Notice: Forums will be shutdown by June 2019

To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.

While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.

Thank you!

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Off Topic  > What is your real goal for dating?      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 26
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?Page 2 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
How about just a second date that was better than the first??????.......

OT.......Hopefully dating is taking the many and getting it down to the few, and hopefully the one that is truly "real".......

Just my opinion........
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 27
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/27/2008 1:14:51 PM
I don't have a goal, but if someone reads my profile and wants to go on a date and I feel the same, why not.
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 28
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/27/2008 5:05:20 PM
I don't know anything about football... but dating from dating site...it is real game...
My scores are 0:0 forever...because " players" from men side don't play for the same goal...what I want to play...and win...of course...
 SavannahSaucy
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 29
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/28/2008 4:20:49 PM

How about just a second date that was better than the first??????.......

Orrrr, how about just a second date??????
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 30
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:12:33 PM
Well...even a second date...it is only dating!
How about relationship...?
 shamrockguy
Joined: 1/8/2008
Msg: 31
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:43:32 PM
I see nothing wrong with that, I have read your comment and many others on here, and being a veteran of these sights I can say that I think we all came aboard, originally,
with the hope of finding that elusive someone that is a little more attractive than we can, ourselves, attract, as most of us probably had this goal, it becomes apparent, to me at least, why we are now having this discussion.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 32
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/29/2008 1:47:21 PM
Hate to disappoint everyone, but there were more than just one "glass slipper"! I think that is where all the mistakes began!!!
 dustyknight
Joined: 9/14/2006
Msg: 33
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/29/2008 5:16:45 PM
Hi! good question..
My goal is to meet some nice people in this journey of life..
With all the problems in the world and in here in the USA, politics all over the news...it's refreshing just to sit and listen to nature, chat effortlessly with a friend..
yes my prioritys have changed alot from what I thought I wanted but for the better!

I enjoy saying hello to a stranger, talking to a neighbor and visiting family..now if you have a partner who enjoys that to..all the better.
When you see someone you don't know say hello..you might find a real diamond in the myriad of folks too busy to stop and say hello..
Dusty
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 34
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/30/2008 1:02:35 PM
Well...to be sure...I'm the only one...who keeps head in the clouds...
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 35
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/30/2008 5:02:36 PM
Perhaps you are right...but I'm skinny...thiny...so little flow of wind can move my "body"far away from the ground...

 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 36
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/30/2008 6:07:09 PM
LOL! No goals for "dating" -- I *hate* dating. . . . Always did. Goal? To spend time with someone I care about. Which prolly means a few dates, but boy it's good to get past that!

My goal for being on POF has always been to find the other. Think that may have been accomplished, but am hanging on for friends and forums. Nice place this is.


&hearts
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 37
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/31/2008 3:39:00 AM
Go out and leave... it is a goal...for dating individual from dating site...
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 38
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:11:04 PM
I think...a seducing a man...over 50 and over 50 times...
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 39
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 5/31/2008 9:51:46 PM
...In all honesty...I'd like to actually go on a date first, and hopefully after a period of time, we will have established enough of a connection to take us on to the next level....firm up some commitments.... and its anyone's guess after that.

I have no pre-set goals, just hopes....

...maeflowers
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 40
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:44:58 PM

“What is your real goal for dating?”

To get laid.

WELL SAID!
Cindy O
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 41
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/11/2008 4:06:17 PM
I just want to meet one nice guy - that's all...fall in love, and be happy.
 lilmslefty
Joined: 9/21/2006
Msg: 42
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/12/2008 6:47:40 AM
To meet a guy who likes me for me, accepts me for who I am. Why would you try to change the qualities in a person that attracted you to that person in the first place? There is no perfect person, just the person that's perfect for you.
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 43
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/12/2008 4:42:01 PM
To meet someone who is compatible with me, have some fun times and hopefully work toward a committed relationship. Gee, what a fantasy?
 ankkka
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 44
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/12/2008 4:58:23 PM
Probably fantasy in our mind...
But man's fantasy does not include the words... "committed relationship"!
 outlawtomboy
Joined: 12/19/2007
Msg: 45
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/12/2008 7:26:52 PM
lots of great answers here! i especially related to the posts of skunk and sans

my goal on a specific date would be to go out and have a good time with someone i enjoy being with. it's such a nice compliment to be asked out and i try to be pleasant company for my date

one of my male pals says i date like a man, and more so than any other woman he knows. i'm pretty sure that was supposed to be a nice compliment as well!
 TravelingHomebody
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 46
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 6/12/2008 8:23:06 PM
Marriage.

Meeting nice men is interesting, but the end goal is finding somebody to share the rest of my life with.
 redneckI
Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 47
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 7/28/2008 6:16:02 PM
My real goal for dating is to try to find that special someone who is not looking for perfection and realizes perfection is boring. It is the flaws that are interesting. Someone who I enjoy looking at, being with, and talking to. Someone who can ask herself does the good out weigh the bad and if it does not have a problem. In other words for lack of a better term a solemate.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 48
view profile
History
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 7/28/2008 8:43:49 PM
Great analogy Wayward! So that is what my problem is. I just haven't been able to find that "special" hammer that fits my palm!!!

vvvvWhy my dear Mr. Pants! I have absolutely no idea what you meant by that! lmao
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 49
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 7/31/2008 5:49:15 AM
Real goal? Well, not dating for sure. *Hate* dating. I do like being with someone I care about, spending time, talking, doing stuff. Since I pretty much met everybody in my county ten years ago, the purpose of a dating site (this one) was to find someone that I care about spending time with. That accomplished, I've made friends along the way, like the forums, and am not yet full time with my guy. When that happens, doubt I'll be around here much, lol! Life happens.


 Henry L. Moon
Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 50
What is your real goal for dating?
Posted: 7/31/2008 8:12:11 AM
My only "real" goal in dating is finding a woman that will always keep fresh film around and bring me the camera when I'm finished in the bathroom......they just don't make 'em like Ma anymore!
Show ALL Forums  > Off Topic  > What is your real goal for dating?