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 mustang_
Joined: 7/29/2008
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Very wise of you, i agree
 mustang_
Joined: 7/29/2008
Msg: 181
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Posted: 8/12/2008 5:34:47 PM
I agree with JohnBonomolo, any way to be good at anything it takes practice.
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 185
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Posted: 8/15/2008 4:24:19 PM
for a woman to give an excellent blowjob she must 1st want very much to learn how and 2nd she must have the good fortune of meeting a good teacher. this kind gentleman must not be impatient. it takes time and practice for a woman to become truly good at this. after her initial exposure to this art, she will pick-up new techniques along the way and eventually become truly professional in her style.
 Sobitthen
Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 192
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Posted: 11/10/2008 8:58:18 AM
Wow, I didn't know we had a forum until I read someone's profile linking here, and look where I ended up...
My motto is that you have to give to receive, face that is in my circumstance...
 Sobitthen
Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 193
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Posted: 11/10/2008 9:04:32 AM
And to answer the comments about the thread...
I disagree, a majority of the gals who have given me oral sex performed wonderfully.
And yes, I would know what was amazing versus not. The amazing ones are when you almost slip away into unconsiousness...
 bigdogric
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 198
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Posted: 11/10/2008 12:09:50 PM
in response to blowing fast you must have not had to many blowjobs I like to let the girl do her thing and all these girls ot there way of giving head and if it is good it is good . but I think you must be a preemie
 bigdogric
Joined: 10/20/2005
Msg: 199
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Posted: 11/10/2008 12:11:28 PM
this guy must give blowjobs ?
 darling_one
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 206
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Posted: 11/11/2008 11:15:48 AM
disagree

1) a woman who loves to give blow jobs can be very good no matter who they are { me }lol
2)they can if they met me lol not all men shoot in 5 mins i've been known to make at least 2 ex's last 4 hours for the first and 5 hours for the second letting them cum once.

seems to me you need to find better oral partners
 stevelfun
Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 207
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Posted: 11/11/2008 3:35:42 PM
plumb

PERFECT quote... LOL

I disagree with both points...

Likely the OP has experience both.

I have experienced a woman whose contractions during her orgasm were FAR more arousing than most BJ's.

Mother Nature was no dummy.
 darling_one
Joined: 9/30/2008
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Posted: 11/11/2008 10:13:05 PM
there was no question #3 it was a statement to question #2
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Posted: 11/15/2008 8:36:28 AM
Isn't this the "point" (ha ha ) where one says: practice makes perfect-HEE!!? There's so many jokes here I'll leave the forum to "fill in" the blanks (and, no, I'm not shooting any!HA HA!! )
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 217
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Posted: 11/15/2008 9:40:00 AM
OP, I view your question as it comes from "your" personal experience right?


#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.


The woman you know or have experianced maybe, and if your saying porn starlets give head better, I'll never know, nor will I ever know what a professional can do. But as I read your question, that question must come from your personal experience with a professional.

You mentioned decent blow job, like one is owed to a man. My experiace has been, some bad ones along the way, But I think that is due to lack of experience or some women just can't, for their own personal reasons do it, or want to do it. But I have also learned, patience of a man and understanding the woman,, all of that can be changed. Why that is, because men should treat women not as a set of lips, but rather a woman.

As for a women, "decent blowjob to save their lives." give me a break. At may age, I have had some mind blowing BJ's, and it's me who needs CPR when it's all done.


#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.

See above:


Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.


Speak for your self, This man likes to control himself, the longer the BJ the better, BJ aren't about blowing a load, it's about all the pleasure before that, It's about enjoying the moment, because I never want it to end,, in most cases it does, and it's a well needed release of the built up pleasure. There are many woman know as well how to control the release of a man. Therefore, between my control and her knowledge of this man, there is no such thing as a minuet man load.

However, if your experience comes from hooker,, hell they get paid to get you off as quickly as possible,, so they can move on to their not john.. As for porn stars, the men get paid to hold back their loads,,

So I do not agree with your theory at all..




OP
I was under the impression that i wrote "I have a THEORY" & "I want other people's opinions" not "I know it all and i speak for everyone"...... I wouldn't do it even if i DID know it all!!


