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dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date Posted: 11/23/2009 6:37:03 AM
mermaid140 well as you stated you never came across this it could be because... as you say have offered to pay... i think(or at least hope) these men are complaining because some women believe that they are entitled... that men should feel privileged to date them... that if the man can't afford them, the don't deserve them. somehow i am left with the impression that it is not so much the who pays that they are complaining about... it is the feeling of being used that makes them complain of being used. now if we where to take the op's statement "Anyways, this chic doesn't even offer to pay!! Tonight she wanted to meet up just for coffee, so I meet her at the coffee shop, we order our drinks, and I'm thinking because she invited me out that she would offer to pay....but no, she just stood there staring into space. " .... now i ask you is this really the rant of a cheep person?...... or is it someone that feels used lashing out? if you were in this relationship would you assume the problem here was money... or the fear to communicate...... things that go hummmmmmmmmmmmmmm in the night!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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how to paraphrase? Posted: 11/23/2009 6:16:24 AM
it means as far as he is concerned this is the beginning of the end. this relationship has reached its peek but is not bad enough to leave...this is where he takes up golf, or other interests with "his group of friends" so tell me what would be the womens reason to stay, after her man said "i don't think we're going nowhere"?

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 99 (view)

How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date Posted: 11/23/2009 5:51:58 AM
op if she means more than the next notch in your bedpost.... talk to her about what is on your mind... do not talk to her when you are angered.... give yourself time to cool down. then SHARE your concerns with her..... if she is your next conquest.... well that's her price! if it is too high for you then you know what to do!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date Posted: 11/23/2009 5:45:17 AM
If someone sat me down on a 1st or 2nd date and had a discussion with me about how our dates would be handled financially they would never see my ass again. Tacky.Tacky.Tacky. OP, if you can't afford to date, then don't date. miss tracyannk you have me confused????? at one point you say if someone talked to you about paying your share... you would not go out... is that because you can not afford to date, or is that because you feel a woman should not be using money as currency??? I'm wondering, though, that if money is the main issue here. Me thinks if you really, really liked this woman, cared about her, enjoyed her company, etc. that you would be more than happy to pay for her it could be money... it could be respect... it could be a million and one things.... but the one constant that always comes back as the main reason for a mans " why can't she pay" rant would be................... the woman always makes the man feel like she fell more for his wallet than him.... that's right miss tracyannk sometimes the best sex still makes the guy feel used! and that is where he complains.... or gets to think women are toys and just buys one if it makes his leg itch.... WOMEN! first they teach us... then they B... itch when we learn

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Anyone had to subject a child 6 or older to surgery? Posted: 11/22/2009 4:00:05 PM
??????? why is the surgeon or someone from their staff not talking to your son? from my experience they are very good at comforting the children. my son needed to have surgery on his ear when he was young...the staff explained everything to my son. they had models for him too see what would happen. the best part is they had the answers too all his fears. you would be surprised at how many questions a five year old can have. you would be even more surprised what fears a five year old has!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/22/2009 2:08:46 PM
dear miss Exquisite Woman as a parent of children that are going though a rough bump in the road of life... i can asure you...there are ways of helping our children without them becoming a burden to others... now since we are all making gratuitous assumptions here... why is it you feel free in chastising the womans husband for not assuming responsibility for a child that is not his. i am not saying that the child should be left to his own means.... but is the responsibility for the children...not belong to the childs parents. and this son does he not also have a father? also as this women was married before.... would it not be possible that her present husband has his own children.... that come with their own needs... like you said.. ".everyone needs to help everyone out...look what is going on in the world"....maybe just maybe... he has his own children that need help... every person has a limit as to how much they are able to help... and we all have or breaking point! and because as you say...."(children you can't replace...but HUSBANDS YOU CAN). Yee-Haa..." thank g$d you have chosen to take your childrens needs to heart instead of your own....just one question when the children go out on their own.... when they marry and have their lives to look after. who will be by your side... who will you share your joy with

