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 Kariann71
Joined: 4/26/2011
Msg: 166
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No offense but anyone who says that sex is nothing special is apparently doing it wrong. Granted, it's certainly not the most important thing in the world, but with the right person it can be pretty fantastic!
 negpotoprens
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 168
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Posted: 7/8/2011 5:59:18 PM


I see nothing wrong with that


I do, cause i'm not a "saving it for marriage" type.

I want sex with someone who wants it with me.

That and it gets rough not getting sex when its on your mind 24/7.


Sometimes you just have to go for it and believe in yourself there is always going to be the ones that say no,


And apparently the ones that say no just happen to be every single one i've ever asked out.


Ever thought about hiring an escort?
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 169
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Posted: 7/8/2011 6:44:25 PM
Ever thought about hiring an escort?

I believe an escort does not want to have sex with anyone unless there is money involved. I rather have sex with someone who wants to have sex"to have sex" not to have sex to pay this months electric bill.
 negpotoprens
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 170
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Posted: 7/8/2011 7:08:20 PM
^^^^^
Seems like he just wants to get laid at this point, and you never know maybe being with a woman (even if he has to pa)y, might just boost his confidence/self-esteem, that seems to be very low.
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 172
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Posted: 7/9/2011 6:58:59 AM
As for 15 year olds having sex believe me they do not even know what sex is they just go through the motions and act. You might not see it because you only see what you want to see. A lot of relationships start unexpectedly when you are not even trying.


I never said they were good at it. I was just mentioning that they are able to get it, while someone like me isn't.


OK, I think this is more serious that it seems at face value. You may not be the most handsome fellow but the concerning thing is how you are talkling about yourself. It ia very damaging. I would really recommend that you see a professional.


Me saying i'm ugly isn't damaging. It's the truth.


And no, I really don't think I could hire an escort.

If I ever have sex, I want it to be with a woman that actually is attracted to me, and wants to have sex with me.

I'd only hire and escort if I were still a virgin in my 40's.

I got 12 years until then.
 brycha181
Joined: 3/25/2009
Msg: 175
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Posted: 7/11/2011 7:07:02 AM
honestly have to say learned the hardway being honest about being a virgin seemed to be the biggest turn off to majority of the ladies I met online. Don't say it beforehand if they bring it up after, tell them you are.
 Lowtones84
Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 176
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Posted: 7/11/2011 10:45:58 PM
I'm 27 and I still more or less have it. I've been around and had the occasional experience, but never really felt sold on letting it go, for the following reasons:
1. I started dating/relationships later than most. In my early years I guess I was delusional and listened to the "things will automatically pick up for you" biz. wrong.
2. The girls that I've met that did want to have it came across pretty sketchy to me. That or they have extreme amounts of baggage that prettymuch make me feel like a jerk for considering having sex. Don't get me wrong, I believe people can have whatever background they like, but I feel like if it's going to make the other person worse off than they already were, its not worth the emotional strain.
3. The few times I have had sexual experiences, I didn't leave satisfied. Negative reinforcement.
4. Never really had a great streak of dating with one individual or several different people (at separate times, of course) for a long period of time. In other words, I never felt at ease.
5. I've always been something of an oddball. Nuff said.
6. I've always kept busy with working on individual goals in my life. I don't want to get involved with someone whose going to feel pushed away because I continue to try and achieve the most out of my life as an artist.

Some people look down on me for it, I look at myself as trying to make the best choices so I can find someone who I feel an honest connection to. Yea you only live once but if nothing you've experienced means anything to you, what are you really achieving?
 ekw1234
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 178
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Posted: 7/15/2011 1:14:02 PM
^^^I prefer not to wear a condom. I want the first time I have sex to be an attempt to conceive. That's just the way I am. That's also why I prefer to wait longer than most men.^^^^

What in the world!! I am stumped. Well good luck to you.
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 184
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Posted: 9/13/2011 8:38:39 AM
I'm a 53-year-old male virgin. I've just never been interested in a sexual relationship with anyone. I had one girlfriend that I lived with and shared a bed with, and I liked cuddling with her, but I never wanted it to go further than that. I do masturbate and fantasize, but I wouldn't want anything I fantasize to be real.
 Magina314
Joined: 1/9/2011
Msg: 185
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Posted: 9/13/2011 9:44:17 AM
What the ****? You've never KISSED a girl?

