Notice: Forums will be shutdown by June 2019

To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.

While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.

Thank you!

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  >      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 423
Women & BlowjobsPage 8 of 21    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21)

I give head because I enjoy it. It's one of my favorite things to do, and you can tell. Well, you could tell if you were deserving..


This is a very interesting statement. I recently had a conversation with my gf of why I did not come from a blow job. After thinking about it for a while, I told her that what makes me come was performing something for my woman. And that perhaps, I had the image in my mind that women perform BJs only to try to please the man. Then she told me, that while she wants to please me in any way I may desire, she actually loved the BJ and enjoyed the hell out of them.

So I had to rethink the BJ as something that actually gave her great pleasure. Interestingly enough, after one of our marathon sessions where she was sore down there, we began to simply play around without penetration. She worked me up to the point that for the very first time I had an orgasm from a bj. It was simply awesome.

So this is interesting, because quite frankly we guys are sometimes completely clueless to the desires of women. We tend (erroneously) to think of women as more passive, wanting the man to do things to her, while in reality, she loves do things as well.
 fuglygirl
Joined: 8/28/2014
Msg: 424
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 9/10/2014 12:59:04 PM


While I understand the sentiment, not everyone likes the same things you like just because you like them. Not all women like giving blowjobs.


no sh!t. you people ever heard of lesbians? lol.
 Consensuality
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 426
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 9/28/2014 2:05:40 PM
Hey good post there. Talk more about the thumping technique
 Consensuality
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 428
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 9/29/2014 12:07:26 PM
Oh sweet! That actually complements some other stuff I've heard about good oral for women, mainly that you want suck the clit into your mouth and beat the hell out of it. I'm happy to hear this confirmed from other sources as it's the method I usually use.
 picmenc
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 429
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 10/9/2014 9:37:59 AM
A woman should enjoy " making love " to your penis. Big difference from a BJ
 Jrhooker
Joined: 7/3/2014
Msg: 430
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 10/15/2014 11:15:22 AM
Good one Girl ,Love it , most boys will never know what it is ,most will never get a good one as they don;t know what is is in the first place,
 Realsd1
Joined: 6/17/2013
Msg: 431
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/6/2015 3:32:30 PM
LOOK why are some men so stupid?
1. The worst blowjob I ever got was still pretty good !!!
2. I have had many women suck me, you will know when she loves to suck
3. The only way to learn is by doing
4. some men don't know how to not ruin a woman from sucking (all you rookies and dumb asses)
5. Pay attention to how she is responding when sucking
6. Women that love to and or get off on sucking are the best
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 432
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/7/2015 7:06:52 AM
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.


I disagree. Some BJs that I got were certainly better than others. For example, some women would use too much teeth when they give a BJ.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 433
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/7/2015 7:15:14 AM
The best BJs are when the woman is not just trying to please you, but is using your d i ck for her own pleasure. She is enjoying every motion that she partakes and you are just there for her ride.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 434
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/8/2015 7:30:24 PM

For example, some women would use too much teeth when they give a BJ.

and some men absolutely love for a woman to use her teeth......

that is why communication and paying attention to your "now" partners reactions are vital!!
You can try things you did with someone else, but if it's not getting a positive response....then you try something else till you get the response your both looking for!
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 435
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/8/2015 7:46:17 PM

and some men absolutely love for a woman to use her teeth......

True. But I think these men are the exception. At least from what I heard. Some of my previous sex partners told me that most men they have been with didn't like a woman using her teeth. Virtually every man that I talked to about BJs didn't like a woman using her teeth,
 OneKewlDood
Joined: 5/21/2014
Msg: 436
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/8/2015 7:58:58 PM

and some men absolutely love for a woman to use her teeth......


My ex had dentures, because all her teeth fell out after she had cancer treatment.

If you've never had a woman give you a BJ with NO teeth, you don't know what you're missing.

Think about it. How good would a vagina feel if it had teeth?
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 437
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/8/2015 10:50:44 PM
onekewldood

So never had a blow job from a woman with a normal set of teeth then? It is all in the technique for sure. As for the picture of seeing someone without their dentures, well, it might turn some off. lol!!!
 OneKewlDood
Joined: 5/21/2014
Msg: 438
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 5:32:20 AM

So never had a blow job from a woman with a normal set of teeth then?


I can't remember if your mom had teeth or not...

BAZINGA! :oP

OK, but seriously... I'm just not a fan of getting the tip of my penis caught on a sharp object now and then. Some people are into that S&M stuff, but not I.