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Trust/Lying Problem Posted: 11/22/2009 9:08:40 AM
welcome to the term "digging a hole"! there are reasons not to lie... there are reasons not to kiss&tell... you are living through the reasons for the two! time to tell her the girl from the prom is the past... she is the now! bonne chance

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Wondering if I went too over the top? Posted: 11/22/2009 8:54:15 AM
hey your a nice guy.... you did a nice guy thing! now don't f**k it up by over thinking what it looks like. if she is the sweet lady you say she is she will think.... oh isn't (insert your name) sweet! he sent these lovely flowers when i was feeling sick!!!! but if you are afraid she is some physio chick with bodies buried in her basement... well you better look for another state to move to..

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Conscience Bothering Me Posted: 11/22/2009 8:43:37 AM
yours would not be the only story that went unfinished in a night of drinks&boasts.... unless it involved sex with the crew of more then four ships... being a spy for the bad guys... or illegal activity involving animals and or midgets..... i vote...... forgetaboutit !

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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I ask a guy out.. I'm nervous! Posted: 11/22/2009 8:29:27 AM
so refreshing reading the wisdom of the youth...cjbl90 if you listen to the wisdom of the ancient(over thirty crowd) first of having a woman you never meet fall in love with you is a major boost to the male ego(points for the lady). however it triggers a major fear&flee hormone in the male(points against the lady). so now with all those endorphins running trough his body he is unsure of if he should stay and love, or run and hide. you sweetie are in control of witch action you will trigger... if you want him to run and hide keep pushing the love... if you want him to stay back of on the love...let him know how you enjoy interacting with him.... how you value his judgment...hell you can even tell him how hot he looks in his army greens. you can tell a guy how you want to tear his cloths off.... you can tell him of all the different ways you want to abuse his body....you can tell him of how you will make him yell, cry, beg....and he will search for you in the farthest corners of the world.... but but. tell a guy you never meet "be mine"... i love you... or use the only one for me... and you turn him into a runner...

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Broken hearts? Heres an easy cure! Posted: 11/22/2009 8:05:52 AM
seven one seven... that is about the best advise i was ever given! it is however also the reason i stopped seeking advise in bars..... thanks doc!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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I MISS YOU Posted: 11/21/2009 5:09:06 AM
Dang skippy grasshopper. I also eat 18 year olds for breakfast. dam! some mornings i wake up wishing i was eighteen again....

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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what right do they have?!? Posted: 11/21/2009 5:02:04 AM
What gives people the right to call another person ugly? The United States Constitution, First Amendment. The greatest document ever written. but then don't you guys have a paper that say you can carry guns...and my mama always told me you never call a little guy with a big gun ugly

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Should I continue? Posted: 11/19/2009 4:40:29 AM
well lets try the translation... your a fun guy... you got a job... you pick up the tab... your not ugly drug addict wanted in fifteen states you don't try grabbing body parts hers/yours all night but......but....but when she is with you the butterflies don't come out to play. if you are interested in her... go for it. she may change her mind. most likely not. anyway you know what they say a good friend is just like a lover.... only you get to keep your cloths on.. happy hunting

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Do ANY Men Read Profiles (First or at all?) Posted: 11/19/2009 4:23:18 AM
nappykat .... i would say that the majority of the men read the ads. then if somethings compels them they write.... of this group some may be moved only by your photo. then again this sight boasts of having over a million members.... if we are to assume then to be right(and as a free site why would they lie)... and you are getting mail in the hundreds... then here we can assume you are reading mail from less than half of one percent of the men here.... therefore on a response of less than .005% you are wondering if men read your ad... because you are getting mail from perverts...you assume no male reads any ads? if i was you i would wonder more why the guys reading ..... are passing by!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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How long do you keep fighting? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:23:02 PM
sounds like the best thing you can do is move on.... the harder you chase the faster she runs. and this dating others that you agreed to.... just so you could have her just a little bit longer... well bud... all that you will get from that is a heart torn a little at a time...and with every guy she sees...your heart will tear a little more... your trust will grow a little thinner.

