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 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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^^^ probably not for normal people.
I am just an idiot romanticist more or less. Ya know, the whole true love/soulmate stuff that really doesn't exist in reality. Of course I am terrible at romance and everytime I try, I fall on my face, but that is the stuff I want. I want to experience actually being wanted for once.
Weird, but true. If I can't have that, then whats the point?
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 449
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Posted: 1/11/2015 3:19:42 PM

Nor mine :) but sure sounds like there are some clumsy types out there.


Maybe the technique might make a difference for some men. But I still think there are other men that don't like teeth on BJs. Period. To each their own.
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 450
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Posted: 1/11/2015 8:56:39 PM

For many years I didn't like receiving or giving because 1) before marriage, I never had a man that really knew what he was doing during oral sex, so I didn't enjoy it. 2) I also thought giving was "yucky" and probably also hindered my ability to enjoy the action done to me.

I think it was mainly #2 -- and #1 was just a by-product of that.

So, I grew to WANT to please him in more ways (than one). So, I decided to try giving him oral sex, one step at a time. He was VERY patient with me, and over time, I began loving the act of giving him oral sex as much as any other action. The more comfortable I became, the better I got at it, and the more pleasure I saw him getting, the more I WANTED to please him. Needless to say-I became a pro.

Still completely unnecessary, but unfortunate you had to go thru all that, due to your upbringing and bad-1st-experience. I think it's more of a game of checkers, not a game of chess. If a gal (or much less often, a guy) is weirded out about oral sex -- they need to Wake Up that they are the weirdo on the other side of the fence, and it's a costly Flaw to have. I think many of the Adults who "ewww" about oral sex are unaware how out in left-field they are, and many times are the types who don't question their own beliefs/tastes/etc in general (a hint that they have some issues all around). They'll be looking at oral sex as if it's something 'uncommon' like anal sex or sex in a public park, etc. So they have an inaccurate mindset. Once they wake up -- then they'll realize, after getting totally comfortable & acclimated to it -- that they just had some issues.
 mred492
Joined: 1/25/2015
Msg: 451
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Posted: 6/3/2015 10:20:20 PM
can i get a nice blowjob?
 scorpioinOregon
Joined: 7/20/2014
Msg: 452
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Posted: 6/6/2015 1:59:31 AM
I read a book which I wish I could remember the name of, when I was about 17. It gave great instructions and said something about studying these actions will make the man in your life love it and if pleasing him is what you want, learn to love and enjoy it.

It was great advice because good grief I am in my 60's now. My husband died on the job when he was 36. I've had quite a few relationships over the last 30 years and I have always been thankful that I read that book and so have all of the men in those relationships!
 Sindian
Joined: 12/11/2014
Msg: 453
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Posted: 12/19/2016 9:57:59 AM
mine are awesome and U would know the difference next time U got one
 Sindian
Joined: 12/11/2014
Msg: 454
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Posted: 12/19/2016 10:00:34 AM
I've always got compliments on mine and they always come back for more lol
 cardbuddy
Joined: 1/11/2014
Msg: 455
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Posted: 12/19/2016 12:03:36 PM
Hmmmmmm, as long as everyone is happy it is all about communication :)
 cardbuddy
Joined: 1/11/2014
Msg: 456
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Posted: 12/19/2016 12:05:24 PM
pretty sure it is all about communication and what makes everyone happy :)
I'm sure you would be fantastic for me :)
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 12/19/2016 2:50:33 PM
basilisk

I do believe some people meet their soulmates and find love. I agree that to settle for less is not what I would want.
You never know when it may happen, so keep positive and hopeful. I dont know you or why you feel no one has ever wanted you but looking around I see many weird and ugly people who are matched up. Whether they settled or not, I dont know.

If you feel you are not good at the romance thing, then get some advice on how to put your best foot forward with all that. You are only 34 and not short but you may need to get fitter. Women will just click next if they see a not so fit man who is young, yet.

 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 12/19/2016 7:50:38 PM
I have lost a lot of weight in the past and got to a decent weight (for me) of 190, but it didn't help at all. After experiencing the same amount of rejection that I had when I was heavier with hardly any improvement, I reasoned that my looks are not the problem. Instead my mind and personality are the true issues. I don't have a personality or mind that is romantically attractive. I can now make friends easy enough, but that is the extent of what I can do right now. I still don't have any genuine confidence in myself when it comes to romance and no woman has shown any interest in me in the last several years. So I just assume that my romantic life is dead. I have thought several times about getting back in the game and have done some half-hearted efforts, but the fact that I am such a failure when it comes to romance is always in the back of my mind.
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