and are better lovers. An older man with a very much younger woman are mostly classed as "pamper huggers" like in diapers?????  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 145 (view)   Do women think about sex as much as men? Posted: 9/10/2009 9:13:34 PM not touching this one!!!  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 47 (view)   When does 'love' happen? Posted: 9/10/2009 9:07:25 PM Love grows...like moss on a tree!  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 8 (view)   Some answers to Saw you viewed me, why no message? Posted: 8/29/2009 9:02:06 PM I think when someone inserts you into their favourites, it only means they are trying to break the ice and would like you to respond if interested. I think, in my own opinion that this is another way of letting someone know that you are interested. If they respond to your favourites, then you have just broken the ice without saying a word to a stranger. What do you think favourites are there for?? It sure beats being told "not interested"...It doesn't hurt feelings that way! What do you think??  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 184 (view)   The tolerant and the less-tolerant Posted: 8/19/2009 10:42:42 PM Differences and tolerences is what makes the world go round...what would the world be like if we were all the same ???? HUH!  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 150 (view)   INSTANT Turnoffs? Posted: 8/19/2009 10:38:04 PM what is supposed to be over the toolshed to keep you from getting wet in the rain???  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 3 (view)   Vernon - where does one go to meet single ppl in RL? Posted: 8/19/2009 10:32:23 PM OK...I just met a man from Penticton...thanks for your input on this title. I'm living in Valemount ....there's nothing here for single women unless one does not want a man. Maylena  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 52 (view)   Things That Make You Go Hmmmmmm... Posted: 8/16/2009 11:20:26 AM HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM...makes me wonder.hmmmmmmm  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 339 (view)   do you look like your pictures? Posted: 8/5/2009 5:37:21 PM I sure hope I LQQK like my pictures because if I don't I'm in trouble.Most of my pics were taken almost a year ago. The only thing that could change would be my hair.It might go from blonde to dark....red!!!! Maylena  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 67 (view)   Looking back, can you pinpoint where it all went wrong? Posted: 7/16/2009 10:25:32 PM Now that I saw what went wrong, I'm staying single until death do I part! Maylena  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 21 (view)   When do you tell him you're not ready to sleep with him? Posted: 6/30/2009 4:01:27 PM I wouldn't and never have told a man anything about "no sex" but I sure can read body language and listen to the grammar he speaks. That tells me a lot.If he runs he's not worth being with in the first place! Maylena  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 21 (view)   Reply to every message? Posted: 2/23/2009 3:16:12 PM Maybe some folk should learn to EXCEPT no for an answer!  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 29 (view)   Looking back, can you pinpoint where it all went wrong? Posted: 2/23/2009 3:12:42 PM We were both immature...he was on the booze scene.......he got turned off when I got big in pregnancy........he felt tied down!!he was the I was Maylena  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 943 (view)   People who think you are hot V2. Posted: 1/19/2009 9:10:06 PM Ohhh so it was U...OK No one wants to admit their faults...or do they?  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 942 (view)   People who think you are hot V2. Posted: 1/19/2009 8:53:38 PM Who the hall put those words in my mouth on my profile. I did not say I must be ugly...no one in my books are ugly....not even me!! Do you get the message who ever is responsible for those quotings???  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 734 (view)   My name is Posted: 12/12/2008 11:33:25 PM Maylena I'm on here to view some of the Questions of my own interest and the Answers which are given by the public on here. Very-y interesting. I am from British Columbia, Canada.  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 621 (view)   People who think you are hot V2. Posted: 12/9/2008 11:11:53 AM I must be very ugly looking or my profile is not doing it for me but I'm for real...I just don't like writing about me because I feel I'm on the same level as simple life living folk. ..... to all!  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 586 (view)   does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 11/12/2008 10:57:53 PM YES,YES.......one may as well be kissing an ashtray...almost the same thing!!!?  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 715 (view)   My Intrduction here! Posted: 11/12/2008 10:49:37 PM Hello all I am new on here and wish to meet friends here. I go by the name of Maylena and live in Central Interior of British Columbia, Canada  maylena Joined: 11/1/2008 Msg: 62 (view)   Being harrassed by men looking at my profile...HELP!!! Posted: 11/12/2008 10:14:41 PM Well....maybe part of the harrassing may be that you look very very young. this lady!   Show ALL Forums