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 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 38
The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
If more men did their Kegel's instead of jackin to porn there would be FAR MORE Marathon Men. It's not rocket science (Oh, wait...maybe it is!! LOL). Men can control their orgasms nearly as well as women, but for the most part guys are TOO LAZY!!

Heck, if you are gonna pick ONE muscle you can control, might as well start with your favorite, right?? I see guys at the gym & dojo practising to control dang near every muscle in their bodies, yet MOST neglect to spend an short period of time daily to dedicate to Kegel. (Of course the steroid use tends to cause shrinkage problems anyway...lol) So they kvetch about their relationships, or go through an inordinate number of women trying to find the "Right One" (meaning one that'll put up with the BS & lousy sex) while ignoring the simple exercise that will make them not only last LONGER in bed, but give them multiple orgasm capability!!

Do the Kegels. Do them daily. Take the time to actually LISTEN to the women and try out their fantasies (most are kinkyer than you'd think). Be the guy they'll forever remember as "Oh Gawd, there was this one guy...mmmmm....I miss him..." because 92% of men out there are Minute Men and YOU will be a Bacchnallian Delight.

Now for the bad news. Being a Marathon Man also makes it somewhat difficult to find that "Miss Right" just as the OP stated. Most gals have NO IDEA what they've got and actually complain about it...at least the first time they run across it, the second time they chain you to a bed & keep you there I've got ex-gf's going back to 1985 that want another go-round...but as I'm currently monogamously occupied they are outta luck The other bad thing is that occasionally you will find a wonderful woman that matches your intellect...but is absolutely horrid in the sack...what to do there?? break it off and move on. Sexual Compatability is not an option, it's a requirement.
 essyies
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 40
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The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:20:35 PM
I agree with the last comment....great conversation!!! LP
 PirateOB
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 41
The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/20/2008 11:53:16 AM
dump him and find a bunny
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