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 music_fan
Joined: 4/6/2008
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Sounds like your friend is Bi to me. He may love girls but because he's asking you to stimulate him, it makes me think that he's Bi.
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 1/12/2009 6:57:14 AM
UH, yeah, he's bi-curious at least. NO question about that. A hand is not just a hand, a mouth is not just a mouth. They are attached to someone. For me (and other straight guys), they have to be attached to a female.

But I'm not going to comdemn him, nor beat him up for asking if you were interested in something he was. But if he doesnt take your NO for an answer and brings it up multiple times, that would just piss me off and he's not a very good friend.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/20/2009 11:11:23 AM
I think your "friend" is bi.....no matter how much "you" try to make excuses for him.


and.....

HEY MsExtreme....
wanna hang out tonight?!!
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 40
opinions please - is my friend bisexual?
Posted: 11/15/2009 2:17:19 PM

Sometimes, when we hang out, he asks me to "get him off" (with my hand).

I don't think I've ever had a male friend, gay or straight, who has asked me to do this.

I would never even ask any of my female friends to do this if we weren't already on sexual terms.

I'm just wondering how you would bring it up in conversation with another bloke? lol
 sleepsafe
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/15/2009 2:22:38 PM
Dude, lots of gay guys have had girlfriends. Asking another guy to get you off with their hand or mouth is as queer as Richard Simmons pushing a wheelbarrow full of d!cks. Do you seriously need to ask this question?
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 11/18/2009 1:58:25 AM
I just read this thread because I ran out of threads to read.
I would say your friend is a "Bi" because he likes girls and he wants you, a male to touch his thing. If he was just desperate for stimulation, he would not have asked you, he would have gone and done his solo thing. Sure everyone would like someone else to touch them, but we "straight" people would only want someone of the opposite gender, not just any gender as your friend does. Key words for your friend "any mouth or hand" "not about who its attached to". That means "Bi"
Definely "Bi"
 CreativeOutdoorsGuy
Joined: 8/24/2009
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Posted: 3/20/2010 10:36:07 AM
What does it matter what he is?

Why are we always trying to define ourselves and others?

All that matter is this: Does he behaviour bother you? If so, then tell him to stop it.

Personally, I think that most people have the potential to be bi anyway, so the whole question of "is he bisexual?" is a stupid thing to obsess over.
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 3/20/2010 11:44:30 AM
This is a joke question right?? Of F*cking course he's gay, or something like it anyway.
What straight guy is going to ask a nother guy to jerk him off, or blow him???
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 3/21/2010 11:42:08 PM
Your friend isn't bisexual. He's a jerk. Any friend who keeps asking you for a hand job when you clearly aren't interested is a jerk. Get some better friends.

By the way, this isn't about homophobia, it's about respecting boundaries. Unless the reason you haven't told him to cut the cr@p is that you're interested, in which case, just do it. Who cares if he's bi or not or if you're bi. Do whatever you guys want to do. But if you clearly aren't interested, then tell him to cut it out or else you're outta there, cuz friends respect their friends' boundaries.
 jamie9562
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 3/22/2010 3:47:07 AM
it's only gay if he cums in your mouth,,,,,,so ,,up till then it's fine...little hand action,,maybe a little tip in the mouth,,,perfectly hetero..

can you suck one****and still be straight? what is bi for a guy? didn't we all have ,,,experiences......back in the day? perhaps some tea-bagging? a towel-snapping incident perhaps?

sometimes when i have been in a long drought with woman i will attack the cat or even a passing squirrel,,but I'm not into bestiality...

when does one cross the "homo" line? is it gay to fondle your friends balls looking for cancerous lumps? perhaps put a finger in the ass to check the prostate....if you kiss a man full on the lips with some tongue but swear you only did it for comic effect,,is this gay behavior?



you bet it is
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 3/22/2010 5:20:50 PM
It does not matter if your top or bottom you find sexual satisfaction from a same sex partner your gay/bi. What surprised me is that you have to ask someone else of this. It seems you may have your own issues to deal with. If another guy asked me as a friend I would have to have a serious talk with him about my sexual orientation and would not ever have to say no again. The fact that you have to turn him down more than once says a little about you too my friend. Peace out
 Jonejo
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 70
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Posted: 3/24/2010 5:17:31 PM
yea id say hes bi, and you are to if you play with it lol your an adult, do what you want,
 Hands of gold
Joined: 11/12/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2010 9:56:32 AM
Don't be fooled by his flippant attitude, saying he is just horny and needs to get off. He has put a ton of thought into asking this already, has probably even fantasized about it. Definitely Bi. It is the very definition- wanting sex with both genders.
 JeepHammer
Joined: 5/16/2007
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Posted: 3/31/2010 2:16:13 PM
This has GOT to be a troll!

YES, The GUY IS BI or flat out gay still in the closet if he's propositioning you for sex (Of any kind!)....
 dd3va
Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2011 11:00:08 AM
He's on the down low Joe.
 godwho
Joined: 2/13/2011
Msg: 84
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Posted: 7/17/2011 6:07:24 AM
no, he isn't gay or bi he is horny and lonely. A hand is a hand and sometimes it is just nice to have someone else touch it besides yourself and that is why a hj, even by a guy is better than just a jo. Plus the open sexuality of being hard and excited in front of someone else adds to the adventure.
 godwho
Joined: 2/13/2011
Msg: 86
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Posted: 7/17/2011 7:32:24 AM
check craigs list, I bet you don't
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 7/17/2011 3:52:05 PM
Your friend is gay and he Is dragging those
chicks , kickng and screaming in the closet
with him.

Eventually he is going to have to pick a team-
I think he wants you on his team.

I am sure he could have found some girl to
whack him off instead of asking you.

This post is kind of old and I'm wondering
if your still brushing your teeth.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 92
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Posted: 8/2/2011 4:01:43 PM
I don't know any straight guys who would ever participate in that. They might visualize it when said but not participate at all.
 JetJockey320
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2011 1:31:37 PM
He may either be passive bi, or experimenting with his sexuality. Most gays dont just flip a switch from hetero to other. It often is phased in with experimentation. But, it definitely isn't the actions of a straight guy!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 8/3/2011 1:37:59 PM
SOUNDS LIKE HE IS A BIT BI
sounds like mabey you are a little interested too
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 8/3/2011 2:18:49 PM
WTF..is he telling you to go out and get two blowjobs, and bring one back to him?

Dude..are you bi or gay?

Your "friend" is bi, and he wants you.

I can't believe you are 34, professional, and asked this fvcking question..geez (face-palm)
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/3/2011 2:22:50 PM

He may either be passive bi, or experimenting with his sexuality. Most gays dont just flip a switch from hetero to other.

This is true

It often is phased in with experimentation.

I don't believe this is true maybe for you it is, I always thought almost all gay people male or female knew it from a very young age, you might be selecting from a very very few people.
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