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 Cantankerous_Hermit
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 39
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You mention that you can't leave because of your financial obligations. You're not married. Kick him out. Do whatever it takes. He betrayed you. I know a couple who got a divorce over the exact same situation. The difference was that her husband was posting explicit pictures of her with his adds. Or is that the case with you too? Are you sure?
 nick551
Joined: 8/14/2008
Msg: 45
Porn/sex chat sites addiction
Posted: 8/24/2008 8:03:11 PM
dump him and come to me baby., i got it all!
 olcountryboy43
Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 11/8/2008 6:36:11 AM
ok i love porn but im a single guy that is why now when you are with someone you should be focusing all your att. on your partner not on porn unless you both like it now to adress the add on the site only an i mean only if you both are into swinging threesomes ect should there ever be an add posted for such to do that without your knowledge is a slap in the face an also questions as to his faithfulness to you if you all have a good sex life then why is he wanting to bring someone else into it unless he is not getting what he wants or he is not truely happy with just one woman ask yourself about his past realationships an see what you come up with before you confront him here is how to find out what he is up to make a profile on the site use a fake name an pic an see what you find out then confront him easier to catch flies with honey than with sugar good luck an becareful
 buddypoke
Joined: 11/2/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 11/9/2008 10:00:10 AM
How certain are you that he posted the ad? Are you just going by the description of the woman in the ad or were you actually able to login to that site as his ID or into his email and validate that he posted that ad?

You would be surprised to find that there are other people who when described, could fit our own description very well.

The bigger issue here is that there seems to be no trust and respect.
If that is the case, even if you confront him with the ad, the first thing he would do is deny. And after that he would be more careful in the future to cover his tracks when he goes searching on the web.

Solution? Walk away.
Do not let fear of temporary financial obligations ruin your life. It might mean that you would have to work a bit longer/harder to get your financial situation under control, but it would be worth the effort. Will only make you a stronger person.
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