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 wotsnot2luv
Joined: 7/4/2007
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Also, it may depend on how old your partner is...

or, not!
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 52
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 9/2/2008 7:30:56 AM
If you are a 40 year old virgin it does.

After reading this thread, and thinking about how my own sex life has progressed, I think women are generally going to say yes to this more often than men.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 54
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 9/2/2008 11:55:11 AM

Posted By: alligatoralley on 9/2/2008 1009 AM

Message: It certainly can be! (But not a guarantee, of course).

Sex, for men, does take more than just a bit of physical exertion and it is very important to have the muscles and stamina to make sex fun and enjoyable. Weak muscles and painful backs do not make for hot, crazy monkey-sex.



While I guess this can be true, it's not an issue for me, I'm in very good physical condition. (Better than a lot of men half my age according my doctor.) It's a matter of actual enjoyment. My orgasms are less intense and require more work to achieve them. Throw in less attractive women and lots of stress from work, family, and finances, and you begin to not enjoy or crave the act as much as when you were younger.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 55
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:02:36 PM
JAILA: "most people at 40 can barely bend over anymore so i can imagine what their sex life is like)"

WHATSNOT2LUV: "Im still laughing at an older post re "cottage cheese arses" of "older" women.."
"Sheesh.. Im cryin!"

Absolutely concur with you, WN2L. Isn't there some way to confine Jaila to the shallow pool?
 goodgirl29108
Joined: 6/6/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 10/6/2008 9:49:22 AM
Yes, yes, and YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It just keeps getting better and better!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 10/6/2008 9:54:09 AM
I hope so cuz it ain't so good (without any) in my 30's
 doink 1962
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 58
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 10/6/2008 9:56:56 AM
For me it has , don't know because its I have become more experianced or what. I do like pasion and I think the older we get the more passion you are able to explore , it is not a wham bam thank you mam kinda thing. Sex to me is all about passion so now that I am off the soap box quite simply ,yes it does!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/11/2008 4:22:26 PM
Wayyyyyyyyyyyy wayyyyyyyyyyyyy better lol
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 60
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/14/2008 6:56:16 PM
Sex is terrific after 40... For me I think it comes from being more aware of myself, my body, acceptance, and the realization that its okay to have fun.
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 61
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/14/2008 6:56:32 PM
Sex is terrific after 40... For me I think it comes from being more aware of myself, my body, acceptance, and the realization that its okay to have fun.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/14/2008 8:18:00 PM
Jaila....Jaila .....Jaila
I hope I'm still around when your 40!!
Can't touch the floor.......pffffft!

yes......it just keeps getting better and better
Guess it's a good thing I don't have to touch the floor while having it.....
 WWUWILLYU
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 63
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/15/2008 1:13:30 AM
Easy answer:girls on page 8 and I get together for a scientific study. At the end of the weekend, an outsider opens the door & our exhaused bodies flow out onto the deck. We're too exhausted to fo much more. The answer will be revealed by the looks on our faces.

False bravado? Nope can't say much about guys, but I've found I'm harder, bigger/longer and great stamina/imagination. We 40's don't need Viagra/Extenzye. We need ladies that are peaking - a quid pro quo!!!
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 64
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 11/17/2008 7:22:17 AM
Too funny raging_heart-on...

I take it then that its a mental age at times and a physical age at others, right? God, I hope my sex life stays in the mental age and not the physical age then!
 skigru
Joined: 11/26/2008
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 12:25:45 PM
I too agree with you tiressironlady...it is much more fun now, more adventurous and it's like the lays potatoe chips commercials of the seventy's...you can't eat just one..but in this case I mean that the more I get it, the more I want more lol
 campfire4u
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 66
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:38:43 PM
I pass the torch to younger men. May their crone pleasing chores bring them happiness and good cheer.


This is why older women go for the younger men!!!!....LOL.....
 Lennysax
Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 67
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:19:59 PM
Score 100, excellent view point,
 Lennysax
Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 68
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:23:15 PM
Your right, more and more fine oral sex is needed for that very juicier taste
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 12:13:18 PM
I know what pleases me a lot better than when I was 20. And I have a sense for what pleases her as well. It's not all about getting my rocks off and taking what's mine...it's more caring now.

But my mind is frequently onto other priorities now (making money, politics, entertainment). It's tough sometimes to mentally unlock the chains and get back to that deep, tender inner layer of tree-bark where I can simply operate on dark animal instinct. But, given the right time, the right relaxing mood and the right woman, it's all still there!!! Just a matter of peeling back the jaded layers of experience and finding the tender, vulnerable, still open, still-willing-to-experiment center.
 WWUWILLYU
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 70
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:05:46 PM
Oh YEAH! I'm much better & more acrobatic than when younger. I also last a HELL of a lot longer than 2 or 3 minutes, which brings us back to the acrobatics.
 ~Lizzi~
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:16:54 PM
Are you kidding me?
Sex after 40?

Sex after 60 is the very best! I have never had so much fun and satisfaction as I have now. I can't believe that I thought what I had at 40 was good. It was so-so. You have no idea the freedom that life experiences bring you. I can be honest about what makes me feel good, and I am not afraid to ask what makes my partner feel good. Viagra? who needs it?

You guys at 40 have so much to look forward to.......
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 72
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:19:09 PM

I think I am a much better lover than I was in my 20 's and 30's and hope to get to prove that a few more times before I get put out to pasture, lol.


Would never try to put words in anyone's mouth, but, I think the phrase is "put out to stud", as in race horses when the horse reaches that certain age. Stallions and fillies. And at THAT point, assuming the horse has won enough races, the breeding is attended by a great deal of human interest, and investment.
Following the metaphor, assuming you were in the money in enough earlier "races", the best is yet to come! And your mating events will draw crowds.
 Marktime
Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 73
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/24/2009 12:13:46 PM
It seems all the women say yes and the men say not much. I tend to agree. It is like the 50 plus year old woman is like the 17 year old male. The main problem that occurs from what I have seen is the extra sexual urge of the older woman has the same level of BS booty call problems as with the teenage male. They will say anything to get laid. Sorry I have had this happen 5 times over the past two years. The woman has to get laid due to her hormone overflow and will say almost anything to get it. I have been involved with two individuals recently who could not tell the truth of their motivations because of their sexual need.
Doesn't this sound like the same as all the woman complaining of a man wanting a booty call..

Just my observance...
 BlueEyedSoulman
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 74
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/30/2009 11:34:02 AM
For me...the answer is a DEFINITE Yes!!!
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 75
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 2/3/2009 9:50:29 AM
I just read this today

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/new-years-resolutions/18564965/detail.html
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 76
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/5/2009 1:03:23 PM

Does sex get better after you hit 40?


YES but remember that 55 is the speed limit ...in many areas
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