And yes, it may look funny. Even a tad creepy. But once it starts, you couldn't care less about what it looks like.
 Supersoulson
Joined: 1/1/2015
Msg: 439
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 9:06:41 AM

How good would a vagina feel if it had teeth?


And how bad would it smell if they never flossed those teeth ?
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 440
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 9:30:53 AM
Ok now...THAT'S just WRONG!!!^^^^

Hey there G, good Holidays? Welcome back....
 Supersoulson
Joined: 1/1/2015
Msg: 441
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 9:48:56 AM

Ok now...THAT'S just WRONG!!!^^^^


I agree - flossing is IMPORTANT !

Can you imagine the gum commercials for vag teeth ?

" Excel ... Excellerate your .... "

Hey, Dee, holidays were good , thanks ! I hope yours were too !
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 442
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 10:13:31 PM

True. But I think these men are the exception. At least from what I heard. Some of my previous sex partners told me that most men they have been with didn't like a woman using her teeth. Virtually every man that I talked to about BJs didn't like a woman using her teeth,



no different to a light scraping of nails...all in the technique...and can feel very very good...or so i am led to believe. :)


Yep....must be all about the technique.......because it hasn't been the "exception" in my world :)
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 443
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/9/2015 11:13:48 PM

For many years I didn't like receiving or giving because 1) before marriage, I never had a man that really knew what he was doing during oral sex, so I didn't enjoy it. 2) I also thought giving was "yucky" and probably also hindered my ability to enjoy the action done to me.
the better I got at it, and the more pleasure I saw him getting, the more I WANTED to please him.


Yeah that is exactly how I learned how to have sex. I mean the right way, because the first several times (with different partners) weren’t that interesting. I wasn’t challenging or personally satisfied by sex. But then the learning experience girl(s) came into play. In that I didn’t realize the full capacity of what I today have mastered.

To be good I had to learn these concepts - familiarity with specific girl, familiarity with technique, communication, openness and wanting to please, and natural endowment helps too. Once I got all that down, it was never ending fun from there..... still requires a women who likes sex to a certain degree.

And then yeah same process for knowing how to get a girl off orally, though its not something I do till I I know its ok. But if a girl can’t achieve orgasm during sex, then you’re going to have to rely on getting her off this way. Though I think its preferred orally first then vaginally then …. If you wanna get crazy… lol

I just never found a girl I could explore with for a long time. But yeah, total learning process, and requires the right person to really grow. I agree with you 110%
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 444
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/10/2015 4:40:03 AM
Honestly, I was never really good at sex. I never had enough sex to gain a sufficient amount of experience. Now at my age, that has become a liability and no woman wants to have sex with me. After my last partner couldn't get me to orgasm with sex and blowjobs, then got really upset and left. I just gave up. I hate it when women cry, almost nothing hurts worse than that.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 445
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/10/2015 9:53:50 AM
Yep....must be all about the technique.......because it hasn't been the "exception" in my world :)


Perhaps a woman that claims to be good at using her teeth can give me a blow job and I can judge for myself. LOL. Just kidding.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 446
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/11/2015 6:49:54 AM
It would be nice if I had more partners to practice with, but I have a hangup on only wanting partners I have an emotional attachment with. Currently at a whopping 0 potential partners and every woman who looks at me gives me either the blank stare or face of disgust.

It would be easy to just pay an escort, but I can't do that. Both for the STD risk and for the fact that I know in the back of my mind that the person wants my money, not me.

It is so hard to find someone that actually just wants me for me.
 CTRLvector
Joined: 9/21/2014
Msg: 447
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/11/2015 7:42:53 AM
I don't know about emotional attachment being necessary, but performing well just requires that you know the difference, and what to do.

I don't know I think you have to either meet the right person and ability improves, or you meet the right person who can coach or whatever.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 448
view profile
History
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/11/2015 9:19:35 AM
^^^ probably not for normal people.
I am just an idiot romanticist more or less. Ya know, the whole true love/soulmate stuff that really doesn't exist in reality. Of course I am terrible at romance and everytime I try, I fall on my face, but that is the stuff I want. I want to experience actually being wanted for once.
Weird, but true. If I can't have that, then whats the point?
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 449
Women & Blowjobs
Posted: 1/11/2015 3:19:42 PM

Nor mine :) but sure sounds like there are some clumsy types out there.


Maybe the technique might make a difference for some men. But I still think there are other men that don't like teeth on BJs. Period. To each their own.
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  >