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Dumped/Back together advice ??? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:05:32 PM
from this day forth whenever i read a why do men lie post..... you will come to mind! when you had her.... you did not want her. when she dumped your overinflated butt... you could not except it... so instead of doing the honorable thing and walk away... you whined, and dazzled her with tales of business& stress&fear&battles of life... of how you were building a future&and could not see what you were loosing... and of course her being the good trophy she is weighed her new prospect against her old conquest... and you came up about half a mill better... so now that you won the trophy... it just don't shine as good as it used to... ditch her don't worry, she will bounce back, and you will find someone else to play with... but love forget it you would not know how to find it...

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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A Hypothetical Situation Posted: 11/17/2009 8:27:17 PM
get over him or get in touch with him.... maybe you may find out you are not the great catch you thought you where!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:39:17 PM
re msg 13 1984'loveis he excepted the responsibilities of her young son.... the other one is a man. and if her brother were to loose his job...would he have to carry that burden also... and should her brothers wife's son be in need is he married to him also... loveis may i extent an invitation to reality... it is a place where adults are expected to act independent...and women marry for love not security

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/17/2009 5:28:13 PM
The son is just an excuse for wanting to leave in my opinion. and a man starting to drink after leaving is a sure sign of depression... not typical of a person tired of a relationship... but i will agree with you on one thing... it is always easier to put the blame on someone rather than except the responsibility!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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freinds with the ex Posted: 11/17/2009 5:21:51 PM
well it is about time you learned to work things out... what confuses me though is how come you did not do this when you were together...you know like when ir really mattered!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/17/2009 4:55:05 AM
Stay in the angry phase, you have every right to be! You're helping out your son, if that's something he can't understand, be glad he left. I'm sure it's tough to hear it now, but hey, it's a lot better he showed just how low he could be this early on. If he fell apart at the seams over this, just imagine what else it could have been down the road. The fact he drained your accounts just shows a bit more. grim and necro.... at twenty four you should be able to understand.... so look at it this way you mom is married to me... i have my own children from my previous marriage. they would be about the same age as you... and with the same problems as you.... also my hours have been cut...your mother is not working... now i can understand you thinking it is your mother... she is responsible to you...... but (1) i am her husband... does she not have a responsibility to me (2) i have children of my own.... so as your mother is responsible to you... am i not responsible to my children (3) as your mothers husband... and not your father, what is my responsibility to you... (4) do your needs outweigh your mothers needs.... after all her shelter, and safety is dependent on me... it is easy to lay blame on the feet of others.... but is it because we overlook the reasons for their bad behavior!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 4:00:59 AM
After years (6) of being single I met a great guy this summer. He came out here from Ontario, on the Road Trip of his life. He left a $30/hr job and a richy apartment. Sold his car, sled, big screen etc. to buy an AstroVan and come out West. could it be possible that you are settling. like you said you have been with him for four months now. has he shown any interest in taking care of you...or just your needs! man being a hunter and provider by nature, gets satisfaction by providing for his mate. being unable to do so would give a male feelings of insecurity and lack of worth. thus for a follower, unproductive.... not traits most woman would look for in a mate. hope this explains why those that have a love for you look down on this relationship. there is an old russian proverb.... when ten people tell you you are drunk.... go to sleep!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 4:30:05 AM
first off all sorry guys and girls for my spelling it gets odd sometimes well yes it does...but not as strange as your question....you have a FWB.... that you are in love with...and your are not looking for anything! therefore i think your question would be.. (1) if i have the "commitment" talk with him would he leave me (2) how do you go from a FWB relation to a committed relationship (3) my daughter is having her third birthday... should i go with yellow or pink as the main color

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Am I doing the right thing? Posted: 11/16/2009 4:15:39 AM
well son... the good part of getting older is you learn the difference between love, fwb, and just a f**k.......

