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 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 64
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Too funny raging_heart-on...

I take it then that its a mental age at times and a physical age at others, right? God, I hope my sex life stays in the mental age and not the physical age then!
 skigru
Joined: 11/26/2008
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 12:25:45 PM
I too agree with you tiressironlady...it is much more fun now, more adventurous and it's like the lays potatoe chips commercials of the seventy's...you can't eat just one..but in this case I mean that the more I get it, the more I want more lol
 campfire4u
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 66
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 2:38:43 PM
I pass the torch to younger men. May their crone pleasing chores bring them happiness and good cheer.


This is why older women go for the younger men!!!!....LOL.....
 Lennysax
Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 67
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:19:59 PM
Score 100, excellent view point,
 Lennysax
Joined: 11/20/2006
Msg: 68
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/2/2009 10:23:15 PM
Your right, more and more fine oral sex is needed for that very juicier taste
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 69
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 12:13:18 PM
I know what pleases me a lot better than when I was 20. And I have a sense for what pleases her as well. It's not all about getting my rocks off and taking what's mine...it's more caring now.

But my mind is frequently onto other priorities now (making money, politics, entertainment). It's tough sometimes to mentally unlock the chains and get back to that deep, tender inner layer of tree-bark where I can simply operate on dark animal instinct. But, given the right time, the right relaxing mood and the right woman, it's all still there!!! Just a matter of peeling back the jaded layers of experience and finding the tender, vulnerable, still open, still-willing-to-experiment center.
 WWUWILLYU
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 70
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:05:46 PM
Oh YEAH! I'm much better & more acrobatic than when younger. I also last a HELL of a lot longer than 2 or 3 minutes, which brings us back to the acrobatics.
 ~Lizzi~
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:16:54 PM
Are you kidding me?
Sex after 40?

Sex after 60 is the very best! I have never had so much fun and satisfaction as I have now. I can't believe that I thought what I had at 40 was good. It was so-so. You have no idea the freedom that life experiences bring you. I can be honest about what makes me feel good, and I am not afraid to ask what makes my partner feel good. Viagra? who needs it?

You guys at 40 have so much to look forward to.......
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 72
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:19:09 PM

I think I am a much better lover than I was in my 20 's and 30's and hope to get to prove that a few more times before I get put out to pasture, lol.


Would never try to put words in anyone's mouth, but, I think the phrase is "put out to stud", as in race horses when the horse reaches that certain age. Stallions and fillies. And at THAT point, assuming the horse has won enough races, the breeding is attended by a great deal of human interest, and investment.
Following the metaphor, assuming you were in the money in enough earlier "races", the best is yet to come! And your mating events will draw crowds.
 Marktime
Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 73
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/24/2009 12:13:46 PM
It seems all the women say yes and the men say not much. I tend to agree. It is like the 50 plus year old woman is like the 17 year old male. The main problem that occurs from what I have seen is the extra sexual urge of the older woman has the same level of BS booty call problems as with the teenage male. They will say anything to get laid. Sorry I have had this happen 5 times over the past two years. The woman has to get laid due to her hormone overflow and will say almost anything to get it. I have been involved with two individuals recently who could not tell the truth of their motivations because of their sexual need.
Doesn't this sound like the same as all the woman complaining of a man wanting a booty call..

Just my observance...
 BlueEyedSoulman
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 74
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 1/30/2009 11:34:02 AM
For me...the answer is a DEFINITE Yes!!!
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 75
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 2/3/2009 9:50:29 AM
I just read this today

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/new-years-resolutions/18564965/detail.html
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 76
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/5/2009 1:03:23 PM

Does sex get better after you hit 40?


YES but remember that 55 is the speed limit ...in many areas
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 77
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/5/2009 1:19:59 PM

better , i doubt it ,, im sure 40' something are suprised their still getting some ,,, maybe the sex gets a lil drier , and more breaks .......... o of course b/c of viagara 40' somethings have a 4 hour window ! lol


Awright, who left the idiot bag open?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/7/2009 9:35:40 AM

vincecan - AKA vincedaprince : better , i doubt it ,, im sure 40' something are suprised their still getting some ,,, maybe the sex gets a lil drier , and more breaks .......... o of course b/c of viagara 40' somethings have a 4 hour window ! lol


^^ that is exactly why it's better!!
You don't have to deal with idiotic assumptions from little boys any longer!!