What the hell are you so damn nervous about, make a name for yourself, walk up to the prettiest girl you can find downtown and give her a smack right on her lips and see what she thinks about that!
 ops1000
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 186
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Posted: 9/13/2011 11:28:20 PM

What the ****? You've never KISSED a girl?

What the hell are you so damn nervous about, make a name for yourself, walk up to the prettiest girl you can find downtown and give her a smack right on her lips and see what she thinks about that!


She'll think about slapping him, actually I take that back she wouldn't think it would just happen.
 cbbull21
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 187
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Posted: 9/19/2011 6:12:43 PM
Uh, here Pick me, pick me.
 blakbro2k
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 189
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Posted: 9/19/2011 10:47:34 PM
What an interesting topic... some of the answers are so bleak and uncompromising. I have known some girls who are now married and they the guys were virgins at first. They loved the fact they could 'train' and tune them for themselves. Then again, I have seen some horror stories in which the guy became creepy and unbearably attached. I guess it is all up to each individual.

Happy Hunting.
 blakbro2k
Joined: 3/13/2011
Msg: 190
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Posted: 9/19/2011 10:49:05 PM
Hey look?, I just popped my forum cherry, who wants to date me!!
 Eryx_UK
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 9/23/2011 3:15:21 PM
As a 37 yo guy who is still a virgin, I would certainly hope that aspect of my being wouldn't put anyone off.
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 195
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Posted: 9/23/2011 5:35:31 PM

Would you date, or be turned on by, a fat woman who is a prominent doctor, making breakthroughs in cancer research but plain.........I dont think so....


I'd date her. Looks aren't important to me, and that she's intelligent and has scientific interests is a significant positive.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 196
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Posted: 11/24/2011 7:28:31 PM
I would be more than happy to teach a dude a thing or two. Is that wrong?
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 202
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Posted: 11/30/2011 2:21:58 PM

I'm an eager student...teach away. ;)


I'd definitely teach ya a thing or two. lol


if only..
 i-like-cat-treats
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 205
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Posted: 12/7/2011 9:45:41 PM
My bf.. ( he is 30, I am 21) was a virgin when I met him. The most he had done was kissed someone over 10 years ago!

To me.. I like a man for who he is and not his sexual conquests. I actually wished I had waited until I had found the one but.. some things you can't change. Wait until someone comes along who loves you :)
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 208
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Posted: 12/9/2011 6:57:35 PM
It is not an excuse, but a preference. Some women would date male virgins as this thread shows, while others would not.



 DrumminD
Joined: 2/3/2011
Msg: 212
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Posted: 12/12/2011 9:58:10 PM
You're 33 and dating a virgin? That's gotta be illegal.
 diamondprize
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 213
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Posted: 1/27/2012 7:25:05 PM
I will date a guy that is a virgin because i am also a virgin. I am 24 years old. It's hard, but i'm trying to stay this way until i can meet a guy that isn't about playing games. Seems i cannot find a mature guy that is ready to settle down. But yes i will most def date a guy that is a virgin, but he cannot be afraid to kiss, touch etc.... Any virgin guys out there??????
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 215
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Posted: 1/28/2012 8:50:35 AM

I will date a guy that is a virgin because i am also a virgin. I am 24 years old. It's hard, but i'm trying to stay this way until i can meet a guy that isn't about playing games. Seems i cannot find a mature guy that is ready to settle down. But yes i will most def date a guy that is a virgin, but he cannot be afraid to kiss, touch etc.... Any virgin guys out there??????


I think it would depend on the virgin.

If he's a virgin becasue he's claiming to be waiting for the right person, he might be able to do all the other stuff well. But if he's a virgin that isn't one by choice, he might be pretty shy about attempting to kiss or touch you.

I myself just haven't been able to do any at all. And I would be rather shy about things, and certainly don't have any experience in doing anything with a woman.

And define maturity? Because a guy that doesn't have any experience with a woman probably won't be as mature as you want him to be. Cause I know i'm not.
 ruforme2011
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 216
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Posted: 1/30/2012 6:30:02 AM
im 28 just havent found the right one...some girl on fb told me shed do it tho....but i can do better so hit me up
 ruforme2011
Joined: 3/8/2011
Msg: 217
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Posted: 2/5/2012 2:35:08 AM
im 28 never had a gf, dont give a ****
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