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 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 201
Sensuality in your 50's.....Page 9 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)

Sensuality has nothing whatsoever to do with age. A woman can be sensual at ANY age.



...I agree. Correct me if I'm wrong people...and I'm sure you will...but to *my* way of thinking, you either have it or you don't.... it's not something that is learned. And some people have it and are not even aware of it....now to me that's attractive.

...maeflowers
 redarcangel
Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 202
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Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 1/5/2009 4:42:44 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^..............................................

I think everyone has sensuality.

I think it's a part of our chemical make-up.. and the reason why someone may "appear" more sensual to me.. than to a friend.. or to you.

Chemical compatability = attraction = sensuality.

Now.. sexuality is something that has to be worked at or on. Wearing make-up.. fragrances.. care in dressing. JMO
 jive5
Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 203
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 1/16/2009 11:30:32 PM
well i just saw your pic,s, you are hot.
 SierraBeth
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 204
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 1/16/2009 11:45:16 PM

"To be honest I usually only date ladies in their 40's, not because I like them younger, but older ladies my age don't like the activity and are not as sensual, they want companions more than a sensual partner." Wow is he missing out on a whole bunch of sexy ...sensual ladies in their fifties....just had to say that....I don't exactly feel like I am ready for a nursing home yet...Am I being too sensitive?


Romance Lover , notice the man said 'I'. So don't let him trick you into thinking 'all' men think like he does. Was watching Sophia Loren, and she is damn sexy at her age. Makes you wonder where the man you quote, is hanging out at. Just today I saw a good nice looking, sensual (not into women myself) looking 50+ women. One woman whom I know is in her 60's was turning mens heads so damn fast. it made me stop and look to!!!

My own Mom remarried in her seventies and was skiing into her eighties, then was widowed again and head to Carnival in Brazil with her sister in law. Still makes me laugh when I think of the fun she had And don't ever tell any of the women in my family that sex is only for younger people. We believe in if you die, die doing something you love
 rekless
Joined: 1/12/2009
Msg: 205
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 1/17/2009 10:27:03 PM
actually I love women in their fifties around 56-63.
Women of that age should be able to explain what they expect. I think a woman is at their sensual peak . I hope I don't get deleted.
It takes a man to take on a late fifty's tiger with a an upgraded attitude.
What is that sound? Grrrrr.
 kennyb43
Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 206
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/14/2009 8:25:09 AM
Love a fine bottle of wine. Age is not an issue with me as I look at your heart.
 larryl46
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 207
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/15/2009 4:57:15 PM
This is true. Older Women our age pick us appart while if a Young raskle hits on them they are flattered. Screwball world.
 larryl46
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 208
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/15/2009 4:59:55 PM
Young Women don't have a clue. End of story
Larry
 Nancy54
Joined: 3/25/2004
Msg: 209
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 3:22:15 PM
you are so right. that man really doesn't know what he's missing...the fool...all i have to say to him is.....
 Flashy Smile
Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 210
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 4:10:43 PM
It's not about the body. It's about the mental and emotional connection between two people. When you have this sort of chemistry, it's fireworks!

Never put yourself down. That "younger version" is not you. She doesn't have your wisdom, charm, or the confidence that comes with life experience.
 Me Leona
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 211
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 5:09:02 PM
I'm 9 pages behind, but speaking only for me, of course, I feel the men who appreciate women in their 50's are the only ones who reap the benefits and are therefore qualified to really know.

 Me Leona
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 212
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 5:50:54 PM
I hope to not sound glib. I don't think sensuality and sexuality are one and the same. I don't think sensuality has anything to do with age necessarily, but there is something about this subject could be explored in more depth!
 mz taken
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 213
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Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 6:53:42 PM

This is true. Older Women our age pick us appart while if a Young raskle hits on them they are flattered. Screwball world.

Young Women don't have a clue. End of story

mm, does this mean that there are no suitable women in your world?
picky or clueless.
nothing in-between?
that's very sad.
 breath~
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 214
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/16/2009 8:29:11 PM

Young Women don't have a clue. End of story.
Oh yes I did.
 JRGreenacres
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 215
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Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/17/2009 7:58:57 AM
When I was in my early Fifties, I was in a relationship with a woman (girl) who was 17 years younger than me. It was OK for a while, but once we got out of bed we had nothing to talk about. Give me women near my age anyday! They have SOUL! And sensuality!
 ~Sunrise_Walker~
Joined: 4/14/2008
Msg: 216
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/17/2009 12:01:38 PM
Age is only a number. Sensuality knows no age. If one is healthy, I can't see where there would be an age limit on it. At least I haven't gotten there yet.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 217
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Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/17/2009 12:21:48 PM
Common sense, Maturity, knowing how to care for themselves and other's. Are some of the things I like in a woman. Sometimes age comes into play but one can date a lady 30 something that has the maturity of a 40 something. And date someone 40-50 something that have the maturity level and common sense of a Teenager.
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 218
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/17/2009 12:30:32 PM
No OP you are not too sensitive, its just the way it is... Personally, I look at it as their loss... the guy who does find you will have a blast though, won't he!
 idealblackman
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 219
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/19/2009 9:21:17 AM
gwen you can say that again. I speak from experience.
 Knittin Kitten
Joined: 1/15/2007
Msg: 220
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Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/19/2009 2:02:06 PM
Golly, Palm Beach Guy - how would it make ya feel if I were to say the same thing about you, now that I'm in my 70s??? The difference is, I'm not likely to get in bed with someone whom I haven't already found interesting OUT of bed.

(Hmmmmm, maybe THATS what we ladies learn between 50s and 70s......)

I'm not being fresh PBG, but your comment just caught my eye and the
made me do this......

Fondly,

KK
 Me Leona
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 221
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/19/2009 3:41:33 PM

I'm not likely to get in bed with someone whom I haven't already found interesting OUT of bed.

That's a great point Knitten kitten...
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 222
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Posted: 2/20/2009 9:12:16 AM
For this man, "sex" is largely visual and tactile (how you look and how you feel to the touch). If you keep yourself in great shape and as smooth as possible, great. Have seen some women in their 50s who still look really hot, and some that should NOT grace a bathing suit (mounds of cellulite and wrinkles), but then, they didn't look hot in their 20s either. If you happen to be blessed with a high metabolism, that helps. I don't really have an age preference, but I do prefer slender women over more heavy women. If a woman is a stick in her 20s, she'll become shapely in her 40s and onward and still look great. My mom is 65 and still looks cute! Me, at 43, I'm still pretty slender, but my face is showing those telltale wrinkles...gotta parade around with my shirt off I guess lol.
 just sayin...
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 223
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/20/2009 10:26:54 AM
some people tend to generalize based on a few experiences ....not on reality.

i agree that he is missing out, i've had the best sex and best orgasms since turning 50...he he. not all men are able to make the sexual experience great for both involved. a fair number of men are interested only in their own satisfaction ....sad to say. maybe that's his problem?
 sally bentley
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 224
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/20/2009 10:44:54 AM
lol. I am 57 and my sensuality and sexuality have never been greater! I am amazed how many younger men write to me! I like men in my age range, however. Silly old fool.
 1woodworker
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 225
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/21/2009 7:50:07 AM
You may meet many wonderful people. Why would you spend your energy and time
on one unpopular respomce?
Here's what a famous Ph.D. said. after getting numerous good comments, why is it
we tend to focus so much on the negative ones?
It's because negative comments"sting". We tend to let those comments stand out
more in our mind. Don't let that get to you!! Take it for what it's worth and move
on.
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