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 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 38
does this turn you on?Page 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

OK, there will be a few men who will approach you. Not nice guys. The men who approach you will want SEX. They will want it NOW-- in the bathroom of the club, in shadows outside, or in their car. They don't want your phone number or your name.


Dude, I think you hit the nail on the head.

Also it gets so old.
 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 39
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:47:43 AM
anotheramy, very good point and very true. This was how it was w/my friends and i (tho I rarely go to clubs anymore, just not into it as much). There was a period of time where what you said was the rule for us. And NONE of us were lesbians, we just wanted to dance w/o strange men. Even had the gay guy friend as well. And there were many times I and my friend went and sat down. I don't think this is uncommon at all.
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 41
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:51:38 PM
Women are beautiful, plain and simple, you put to beautiful objects together you get twice the beauty. Its not a "turn on" but also not something most men would look at and say EWWW. No, they don't have to be hot, define hot anyways! Its mostly something young girls do.......to be "different" and something most young boys dream of, because they are "boys".

That being said......

Prepare for the next one.....
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 42
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:56:58 PM
WTH is this............. is this even a serious reply to the post, or a rediculous rant?

Before there was a club, my niggaz, there was fertility dances. Now we primates have 'da club', where all manner of 'freaky' byaches, are still putting bones in their noses, and are willing to jump rope with their whimsically cloathed and over exposed ovaries with well revealed droopin' labia majoris, that charmingly flutter over their slim thong panties. Why? To get attention! Just the same as in our primate villiage!

Call it a "my humps" moment, my niggaz, but I really think they are just there to dance and try to look sexy. But, it would be most revealing to study how quickly the STD's keep pace with the next generation's stupidity, and if that along with a weaknes to STI's are an inherited trait. Or would that STI just be predominately of the "Aquired Immune" type?

Seriously, is that even a freaking language? I speak fluent ENGRISH. Who are your "niggaz" And I am lost, what primates? Fertility dances? What tribe you be from YO. byaches is not even close to being spelled correctly, the actual ghetto spelling is biiiiiiiiiiiatches. How the hell can one "over expose ovaries". What is a "my humps moment" my niggaz? Can you spell yet, or write intelligent conversation? Or shall I show you hooked on ebonics?


 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 43
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:00:38 PM
WTH is this............. is this even a serious reply to the post, or a rediculous rant?

Before there was a club, my niggaz, there was fertility dances. Now we primates have 'da club', where all manner of 'freaky' byaches, are still putting bones in their noses, and are willing to jump rope with their whimsically cloathed and over exposed ovaries with well revealed droopin' labia majoris, that charmingly flutter over their slim thong panties. Why? To get attention! Just the same as in our primate villiage!

Call it a "my humps" moment, my niggaz, but I really think they are just there to dance and try to look sexy. But, it would be most revealing to study how quickly the STD's keep pace with the next generation's stupidity, and if that along with a weaknes to STI's are an inherited trait. Or would that STI just be predominately of the "Aquired Immune" type?

Seriously, is that even a freaking language? I speak fluent ENGRISH. Who are your "niggaz" And I am lost, what primates? Fertility dances? What tribe you be from YO. byaches is not even close to being spelled correctly, the actual ghetto spelling is biiiiiiiiiiiatches. How the hell can one "over expose ovaries". What is a "my humps moment" my niggaz? Can you spell yet, or write intelligent conversation? Or shall I show you hooked on ebonics?


 bcBlunted
Joined: 3/6/2008
Msg: 46
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/13/2008 10:51:16 AM
did it ever come 2 a conclusion 2 any of u that if 2 girls are griding in a club might be because they are together? Just cause ur Gay, Lez, Bi dont mean u have 2 stick 2 the gay bars...... 2 girls dancing is hot only if their hot. but generally chicks like 2 have a good time. Dancing 2 gether is fun. personaly turn around and get the F*CK outta the club if u dont like it .. cause its not like we really care. we do what we want.
 namebob5
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 49
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/13/2008 2:37:28 PM

Nope...

What turns me on is when my womerns is rubbing against me... with a cheeseburger in hand.


I prefer beef jerky but eh I guess any good food is acceptable :P.
 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 50
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/13/2008 2:40:50 PM
Last fall I was in Phoenix and went to a club, after a while a group of people started talking to me, one women in particular started standing really close and whispering in my ear and would then stroke my arm. I was about to explain I wasnt interested in her when she leans in and says..."I'm not bi-I just pretend to be so some of these men will buy us drinks!" . I explained I could buy my own drinks!