I honestly thought I was having great sex in my 20's.....and thought I was giving great sex....
I now know better!!
Kinda makes heading towards my 50's a good thing!!
 ComfortablyNumb24
Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 3/7/2009 6:06:05 PM
I couldn't have said it better myself.......

Over 40 and loving it!!!!
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 3/7/2009 7:47:10 PM
Loving it at 54. Use it often or lose it, especially true for men. If you stop doing pullups for a year, gain 50 lbs, do you expect to be able to do the same amount of pullups? You would be lucky to do one! If you can run a mile, then stopped running for a year, you would probably die if you had to. Same with sex.
 Avalons Muse
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 81
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:04:59 AM
Women over 40 seem to embrace their sexuality and have more body comfort than in the previous years.

I think that you get to a point where you know your body and you know what you want ....masturbation is a womans best friend and a very good way to know how your body responds...and how to move and ask for how you like to be touched etc....

then again some women are just born hungry LOL

I have as well dated all ages and the " younger means better stamina and such " is a myth ...big big myth lol

DiVa
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 82
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/8/2009 8:51:10 AM

Women over 40 seem to embrace their sexuality and have more body comfort than in the previous years.


As a rule of thumb, I think you're right, but there are stragglers, too many of them.


I think that you get to a point where you know your body and you know what you want ....masturbation is a womans best friend and a very good way to know how your body responds...and how to move and ask for how you like to be touched etc....


Couldn't agree more. But then, I think we ought to be handing out sex toys, with expanded and enlightened operating instructions, with the condoms, to high school girls. What better life skills can we teach to the young? Of course, if this plan was implemented, about a third of the threads in Sex and Dating would never get launched.


then again some women are just born hungry LOL

I married one of these, for exactly that reason, but was blind to all else; she left and the marriage ended. On a return trip, to gather up more stuff, she allowed this, "I AM gonna miss that****.
 SweetGaPeachy
Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 83
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/8/2009 10:12:50 AM
Oh , Yeah I think so....The newly awakened libido feels like that of 20 something, but now no more games. Everything is more spontaneous and real, less selfish and way hotter than the twenties! Mmmmmm! Great!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 84
Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/9/2009 8:49:45 PM

Good sex is good at any age.

It surprises me when people imply that 20 must not be good, when 40 is excellent. Or, that 40+ no longer has interest (laughter).


No generation, or age-group, owns sex- As incomprehensible as it may be for children that their parents (still!) copulate; no matter how many "ewwwws" they say to perish the thought. Lol.
Nice post, mp2314. A wise, and charming, contribution. imho
 Kimberish925
Joined: 6/22/2008
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Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 3/9/2009 8:59:01 PM
I thinks it's way better...unless of course you are single and looking for and not finding a monogamous relationship, then it's just non-existant

The following quote from a 24 year old (who I doubt is tracking this anymore) really just threw me...when did 40 become so old. 40 is far from worn out and tired and don't even let me get started on the whole bend over concept.


I wouldn't want to be having sex that old.

anyway, I think it's just a stereotype because there are plenty of women in their 40s and up who don't think sex is any better than if they were younger. many complain that their bodies are too worn out and tired, and they are sick of their partner to enjoy it anymore. many of these posters are lying or don't represent the majority because most people at 40 can barely bend over anymore so i can imagine what their sex life is like


I'm 41 and feel like the best years of my life are ahead of me...sexually and otherwise!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/15/2009 10:03:12 AM

free whore.


There is no such thing.
 Kickn1Backā„¢
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 87
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Posted: 3/30/2009 7:34:41 PM
OH HELL YEAH!!!! Women are like a fine wine, they taste better with age!!!!


KB
 Honcho
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 88
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Posted: 3/30/2009 8:36:57 PM
Naw, after the fifth time in one day it can get a little boring ( the moaning and screaming gets on your nerves after awhile).
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