When you're dating a woman and not putting pressure on her for sex, is it because you're being a gentleman or because you're getting it somewhere else?
Could be just a gentleman, but most women would never believe it. If you don't try then they think you are getting laid elsewhere, gay, asexual or who knows what. Thinking a guy is a gentleman is way down the list.
Could be he just likes your company and enjoys the time spent together without the added complications of a intimate relationship.