I think the girls are definately doing it for attention, I never did get into dancing with a woman, or as a group. I like one on one with a man to much.
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 51
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/13/2008 2:43:10 PM
ditto to laughinglibra.....:)
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 54
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/13/2008 4:10:25 PM
i like it -doesn't really get me excited though (the lipstick lesbian wannabes dancing) most likely an act by two straight girls who have had too much to drink. i know lots of women who dance together, cuz they love a song, and none of the men around them have the balls to ask them to dance.
 borntoski683
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 59
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does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/14/2008 9:01:26 PM
No, it doesn't turn me on in the least. At no time in my life have two sexed up women rubbing on each other turned into a lucky break for me. I've come to recognize it for what it is, a ridiculous show.
 SpiritGael1
Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 61
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/21/2008 3:31:12 AM
Nothing says "c@&%tease beyotch goin' thru her obligatory-by-current-social--"standards" - as defined --by-Youtube Lesbian wannabe phase" like that silly shit. I mean, why make out in public if it really means anything to you ? It's as cliche' as a belly ring or lumbar tat. I'll hold tha webcam if they wanna get it on, but teasing and acting out don't turn me on , unles you mean a fight or flight response.
 road11111
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 63
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/21/2008 6:00:55 AM
No that turns me off & would make me want to leave a bar.
 eastsidegirl
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 67
does this turn you on?
Posted: 6/21/2008 1:05:24 PM
I totally agree with you... I know alot of college age and younger girls that really do that thing and get caught up in it, but do it so their boyfriend will still be interested in them, for a while at least. This is a whole generation thing. I wonder if they start doing it and end up liking it, how the population will drastically fall, since no girl will want to marry a guy anymore, and just go find a girlfriend. I mean, if that is really your bag, how can you end up marrying a few years later and meaning it? Either you are or you arent hetrosexual, and for those who like to show off for effect, I think it gets boring.
 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 73
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 6/23/2008 10:26:30 PM
It sends me the message that they love attention and they aren't very bright.
 spiderette
Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 79
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:29:30 PM
i'll wager it turns the guys on. it's usually fairly young girls who do this and they're usually looking for attention, validation, and hoping to catch the guys' eyes.
 halfof430
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 86
 pokerjimmy
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 89
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/4/2008 9:57:36 AM
Most straight men like seeing two women together because there's two women instead of one. It's really just that simple. Seeing a woman rub on a woman doesn't turn most of us on more then watching some guy rub on a woman. Porn is Porn.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 90
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:30:25 AM
Well heck yeah, women are wonderful to watch together, yum. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
 WpgGentleman2
Joined: 6/19/2008
Msg: 91
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:42:03 AM
There is only one way to decide this, we need to carry out the experiment.

Fortunately, I'm in Manitoba, and Saskatchewan is not that far away.

Seriously though:
a) If they girls are hot, they could be doing just about anything and hold my attention.
b) If they are *definitely* not hot, it won't matter what they are doing, it might attract my attention but it won't excite me.
c) And if they are in between, well, I couldn't predict.

It might bore guys who work in nightclubs and see that all the time. So if that is the kind of guy you are trying to attract, you'll need to try something else.

Now, would seeing 2 women rubbing up against me make me want to have a long term relationship with either of them -- probably not.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 92
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/9/2008 1:59:08 AM
It would if they asked me to join them.
 fortytwelve
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 97
does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:43:26 PM

I agree that this type of women aren't relationship material.


I really don't think that's true. I've been known to do it, not for attention, but for fun, and I am ready for a relationship. There's also the factor of bisexuality. Writing someone off for dancing with a member of the same sex makes you less datable in my opinion.
 Stripeycat
Joined: 6/11/2008
Msg: 98
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/11/2008 12:13:03 AM
This is not appealing to me in the least.

I am really only interested in women who would be interested in me, not another woman. Why would I want to have to compete with the population of the entire world when I can be smart and cut that in half by sticking to straight women?
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 100
does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/11/2008 11:00:42 AM
When I see this, I think "ohai, it's 2 attention-seeking floozies who are tipsy, not like i've never seen that before."

half of that is probably pent up jealous rage that neither of them will ever have sex with me.

But only half.
 LemonVision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 101
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:52:41 AM
I'm a bit of a hypocrite on this one; I blame my biology. I would certainly find this a turn on, I simply can't help that, but I would never date the type of girl who looks for attention this way.
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