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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My mama (and daddy) would be so ashamed! Posted: 11/15/2009 1:28:59 PM
dear miss 26melissa if you truly want answers to this then ask him. if your story is the whole truth... and you feel he hs to be stopped from taking advantage of other women...from getting them drunk and engaging in sex with them.... most states and provinces look at it this.... if a man engages in sex with a woman when she is drunk... even if she consents to it.the woman is deemed to be unable to make a consciences decision and there fore it is considered rape.... I drank way too much and we became "intimate" back at my place. I discouraged it and told him I didn't want to, but whatever, it was by no means a rape situation. and as you say here you discouraged it.... it is rape. bit seeing also as you mention this is not your first time...do you not think it is time to take control of you life?

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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single mom's pressured into lesbian sex Posted: 11/15/2009 6:09:55 AM
adamcon thank god you came back to explain this... now it makes perfect sense too me. did you know that all women are rich and powerful...and they can turn a person into an instant success... just watch the opera show... you will see for yourself!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Should I Report This Guy? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:11:21 AM
first of i will never understand why people insist on being right. you felt unconformable with his email... but yet went on to give him your phone number... why? are you so desperate that you would overlook anger issues.... or did you think that you could rework him to be the man he should be! At least he doesn't have my last name or know my address but he's got enough information about me that if wanted to find out who I was, he could do it. He's the kind of guy that starts to make you worry if he wouldn't be a stalker. there is something you and others should be aware of.... it is called reverse phone book... available on the internet in most cases free...... it gives your address by your phone number. should you report him....how will that change things... try being wiser in you judgment!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Looking For Some Real Honest Answers Here Posted: 11/14/2009 4:55:15 AM
if i understand this correctly...you were in a relationship with a woman that was communicating with others on "your time"... when you were say going ou to see a show... dinner... a walk..having sex... and you sat by and excepted this she would give of herself to help others...often leaving you for days/weeks at a time and you sat by and excepted this she had time, understanding, patience for all but you and you excepted this the one thing i learned from life...the time and respect a person will give to another is dependent on the importance they place on that person...... for future relationships remember this one... respect is something one has only for themselves. the more of it they show.... the more of it they command.

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Should I Call The Ex? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:03:27 AM
yes zach.... you should call your ex.....GONE! now move on!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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single mom's pressured into lesbian sex Posted: 11/13/2009 5:34:38 AM
adamcon what is this obsession you have with lesbians? have your girlfriends all converted after meeting you.... or are you just have trouble dating one.(lesbian, that is) single moms... married women...girls with brown hair... girls over six feet...girls under six feet.... and any other combination have been asked to have lesbian sex... but only by other females... and only if they found them hot! now hold on to your pants this also happens with men... except they hit on other men.. and if that does not shock you enough...it happens with straight people also... the only difference being that here a man would tend to approach a female ... and a female would hook up with a guy....

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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a man lies for sex Posted: 11/13/2009 5:16:50 AM
i wonder why the don't have a place for old posts to go and die peacefully not to be resurrected months later..... just because sometimes a person may post something they would really really see die....

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Now shes invaded my dreams!!! Posted: 11/13/2009 5:03:18 AM
like orlando does not have enough bars or hangouts! and this girl was your whole life! and if you say yes i will understand why she ran from you.... now get into your school...work...social life. if you sit at home every wall will start to look like her...only because in your self imposed solitude you have only her to think about. she left...she is with someone other than you... so you have to decide if you want to rot at home waiting for time to go backwards...or are you going to move on! if you feel you can't get over her on your own.... get professional help!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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is she ever coming back? Posted: 11/13/2009 4:47:09 AM
yes pamsfl... your girlfriend is cumming! unfortunately not in the uk..... and not with you! oh but she will be back in the uk for the new year... to inform you of the new man....

