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 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 73
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you onPage 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
It sends me the message that they love attention and they aren't very bright.
 spiderette
Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 79
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/1/2008 12:29:30 PM
i'll wager it turns the guys on. it's usually fairly young girls who do this and they're usually looking for attention, validation, and hoping to catch the guys' eyes.
 halfof430
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 86
 pokerjimmy
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 89
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/4/2008 9:57:36 AM
Most straight men like seeing two women together because there's two women instead of one. It's really just that simple. Seeing a woman rub on a woman doesn't turn most of us on more then watching some guy rub on a woman. Porn is Porn.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 90
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:30:25 AM
Well heck yeah, women are wonderful to watch together, yum. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
 WpgGentleman2
Joined: 6/19/2008
Msg: 91
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:42:03 AM
There is only one way to decide this, we need to carry out the experiment.

Fortunately, I'm in Manitoba, and Saskatchewan is not that far away.

Seriously though:
a) If they girls are hot, they could be doing just about anything and hold my attention.
b) If they are *definitely* not hot, it won't matter what they are doing, it might attract my attention but it won't excite me.
c) And if they are in between, well, I couldn't predict.

It might bore guys who work in nightclubs and see that all the time. So if that is the kind of guy you are trying to attract, you'll need to try something else.

Now, would seeing 2 women rubbing up against me make me want to have a long term relationship with either of them -- probably not.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 92
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/9/2008 1:59:08 AM
It would if they asked me to join them.
 fortytwelve
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 97
does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:43:26 PM

I agree that this type of women aren't relationship material.


I really don't think that's true. I've been known to do it, not for attention, but for fun, and I am ready for a relationship. There's also the factor of bisexuality. Writing someone off for dancing with a member of the same sex makes you less datable in my opinion.
 Stripeycat
Joined: 6/11/2008
Msg: 98
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/11/2008 12:13:03 AM
This is not appealing to me in the least.

I am really only interested in women who would be interested in me, not another woman. Why would I want to have to compete with the population of the entire world when I can be smart and cut that in half by sticking to straight women?
 Gangster Kitten
Joined: 4/3/2008
Msg: 100
does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/11/2008 11:00:42 AM
When I see this, I think "ohai, it's 2 attention-seeking floozies who are tipsy, not like i've never seen that before."

half of that is probably pent up jealous rage that neither of them will ever have sex with me.

But only half.
 LemonVision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 101
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:52:41 AM
I'm a bit of a hypocrite on this one; I blame my biology. I would certainly find this a turn on, I simply can't help that, but I would never date the type of girl who looks for attention this way.
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