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Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 76
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Like all people, some are talented and others suck, pun intended. :P

I had a "slave" who was EXTREMELY good at giving blowjobs. Not only was she talented, she swallowed every drop and tried to suck me off 3-5 times in a night.

Now, compare that to women who complain it's disgusting or simply suck without enthusiasm. I can tell the difference and will never settle for one of those kind of women ever again.
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 77
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/4/2008 5:48:07 PM
It is easy to tell from porn which women are being mechanical and which ones are enjoying the act. In general, good bj porn is in the "amateur porn."
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 78
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:20:24 AM
That's why amateur porn is the best stuff to watch. Oh and not just for bj's.
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:02:24 AM
ive gotta disagree with u on all counts guy, well kinda: yea alot of women actually dont give good blow jobs, and porn might actually be a big part of the reason, porn stars are required to cum on cue, and when the actors moan its usually faking it, simply for the viewers, to let us know yea there into it. the key, at least to me for all parties on oral is slow then fast, some girls stroke it like their rolling dice, it doesnt feel good to me.

-and of course men can tell which ones is good and which ones bad, im a nuetral g when it comes to me getting oral, id like to get it once in a while, but i wont die if i dont,
so i know when one is good if i cum quick, the wack ones are usually longer.
i know chicks dont like it when a guy comes too quick, but hey, be happy u got him to the point where he couldnt hold it any longer, and theres a different from a guy who jus naturally cums too quick and one who cums quick from a good bj, and if chicks dont like that he might cum too quick maybe u should suck at it more
lol and naw guy 99% of the bj's arnt amazing.
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 80
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:46:04 AM
A BJ is sex and just like any other form of sex there are those that are good at it and those who aren't.

And just like any kind of sex there are guys who think it is great they are getting sex so it must be good.

Most woman think they are good or great at sex because that is all they have ever heard from guys. Just from the number of inhibited posters on PoF it is easy to see that many of them are not that good.

I have been with enough woman to have found there is a great variance between their sexual capabilities yet every one of them thought they were a great lover.

Ladies, just because a guy doesn't complain or even if he says you were great take it with a grain of salt.
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 82
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/6/2008 12:37:03 AM
Replace Super Bowl with Stanley Cup Playoffs for us Canadians and he's got something.

Oh and BTW, socially the idea is out there that in order to be good at sex all women have to do is "show up". Most men and women think they're totally the hottest thing going in the sack, the difference between the sexes is that when men are bad women are more likely to say so since it's a lot less likely he's gonna get up and walk out on her, where as if you criticize a woman's work in bed, I guarantee to you it's not going to go as well as you'd hoped.

I was watching a thing on T.V. a while ago where some woman was talking about how she's the blow job master, she knows how to do it and her boyfriend should stop being an idiot trying to show her little tricks and stuff, she was born with innate skills in bed. You could tell by the look on his face he was thinking "if you were that f*ckin good I wouldn't be trying to teach you stuff I like."

Every guy is different, what rocks the socks of some guy's c*ck, might not do much for another guy, for some people, myself included sex is at least 50% mental, honestly what do you think dirty talk is for, or sex with the lights on, or different positions, or fancy underwear, or whatever is all about?
Joined: 1/20/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:53:41 PM
sorry to hear you have never experienced a good blowjob .. well according your own expectations and such .. have you ever asked what made you not like it? could your part have been played differently in order for the job to be done better? .. lots of questions .. / comments.
basicly however .. one day you may get what you are looking for .. just don't give up. The best blowjob usually comes when the girl is willing to give and feels cared for and/or ... loved.
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 6/7/2008 12:44:50 AM
imma keeper,
I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, that's it exactly. It has never been exciting for me to feel that the woman's doing it because she thinks I'll enjoy it, or because she wants to reciprocate. Long ago I had a gf who really was into giving me oral. And that's what made it so great. So sometimes one partner pleases the other one most when they're not trying to. When someone's fascinated with what they're doing and pretty much can't get enough of it, their technique is almost guaranteed to be good.
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:43:08 AM
To think this post is lame suggests you would be an example of a woman not really into giving head, thus adding to the very point of the thread.
Joined: 10/17/2006
Msg: 101
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:45:11 AM
i overheard somewhere that girls on the plus side tend to have better skills with the meat Popsicle....
Joined: 11/19/2007
Msg: 103
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/7/2008 7:46:38 AM
Didn't you ever hear of "talking her through it"? Maybe most women do not know the stimulation you want did ya ever think of it that way?