dogslife2live001

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Why do men use me?? Posted: 11/12/2009 4:38:01 PM
funny you should say that about truckers... i heard the same of realtors..the would sleep with a client just to close a deal.... but on a serious note... a person with integrity will always behave proper...no matter what they do!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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EX'S... wtf man??? Why is this so flippin hard? Posted: 11/12/2009 1:21:43 PM
dannyboy! after all is said...after all the snipers take their best shots...and after all the dump her singers have payed the encore... you will still be left with only two choices! stand firm! an ex is a ex... and that's all... the end of the song or go with your heart... and if it is a love she wants to give you... and if it is love you want to give to her...is it wise not let he go. like it has been said before... it is far better to have loved and lost. than to have never loved at all....

dogslife2live001

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Incompatibly Compatible ever after? Posted: 11/12/2009 1:04:58 PM
...and have you planned out your life...and has life followed your plan! and don't you find profiles/mail is about the same as life.... when you answer/send a email! is there a logic reason..or just a feeling LOVE IN ITS SELF DEFIES LOGIC.....

dogslife2live001

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I could use some help. Posted: 11/12/2009 5:21:06 AM
well i must admit your honest! you are f**ked up beyond repair. i am assuming that this woman that you are chasing is as much a drama queen as you are.... therefore the best thing to do is just walk away. that's right honey... just go cold turkey. if she is anything like you she will track you like a hunting dog on a prey. but.... butt first get some meds!

dogslife2live001

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Rejected me, but is insisting on friendship... Posted: 11/11/2009 7:29:14 PM
Well... SHE KEEPS CONTACTING ME telling me "I miss my friend, I want my old friend back!" What the heck is going on here? Doesn't she understand that I don't want that? interphantom... the only reason she calls is because you answer. so if it is over...and you don't want to be "friends" only. next time she calls ask he to loose the number...and if she calls again CALL BLOCK works wonders!

dogslife2live001

Joined: 11/4/2008

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Is this not love? Posted: 11/11/2009 7:20:56 PM
he's cut off complete contact witchywoowoo.....the above quote from the op would reinforce your good advice of why the op should not reply to his text,email,or calls..... but somehow i feel it will be much longer than two weeks.....

dogslife2live001

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Is this not love? Posted: 11/11/2009 7:01:00 PM
I'm just asking how do you know that you can't love someone when you respect and admire everything about them, plus think they are attractive? it is possible to admire a person & the good qualities they display.... but the butterflies are just not there.... also this display of disbelieve that someone could not love you could be the reason he cut off all contact with you!

dogslife2live001

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you tell me....... Posted: 11/11/2009 8:40:05 AM
jj4u427 the question you are asking is not gender specific, as it does apply to both sexes equally! i admit to being slightly confused to your question. now flirting is something that many people do naturally. i won't say it has no meaning, but in most cases does not warrant the emphasis you seem to be putting on it... it is not so much that humans are imperfect....but more that the majority of us realize that one person can not completely fulfill the needs of another. therefore the need phrases such as alone time, and time for ones friends exist. now for those that they can be the be all for their mates, and that they or their mates should not go anywhere without the other..... soon find themselves in a very confining space. such relationships have been called clinging... suffocating, and demanding. now on the other hand you may be talking about what i believe are called players. again this is not gender specific. from what i see in these peoples actions is more a fear that "there is someone better" out there for them. this fear usually prevents them from engaging in a healthy relationship, as they are so busy worrying about what they may be missing.... it does not allow them the fortitude to work on what they have. if you are referring to the cheater, or the one timer. well i would say. my dear this is far,far, from a narcissist... but more a person of low self esteem. in a male he sees sex as being excepted... in the case of a woman she confuses being f**ked with being loved. sorry the answer was so long but the condensed version would be... we get what we allow. happy happy