How you came up with your theory, is beyond me, Is it your lack self control, That have to pay a hooker a little more money to help in your self control, I have no idea. that is just a theory of mine,
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 218
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Posted: 11/15/2008 9:47:01 AM

Maybe it's a hygene thing but the peice you piss out of...can't be safe to put into my mouth...Or maybe your not worthy enough for that honor

I just read this,, that is your choice, but I was wondering, have men been good enough to lick your sweet spot, the same spot you menstruate from, piss from,,
 cltlkr110255
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 219
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Posted: 11/15/2008 11:32:51 AM
Obviously, this wouldn't know the difference bertween good head and bad. I have found that a woman that enjoys giving BJ's usually does an excellent job. If the woman isn't in to it....the BJ usually sucks (no pun intended). As far as cumming quickly, for me it depends where we are in our love making....the later in our romp, the quicker I cum.....
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 225
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Posted: 11/16/2008 11:02:54 AM

So can someone tell me HOW TO GIVE A GOOD BLOW JOB?? Or a least what you like.

I won't tell you how, but I can tell you from receiving a few in my time,, one woman I know, sucks, long bobbing sucks, uses he hands, holds a vibrator at the base of my balls, while humming a tune, licks, very sloppy, (but good),, lick the sides of my balls, plays with ass, tickles my head,, the list is endless,, ,lets just say non stop for about 20++++ min,, awesome
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 227
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Posted: 1/9/2009 3:55:10 PM

2)they can if they met me lol not all men shoot in 5 mins i've been known to make at least 2 ex's last 4 hours for the first and 5 hours for the second letting them cum once.


This kind of treatment is phenomenal. I had a woman who did similar things. Made me "wait" hours to cum.
 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 241
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Posted: 6/6/2009 6:48:24 PM
For me, the quality has much more to do with enthusiasm than with some conscious technique. If she likes what she's doing, I can tell it. And just seeing her excitement is very erotic. Unfortunately, most women don't seem to crave giving head. If they did, they wouldn't give technique a second thought--and they wouldn't need to.
 nikcy2060
Joined: 1/14/2009
Msg: 243
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Posted: 6/6/2009 8:31:53 PM
Another generalization but men are usually more polite when it comes to sex. Firstly men probably won't complain if the woman gave a bad blowjob, just like they don't comment on how a girl might be loose. If a guy has bad sex, I think he'd want to make it seem like it was better than it was so he didn't waste his time.

I can't speak on behalf of women but in general, the popular conception is that if women have bad sex they would be more likely to complain about it. You just see woman in general being negative about it, but a guy isn't likely to hear one of his buddies telling him about that horrible blowjob he got, or how the girl was a dead lay.

Just my 2 cents, not saying this is all women, and not saying they're facts so nobody better get offended :)
 SpursFanSA
Joined: 4/25/2009
Msg: 248
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Posted: 6/9/2009 3:58:30 PM
Bad head is still head. As long as you dont bleed who cares. You control how long you last, not her... dont care how good she is. Wish I was getting head right now lol
Good or bad lol
 Baby Blue 09
Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 252
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Posted: 6/9/2009 5:21:40 PM

Bad head is still head. As long as you dont bleed who cares. You control how long you last, not her... dont care how good she is. Wish I was getting head right now lol
Good or bad lol


Spoken like a true "young buc" with a lack of experience.

Good job there "Skippy"!
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 257
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Posted: 6/10/2009 12:11:56 PM

I think the reason so many guys complain about a bad blow job is that they go from girl to girl looking for a girl that can do it right, instead of taking the time to help her enjoy learning how to do it...


And I imagine that every guy likes something a little different. So even if I rocked my last bf's BJ world, it doesn't mean I'd rock my next bf's BJ world.

Open yer mouths, guys. Explain what you need. Show her. Whatever floats yer boat. If she gets all offended, don't let her near your wang again.

Simple.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 259
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Posted: 6/10/2009 12:26:52 PM
It's always and without fail been my experience that those bragging up their skills are the absolute worst.
 Duron_79
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 261
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:43:41 PM
Honestly, I don't believe a woman wrote this thread. Maybe, it was the guy she divorced.
 Duron_79
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 262
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Posted: 7/28/2009 3:48:16 PM
Wellll ! Pilgrim! This calls for an experiment Trying this call up two girl (favorite girls). Set up a date on separate days. Find your answer.

Usually they all might feel the same. But its the ones who will go the extra mile that you'll never forget. When you cannot count the number of women you've been with you may have some difficulties judging. But when there has only been a few then you know whose getting a call on her lunch break...
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