Some people are just so dam clueless.
Joined: 11/19/2007
Msg: 108
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:36:56 PM
Agree the longer a woman can keep me out there just on the edge the better it is and obviously the better she is as well. QUICKIES SUCK!!!!

Some guys have no feelings at all and want it "wham bam thank you mam" and done but real men want it to last "AAAAALLLLLLLLL NIIIIIIIIIGT LONGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!"

Joined: 8/19/2006
Msg: 110
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/7/2008 7:20:21 PM
Well, given that I have had blowjobs that I would rate as poor, mediocre, good, and mindblowing, I would have to disagree. *chuckle*
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 114
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/9/2008 12:24:17 PM
if a woman loves performing this for her partner, she will be good at it...

Verbal and non-verbal queues will provide her the guidance she requires.

But there is nothing worse than some jerk who pushes on your head trying to force her to receive more than she can.... that certainly won't get any deep throat happening... which is another skill that takes time to learn.

If a guy is a jerk, chances are, all he'll be doing from then on, is jerking.
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 6/12/2008 6:46:20 PM
Disagree with all 3...

To keep it short and simple cause I didn't go through all 6 pages of responses...

What, in your mind sir, constitutes a "good and decent blowjob"? I'd love to know specifically...details would be appreciated. I'm asking cause I've never had a man say "wow...that sucking you gave me really sucked!!" Joke intended.

Oh...and I can tell you that most women hate generalizations (as do most men), hence the people out here blowing you off (pun intended)
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 6/12/2008 6:56:20 PM

I love it when someone does that... It's a surefire way to probably ensure that NO woman on POF will be giving him a BJ (ohhhh...a generalization!!!!!!!!!)
Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 6/12/2008 8:54:37 PM
My experience with BJ's . . . I can ONLY recall 2 that weren't totally BORING . . . 1 was very good, and the other was a religeous experience. I attribute the pleasure of the latter to the fact that she was TOTALLY INTO DOING IT kinda like she was feeling exactly what I was feeling. She could deep throat it for hours as she had the breathing technique down to a science, TOTALLY completing me to climax ! ! !
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 120
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Posted: 6/13/2008 2:51:09 AM
I also haven't met women who are good at oral. But I won't turn it down, either. I had one lover early in my sexual life that was excellent at it, but didn't know at the time that few other women had her skill or I would have married her. Since then, sadly, mediocre BJ's. But no 'bad' ones. I just look at it as foreplay, because, again very sadly, other than with the one woman mentioned, I've never been able to come that way.
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 129
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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:31:04 PM
To Laughing Libra,
I am moving to Hanover.
Joined: 4/1/2008
Msg: 133
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Posted: 6/16/2008 5:19:05 AM
The balls are key, shes gotta suck em balls.
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 135
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/17/2008 3:06:29 PM
Sorry, Reggielarry. Gotta disagree. If a woman wants to suck me off every night, I will happily assist with her need AND kiss her afterwards. While I don't want a mouth of my own cum, I'll happily kiss her after she has swallowed.
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 136
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/17/2008 3:16:08 PM
Kimie..What do you know? Miss experience ? 19 years old....come on......
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 137
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 6/17/2008 3:20:07 PM
That breath thing about whos breath smells like whos cum and wanting to kiss thing never bothered me one bit and I love women and don't have a gay bone in my body. Its your own... only from a little lower......I guess you hate your self.
Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 145
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Posted: 6/18/2008 12:01:21 PM
Read through the pages of dribble, and the reports of what great head is, and who did what to whom. I tend to agree that men see it as right of privaledge or passage, and women more of a chore or returning the favor. I have known some women who would prefer to suck you off, which leads a man to wonder why?...The old saying its not as personal as ****ing, hmmmm?..are you kidding me? It's probably the most personal act of sex there is. But I've heard that said by more women then men, so it makes me ask another question...."Why is it then so important to have an "emotional-bond" before any act that's not personal?" The art of fellatio is indeed an art, and should be done with great respect to the outcome, the finish, which leads to responses in here about to swallow or not to swallow. A Blowjob without the proper finish is no better than a handjob, just a little more wet. And yes cunnilingus is the same, it requires the proper finish, and same respect to detail and being one of the most personal acts there is. I personally love ****, and always make sure the women I have been with are satisfied orally in foreplay or during sex to their delite, before I would even consider sliding my****her way, unless of course 69 is done. That is yet another issue. The only way to look at it is tell your partner what you desire, verbally coach her or him through it, why settle for what you just thought was, good when you can instruct to make sure it feels good, for you... Technique, and practice, will always help with either too.
Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 147
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Posted: 6/21/2008 9:35:43 AM
Dude you've been running around with the wrong women.
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