dogslife2live001

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Was He Too Blunt? Posted: 11/11/2009 7:59:49 AM
The moment I read something like that in an email it completely puts me off a guy. That tells me all he is interested in is screwing and nothing else, and I find comments like that a bore. I would tell him to take a long walk off a short plank dear mz. cinder malibu just got trough perving your ad&pics..... somehow your ad and answer here don't match! for you my dear all i can say is.... if you can throw it learn to catch it! op... was he too blunt? hell if i know! but the way i read it fifty bucks says you have not only left out a great deal...but have also slanted the story to make you look like a saint...and him the devil... AND NOW how about you tell us the whole story...

dogslife2live001

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Should I just let it go?? Posted: 11/9/2009 5:18:20 AM
unless there is much more to this than what has been written....i would say move on.... he has cum&gone

dogslife2live001

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Msg: 9 (view)

cant commit..... Posted: 11/6/2009 8:08:22 PM
raven dear how about a different spin! the guy is in the same space as you... he feels the chemistry, and like you is unsure of what to do next...unlike you he can sleep around...and explain it away to being away from you...lonely.... and bla... bla.. when he left you that night.... wanting not to lose you... but unsure of the future. maybe he has not called because he has no answer.... but if closure you seek...then wait you must....maybe answers will come before he leaves... maybe answers will come when he comes home... or maybe he simply chickened and ran....

dogslife2live001

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Msg: 35 (view)

is it wrong to want revenge?? Posted: 11/6/2009 7:48:09 PM
he cheated.... you dumped him! you got more revenge than you think....if you want more revenge enjoy your life, and don't think about him.

dogslife2live001

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Situation, a little strange I know Posted: 11/5/2009 10:59:57 AM
I want someone to fufill my physical needs, who is someone I can get along with. I don't sleep around, but I also don't want to get tied down because I have a lot of things I want to do with my life and if someone happens to be along for the ride, that's cool. sweetie... that is a boyfriend... well that and that he will encourage you grow towards your goals.... the same as you would for him. anything else is just a f**k. as for your question... if it just a itch you want this to scratch... then when your not using him... does it matter if he is a secret or not. =============================================================== I know you might not believe me, but I don't really want a "boyfriend". I also don't want to get tied down because I have a lot of things I want to do with my life I really just wish he would let me go and be happy with whoever I want now you have me singing a childrens song..... one of things don't go together. one of these things don't belong

dogslife2live001

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How am I supposed to act on a first date? Posted: 11/5/2009 9:24:02 AM
just imagine that she has a computer screen around her.... and if want to get home alive... do not ..... do not mistake her chest as a keyboard....

dogslife2live001

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Msg: 33 (view)

Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/5/2009 9:05:09 AM
lets see (1) he has not let go of the past... does he compare you to his late spouse? (2) he is trying to drive a wedge between you and the ones close to you (3) he is commanding and controlling... and has bouts of uncontrolled rage now this one is the one that you should pay close attention to... "He is also rude to people, outspoken, loud and insulting to people in public."....they say to see someones true charter observe how they treat waitstaff.... it tends to bring out their true character.... In the past I've been co-dependent with an alcoholic, abusers (physically and mentally), and seem to have a penchant for finding men with a terrible, explosive temper. I really do care for him and just want to see through other eyes than my own as my "eyesight" is often dim when it comes to relationships. to me it looks that you have found that what you are used to.... if it has not worked in the past why do you think it will work this time... So, what do you think? Let me have it with both barrels. sounds to me that you may benefit from some therapy.... even your closing statement has the aftertaste of someone looking for abuse.... i have read your thoughts on many posts.... so in my opinion you deserve much better than you allow yourself to have! i hope you find a partner that is truly deserving of you....

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Joined: 11/4/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

Why do women over analyze old relationships ? Posted: 11/5/2009 8:42:42 AM
from what i have read in the forums........ because the "need closure"

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