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 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 26
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My FIRST question here is : WHY would a bunch of people UNDER 40 yrs of age feel the neeed to post an "answer" to this question? Are all the threads at 'TARDS.COM full or what?


What was the question again ... ? Oh ya.

Generally for women YES

Generally for men NO - unless we learn to lose the teeniebopper attitude that all things sexual eminate from our di¬Ęks. The piping can (and does) work just fine but as ya get older you realize that making love is like a battle. Use ALL your resources or risk losing everything to someone who does. That's just an observation.


 kickingfate
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 27
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:36:40 AM
It had better become better after 40....because as of late its sure as heck isn't frequent. I guess the saying quality over quantity starts to play a role.
 Cantankerous_Hermit
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 28
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/26/2008 2:48:21 PM
As long as you keep your hands on the wheel and your eyes up on the road. Otherwise you should find a place to park.
 houston_gal
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 29
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/26/2008 3:15:31 PM
better and better...
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 30
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/26/2008 4:21:50 PM
It did for me, but that also coincided with getting away from a husband who was self-centered and uncaring in bed.

Since that time, I've had two long-term relationships and some flings and the sex just keeps getting better. I'm wondering: am I picking progressively better lovers or am *I* getting better? Perhaps a little of both. Each one has brought something different to the bedroom and I've gained experience and confidence. I'm more relaxed & know better what works. At the rate things are going, I'm going to be out of control when I'm 80.
 GoneSailinBabe
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 31
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/27/2008 8:33:12 AM
Sex is SUPER better after 40!

College? Awkward. Weird. Mostly drunken groping.
Married? - Non existent.
Dating? Wouldn't know don't do it.
Real relating with genuinely interesting and sexual partner?

Yum!

oops - did I say that out loud?
 Time2SeeU2
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 32
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/27/2008 9:53:19 AM
I agree with the with it gets better over forty, as a matter of fact for me it always gets better.
 itsjustme328
Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 33
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 7/27/2008 11:39:54 AM
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!!!!!
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 34
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/3/2008 8:18:49 PM
RE: Topic.

God I hope not, I'd never survive.
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 35
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:04:38 PM
I haven't quite reached 40 yet so I am definately looking forward to seeing if the myth is right. I know that I just keep learning, but thats being open to new and different things. Being with equally sexual people with a interest in change, variety and constant learning is extremely fulfilling.
 rebel777
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 36
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:11:10 PM
getting close to the 40's....still going strong in the dirty 30's
 supernovastunnah
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 37
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/3/2008 11:25:23 PM
40 ounces?

yeah...its a bit more wild
 wotsnot2luv
Joined: 7/4/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/3/2008 11:53:40 PM
(pass the torch to younger men. May their crone pleasing chores bring them happiness and good cheer.)

"Crone pleasing chores"?

Can't believe I'm reading this...

That's almost as bad as "Grab a granny"

46 is not so terrible...
 toolman
Joined: 9/30/2004
Msg: 39
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/15/2008 10:23:12 PM
sex is better after 40,,i am 57 and sex is so great,,younger ladys sometimes cannot handle all i have to show them,,,,,,,,,,,,
 Briett
Joined: 8/12/2008
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/15/2008 10:31:25 PM
I am saying a big fat YESSSSSSS...there are no longer any inhabitions...you've done everything at least once...know what you like, know what you want...and better still , you know how to please your man. Which we all know makes it sooo much better for us.
 blover1948
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 41
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/17/2008 8:23:16 AM
Oh yea!! I'm turning 60 next month and my labido is higher than when I was in my 20's. And saying that, I have more experience and more open to what I want and what my partner wants. Its no long wham, slam thank you ma'am. Its lets try this and lets try that. Lots of mutual fun!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 42
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:32:09 PM
LL, I know. It was Jessica on Soap, when all the women were sitting around in the kitchen, snacking and talking about sex. And it was hilarious.
 catman40
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 43
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/27/2008 7:28:53 AM
I would not know . have not had the fun . but , I hear the woman love it . so , any woman living in wiscosnin want to show me if sex better at 40 ?
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 44
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/27/2008 10:00:12 PM
Yes, absolutely...
 Jaila123
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 45
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/27/2008 10:18:28 PM
I wouldn't want to be having sex that old.

anyway, I think it's just a stereotype because there are plenty of women in their 40s and up who don't think sex is any better than if they were younger. many complain that their bodies are too worn out and tired, and they are sick of their partner to enjoy it anymore. many of these posters are lying or don't represent the majority because most people at 40 can barely bend over anymore so i can imagine what their sex life is like
 7733
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 46
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/28/2008 12:06:48 AM
waaaaaay better than even a year ago, even a month or week,

cant get any better , chicks are getting better too, I know ................................
 7733
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 47
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/28/2008 12:09:57 AM

we may complain that our bodies arent as good as they used to be, but i know what i want sexaly and i am more open minded and relaxed now.
If trying something new etc in my 20,


20 yr old girls don't kno how to fuk, it gets better with women after 35. boobies that have experainced too much gravitation must be tightened up, other parts of body shaped with exercising and liposaauuuccckktion , that's why younger guys like older chicks ........
 superbadzzz
Joined: 8/16/2008
Msg: 48
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/28/2008 1:44:45 AM
college, cutting classes, hot nympho girlfriend... realistically it's all downhill after years of that.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 49
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/28/2008 5:35:11 AM
No doubt. One reason is you now know what the f**k your doing. Bring her to orgasm, keep her there for a while, let her drop a bit and when it is the right time, which you didn't know when you were younger, bring her to a mind blowing screaming bang the head orgasm, some spectacular tunes played on mature fiddles, and that I think is the point, you go from a gotta get my rocks off, thought patterns, to, how can we make this memorable
 wotsnot2luv
Joined: 7/4/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 8/30/2008 3:23:43 AM
(quote) from Jaila123
(I wouldn't want to be having sex that old.
anyway, I think it's just a stereotype because there are plenty of women in their 40s and up who don't think sex is any better than if they were younger. many complain that their bodies are too worn out and tired, and they are sick of their partner to enjoy it anymore. many of these posters are lying or don't represent the majority because most people at 40 can barely bend over anymore so i can imagine what their sex life is like)




Thats funny, Jaila

Im still laughing at an older post re "cottage cheese arses" of "older" women..



Sheesh.. Im cryin!
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